Posted: 2017-12-07 16:32
also, he’s just a guy, there are plenty around. if this one doesn’t work out then its not you, perhaps you just didn’t click. the WORST thing to do is get analytical about everything (texting patterns, facebook page checking). you have to train yourself to not care honestly princess you must resist!!!! the more you beat yourself up about it, when he finally does text/ call you’ll be really overjoyed and get too emotionally invested. guys are different they take a while to become attached. don’t wear your heart on your sleeve just yet and keep your options open.
To Kelly: Sounds like someone 8767 s ticked about you missing his brother 8767 s birthday. If you apologized about it and offered to make it up to him, even if he was upset, that 8767 s a fine way to make amends. But it seems that he 8767 s still mad about it. What that tells me is he is holding a grudge against you for something that 8767 s not really even your fault, and also being very immature about it by purposely reading but not replying to your texts and making sure you can see he 8767 s having fun without you. Are those qualities you 8767 d be okay with in someone you would want to marry? Probably not. Let go of this fussy baby and let some other woman change his diaper, because you 8767 re not doing it for him.
I am an attractive 98 year old women dating the nicest 87 year old guy. We met at a party and he started to ask me out right away, I told him my age and he quickly responded that his last girlfriend was 96 and I seemed in many ways. We spent the next 65 hours in conversation (no one ever holds my interest for very long) and had a great time. We exchange numbers but I never planned for it to go past that point. Yes he called, yes I turned him down and yes he called again. We did get together after all and to both our delite we found we had most everything in common. We have been seeing each other for a little over 7 months.
Natalie, do you think it 8767 s at ALL possible to re-train someone? I am not referring to ACs necessarily, because we don 8767 t want to be with them. But, a lot of 8766 good 8767 men sometimes take the path of least resistance, am I right? Maybe I can answer my own question if you communicate a specific need to a 8766 good 8767 man (like calling versus texting all the time) shouldn 8767 t he try to accommodate, to make you feel comfortable and like your needs and feelings are being considered? Thoughts?
Texan women aren 8767 t bad actually. The ones publicized are however, obviously. The mixture of them living traditional lives of stay at home moms mixed with the constant feeding threw media and bullshit tv of anti-patriarchy seems to drive them nuts no matter where they live. I 8767 ve lived in many states in the US and the Texas women are more consistently attractive and conservative than any place I 8767 ve been. Being In Houston however with our high % of transplants I guess most of the women im exposed to probably aren 8767 t Texans per se.
So why is it that people who may not necessarily push our buttons right off the bat become much more attractive to us? It 8767 s something simple, actually. This is because of a psychological quirk that marketers have long exploited: the Exposure Effect. When you 8767 re exposed to something repeatedly, you tend to develop a taste for it. It becomes preferable to you because it 8767 s familiar. This is why that annoying earworm you heard on the radio goes from being a mind-numbing 8775 GET IT OUT OF MY HEAD 8776 terror to a guilty pleasure to something you find yourself grooving to sometimes within the span of days.
To 65, your ignorant. Affairs are not just straight forward, one dynamic, sex fests. Affairs are complicated, marriages are complicated, life doesn 8767 t work in black and white. Throwing around the term sleazy makes you sound ridiculous, like all affairs are with hookers, or some sort or morally corrupt individuals, not always the case. You honestly don 8767 t have a clue about how life works. I suggest you grow up, and get a clue. Humans aren 8767 t even built for monogamy, read a goddamn book. There is more at play than a couple losers hooking up. The dynamics are endless.
I know our situations may not be exactly the same, but I just hope it helps to know he is not the only man who behaves this way, and you are not the only woman to be tortured by all the what-ifs in the aftermath of such an abruptly cold ending to things. I have often wondered how things would have turned out if I had not called him out on his behavior, and just 8775 made up and made nice 8776 . I 8767 m certain we may have gone on a little longer, but it would have been more of the same, and it still would have ultimately ended.
Ok, I am confused I thought guys were totally into the text versus actually talking on the phone. But there is one guy who I am interested in who seems to not fit that mold. Help! He takes hours to answer a text message when we all KNOW that our phones are glued to our face. I don 8767 t understand we will be texting back and forth for a few, then nothing air silence! I told him it bothers me but he keeps doing it!
then we saw the time, got ready for the funeral, and he drove off to pick up his friends and i left to go straight to the church. he showed up later on and i saw him and we made a one second eye contact becasue i was on the other side of the church and he was with the boys. i texted him after the funeral saying 8775 hey 8776 and i did not get a response. so this morning, i texted him saying 8775 hey i think i left somehting in your house but im not sure 8776 no response.
It means that he still love you and probably he scared that you guys might end up in a problem again. Well as you said that he talks to girls a lot when u around and not when you are not, this is to create a bad inspiration on him so that you will hate him. I guess probably he needs you but he just scared. If you really loves him try to show him that you still have the feelings towards him or do something that could impress him. Show him that you will be there from him.
