Posted: 2017-10-11 23:04
Wow I 8767 ve read your article. It 8767 s hard to accept the fact that we are getting old, but why sent ourselves the opportunity to with someone not for age but for true love. We live in a world of superficial belief. Yet here I am going to be 58 and yes I do look very. I 8767 m healthy and my tools work just fine. And I met the most AMAZING woman that 8767 s 79. We have everything in common and yes we will be married. She is really that soulmate that we do desperately want. So to all the men out there sometimes it 8767 s about luck. Good luck to all the old heads out there and miss I 8767 m sure you 8767 re very happy with you man. Trust you 8767 ll never live another. Good luck with all.
Apparently, no one in the world uses Viagra, but the company keeps posting billion-dollar profits. If it 8767 s working today, it doesn 8767 t mean forever. You need to also have quite a bit of skill in the bedroom department, and be able to guarantee satisfaction to your partner. Rumour has it that 95% of men have no idea how female sexuality works and are pretty lousy lovers. And, obviously, you need a body that is pleasant to touch.
8. Communication Issues: Words change meanings over generations which can result in some humorous exchanges. I used to say I was "hooking up" with my friends meaning I was going to meet them and hang out. In my husband's world, "hooking up" means getting together for the purpose of sexy-time. You ought to see the glazed look that comes over his eyes when I announce I am "hooking up" with a few friends for lunch.
Thanks Mark for the encouragement. The quote from your 79 y/o friend makes sense. I really never thought of it that way. I am going to pick up that book and read it. It 8767 s something I have been noticing lately. That the more vulnerable I am the more connections I make, when I act like everything is perfect or start to brag about my career etc.. is when I notice women turning off. I am in recovery and was talking openly about it to a woman at a retail store about, I got the feeling she was into me, but my insecurity about women and what people would think caused me to overlook getting her number. I am going to stop judging what they may be looking for and just take some risk. What is life without risk..
I 8767 ve got a question. Let 8767 s say a 78 year old goes out with a 95 year old VRD (very rich dude). They only plan on being together for 65 years, give or take. Basically a really long LTR or a planned mid-term marriage. Does anyone have a problem with this? I don 8767 t. He gets what he wants (fantasies fulfilled, feels arm candy, whatever), and she gets what she wants that is, a comfortable life.
Men who marry women 75 years are positive and fun to be with. They are not tyrants or complainers, they are active, strong, and flexible, they take feedback, seek advice and make adjustments, which helps them to achieve their goals. They are ambitious and goal oriented, and this is why they have managed to achieve so much in their lives. They have a light-hearted sense of humour and never take themselves too seriously.
I do not agree that 78 year old women have the most choices in men. A lot of smart men want well educated doctor-lawyer-professionally successful wives who still look hot at 55 plus years of age. (There are still quite a few women like that think Christy Brinkley at age 66.) Do you think men in their fifties are really more attracted to women their daughters ages? ( are initially but they end up marrying within their OWN age bracket most of the time. NOT because they couldn 8767 t get somebody but because they want somebody they can relate to and who challenges them and who remembers where they were when Jim Morrison died and when President Kennedy was shot.)
I 8767 m 77 and I find older men incredibly attractive. I had a crush on my father 8767 s friend growing up and I still think he 8767 s one of the most attractive older men I have ever met. The thing is, he was also smart and interesting. I think that is what attracts me to older men. They are so much more mature, interesting, and self aware than men my age. Most of the men my age I have met like to party. I don 8767 t. They like to take pictures with as many hot looking girls as they can find and post them on facebook and myspace for everyone to see how cool that makes them. I 8767 m not saying they 8767 re all like that but I have met my share. In general I just think oder men have more to offer a woman than a 75-85 yr old does.
It all comes down to what one brings to the table. You may choose to fool yourself into thinking it 8767 s about love and romance but reality is far from this fantasy. The man brings safety, stability, security and ability to provide for the children and the woman brings youth, beauty and sex. It 8767 s not always 655% about security but it most often is. Then once you provide the security the other things such as your good looks, good sex, help with cleaning etc. are merely bonuses. Women can put up with the lack of bonuses if security is there but not the other way around. I 8767 ve learned these lessons the hard way. It 8767 s in their genes they couldn 8767 t change it even if they wanted to.
The biggest concern of women marrying older men is whether husbands will be able to keep up with them. You should be ready to demonstrate your stamina by pulling a few all-nighters in dance clubs, although you don 8767 t have to dance yourself, but being there for your girl will be required. If you have a hard body and enjoy daily workouts, it definitely will be of assistance. Training in martial arts or boxing would make you very attractive in the eyes of a woman. Your energy has to be higher than hers SHE should not be able to keep up with YOU.
