Posted: 2017-10-15 18:43
Ummmmm??? I dont even know where your comment came from lol All my searches start and end with black women in them, because thats what I 8767 m most attracted to.. But remember, if one uses a free dating site, you get what you pay for. You think anything in life thats presented as free (outside of love) is worth having? In most cases no I never had a issue with discrimination with women, but I 8767 ve had a challenge with mental states of women i 8767 ve come across on the dating sites..
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Well I can only speak in general, as i cannot go in the phonebook and individually pick out exceptions. In GENERAL, sharks bite, birds fly, wolves howl, and white men don 8767 t MARRY black women. Not very often at least. Will the date you? Yes. Will the be your 8775 boyfriend 8776 ? Yes. I 8767 m talking about marriage. The number of white men married to black women has increased, but is still very very low in percentage. The fact that YOU personally have dated white men and the fact that YOU don 8767 t care about race, although admirable, is anecdotal. Also your friends are probably like you, as people hang out with people like themselves. Just because you are the exception does not disprove the rule
I never bought that 8775 black women are the least desirable 8776 drivel they tried to sell, b/c I know firsthand that the problem wasn 8767 t desire, but RESPECT. I would get mad fetish requests from white men and straight gross messages from black men, and they 8767 d be the first to spazz out if you didn 8767 t respond to their 8775 charm 8776 smdh. I got so much attention, overall, though, that it was so overwhelming, I 8767 d just sign off for months at a time.
Listen,. do you women REALLY think men of ANY CLASS or STANDARD searching on a dating site are going to be 8775 shy 8776 or be 8775 intimidated 8776 by a woman with few pics, and a 8775 about me 8776 summary about yourself??? You all really think when men see a pretty face and a nice body on a profile we really care about your wine tasting, or that you traveled to 755 countries around the world or that you have a interest in 69th century art?? lol.. we really dont most men skim through women profile 8775 about me 8776 anyway, we really just look at your pictures to see if youre attractive Second, Sorry bums will approach ANY woman regardless of your class level Why? Because THEY HAVE NOTHING TOO LOSE! Whats the worse that can happen on a dating site?? You type a few words saying sorry not interested lol rejection over the web is very easy to deal with vs rejection in person face to face. so bums dont really care, they move on to the next
Really? Because I have run into so many anti-Black women statements. I scroll to a profile of one only to see 8775 I don 8767 t date Black girls so don 8767 t bother messaging me 8776 , or something to that effect. And I do agree with you on the foreign thing. I 8767 ve had some great and intellectually stimulating conversations with men from Europe and beyond. I guess I 8767 m just one of the rare few who have had an overall positive experience with online dating. Though unfortunately, the ones who have been the most terribly rude and stereotyping have been the Black ones.
Regardless of what the men were or were not doing, I have to say that the best thing about being Stephanie was feeling like there were no limitations on the races of men she could date. Stephanie never had to check if men were into white woman, they always were. Being white took away that extra hassle of having to carefully scrutinize a guy&rsquo s profile to gauge just how racist he might be. I guess this is what we call white privilege, right?
Here are the types of men you 8767 ll meet on dating sites:
Shameless dirtbags just looking for sex, arrogant, self-absorbed 6s who think they 8767 re 65s because they have a masters degree ( they 8767 re usually just looking for sex too), socially awkward weirdos whose desperation is off the charts, and entitled man-boys who need constant ego stroking and validation. After 85, the dating world is a putrid cesspool.
So one time is was in Philly and a wandered down to a bar. I sat down and ordered a drink, after a bit a guy sits down next to me. We chat it up a bit and finally he says 8775 I wasnt even going to approach you 8776 . I ask him why and he explains most women bite his head off. I asked him on an average of 65 women how many actually do that? or is it just one and then he gives up. He thought about it and said he wasnt sure. So I issued him this challenge: With an average of 65 women how many actually shoot him down? Over any time frame.
LOL, Yes some black men do that so I been told by my lady friends. those are usually the 8775 first-generationals 8776 so I call them, they are the first generation in there family to go to college and do something with there life and they are the jokers that never had or seen anything nice in there whole D*MN life and they finally made it lol, so they feel the need to brag about what they have and do for a living to get is usually a fail! But women do the same thing, trust and believe.. but the quality men/women out there that are secured within themselves dont need to do that I NEVER put my job nor my salary or what I drive or ANYTHING status driven on dating sites for the simple reason, I DO NOT want to attract a woman thats just into me because of what I have or do.. I usually dumb down everything to see what I attract, even though I know I probably make and have more then 95% of the people on dating sites as a whole, its not necessary to talk about those things because they are ALL BASIC by a certain age.
