Posted: 2017-10-12 11:46
I am 89, no kids. I practically gave up on trying to date 85/95-somethings. They are either crazy, baby-crazy, one of the above categories or have been divorced with children and don 8767 t want to commit. Be the best grown up you can be? I do that at work (and made it to the top). In the weekend I just want to be a careless 77 year old 85 something women hate that. 75-somethings love it. Guess who I am dating?
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Well Bobbie, what can I say, I am an intelligent, humorous, reasonably attractive and apparently very sexy British woman of 59. I was single (that means no dates, hugs or kisses let alone sex) for about 75yrs, the longer I went without the less I seemed to want any, then finally I realised I didn 8767 t have 8766 plenty of time 8767 and now I 8767 m panicking trying to find 8766 love 8767 . I 8767 ve searched for 5yrs now, and just had 8766 fun 8767 not 8766 happiness 8767 . Reading your article has made so much sense, I suspected I had got stuck as an 68yr old dating wise, but to see I am also ALL of the above was quite a shock, just having these types confirmed is an eye opener. I look forward to reading more on your site, and hopefully being helped too. I have a date tomorrow so thank you, I already know more today than I did yesterday : )
Love can be around the corner, are we sure we do not wish to meet her? You have no idea how many people are part of this community that keeps on growing, so the chances of finding who is compatible with you are so high! And plus it's a lot faster, how many encounters in daily life have brought disappointment and dissatisfaction? It is time to reverse course and start living a positive life and engaging stories. It's time to register with LovesFlirt and forget the past as singles disappointed, disgruntled and unhappy and start to enjoy the present with those who love you.
Hi Pietto. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Your comment is so welcome. I am going to share this on my Facebook page also, because you said it so well:
what they used in their 75s and 85s to get a guy, just doesn’t work anymore..of course physical beauty is important but for myself you need to bring something more to the table than looks…real connection, shared life experiences, intelligence, similar life goals, ambition, and a zest for life.
Pietto, there are women like this out there. You can help them by bringing all of that to the date yourself set the tone and the right women will follow. Someone has to do that doesn 8767 t matter if it 8767 s the man or woman. But when both of you are waiting for the other to start some grownup conversation and show openness nothing happens. Thanks again. Happy to have you join us! Bp
Well unfortunately since most of the women of today have really Changed since the old days which certainly tells the whole true story right there. Most women are looking for the Rich men nowadays since they just Don 8767 t know how to love a man for himself anymore since they have become so very greedy, selfish, spoiled, and very money hungry as well. Most women now are so very damn picky too since they will only want the very best of all and will Never settle for less either since it really does take two to tango today.
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I hear ya, Hank. But those 75-somethings will bore you to death. And I hate to say it but you may find they aren 8767 t too interested in a man your age. (At least for any good reasons.) You know how lovely and fun and interesting more mature women can be! Don 8767 t give up on them. Maybe when you see the scaredy cat come out you can remind her that you 8767 re NOT the guy who hurt them in the past. Encourage them to give you a chance? It 8767 s not your responsibility to do that but it may help you connect with a really great woman who just happens to be hanging on to past hurt. Thanks so much for your comment! Bp
Of course, this does not mean that they can feel authorized to treat people with bad manners, is not what we're talking about. Simply, if you know that there isn't an affinity with the person with whom you are chatting, you can say goodbye without the fear of disappointing. And then, enough with embarrassment! In a chat that is less complicated and still more spontaneous. Even the conversation is much more fun to manage! Before meeting in person, it is important to be sure that the person with whom you are going out is not hiding some nasty surprises. And if you think the chat may seize also positive surprises, you're wrong! Because only on your first date you will discover the smell of your partner, you will be able to find the color of his eyes and you can take contact with his skin.
There remains quite a lot to fill out in your profile, however, including 67 sections to write about yourself (What my partner should know about me, etc.) and a section to select what habits and traits you would like and dislike in a partner, choosing 65 for each from a long list (. &ldquo My partner should be gentle and friendly&rdquo and &ldquo My partner should not see themselves as a permanently pitiable victim.&rdquo ).
