Posted: 2017-10-12 19:15
Striking a conversation when they are on their job would be difficult and perhaps challenging than meeting them in a club or bar where they could be in the mood to meeting new friends. However, you can start a conversation about the products they sell or the service they offer. You can always start a friendly conversation. After all, the first step is making friends with a potential woman that you will be spending the rest of your life with.
You 8767 re right I 8767 m sure and I will follow your advice and I am sure your advice will bring me life long happiness. (Sarcasm here)
(What I 8776 m really thinking): My thinking is it never helps anyone to tell them to think things are impossible. Life is full of possibilities and we believe the impossible when we give in to other people 8767 s thinking. I don 8767 t know the future, none of us do. Sure we can listen to popular opinion, then why are divorce rates even among couples of the same age so high?
I 8767 m a 68 year old girl and definitely a type 7. I dated the high school boys they fall in love to quickly. I 8767 ve dated the men who are 85 and act like they 8767 re 75, and they fall in love just as easily as the boys. Sometimes girls my age are just looking for someone who understands 8766 no strings 8767 and doesn 8767 t play games, if you can demonstrate that you 8767 re that man any type two will sleep with you. Recently I 8767 ve been sleeping with a bartender from my work he 8767 s 55 and has a certain 8766 je ne sais quoi 8776 , somewhere between the rough hands, no bullshit, and assertive demeanour I 8767 ve learned I 8767 ll never go back. And that is the last thing, if you think you won 8767 t connect with girls my age you are wrong, I 8767 m twice as independent and intelligent as any thirty year old and guaranteed you will find a someone just like me who could give you a run for your money, intellectually and sexually.
You are not the top 65% of women. You've deluded yourself into getting it the opposite way around. The truth is that 95% of men target 95% of women - that's why a 69 year old, who should be way out of your league as a woman way past her prime , will still contact you and not just focus on the more attractive girls his own age. Meanwhile, 95% of women really do target only 65% of men. You are looking for nothing but hot, single men in their thirties, and so is every other woman on the website. Goes to show what primadonnas women on dating sites are when you can get it all this wrong.
There are as many kinds of love as there are people in the world.
After 7 years and one child with a man 67 years my junior I have to say it 8767 s way more than fun and hot sex. We have built a business together, are raising a child together, he 8767 s been hospitalized for a serious chronic illness, we are buying another peice of property together-you know, all the things same age couples do together.
He wants to get married too. After 7 years together he just might be breaking through my no marriage barrier. It 8767 s me not him that hasn 8767 t wanted to totally commit. It isn 8767 t because of the age thing that I don 8767 t seek marriage but because a bad divorce taught me that you can really get taken for a ride in a divorce and I don 8767 t want to do that again. But he thinks it is important and it is becoming important to our daughter so I just might do the deed with a man-with pre-nup in place. (I would have a pre-nup with ANYONE)
Seems a bit shallow to only really care about her looks and surely every woman has a 8766 womanly voice 8767 ? How will you cope when you find a woman your age and you 8767 re together for a while and she starts ageing at 99? Would you leave her then? You didn 8767 t know your ex 8767 s age in the beginning. If she continued the lie, you probably would 8767 ve stayed with her and just ignored her ageing body. I do understand where you 8767 re coming from to a certain extent.
My favorite moment is when they stop messaging in the middle of conversation. You try again and again but there is no response although she's online, like she had a heart attack suddenly. Another one is when they don't show up. First date and without any warning just no show. Then no response of course. Love those moments especially when they call men creeps. After several contacts like this in the row, men can start acting creepy, I guess. They learn very quickly to not give any respect to women because they are not going to get it back even when everything is going very well.
Well, I'm not there yet but I get pissed sometimes, it's nothing like in real life.
If only a simple Hello would suffice, because reading a dozen ENTIRE profiles every day is time consuming and a little draining on the mind. That isn't even considering that I then need to choose which women I feel I could bond with over either similar outlooks on life or common interests and goals. If only looks were all that mattered, or better yet if looks didn't even matter. Alas they do, and everybody is attracted to people with similar genetic markers to themselves. If the world weren't like that though, we'd join a site and be done the next day.
I like Camila am filing for legal separation due to lack of performance of my 57 year old husband. He does not like to enjoy life not have the time since his demanding job take most of the time. If he is not tire or taking s nap recovering from his 66 to 67 hours days of work, therefore is not the age that make them old and boring but their goals and desites. If they don 8767 t want to enjoy life like you there is no way. Ithis not about age, it is about the desire to enjoy life st the fullest. Seems that you are doing just find and if you find that special gal to be with you why not? Good luck!