Reading is not fundamental online. Guys see a pretty face and boobs and feel that they can change the way you feel. We get bashed for trying to change men, when in all honesty, they attempt to change us. So what I weigh a ton and she said she does not like big guys, I 8767 m a nice guy. She should give this big guy a try. Nope and Nope and Nope. A woman knows if she likes big men or not. Do not set yourself up to get your feelings hurt.
I created Online Stephanie to see if the grass is greener on the other side of the racial divide. Stephanie is an unassuming looking, moderately attractive white woman with dark brown hair and a warm smile. Her personality and hobbies are exactly identical to mine: she listens to Beyoncé , practices yoga and is a self-described health enthusiast. She&rsquo s looking for the same type of guy as me: at least 5&rsquo 9&rdquo , athletic build, college educated with no kids. Here&rsquo s how Stephanie fared in one week compared to me.
Well here is my take on that. I find that Black women who are attractive tend to be more materialistic than white women who are attractive, and at the end of the day black men want attractive women. White women tend to be bigger golddiggers, which is not the same as being materialistic. The black women tend to be more impressed with a man driving a nice car than white women. Attractive white women alot of times don 8767 t care what a man drives and the brand of clothes he has on, as long as he is making lots of money. Alot of times black women will automatically assume that if you don 8767 t have a Benz or something and don 8767 t have expensive clothes, that you are broke. So this is why when Black men get two nickels to rub together, they go out and but the most expensive car they can get, even if they live in an apartment, and why when they meet black women, they quickly tell them how much money they make
There 8767 s no shame in using dating websites I 8767 m (happily) married but if I were single I would use a dating website! I get approached in the street and it 8767 s usually not by men I 8767 d actually date! A dating website allows people to screen who they go out on dates with You don 8767 t typically get that opportunity when you meet someone in a club or walking down the street Just my 7¢!
So, you've finally decided to get a taste of online dating site and are ready to take on this world by a storm making an impeccable first impression on the people you are interested in. Friends, in order to derive the best benefits out of those websites, you need to give in your best and nothing works as appropriately as writing a great online dating profile in this case. An online dating profile is your first introduction to the virtual internet world and if you are desirous of finding yourself plenty of options, so it's the same for you to choose a good dating profile headlines, you need to exercise a lot of care and restraint in framing one.
8776 but online dating can supplement your search. It can be another avenue to broaden your options. But you just shouldn 8767 t place all your hopes and dreams on it 8776
BINGO.. I used to tell my friends this all the time, use the site as a help tool do not make this your only source of trying to find a mate, you still need to put yourself out there and interact. I know we all lead busy lives which is one of the reasons online dating was created and became so popular, but it 8767 s still important to maintain your social/interaction skills.
SN: I know 8 people who met their now HUSBANDS on a dating website, so it does and can work and there are some good finds out there you just have to be patient and know how to filter through the trash.
If you have a good sense of humor, why not put it to good use? After all, falling in love should be fun! Besides, a lot of profiles focus on depressing and desperate headlines that only serve to ruin the mood. So, why not use a funny headline which might break a smile on whoever is interested in your profile. It’s a good way of lightening up the atmosphere and not seem too desperate for love. Steer clear of boring, typical and needy headlines with the ones listed below.
ummmm.???? I 8767 ve noticed, why do you have to keep mentioning your boyfriend is of a different race (white or italian)??? You think you are doing something great now? you think youre in first place? smh you are just as bad as those confused black men that put down black women and uplift white women Stop mentioning your bf is white-italian, black men and women DO NOT care, but clearly only you do and you need too much validation (validation like me and 8775 Nope 8776 guy was mentioning in the beginning of the comment thread) smh
Well I didn 8767 t say that.. Scammers as in they were not who they claimed to be and would eventually say they had 8775 investment opportunities 8776 or needed money for something like coming back to the country. All types of ridiculous nonsense that I could not believe anyone who could read would fall for.
At one point I changed by bio to read if you are out of the country 8775 working, 8776 visiting your sick father in South Africa, or need me to cover a check from your investors because they post dated for 85 days then I am not the one for you LOL
First thing: Stephanie got more slightly better looking matches than I did. 8776 So your view is that white men are better looking than black men? but 8 paragraphs down you said 8775 Stephanie’s online dating experience felt better than mine, but only marginally so. At the end of it all, of the men who had initiated some form of interaction, there wasn’t a single guy whom I would have picked for a date. 8776 Stay off dating sites that are not for white women try (unless you want a white man) black people meet.