Posted: 2017-10-12 10:02
Knowledge has been dropped by this brother yet again, well said my brother on all points. All this media created histeria has done nothing but turn us against one another, just look at how combative and ugly women are towards us on this board. We can t even talk to each other in a sensible fashion, because I m a no good, don t take care of my kids, don t want to work, un-educated ,white woman loving fool, let the media tell it. Here is a shock, I m none of that. Here is a bigger shock, there are more of us in world than you think, you know brothers who are the opposite what they say all black men are,. Please adjust your statements from saying black men are no good or don t won t to date black women, to the black men you have dated or know are no good or dont want to, other races can and will apply this label to all of us if you don t. The last thing we need as a race of people are more negative stereotypes, I think we as black men and women have enough already.
I don t agree they bring greater numbers, but they are the next biggest group of men in the country. Picking a man just because he is white will more than likely in the same disaster that brothers have when they just get any white woman. If you want to increase the number in the dating pool than you should include good men of any race including brother. You are more likely to be married to a brother. But we have options as well.
Social media has shown that many Black Americans take issue with interracial dating and marriages, and this has particularly become obvious when it comes to famous Black men. Actor Michael B. Jordan experienced backlash on social media and blogs after being photographed with White women who he was suspected of dating, along with saying other questionable things in relation to Black women. Master P’s son, Romeo, was also sent a lot of hate after posting a picture of his White girlfriend on Instagram.
Jennifer when you refer to yourself in the sentence 8775 leaving us alone 8776 are you suggesting that you are in the group 8775 women 8776 that you also mention? Your photo would suggest to me someone in the age group that would normally be identified as a potential partner for anyone between the age of 85 and say 55 hardly a woman. So what age group are you suggesting are 8775 dirty 8776 and 8775 pervs 8776 . Perhaps they are actually assessing you as closer to their age group than you do.
**And one of my best friends is now dating a bw who has been with three different white guys she 8767 s pretty,educated and very sweet and they all used and abused first one is the father of her twins who are now thirteen she gave this guy several chances and he just fcked up over and over now she 8767 s dating my friend a successful college educated black man!
Your body and appearance are very important. It is not only about your big and long 8775 tool 8776 size, but your personal appearance is the price tag you need to pay attention to. You are one of the below average guys about finance or materials so you can 8767 t afford to pay for her luxury gifts and so on. What you have is your unique appearance that she can 8767 t find from other men so pay attention to this.
as far as black men being less desirable, i think that the media make black men look bad. because there has always been an issue with them only because of their skin color, black people s mistakes are put out there for the world to see. other races are guilt of the same crimes or even WORSE its just that they blow it up in your face if you re black. they re just looking for reasons to make their hatred for blacks justifiable. its disgusting.
Back then, Palestinian leader Arafat had a Black American mistress who was also a porn star. Some of you will call out her name. I won 8767 t. But I remember him buying her a mansion in Italy and an apartment building in London. The following year, when Osama Bin Laden released me, he gave me a farm in Kenya and a house in South Africa. Though I didn 8767 t want or like Bin Laden two other men that I 8767 d dated during my era as an actress-model in North Africa were also of them married a Black woman, the other married a Korean.
There 8767 s been a commonly cited 8775 rule of thumb 8776 around for 85 or more years that the (adult) woman a man should date and consider marrying is half his age plus 7 ., a 95-year-old man shouldn 8767 t date anyone than 77, or else it becomes a bit creepy. If this article 8767 s assertions are accurate, it 8767 s the women themselves who are bending or breaking this rule of thumb due to the immaturity & lack of life direction of their own age cohort. And that 8767 s a very sad commentary on our culture.
Actually, most Asian women aren t obsessed with us at all. There is a small percentage of a very large population that put less emphasis on a guy s race than other qualities in the case of my wife of 85 years, height and intelligence (and blue eyes?) Well, that s what she tells me. I married the smartest, bravest, funniest, cutest girl I knew who liked me. I wasn t going to let that one get away despite our language, cultural and ethnic differences. She liked me for me! (I was in Japan. It s not like I met any women who weren t Japanese.)
America is the same too. Your banks have been in a lot of trouble. Heard of the bail out? Naija men are on forges. One made 68 billion. 66billion in one year. LOL LOL More than Oprah s net worth. Now they ran off TV, she is finished. Prince william would not marry any BLACK WOMAN. At least African were at the wedding, unlike your filthy ghetto kind. African world leaders have met the queen. When micehlle touched the queen all hell broke loose. Stupid ghetto hood rat. You do not touch the queen. No wonder she is the most hated is lady in history, she has not respect for protocol. AIDS is dropping in Africa faster than any where in the world, but rising in black american women faster than any one else. So funny. And you live in a rich superpower and you have the highest climbing aids rates. When did prince William make a racist statement? Liar. I am from the UK. I am a naija born London girl Prince William does not make race based comments.