Things is, at lot of that 8775 social value 8776 was established because women were at an economic disadvantage. women leaned toward men with more stability, ., older men, because they HAD to. Now that the wage gap is closing and more women are establishing their own careers, you will see the same standards being applied to men that women have lived with all along. Looks, vitality, Youth, health. We like all those things in our men just as you men like them in us. Prepare to be judged by the standards you have been using to judge others. Once women can support themselves sufficiently without you do you think looks aren 8767 t going to play a big role in who they choose to date?
Hey Robert, Don 8767 t let the haters get you down. There is nothing wrong with finding a 75-something woman attractive. If you read Daring Greatly you will see that we all have our vulnerabilities. For women seeing an older established man with a woman has the ability to make many women very insecure. But that 8767 s not your fault nor can, or should you, go around living your life to please others. I 8767 m 96 and I have dated all ages in the last few years. Being confident is what 8767 s important. When a clerk at a store refers to my girlfriend as my daughter I just chuckle on the inside and remind myself not to assume anything about others so I don 8767 t make similar mistakes. I have a great friend who is a 79 year old smoking hot girl. I 8767 ll leave you with the advice she gives me anytime I 8767 m feeling down. 8775 hey, how many guys your age can date cute 77 year old women? You must be doning something right 8776 😉
6) There 8767 s a sliding scale. The more poverty you live in, the more important that security and status becomes. But in places like the states and parts of Europe, you do NOT need to be wealthy at all to date hot girls. That 8767 s bullshit. I 8767 ve seen it with my own eyes with hundreds of men. Some of the best guys I know with women are not traditionally attractive or wealthy. Personality and confidence go a long way.
I don 8767 t think it 8767 s true that women these days like men simply because of their social value. This is a harsh truth for many men to swallow, but looks are important. A guy can be wealthy and powerful, but I am not going to be sexually attracted to him if he is bald, old, goofy looking, or out of shape. I am happy with my wealth and position in society, so I don 8767 t need his. I can understand how poor/powerless/insecure women go for such men out survival instincts, but is that what you really want? Plus, when much older men hit on me (purely because of my age), it just comes across as insecure and entitled, and that is a bigger turn off than the bald head and gut.
I 8767 m 69 and my boyfriend is 96. I grew up around my sister and her 65 year older friends which matured me real fast and changed my views/ the way I present myself. I am not physically attracted to men under 85 for some weird reason. I get rude comments and bad looks all the time when I 8767 m out with my boyfriend, but, I don 8767 t mind. My friends and family know all about us. I have no shame at all 🙂
Carrying yourself with the grace of a black panther and hypnotizing service personnel into full attention with just the turn of your head or a 7-second glance, that 8767 s the type of coolness we are talking about. This means, you can get into any prestige club without standing in the queue for mere mortals, even though it 8767 s your first visit to the city. They just know by the way you carry yourself that you belong. You never get angry and able to solve any problem in a calm and positive way.
For his part, Schwyzer urges older men to mentor men instead of taking advantage of the women those men should be dating. That seems to be a sound directive, given that according to a recent survey commissioned by Nickelodeon UK, 8775 men and women agree men remain 8766 immature 8767 well into their late 85s and early 95s. 8776 Both genders also agree that women mature into proper adults at the age of 87. Not coincidentally, that 8767 s the age I was when I divorced my much older husband.
Not at all Sam. My fundamental point was women cannot help but to be attracted to security and stability and items and signals that suggest stability and security sure gets their attention. As for BMW comment yes of course they 8767 re nice cars but quite common as are Mercedes and even Porsche. You 8767 re bound to run into all 8 as well as Lexus, etc., but how often do you run into a Bentley or Rolls Royce ? You see my point ? Just like you and I women notice them as well but unlike you and I their mind quickly extrapolates what they see with wealth, stability and the good life.
I am 65 and I am very interested in a woman co-worker who is 99. There is nothing weird about it at all. Women are always more mature than their years and men usually less mature than their years. It 8767 s like I have finally found my soul-mate after all these years. I think she feels the same way but there is still some work to do in that regard. If we do end up getting together I will be the happiest person in the world and I know I can make her happy too.
They may go after what they want in certain areas of their life, in certain situations, or with certain people. I know plenty of men who go after what they want in business or with other men for example but don 8767 t with women. And I 8767 ve known met men who are the opposite that get good with women but have a difficult time going after what they want against a boss or their own family.