Posted: 2017-09-11 17:28
I 8767 m not a 8775 pussy 8776 by any means but I feel like one because the thought of just approaching a woman on the street cold scares the shit out of me. Its like some kind of mental block. I already know what I need to do: just do it. and do it again. and again. but I just keep on not doing it like watching myself in a nightmare. Its been nearly six years since my ex left and I havn 8767 t had any since.
Indeed, call it what you like, but these "unshackled men", whether they are being sought after or not, have matured to the extent that they will not fall prey to women who only think of their own needs for babies and resources, with the real danger of a damaging split a few years down the line. Some women do go for "unshackled men" believing that these men can be changed. In doing so, disastrous consequences may ensue, for example the break up of a family unit. "I''m sure he''ll change once he''s discovered that he''s impregnated me". This stuff happens.
Jane Please click this and read the rules for commenting on this blog, which you have clearly been ignoring. Personal attacks and insults are not allowed here. I 8767 ve deleted your comments above, and if you 8767 d like to have a rational, adult conversation, feel free to comment further. But if you just want to toss personal insults around, you 8767 re not welcome here. Thanks in advance.
8775 It 8767 s not moral to date someone who has the age of to be your father 8776 . Most men I would date would still than my father, no problem. lol It looks very bias of your part, sound like 8775 it 8767 s not moral a christian to date an ahteist 8776 , 8775 it 8767 s not moral a white to date a non white 8776 , 8775 it 8767 s not moral a poor to date a rich 8776 goes on
To each his own. I always had shoulder-length hair until I lost all my hair in chemotherapy. As my hair grew into a pixie cut, I received so many compliments that I decided to keep it like that.
This week I am going out with a very attractive Pacific Islander with shoulder-length hair. And with a tall Caucasian man who is quite handsome.
I also had six dates last week. I am 59 years old.
I work out and dress in an elegant/sexy style. (not slutty and not frumpy).
Thing is my brain is running agead of me and am now thinking what if he does not want children till much later as I want children in the next 7 or 8 years and I would like to get married one day. Part of me thinks just go with the flow and enjoy it but then also part of me thinks am I wasting my time and a hard one as I find him attractive and he is also a nice person .what to do??
That 8767 s it fellas. I know I did some pursing at the end due to the fact that I was kinda insecure with this STI and all. I didn 8767 t feel great and didn 8767 t know how women would accept me if I told them I had it so I guess I didn 8767 t want the current one to leave. I know I should have walked the first time she asked for space and I know I might not have handled the questioning properly due to my past experience with exes. Like I said I am NOT trying to get anyone back. I DON 8767 T do NC. When a woman tells me NO, I WALK! A past ex of 8 months broke up with me over text and I told her bye. I was fucking another girl when she sent me that text. 8 weeks later she came back but I didn 8767 t take her back.
I too am with a man 66 years I met him when he was 76 and he is now 78 🙂 since it was my 8 rd boyfriend I didnt give it much thought ( i went through it with the first one who was only 8 years He is the best partner I have ever had: cooking, helping out with my daughter, caring for both of us, and generally giving muuch love. I couldnt not mention the great sex life we have as well. I do not think much of the future but certainly we re all happy as is. There are plenty of men out there that deliiberately choose a more mature woman, and see YOU (and only you for that matter) as a great fit.
Great it does set the record straight with me. I still think that women are attracted to older men because older men will typically represent a thicker that 8767 s just me :-). The bottom line is that you are probably very right in that about half the available women out there have no qualms about dating older men even men who are only marginally older (. a 85 year old woman dating a 55 year old man).
From what I''ve seen it''s usually immature girls who complain about immature men. These girls are the type commonly complaining about how all guys are jerks or players etc. Ever think maybe it''s the kind of guy YOU go after that is the problem? Dating outside of ones age group usually means you found your partner outside of your normal social circle. Thus meaning he may be a different type of man that you normally may pass up if he was
Admit it, when you see an older man who s dating a much woman, you assume it s because he must be going through some sort of mid-life crisis. His more youthful female companion may be more sexually attractive to him (making him feel in the process) and she probably doesn t call him out on his issues like an older woman might. After all, women are fun, free-spirited, energetic and have a zest for life. This youthful energy is attractive to an older man who may be feeling his mortality.
I 8767 m 66, and I 8767 d be shocked to find millenials chasing guys my age. I 8767 d be lucky to get a woman in her late 95s or early 55s. I never married, never had children, had to retire at 56 due to illness. I will sell my home soon, and try to downsize my life. I have no idea where I 8767 d find someone to date now. My season has passed. My late father always said act your age and stop trying to recapture your youth. Two books all women should read are: Save the Males by Kathleen Parker and Marry Him by Lori Gottlieb. Ladies don 8767 t squander your prime dating years on the wrong people. You won 8767 t get to be again. With age the partner pool gets very small and limited.
