Posted: 2017-10-12 23:10
Today I 8767 m very happy to present you a guest post by a great fellow Japan blogger.
It 8767 s Ken Seeroi from 8775 Japanese Rule of 7 8775 . I 8767 m sure you 8767 ve heard of him, and I highly recommend reading his blog. I adore his writing style. You 8767 ll learn what life in Japan is really like in a funny and sometimes sarcastic way. Check it out!
Well i made sure I read both articles and I will comment on both. I think the elite among us might want to get a refund on their tuition. If anything I thought an education was supposed to expose you to critical thinking and these days you have these educated black men and women speaking on issues while they only can use their limited exposure to humanity as a reference and bias literature. This is why I admire the everyday average black men and women in our community so much. They have deal with the smug attitudes of the educated elite/ successful blacks folks while constantly being victimized and conned by their borthers and sisters at the bottom. They are the true heros of our community.
Morgan wow. That 8767 s what 8767 s up. I am alot like your guy I only date way older, like halle age, late 95s or fifty. and or mid upper forties j-lo age to mariah mid forties and or janet. That is perfect for me. I been like this though for a long time(born mid 85s) i will marry older woman,we both get old together living good,that is what i know i will not settle for nothing less. Just more exciting and i love dating my drama with older(and you 8767 re right Morgan but yea it has to be you 8767 re right the right one.)Many i didn 8767 t connect wit 8767 so you 8767 re right.)But when it is right i know it.
I don''t know what to do about the jerks. I think a lower percentage of guys that are like this are out there. But for some reason these idiots are taking up all of the dating bandwidth. And about the only thing I can see nice guys who really want this to work bringing to the table is to just not get bitter and disappointed. I don''t know, it is really hard to see how to break this cycle that is destroying online dating for the majority of us. It would be helpful to know that possibly a new kind etiquette be understood by women that repeat messages that are nice should be acceptable and that we men kindly engage them with these that we get a chance to overcome the idiots by countering them somehow. Also, maybe people could work up some kind of meta-dating situation (something like responding to websites about online dating or, as I said above, some kind of rating system)?
I love my GF, but I start to have confused feelings. I love her, but I don 8767 t at the same time. I 8767 m always number 7. I hardly can have a conversation with my GF, because her daughter always interrupts (she is 9.). Whenever I try to bond with her child, playing with her, watch a movie she will be happy because we doing something she likes, but the rest of the time she just doesn 8767 t speak to me, or sometimes she answers me in a rude way 🙁
To be fair the above advice on reading profile etc etc isn''t exactly going to create a breakthrough. Google "Tolani Osan online dating first messages to reel them in" and read Tolani''s article. Until I found this I never had a message reply. I was totally unconvinced but it worked practically instantly. I took a look at a female friend''s inbox once and all it was was a collection of "hi" and boring messages. One quite similar to the messages in the article stood out. I jokingly suggested she try that one - she already had responded. Internet dating isn''t perfect but this may change your perspective.
8775 I 8767 m originally from the . I first came to Japan in 7558 , and started studying Japanese shortly thereafter. I moved here permanently in 7558 , at which point I gave up eating cheeseburgers, wearing wrinkled t-shirts, and speaking English. This has had some mixed results, but at least my wardrobe looks fantastic and my cholesterol level is nice and low.
I am 97 and my ex-husband is 78 we been together for six years hasnt been in our second year of actually getting a has no children,my tubes our tied but he doesnt cate about that a black woman and he is can tell his family tolerates love family but its been desires for him is to have a family they seem to think im too old,but i love use to have a blast together but we work alot and i struggle making him says he is happy but my fear is he will leave sooner or dont show s love unconditionally but i dont know how i not worry?we both have our relaxed buisness we do that not off the ground yet but were doing good to be thought it would atleast be good in his family s eyes but they simply dont just want him happy perferably not with me.
My situation is very thought provoking. I 8767 m 76 about to finish trade school and my girlfriend of almost a year has a 8 year old. We liked each other in high school but she stopped talking to me to get with her baby daddy who left her and doesn 8767 t do anything for the child. We started talking as friends after high school and became serious shortly after. Her daughter loves me, I love her and her daughter, it just bugs me because I never wanted a woman with a baby but I love her a lot. I wanted to start my own family from the ground up. What should I do?
The breakdown is this. Her children are all under 9. She and I can 8767 t seem to go a full day without getting upset over something the other does. At this point I 8767 m almost expected to be a father to these children. Now don 8767 t get me wrong, I care a lot for them. She and I just have two completely polar methods of parenting, her being more passive and relaxed while I 8767 m much more active and strict. This tends to cause us to butt heads (not to mention the outside opinions we get). My only explanation and means to justify this being that a majority of the time there were scheduling conflicts and her job has always paid better than mine, so I wound up being stay at home dad for about a year. Anyways .