Nature didn't takes it's course as it did over years for us to connect over a wire. That just doesn't work, period. She can be however interested if you got a smooth talk and decent pictures. Most of the time a woman is not self aware of what she wants and gets bored with the chat because they thrive on emotion, unlike us men. But in the end you need to be your own man in the real world and become the best version of yourself. Attraction is not a conscious choice, meaning a women can't control to who she is attracted to. Just take care of yourself, read self improvement books. Go buy "Mind lines" from Michael Hall and educate yourself to create a healthy view of the world and stay away from negative news and media.
Thanks so much for the insight. I was engaged & totally in love with my virgo mate. Unfortunately discovered he has a drug problem. I offered to support him & love him through treatment, however, it appears his problem is too big for 8775 us. 8776 I am 8 months pregnant with the child & daughter he wanted so desperately. I feel I 8767 ve offered everything- he declined so we left it off yesterday with a goodbye. Any advice on what to do? I don 8767 t know if I should call or text as he was mad and told me not to.
Not sure where to go from here but marriage doesn 8767 t seem very permanent anymore, if you don 8767 t like it, you just end it and start again. Another reason I almost think anything will fail before it even begins. I think everything in life is like a disposable society now! Sorry to sound so negative I have a few female friends and get along well, I don 8767 t regard women my problem, more society I think
These days I 8767 ve found some degree of forgiveness though, just for my own peace of mind, not because I condone what they did. She 8767 s not a very well balanced lady and I recognize that my ex husband is not a well man but I spent decades trying to help him. There 8767 s only so much you can do for someone when they refuse to help themselves. I won 8767 t be his 8775 enabler 8776 anymore. He made the choice to abandon his family and now he 8767 ll have to live with the consequences.
Assume every girl is interested in you
Don’t be ashamed to express your sexual desire
Focus on teasing a girl rather than complimenting her all the time
Relax your body posture. Keep your chin up and make slow, non-jerky movements when gesticulating and turning your head.
When talking to a girl, ask questions to get her qualifying herself to you. eg. “Give me one good reason I should buy you a drink?”
The point of all this story is this. The roommates game was obviously way too mushy. I saw it before my very eyes. He was friendzoned probably the moment he tried. None of these dudes had the balls to make the straight up ask. I was like that back then. They also didnt recognize that this girl was just a party girl who wanted to get crazy sometimes. They were caught up thinking that they needed to get her to love them in order to them. In reality she doesnt want to be in love with anyone.
SWG i think you give him more then what he deserve you dont have to feel bad or sad in anyway he just not the right guy for you and you wil get someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated with respect and love before me and my gf started dating she told that if i want kids that i must move on and not keep her for fun and i told her that am ok with it and that i won 8767 t use her and here we stil are loving each other even more so dont let that guy make you feel like you wrong or dirty because you not
However, as I 8767 m in my early fifties, I 8767 ve unfortunately seen gender relations get progressively worse over the past 85 years or so. I believe that the level of relations between men and women are at an all time low, and now polarized to the point where there’s probably not much hope for gender reconciliation, thanks to the man-hating, feminazi mentality of 8775 all men are dogs 8776 , 8775 all men are players 8776 , and 8775 all men are rapists 8776 , among others.
Ok, need a little insight here. Met a Virgo man almost 9 months ago, like him very much. Am a Capricorn.
We both have kids, and I have told him I am very careful about introducing my son to boyfriends, have only ever done this once before. However, we have now all met and are going on holiday together soon, mainly his idea.
He is pretty sweet and thoughtful, even bought me a small gift for Mother 8767 s Day as I couldn 8767 t be with my son that day due to work.
Only he has never said how he feels and I have no idea how he sees me in his life.
I know it 8767 s early days, but more than anything want to protect my son, so any help would be much appreciated.
This article was interesting, but I really more enjoyed reading the comments. My girlfriend of one year is 87 and im 75. She has two kids and been married twice. I am finishing up college. We ve lived together for six months now and just got a house. We have certainly had our ups and downs, but we have worked them out on the way and its made us stronger. The first couple weeks we kept saying we cant let this get serious well now i just can t wait to get settled in my career and and hope one day to pop the question. We have hit just about every bump you could think of on the way including a few breaks but things are now better then ever and they have brought us closer together. We are very much in love with each other, and are excited to start our lives together.
Please do not give up. I was 75 when I met my wife who was then then 95. We lived together for 65 years before marriage and yes we invited all who could come from both families and friends and we married in a tiny rural church near Girona, Spain. I lost my father very soon afterwards and we had no honeymoon but I turned 66 last month and we are still married and have 7 homes, but no children. Neither of us is the slightest worried by that fact, and we have travelled over all of Europe and to America. When we see the problems children have brought for my wife 8767 s sister and her cousin, perhaps we were right to adopt this approach! Keep your figure, your sense of humour, and be ready to try new things. There is a man out there for you if you want him!!