Posted: 2017-11-14 22:02
9. Steer clear of someone who asks to temporarily borrow your car until he can get back on his feet and buy his own. Nine weeks now he 8767 s mad that you DARE demand that he return your car, which you have every right to do, even if you own other cars!
5. Steer clear of someone so irresponsible that he gets a parking ticket in said car, doesn 8767 t pay it, and you don 8767 t realize it until the issuing authority comes after you for the ticket and late fee you didn 8767 t even know existed!
6. Steer clear of someone who stays out all night playing poker, even if gambling is legal where you live!
My mother got angry at me whenever I caught a cold or other children 8767 s diseases, blaming me for them, claiming I hadn 8767 t worn my coat, had, or scarf, and complaining about how much trouble I caused her On the other hand, she called me ice-cold and selfish because I didn 8767 t pity her enough for her migraine. It was devastating. I hated myself for my 8775 bad character 8776 .
We have so many examples of this on every level, from neighbourhoods to towns to cities to countries. Same thing every time. I think we should treat people as individuals, a black guy completely removed from black culture can achieve just as well as any other person in every field, but African communities destroy societal infrastructure that buckles under their weight with their culture of crime and underachieving and professional victim hood.
Hi Colororange, sobriety is different to what I said in the post which was that if they are unaware of it and if they haven 8767 t already been working at it for several months it 8767 s a FOCR. As they are sober, it 8767 s not. However it 8767 s still a code amber as you should proceed with caution and if you habitually get involved with people who have addictions, it 8767 s a code red still, which is opt out.
Meghan Murphy is a freelance writer and journalist. She has been podcasting and writing about feminism since 7565 and has published work in numerous national and international publications, including New Statesman, Vice, Al Jazeera, The Globe and Mail, I-D, Truthdig, and more. Meghan completed a Masters degree in the department of Gender, Sexuality and Women’s Studies at Simon Fraser University in 7567 and lives in Vancouver, . with her dog.
I am 78 years old, female, I read all these comments and I get scared. Is this what you will tell your daughters? If a man is gazing at you and smirking, you have to be grateful? Be glad they all want to grab your butt, it is proof you are sexy. Be like the women in the porn movies, you surely get more attention. If not, you will surely break their heart.
Again, feminism is BAD, and evil, the root of broken families, and we are all lesbians and man-hating creatures, just wanting your wallet. I rather want food than money, I love food, but that is a diffrent story. (everyting is better with bacon, joke )
My early life has been: you are ugly, fat, a monster. So, my childhood was not really great. Boys treated pretty girls like princesses while I was kicked, punched, spit at just because I was not pretty enough. Later, when I turned 75, men were hitting on me just for sex, of course. Because women are supposed to 8766 enjoy 8767 the lusty gazes of men as stated here in a few comments. Naturally, flirting means sex, sex means population, but flirting is no sexism, it is no harrassment, it is not grabbing my breasts, legs, taking pictures from beneath my skirt.
*Note to person who excuses the behavior condemned in this piece for sketchy 8775 biology 8776 -based reasons: people of the age of these 8775 baby groupies, 8776 no matter how intelligent or physically developed, do not have full capacity for making good decisions the frontal cortex doesn 8767 t mostly finish forming until the mid-twenties and doesn 8767 t completely finish forming until the mid-thirties. And society would also find it strange if women of all ages found fully-formed late-adolescent boys to be the most attractive of males, since women are expected both to be submissive to a dominant (older) male and are also held to higher moral standards than men are (expected not to objectify males the way men are expected to objectify females).
Sadly, what has been brought up here seems true and I think a lot of great points have been made. On the other hand, I am so happy its not just me thinking about this terrible wedge growing between the sexes. Femenism has for sure changed how men behave, in some ways its good but in others not so much and some behaviors are missed by the very women supporting 8775 man hating 8776 reteric. Like others here I have trained myself to go way out of my way to not offend women by getting caught looking, leading them to think I am interested with body language, a smile or giving them a longer gaze. I feel as though to not be considered a creep you must treat women as if they were nothing to you. And, you must act as if they have no female meaning or 8775 beyong aquaintance 8776 feelings to win over. You have to ignore the fact that they are women and pretend that the hottie you see or are speaking to at the grocery store is basically a non sexual anything. Just an object really, not a beautiful women. Hmmmmmm?
Okay, I do agree with the part that there 8767 s a wing of extremely angry women who are somewhat successfully attempting to propagandize people into thinking male heterosexuality is politically incorrect. But most women aren 8767 t like that. Could it be that the lifestyle you advocate in your previous post is simply a self-fulfilling prophesy? People will treat you the way you train them to.
Another ace article , Scott , we men are demonised & viewed as disgusting sex crazed pieces of excreta by the controlled 8776 media 8776 The 8776 media 8776 is playing the Divide & Rule game to make everyone fear & hate everyone else , it 8767 s part of their owners agendas. Many men out there assume that all women HATE men , which results in men thinking 8776 F*** this !! 8776 & forever give up on women. I think media programming has a huge impact on women 8767 s mostly negative view of men.
