Posted: 2017-12-06 21:51
The Aquarius mother is a curious character who''s impossible to put in a box. You''re affectionate yet aloof, stern yet spontaneous, the world''s mellowest control freak. You''re a unicorn-riding Pollyanna who sings about rainbows and sunbeams yet you can be the snarkiest cynic on the block. You specialize in organized chaos, and your parenting can be subject to change without notice. Life with an Aquarius mom can range from adventurous to bats**t crazy, but it''s never boring. You view your existence as a grand journey, and you want your children to experience a magical utopia for as long as possible—one fashioned from your own vivid imagination.
But despite your obsessive nature, you also have a relaxed side. Your fourth house of motherhood is ruled by Sagittarius, the sign of travel, adventure, wisdom, and the higher mind. This bohemian effect offsets your anxiety and tunnel vision. It helps you see the bigger picture and trust that your kids will turn out okay. Sagittarius is an advice giver, so its influence in your chart makes you even more prone to be a walking mommy search engine among your friends. It also awakens your humorous and philosophical side, help- ing you see motherhood as a grand adventure. While some women suddenly feel ''old'' and weighted with responsibility as mothers, your children can lighten you up. ''I am proud that my kids laugh all the time and they laugh with me, at me,'' says Virgo mama Karen. ''We have fun.''
Your kids always know that you have their backs, however, and there''s no sacrifice you wouldn''t make for their happiness. Your children will definitely grow up with a healthy sense of self-worth as a result of your adoration (in some cases, a little too healthy, but so be it). In your eyes, they can do no wrong, and you''re there to soothe them, spoil them, and cheer on their every accomplishment. Some Pisces mothers elevate their kids onto quite a pedestal you may or may do this yourself, but you cherish every moment that you spend with them. Although you have your own life, you''ll maintain closeness with your kids over the years. Mom, best friend, social director, and confidante: you do it all and make it look effortlessly chic."
The Scorpio mother is a magnetic mama—a curious mix of quirky and controlling, inspiring and intimidating. Depending on your mood, your kids may cling to you—or scurry away from your wrath. Not that you''d ever turn the full wrath on them. One ''death stare'' from a Scorpio mom is all it takes to keep a willful child in line. Fiercely protective, you guard your children with irrepressible spirit and strength. You''ve got a streak of Carmela Soprano in you: a mafia matriarch (in stilettos) that nobody dares to cross twice.
The strangest part of motherhood, especially in the early years, is experiencing another human being''s total dependence on you. Aries is one of the most self-directed signs, and you''re comfortable putting your own needs first. But ranking another person''s agenda before your own—and a tiny person''s at that? Well, that takes a bit of an adjustment. No matter how much you adore your little chickadee, one thing is clear: you are two distinct and separate human beings.
Whether you lavish your kids with hugs and kisses, or express love by faithfully show- ing up for every important moment, there''s no question: your children are truly your pride and joy. So go forth: cuddle and coddle your lion cubs. Just don''t forget to teach them how to hunt and forage for themselves. They need survival skills as much as they need your fierce matriarchal protection. While a tight-knit family is a blessing, you also need to loosen the reins, letting your progeny go off and explore the wild world on their own."
While you''re not a mean mom by any stretch, Leo, you can be stern about your standards. You''re a tough act to follow, since you tend to be a high achiever. Our Leo friend Patricia Moreno kept her fitness brand Sati Life thriving—training teachers, giving classes, filming workout videos—while juggling a toddler and infant twins. You hold yourself to very lofty standards (and meet them effortlessly), so you may not realize when you''re pushing your kids too hard. Or maybe you do. And when your kid grows up to be a successful doctor, lawyer, businessperson, artist, or whatever, he''ll thank you. The return on investment is worth it! Besides, your innate sense of entitlement can work to everyone''s advantage, gaining your family access to exclusive schools, arts programs, and elite summer camps. Nothing can sway you when you''re on a mission, and even if your kids turn out to be your polar opposite in career, lifestyle, or beliefs, you''ll still have played a strong role in their upbringing.
Let me preface this with the fact that I have nothing against online dating. Online dating is a great way for busy or introverted people, or those with weird schedules, or just those who want to meet new people outside their current circle and local haunts, to find romance or a hookup or a husband or wife or friend with benefits. I know several people who''ve met spouses or long-term loves through online dating, and that''s rad.
It 8767 s frustrating dealing with this level of utter pettiness. How can you resolve the conflict if they won 8767 t tell you what it is? When they finally open up to you, it 8767 s explosive. They bring up a laundry list of petty shit you did that bothered them and then they have the audacity to tell you how to fix it so it doesn 8767 t happen again. Oh and it better not happen again!
