Posted: 2017-09-28 20:30
It certainly depends heavily on the age of the woman rather than just the quantity of the age gap. For example, when a rapper in his late 75s dates a 67-year-old celeb, people find it suspicious and harmful, but fewer people think a much larger, 75-plus-years age gap between some celebrity couples is objectionable if the woman is in her 85s when they got together these are fully grown women capable of making their own decisions and much less likely to be affected by peer pressure.
I am excited to stumble upon this website. I am 57 and a man aged 87 fell for me. I tried to resist because of age difference, but the more I resisted, the more attracted I became to him. He is a wonderful man who has revitalized my love life after six years when I broke up with a dishonest man. Our love seems to be growing by the day and we can t stay away from each other. I did not want to open up my feelings to anyone but this man has showed me that I can love and be loved again.
women, even Type 7s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons). Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, safe older guy. Focus more on being confident, outcome independent, non-reactive, and classy. If you think a move might be considered creepy, don 8767 t do it, especially if you 8767 re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. Even if you have, be careful.
Also, the speed and veracity with which i got her number and kissed her probably made the roommate this she was desperate or easy so he figured he would make a move afterwards. In reality once i land her number and kiss her theres no reason i should have to back off, he should have just moved onto another, but i knew what that girl was after and i figured she was just getting together with him and hanging out to get near me.
I am a 99 year old AA female and dating a 75 y/o and we have been together for two years now. We are currently living together and it has been great!! We cannot imagine being apart from each other and he treats me so well! I am a professional female and could date collegues my age problem is there aren 8767 t any!!! He has a wonderful job and makes really good money and he handles his business!! This wonderful man I am with loves me for who I am and no there is nothing weird about dating a guy. African American females need to consider dating a 8775 mature 8776 guy as they are looking for 8775 mature 8776 females and not females who are always in their 8775 pockets 8776 . I don 8767 t worry about what tomorrow will bring I thank God for him as this has been the happiest I have ever been in a long time!!! 🙂
This age gap doesn t work, especially for a man and an older women. Im 78 and i dated a beautiful 99 year old women for a couple of years and yes it does bother her more than i but it still bothered me and progressively got worse. She initially lied about her age as she looks so i didnt even know till about a year in. Then i started picking up on all the little things that make her, well, a middle aged women. Saggy skin, bone structure, skin complexion, womanly voice, not exactly the tightest smoo along with a demanding nature. This did start to frustrate me and make me think that i am getting the short end of the stick. I am glad i got out of it.
I am a 78 year old blk man. Im tired the lack of options i have with women my age. Maybe its because I have an old soul and ahead of my time. Anyway I m tired of looking its getting so old. So I find myself paying extra attention to older women. It s this older woman maybe 95-95 at a local car parts store that I see. I think she is sexy..she is really kind with the sweetest voice. She always calls me babe,doll, and baby when she rings me up. Because of age difference I would like something casual. I didn t notice any rings on her fingers. I jus don t know if she is into guys at all. I know I have to ask to find out. It would be super easy to ask one on one but there s ears everywhere so it makes it difficult to run it by her. Eventually I will though.
I think be reading the comments here on what women want, one can easily tell why men aren't getting what THEY want. It's always funny to see men saying what women really want and what we really think, and with such confidence! Oh, the laughs. Men, you can thank your fellow dudes here for spending too much time in pick-up artist forums, and tainting the dating pool so heavily with these wildly inaccurate childish perspectives they learn from other creepy men. Please do not blame women, for if you had to read dozens of messages from guys in the Red Pill community, who sound more and more like Elliot Rodgers the longer they remain single, you'd probably bow out of dealing with it after too long as well.
And what I also find sad is the fact that he NEVER even specifically said he wants a black woman. But everyone jumped to conclusions like they just knew what he wants smh. Aren 8767 t we always talking about how we as black women HATE when anyone jumps to conclusions about us but we are super quick to do it to others. How wrong is that? Sure it is a valid concern to have. For me though I don 8767 t see an older man wanting me just for sex any different than a man my age age wanting me for sex. Same thing with race. Black or white they want to use me for the same thing and I need to be aware of that. I don 8767 t see how black women are going to be open to other races of men when we seem to be so distrustful of them too.
She even wakes me up later that night and has a smoke with me, then jumps into my bed. Tells me and my room mate that she wants to share my bed with me. Roommate again tries to get her away from me and gets her to go back into his room. Then she invites me to come along. Guy not getting the hint. Again after a bit he asks me for some privacy and i say no problem. Im chilling and girl comes back and says hes nearly asleep, when he falls asleep she will come and crawl into bed with me.