It hurts. It hurts to know that people can 8767 t learn to forgive. It hurts to know that in order to love somebody it has to be in our own 8766 race 8767 . It doesn 8767 t make any sense. And I would never follow advice from anybody who told me I could not date the man I love. Even if it was my own flesh and blood. I do not understand your pain, you are correct in that. But I also do not understand why a whole group has to be blamed for what happened all the way in South Africa. It 8767 s not helping with anything and it 8767 s just digging you into a deeper hole. I maybe but I am also very observant in my surrounding ans research.
Lana has a point because that 8767 s exactly my mentality some of the time. I have seen more women around me jump from guy to guy to guy with good intentions of finding mister right, but unfortunately, this left me with a pretty bad impression of how easy and often certain women change out sexual partners. I really have to work at not seeing some women as 8775 pincushions 8776 . And I 8767 m not saying that to be mean either. It 8767 s to demonstrate that Lana has a point, but that point for me is based on experience. One of the first things I want to know is how many guys has a woman had sex with, of any kind. I need to get to know a girl first before that stigma goes away. See her personality, habbits, and learn about her life choices.
The thing is, universally, men treat us as worthless and to be ignored if we don 8767 t look like a 75 year old bimbo. People get sick of being treated like that. Male attitudes towards women is what pits women against each other. The whole competition between women (the ones consciously or unconsciously playing that sick game) is generated by men, for the benefit of men. Women like me are excluded, because we don 8767 t look like the perfect things men want. The desired types are hold up and placed upon a pedestal and generally when men say 8775 women 8776 , they are not talking about women like me, they mean the Hooter 8767 s girl, porn looking, Playboy bunny types running around irl. Not quite unicorns, they are none the less the rare game men will hunt and ignore the rest of us in the field. This does affect the psyche until you seek deeper.
It 8767 s especially obvious with Africans, whereas other groups and sub-groups of racial demographics can integrate and form some sort of cohesive, symbiotic and functional society. We see time and time again that Africans simply can 8767 t, sure this Aaron guy might has been an exception to the (well earned) negative stereotypes, but I doubt it and it really sets a bad example. The statistics are what they are, you can 8767 t really argue with numbers. Crime, corruption, economic growth and activity, IQ, scientific output per capita, and so on, all get affected negatively by black demographics.
This is a pretty old post but I do feel like throwing my thoughts out there. In my case, I am actually pretty fearless by nature (almost getting myself killed/dismembered growing up several times) so I have no problem approaching women. My problem is that I 8767 ve never met local women I 8767 ve been attracted to outside of physical attraction. The most attractive women I have ever met have all been very modestly dressed or wearing a veil in the case of Muslim women, and they were all attractive because they seemed to both respect themselves and respect me as a man by not flaunting their sexuality in my face.
Even, even, even if the marriage does work. Somehow she stays thin and cool. Somehow she doesn 8767 t seek specifically to lower your happiness to match her own. You maintain 8766 frame 8767 and still get sex on occasion. Even if she doesn 8767 t commit to damaging your life. Even if it 8767 s ideal, then look at how much you risked and how much work it took to simply get to a point where you 8767 re just about as happy as you are right now being single. And that 8767 s a best case scenario marriage. Some would say that 8767 s a complete fantasy scenario. So it takes the ultimate jackpot, fantasy scenario ideal marriage just to reach even-footing with how happy you are right now. Oh, the risk? That 8767 s no big deal just EVERYTHING.
If I do get a date from that desirable girl, I still need to entertain her, to try to be 8775 interesting 8776 to her and etc, but even if I do that, VERY often the dates go nowhere. I tended to get second date out of 6 of 8-9 first dates (not sure if that is normal), and when girls do not give a second date, they usually tend to just leave you hanging in the unknown And I usually get very confused and even a little sad. So, why to dissappoint myself?
Many years ago, I was had a similar experience. This was exactly how it started, it then proceeded to isolating me from friends and family, abandoning me in the middle of nowhere in the middle of the night with no way to get home, and finally physical abuse. I moved out of the country to get away from the hold he had over me. So, believe me this can actually get much worse. Please save yourself now, and get out. NC is the only way. You are worth more than this. Take care ((hugs))
The real problem today is that many women have certainly changed for the worst of all unfortunately since most of them now don 8767 t even have any respect at all for many of us good men that are really innocent now. And today most women don 8767 t have a good personality at all, no good manors, and treat us men very rotten as well. God forbid for many of us men trying to start a normal conversation with a woman that we would like to meet since she is ready to chew our heads off for no reason at all which really speaks for itself right there. This is why many of us men are MGTOW because of the behavior of women these days since they 8767 re very much too blame.
You 8767 ve hit the nail on the head, and this is not solely endemic to women. We now live in a society where people are brought up to accept zero personal responsibility for their actions. It creates a permanent adolescent state. Substance abuse problem? Blame society, blame your parents. Bank foreclosing on the home you bought which you couldn 8767 t possibly afford? Blame the bank, why did they give you so much money? Turns out you suck at the career you chose blame sexism, an 8775 ism 8776 folks there 8767 s one for each of your personal failings.