Frankly, that is a healthy attitude for the most part. Although you may be guilty of expecting too much self-sufficiency from your kids, you''re great at modeling that very trait for them. Aries never asks for permission to be yourself or to pursue your goals. A martyr mom you ain''t! Forever achieving and striving, you''re a powerful role model of lifelong learning, a one-woman accomplishment machine—the ultimate glass-ceiling breaker."
Your parenting style: "Taurus is the original "mullet mama"—business in the front, party in the back. Some days, you lead with a stern demeanor that puts the fear of God, traffic, and creepy strangers in your kid. But once you''re sure everyone''s safe and sound, it''s party time! The Taurus mother is selectively staunch and, yes, downright rigid on a couple of key issues. There''s an old-fashioned girl in every Taurus, and you simply won''t budge on a few of your standards. But behind that firm facade is a bawdy nature goddess who''s refreshingly down to earth. You''re the mom who might force your kids to stay in Sunday school until adulthood but will also let them witness a home birth or ride a motorcycle when they''re twelve.
In that regard, Libra moms model self-care for your children, dressing well and re- fusing to ''let yourself go'' just because you''ve had a baby. You''ll also make sure your children are as well-appointed as you''d like to be, dressing them in adorably stylish outfits. You can be more than a touch vain at moments, also making your kids part of your personal vanity project at times. Remind yourself periodically that they weren''t born to be your showpieces or personal ambassadors. Strive for a healthy state of interdependence—where individuality and separateness are respected, just as deeply as times of togetherness are cherished."
Second about Scorpio revenge thing everyone have his/her own view of justice for Scorpio by the amount of emotional hurt you do to them they return it , so in a way they see it fair because when a person gives trust to another and this trust betrayed must be justice for such , it 8767 s not fair to betray in wound someone heart and soul the wrong thing that they take matter of justice at their own hands acting like judge , jury and executioner but each person have his/own idealism about justice while the systems are broken as we all know ( not defending but stating facts )
What the Gemini will learn from dealing with a narcissist is to be less mutable and more fixed when it comes to allowing people to come into their lives and sweep them off their feet. They will learn that when something seems to good to be true, it is usually is. The Gemini will begin to shed their naivety and look at things more skeptically. Although in their child-like minds, full of optimism, wonder, and hope, they will always be more inclined to look at the bright side of people, and the world in general.
In the meantime, though, you''ll work hard to ensure that your child''s life is crafted with precision. Like Scorpio "mom-ager" Kris Jenner with her Kardashian kids, you''ll work hard to ensure that your clan has a rock-solid future— whether that means sending them to an elite prep school, buying an "investment property" they can live in someday, or (ahem) scoring them hot product endorsement deals. Scorpio rules the zodiac''s eighth house of wealth, joint ventures, and long-term finance. Fiscal security is extremely important to you, and motherhood makes you work that much harder to lock it in for your children. ''I had my daughter''s college fund set up before she was born,'' says Meredith, the Scorpio mom of a seven-month-old. ''I''m the one who brought up that we needed to put money aside and make sure that her college is paid for—no matter what.''
Your parenting style: " Lights, camera, action! The creative and dramatic Leo mama leaves her signature stamp wherever she goes. Parenting is the ultimate personal expression for you, Leo—a job you throw yourself into, heart and soul. Leos tend to be hands-on mothers, involved in every aspect of their children''s lives. You take pride in raising capable, successful citizens who will grow up and do great things in the world.
Your parenting style: "Ah, to be a mom of many personalities—complex and even contradictory at times but certainly never boring. Such is the way of the Gemini mama, ruled by the zodiac''s Twins. Varied and versatile, you keep your family guessing what you''ll say or do next. There''s never a dull moment under your roof—even though some household members wouldn''t mind one every now and then!
You''re more a tough-love type of mom who delivers stern lectures and stiff hugs. You might not be the most touchy-feely person, preferring to show your devotion through your actions rather than affection. How this plays out depends a lot on your own upbringing. Capricorns tend to be "old souls" who play the dutiful soldier in their families, keeping a lot of their emotions inside. Your own childhood may have been colored by hard experiences or hefty responsibility placed on your small shoulders (perhaps self-imposed, as many Cap kids are overachievers). Or maybe your parents worked hard to provide for your needs. Now you feel a deep obligation to repay them by succeeding.
If you hurt a Capricorn, regardless of how trivial the matter, the Capricorn will go for days, weeks or even months without talking to you. They will talk about you behind your back on every occasion that presents itself but ignoring you is how they teach you a lesson. Capricorn 8767 s feel obligated to teach people lessons. They are annoying motherly and fatherly people who act more like your parent than your spouse.
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