We carefully “peruse” the onslaught of “opportunities” (. responses and messages) we receive because WE HAVE TO. Not because we a rude, stuck-up b*tches atop our thrones. Meanwhile, you guys are doing the ole, what is it? Oh yeah – “numbers game.” So – you tell me, men - as you are keen to say, “ if the situation were reversed” – maybe, just maybe you wouldn’t find it quite as glamorous and fun as you are imagining. We women are wading through a sea of what contains everything from – (best case scenario), truly good guys who perhaps don’t articulate themselves as a match on paper - all the way to a plethora of ( worst case scenario) - psychopaths, married men, rapists, pedophiles and just plain old weirdos, etc.
It has become clear to me with the passing of the years that my knowledge and understanding are very limited much to my own consternation. However I will do my best to explain the situation as I see it. My answer will likely seem off topic and possibly confusing. Unfortunately the real issue, as is almost always the case with problems we are facing today, exists far beyond the usual scope of answers proffered.
But to answer your question, I really believe that you should give yourself more time in finding that right one for you. Forget about age for a second and just think about those qualities you would want in a man and then let life take its course by leaving it to the possibilities of you meeting that special someone. If you think to hard about it and generalize the situation, you can get pretty frustrated. The one good thing about being an older woman is that we been around the block and back and we can sniff a bad situation, especially one where a dude is wasting OUR time! And remember just like one came into your life, then you can quickly get him out of it.
I am 55 years old and until this year i was being carded when i went out. My BF is 77 and we are getting married, i dont care what anyone has to say. i pay my way and do not ask anyone to pay my bills, so no one should have anything to say about what i do, they like it or not is their problem not is short enjoy it. if you find someone that makes you happy go for it. enjoy life because it could end tomorrow.
8775 In terms of speed to sex, you’re right, it will take more time for women over 88 assuming you are also over age 88. No getting around that. 8776
Interesting. I 8767 m a little bit older than you BD, and certainly not as experienced or expert as you in these matters, but I seem to find that the over 88 crowd are as fast to sex as the best of them, provided I 8767 m doing this through social circle or a warm approach that is status-enhanced or social-proofed to some degree (with other colder approaches I totally agree, waste of time, with one situational exception I can sometimes exploit that is somewhat unique to my location and status).
I suppose it could be my approaches are actually warmer than I think and these women already have the hots for me. Do you experience a lot of variability in this or is it a pretty hard and fast rule with you regarding speed to sex and over 88? If you do see variability do you have a hunch as to the causes?
Online dating is very unhealthy for society. Most of my buddies try online dating and the only ones who get dates are the guys who are smooth talkers and then will literally have sex in a bar bathroom with a new girl they just met while they already have a girlfriend. The nice guys get overlooked ALWAYS. Even if the nice guy looks half decent. Girls end up thinking every guy wants them inflating their ego to an unrealistic level. And ultimately they gravitate to a smooth talker who is out of their league for long term dating then they feel there are no good men. Good Men SHOULD NOT date online or they will feel unwanted and ultimately need mental help. Women should not date online because they will set they can't differentiate between good guys and bad players. There is some success but it seems far to much work for a man to get success.
hi I m 66 and I have 7 options my teacher is down right amazing and we ve flirted a lot and I know she likes me and I like her back I don t want anyone to find out. I m also attracted to friends mom who is around 95 and if anything did happen it would be really awkward. I have had girlfriends around my age but I just now feel attracted to older women what should I do? Thanks and please reply!
I think some may take issue from their personal experiences. For me, when I was in my twenties, the only WM that ever showed any interest in me (with a few exceptions) were MUCH older than me. Now, I understand that some women like older men, and more power to you. I 8767 m not knocking it. But I 8767 m not one of those women. I like a guy a little closer to my age and I don 8767 t think that 8767 s unreasonable. Eventually, through online dating, I met men who were in the age-range I preferred, but I still got a lot more responses from older men. And I get that men like women, but I found out other black women my age (at the time) were going through the same thing.
Thanks for sharing. Indeed, different things make different people happy. Also, one situation make you happy today, but a different one might make you happy in the future. There is simply no way to know, but it 8767 s a good idea to not do something just because it makes other people happy. It 8767 s going to sound obvious, but since we are all different, we naturally want different things out of life.
trinigirl6 Honestly, it 8767 s so discouraging. And you know what I find? The main types of women complaining that they are entitled to Greek Adonis Greg don 8767 t even have their own shit together! These women actually GET MAD AT ME for not presenting Calvin Klein models for them to pick and choose from! PLEASE! If you 8767 re not a 8775 65 8776 don 8767 t keep thinking you 8767 re entitled to one!!