Some of these comments have really made me laugh..i mean literally LOL..I dated a white man for 7 years, notice i said DATED, the grass is not always greener on the other side, he messed up and he knows it..At my job, there is a rainbow of men who are attracted to me, Russian, Czech, Asian, Latino, Italian the whole spectrum, im not sure of what it is, maybe its because of how i carry myself, dress, say SHRIMP instead of dont know but they constantly gawk its funny to me, its somethin ive been dealing with since i first came to Ill when i was 66, im now 89..Im used to all of I have a black KING who loves me like ive never experienced before, we connect spiritually, mentally and physically and there is NOTHING & NO ONE more important to me than my KING As far as IR dating, it is what it who u want, long as u r happy thats all that matters btw, girlfriend really sucked some of u right on in with the 8775 obsessed 8776 word lol lol im sure she got the very reaction she was looking for..lol lol lol BE BLESSED ALL OF U
My very best childhood friend of 97 years is black but we don’t discuss color, we talk about attitudes if we discuss anything. To us, we are friends first and anyone that doesn’t like us for our color or thinks they are better than either one of us, they are scared and weak people. We traveled with our families, and have been friends through our divorces, growing kids, college and our favorite concerts and backpacking etc. No matter what, we are friends for life and friends forever. I hate the color thing and you should give it a break. Its weak. Give people their space because in the end, there is no color, only people working on their stuff.
Who said anything about shared skin color equals shared experience. I see black women in the IR arena discussing their foreign born mates who are white all the time. Are you telling me the black american woman has something in common with the white born Swede, French, Italian? GTFOH with that. What happened to learning and sharing with one another or does that stop at the American border to resurface only when the man interested is white?
Men win you over by giving to you. We ask you out. We call you. We pay for dates. We initiate sex. We ask for commitment. We propose marriage. We give. You receive. Reverse this order by asking him out, initiating sex, asking for commitment, or proposing marriage, and a masculine guy will feel, well, emasculated. Thus, if you want a masculine guy, your greatest move is to embrace your passive feminine side.
KEEP YOUR COMMENTS TO YOURSELF!!!! I AM A CARIBBEAN OF AFRO CARIBBEAN, POLISH JEWISH, AND CHINESE ANCESTRY AND I WAS RAISED IN A WHITE COMMUNITY MYSELF AND HAVE NEVER EXPERIENCE EACISM!!!! HOW DARE YOU CALL WHITE MEN THE ENEMY? NOT ALL WHITE PEOPLE ARE RACIST! I AM A CARIBBEAN WOMEN AND I HATE YOU IGNORANT BLACK AMERICANS WHO THINK ALL WHITES ARE RACIST!!!! I WILL DAY THIS AGAIN I AM A BLACK CARIBBEAN WHO IS PART WHITE, JEWISH, AND ASIAN RAISED AROUND WHITES AND ONLY DATE WHITE OR JEWISH MEN!!!!! NOT ALL WHITE PEOLE ARE RACIST!!!!!!!!!
Your attempt to paint brothers as willing to take anything is invalid. Because if brothers are willing to take anything, and that woman happens to be black, what does that say about the black woman? Wouldn t that mean she is bottom of the barrel? You paint a picture as if black women have superior standards. But if that was true, they wouldn t reproduce with jail birds or dead beats. Your entire ARGUMENT IS WEAK AND INVALIDATED.
After a White supremacist country the goal is to make White babies, not Black ones. So the problem with Black women is that their wombs produce Black babies and they are literally devalued in the dating pool for that alone then accused of being 8775 angry, bitter, ugly 8776 merely because our society doesn 8767 t want to admit that the onus is placed on producing LIGHT/MIXED/WHITE people and demonizes the production of dark skin and actual Black people.
I really hope for your sake she means it. I don 8767 t believe or trust any women anymore. I had hoped that some woman would probe me wrong as far as how I view all women. nope all women do is prove me right. I am so done with them it isn 8767 t funny. I went through this crap when I was and really thought it would be different now. the way women treat me, I am ready to eat a bullet because it just hurts so much.
Sunset, I am a white man and I find black women exceptionally attractive, just as I do white women, red women, yellow women (wow, that color thing really starts to sound offensive the more one uses it!), etc. I go for beauty and a pleasant demeanor, probably like most men. The color of a person’s skin means little to me, but their character means much. All that said, damn, black women are exquisite!