I think for the most part the physical attributes you find attractive isn t really a conscious thing that you can control. However, tastes change and exposure to different types may help you flesh that out. And I ve done like the article discusses where I ve found myself become physically attracted to someone I wasn t initially all that in to after getting to know them.
Hope you won t mind my saying so but with fragrance, a little goes a long way, and a lot often makes people go a long way away. I ve sniffed fragrance on a man that was rather swoon inducing, and I ve had guys get in the elevator or sit near me in the movies that had so thoroughly doused themselves that I go a headache and felt sick after just few minutes being around them (I m kind of sensitive to strong scents, as are a lot of people I know).
Derek, I 8767 ve met a few friends off of this site, but nothing more. The long distance seems to be a problem, regardless of wealth. People of all shapes and sizes seek convenience. My hands are quite full with school, the guy I 8767 ve been seeing off and on, and real life suitors so I spend very little time on here. And by real life suitors, I mostly mean, turning people down as nicely as possible and hoping no drama results from the situation. Some people think your willing to sleep around simply because you are gay and get angry when you say no. Best of luck to you though. It sounds like you 8767 ve had some bad experiences on here care to share has there been any nice ones at all?
hey guys 🙂 i need ur help its about a month or so that im into a 8767 s 8 years older than me and he 8767 s a college student in our city studying my fav major I send him a massage and ask him a lot of things about his major and told him i rly like this major and he said come to university one day i 8767 ll show u around and stuff i went there for both him and treated as a nice that day he didnt text me at all and till now i just texted him twice and asked stuff about that just treats me like a normal girl idk how to show him i like him u know he doesn 8767 t even like all my instagram post which i post them just for him to see how i 8767 m feeling or how my life goes idk what to do plz help me guys i dont want to just tell him 8775 I LIKE U 8776 .want to SHOW him that i like him..and i guess i have some English problems in this text sry my english isnt very good..waiting for ur advice guys 8
Heeyyy. So there 8767 s this fellow senior to me (he 8767 s super cute!) who I like and my friends tease us together. He 8767 s basically a very very good-natured boy and talks friendly with almost every girl I know. But last day he sent me a fwd indirectly stating people who 8767 re single still send fwds. I took the clue and replied 8775 not really, maybe they don 8767 t have balance 8776 . And he replied 8775 forget all that.. understand the emotions! 8776 , I was like who emotions, he replied 8776 My feelings! :P. 8776 He told my friend next morn 8775 Oh i sent Div that msg becuz im single. 8776 , she asked 8775 okkkkk u like her or smthng..? :) 8776 so he replied 8776 No its just that every6 teases us together and we 8767 re very good friends. 8776 I really dont kno wat to make of this and every6 is equally confused. He met me today and behaved absolutely normally. WHAT 8767 S UP!?
There 8767 s a lot of theories, Galena and I have written a lot about why that would be the case, and there 8767 s a number of things we talk about, one of my favorites is this one. So, let 8767 s say we 8767 ve got a guy named Joe. Joe finally settled down, picked Susie, four years into marriage they 8767 ve got a kid, maybe they 8767 ve got another kid on the way. Let 8767 s just say they 8767 ve got one kid, keep it pretty simple, so that she 8767 s not pregnant at the moment, but the sex isn 8767 t like as exciting as it used to be and Joe is starting to think, I wish this was better, I wish this was more exciting, I wish we did some of the things we used to do. It 8767 s pretty normal stuff in a marriage, it 8767 s the stuff that married couples kind of have to figure out. Well, Joe is getting a little unhappy now, getting a little bit wondering about the sex life.
takes two to tango 8766 confirmed bachelor 8767 , won 8767 t don 8767 t divorce men for no reason. he must have been annoying to live with or wasn 8767 t willing to put in much effort. i 8767 ve been married twice and boy what a challenge living with a man is. i now understand why so many women become cat women at least cats know how to clean themselves! and don 8767 t make as much noise. no idea why men turn into babies after marriage do they think its cute? or clever? or just their God given right??
Well that goes back to the fundamental question of SHOULD you change, just to get people to like you. And where exactly you draw that boundary on what to change and how much. For example, I m sure a hell of a lot more people would like me if I gave them my entire paycheck and hand-delivered lunch to them every day, but the advantage of them liking me doesn t out weight the cost of changing myself.
9. Steer clear of someone who asks to temporarily borrow your car until he can get back on his feet and buy his own. Nine weeks now he 8767 s mad that you DARE demand that he return your car, which you have every right to do, even if you own other cars!
5. Steer clear of someone so irresponsible that he gets a parking ticket in said car, doesn 8767 t pay it, and you don 8767 t realize it until the issuing authority comes after you for the ticket and late fee you didn 8767 t even know existed!
6. Steer clear of someone who stays out all night playing poker, even if gambling is legal where you live!