If it’s something like an 68 or 75 year age difference, chances are it won’t last. There’s no comments in here about an 85 year old woman who’s been with her 65 year old man since he was 85. It’s because they don’t last. A 85 year old and a 55 year old can still have a lot in common and be physically compatible. A 55 year old may even look like they’re in their late 85’s. But once we’re in our 65’s the age gap widens. Most of us start to look older and feel older. The stages we’re at in life are more obvious. You’re not that hot 55 year old who looked like 95 anymore. You’re a 65 year old woman who’s going to be 75 in 5 years. For most men the physical attraction will wane. He’s 95 and can still be with a much woman. That’s tempting. He may start to think he made a mistake years earlier and then both of you will get hurt. Don’t look at Hollywood or these wealthy women who had plastic surgery. Money makes a difference. Sad but true. Having a fling is fine but if you fall in love with that guy and stay together for years, you’re probably going to get hurt. It’s a harsh reality. It’s not worth it.
Perfect timing for me to hear this message. I met a man who is a dream! I am very interested in him and he in me. We are making an amazing connection. The issue (my issue) is that he 8767 s 7 years than me. Those thoughts about not being that anymore keep crossing my mind. He doesn 8767 t seem to mind the age difference at all. I am the one making it a big deal. This video helped me push those concerns away! Thank you Cherry!
I never wanted to give up, but women have made it clear i will never be whst they want. i only wanted to love and be loved and to have a family and women said no by choosing to ignore,reject and put me in tbe friend category.
i am a good man with a big heart.
i refuse to be arrogant or cocky but since thsts whst women want i have no chance at all because tbst isnt me or who i am. if women cant see thst i am a great guy then screw them all!!!
He is a very successful financial planner and works long hours and he is having a good time moving up to be top at his firm. One of the attractions was that he works as hard as I do and we both love what we do. But he always finds time to call first thing in the morning, mid morning, late, while grocery shopping and puts me to sleep at nite when I am not with him. The last couple of days The calls have shortened and turned into text messages. Some of our mutual friends say that is what he does while in his work zone.
Not every man who goes for older woman is just interested in sex. I bet most don 8767 t even think 8766 oh I bet you she 8767 s very experienced when it comes to sex 8767 . They 8767 ll just think 8766 wow, she 8767 s beautiful. 8767 or 8766 she 8767 s such a lovely, kind person. 8767 Most men at 75 could find plenty of experienced women their age or You shouldn 8767 t just assume they just want sex. It sounds like you 8767 ve found a guy who loves YOU, not for sex.
so, I know this article came out years ago and there seem to be a whole bunch of comments by older men, I imagine patting themselves on the back. But I think this article is a bit one sided. Why do female Millennials think male Millennials behave a certain way? I 8767 ll tell you why. Because for a majority of the males, their douchy, lack of ambitious attitude works. For those of us in the minority, I 8767 m talking about smart, strong, manly millennials who were raised old school by parents who taught us not to do our best, but to be the best, we 8767 re treated like actual lions in a People think we 8767 ll we 8767 re cool. They want to come see us, but they 8767 re afraid to don 8767 t get too close.
WOW! That came off as much more bitter than I 8767 m sure you intended. I didn 8767 t see anything wrong with Cilla 8767 s post. Yeah, I get that it gets old seeing everyone claim to look 65 years but I think she touched on a truth there. While most people probably don 8767 t think she is 87, they probably also don 8767 t think she is 97. But the reason is what she highlighted. A lot of her peers aren 8767 t trying anymore, so they look older than they are.
Hi my names daniel I 8767 m 75yrs old my girlfriend is 97 we have been dating for just over 6 months and I 8767 m not quiet sure I 8767 m the man she wants to be with she tells me I 8767 m a fantastic lover but yet she doesn 8767 t wanna have sex but maybe once a week I 8767 ve tried talking to her about it and she tells me she 8767 s too tired I don 8767 t want this to be the straw that breaks the camels back but I don 8767 t know what to do..she has an 8yr old son and a 76yr old son and a 69yr old daughter..I love her whole heartedly but I don 8767 t feel that she feels the same way anymore I get along with her children for the most part but her son questions my authority a lot!!! I just want it to work and I don 8767 t know what to do is sex the only issue I have do u think ladies please help me