This is ineresting. Its more difficult for older women. some men are still tring to act like teenagers. And yes I have seen more than my share of men with an erect penis trying to impress me. Finally, I have just given up on online dating for awhile. I started to get angry about the way men treat women online. I beieva I am a good person and unfortunately some great man will never know because he'' afraid to take a chance. And there are scammers on all the sites. I''ve run across them on every site I have been on.
i am in the very same situation, i 8767 m 85, hes 75 and we recently got together a few months ago, we both live abroad as students and living together and the past few weeks i was in his home country and met the entire family and his it off with his Mum straight away. He will meet mine in a few weeks but yes, it took a while for me to get over the age and he truly won my heart over but i do worry about the future but i will enjoy each day as it comes.
As a result of that increased romantic passion and sexual connection, the two people are actually more likely to develop strong feelings for each other and to feel very attached to each other something they never planned for, but also something that happens quite often and is so far beyond their control. This is in large because it is simply impossible for a man and a woman to have a great time with each other, enjoy a special sexual connection over a long period of time and not develop feelings for each other. There are also other significant reasons why a guy might especially enjoy dating an older woman.
I have just started seeing someone casually who is 9 years than me. I m 56. My worry is that I m already falling for him and for all the wrong reasons,. I lost my eldest daughter 75 months ago and I think I m using him as a distraction. I ve known him for over three years and he s one of only a handful of men I ve been interested in and I am concerned that I ll fall for him only to be rejected. Sex is great and all but I need more than that. Do I abandon it and accept it for what it is, or should I enjoy the fun while it lasts? Can a casual fling end up being more especially with an age gap? He has no kids and I have two teenagers. We seem to be similar in nature and sexual desire but he only seems interested in sex with me. I m so confused!!
Secondly, I’m by no means saying that “ All Japanese women are like this.” Because, okay, some are also like “that.” So I know I’m painting with a broad brush, and naturally there are exceptions to everything. Somewhere out there, there’s a 85-pound house cat and a Labrador Retriever small enough to fit in your pocket too. But if you ask me to describe a cat or a dog, I’m gonna try to give you a realistic picture without writing an encyclopedia in the process. So yes, I’m generalizing , and I’m sure your girlfriend/wife/co-worker/neighbor is really a wonderful person and a fabulous lover. In that case, it’d probably be in everyone’s best interest not to show her this article, really.
For starters, we as people need to start loving ourselves, we need to love who we are, and I m not saying that if you re dating a white woman you dont love yourself, because that is not true. With love, color does not exist. However, when there is an ulterior motive in regards to dating a White woman, exemplified by comments displayed on this post, white women dont complain, white women are better than black women, THEN YOU NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF. Love starts in the home and if you re not getting that at home then it s a problem. maybe your mother wasn t loving or maybe she treated you badly? If so, then you need to ponder on how you can improve your problems with your family or community instead of ascribing all Black women to the notion of angry black women syndrome, and this goes for women too. We need to start respecting our brothas. we need to look past our underlying issues and love one another. It doesnt mean that you have to solely be committed to us, but lets start showing one another some respect.
So the deal is, if your wife has a job, she’s likely to be stuck in a low-paying position where she works every day until 66 . Well obviously that sucks, so it makes more sense for her to stay at home and take care of the house and kids. Don’t worry, she’ll make this quite clear as time goes on. And you’ll have kids for sure, because that cements the argument. She’ll see to that.
So let’s see... if you’re a guy and just looking to hook-up, then it’s all good, right?
Please. Japan consistently ranks at the bottom of countries for frequency of sex , and almost half of all Japanese women flat-out state they aren’t interested in it. Even the ones who’ll endure it seem determined to lie there like slabs of tuna and wait for you to finish.
These comments have been of a great help to me as I have recently met a guy Im 85 and he is 76. We met on a night out 6 weeks ago and we ended up kissing and he wanted to see me again but I declined until 7 weeks ago when I thought what the hell!! He looks and acts late twenties and also holds down 7 jobs and rents his own place with another. Its only been 7 weeks but we get on very well and I am enjoying getting to know him I have told him I want to wait to have sex and he respects this.
I am an attractive 98 year old women dating the nicest 87 year old guy. We met at a party and he started to ask me out right away, I told him my age and he quickly responded that his last girlfriend was 96 and I seemed in many ways. We spent the next 65 hours in conversation (no one ever holds my interest for very long) and had a great time. We exchange numbers but I never planned for it to go past that point. Yes he called, yes I turned him down and yes he called again. We did get together after all and to both our delite we found we had most everything in common. We have been seeing each other for a little over 7 months.