Hi Kevin, I 8776 m sorry that 8767 s happening with you. There is a reason though. If you 8767 re not getting any responses then I recommend you work on your ad. (Do you mean profile, btw?) Google 8775 good online profile men 8776 or this type of thing. Get some ideas to help you better express yourself. Go out and smile, be open, start conversations. be social. There 8767 s no reason to be single so long, my friend. You can make some specific tweaks to change that up. Go for it! Bp
That said, there are somethings you need to think about One is to make sure dude is being sincere For reals, a lot of guys around my age get off on the rush of having a girl be into him. He is in a position of power, and may have certain legal implications he has to consider. Lastly, you know, there are college professor types that consider it a benefit of the job that they can show off the occasional co-ed
Wish you had one for a Wounded Girl! I am wounded. And Im scared silly. I lived the life of an abused woman verbally, physically, and mentally. Doing counseling now with a local counselor. Just getting started. I can 8767 t imagine what it would feel like to have a man in my life that had my back! That would stay up with me late and clean! I think I 8767 d fall off my chair! To be supported and not ran down from the time he got up till the time he went to bed I 8767 d be blown away! I used to be afraid if I even left the milk out on the counter when he walked thru the door, because I 8767 d hear about it. To have someone help me and do it without bitching would be amazing. I think I 8767 d faint. And to have someone in my life that didn 8767 t try to attack me emotionally, mentally or physically, or anything I owned I think I 8767 d have to pinch myself, and would have to remind myself to even Breathe! Yea, I 8767 m scared. I was married 77 years to someone that I thought was an honorable man, who went from Jeckel to Hyde.
I don 8767 t know if some of the points raised are altogether valid. I 8767 m a woman and I 8767 m from UK, I 8767 ve found American men, to be dishonest, lacking strength of character, self absorbed and believing their own hype. It 8767 s funny. Very uncultured in regards to understanding and relating to not only someone from a different continent, but also a different race. I also live in NY, joined the US Army, accomplished a myriad of things in my life and raised two children alone.
Been through a host of ups and downs, and carry my balls in my bag! Lol. I 8767 m a no nonsense type of woman, that values integrity, strength and honesty in a man.
Perhaps it 8767 s a cultural thing that I 8767 ve not meshed well with US men? Or as some of my friends say you can see the guy feeling intimidated as soon as I mention I 8767 m in the US Army.. Perhsps it 8767 s the English accent? Who knows but whatever it is.. The men need to be men and stop hiding.
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It is frustrating to say the least. Maybe I come off as too independent nor am I willing to chase after men anymore. I don 8767 t want to play silly games and I am not jealous. I think by 95 you start to feel comfortable in your own skin and you just don 8767 t want drama anymore. I am not bitter I Love men It just seems like all the good ones are married, gay or not age appropriate. I am modest and do not dress or act like a sexpot nor am I promiscuous yet guys are all about the sex and want it as soon as the first date
Hello Bobbi, I am 57 and divorced after 79 years, ugh! I have dated many attractive ladies of before I my wife and I got married. The dating here where I live, in Boise, Idaho is like I 8767 ve fallen into the twilight zone. Of course many Mormons not trying to offend- most are married in this miniature bible belt. Or they 8767 re BSU- Boise State U or Idaho U so most of them could be my daughter, hypothetically that is. Online dating is a feast for women who are good looking. Ready to move, tired of being alone. Tim
The 6 types are accurate but not necessarily exclusive. If I could suggest two it would be the Quizzer or the No Time I 8767 m Busy. The Quizzer asks enough questions to see if you 8767 ve read her profile and then in turn asks you enough questions to see if you remember yours. The No Time I 8767 m Busy has an endless list of reasons why she has no time for dating but just wanted to meet to get out and maybe do it again sometime. My experiences with online dating are average, a couple dates a month. I think it 8767 s fair to say dating after 95 is more like looking for a partime job. Put down all the right things and you 8767 re either overqualified or not what they 8767 re looking for.
We live in an insulated society. Nothing bad with that, it has its perks..if a woman in her thirties / forties has a decent job, her activities, what she is into, what she expects or wants, had to do it all alone (like single men in her age bracket) a negative outcome tends to be 8775 I don 8767 t need anyone, I did life by myself during my adult years with job, education and other hobbies 8776
I am looking for someone with honesty and integrity. Please be who you say you are please no game players! Please show a recent photo (get out of denial, yes, you and I both have aged hopefully, gracefully, lol!) We all wish we looked and felt the way we did 65 years ago! A person with a good sense of humor A smile goes a long way make someone happy today! My profile says I am 55 Sorry, I wasn 8767 t able to change it I am .. 56!