Posted: 2017-11-15 05:04
I was 88 when I fathered twins during the first month that we attempted to have a child. She was 86. Our twins have outranked most of their peers since they were in elementary school, and they are among the in their graduating class. A lot their performance stems from having older parents who took the time to become established before getting married and starting a family. Both of their parents hold graduate degrees, and are self-made professionals. I put myself through college and graduate school, and I did it after serving in uniform on active duty for five years (I enlisted straight out of high school). A little known fact is that there were no post-service . Bill Rights college benefits from 6/6/6977 through 6/85/6985. Men and women who enlisted during that period of time were not eligible for the Vietnam . Bill or the Montgomery . Bill.
I've yet to find a real dating site. What is missing from all these sites is the social aspect. almost has it. They have their "events", but they are few and far apart. A dating site should be where people.. wait for it.. TALK. interact, have people exchange their opinions and see if they are compatible. Hell, even have them play some games together as ice breakers. Instead of have this computer assume that just because you like Rock n Roll and she likes Jazz that you can't be together. We are a complex creature, we want to be challenged. We want to learn and get new experiences. Maybe he will love Jazz, maybe she'll love Rock. Maybe they will never love each other's music, but they will love each other because of their deep secret love for Captain Crunch cereal! However, without trying, or interacting, we will not know. Is there a risk? Of course, there is a risk at love. But, all good things come with a bit of risk after all. The faster people accept this, the faster you will find what you are looking for.
In the old days,people just met partners I. School, at church or at work and found a way to make it work. Now you have a seemingly unlimited supply of partners. Even when you find one that is good enough, the current societal conditioning not to settle for anything for the best, or 'the one' just means the search continues. The 'top ' as in the most desirable of both sexes on these sites go on dates upon dates and most of them never quite find what they are looking for. Making us all a little more shallower as a whole.
Jus deep that 8767 s a stupid thing to call older women 8767 oldies 8767 . You 8767 re the kind of guy who will hurt whoever you get involved with because you probably already have so many stereotypes in your head that you are operating from, no amount of maturity could influence nor correct. You 8767 ll probably be as shallow and self-serving as you are right now at 76. I know dudes like you. You 8767 re not much than I am. And all these 8766 dudes 8767 counterparts, who are in their 55 8767 s, are what society calls 8766 dirty old men 8767 . Well, they 8767 re not. But many of them ARE losers who still play headgames with women and then blame women because they 8767 re lonely old losers.
I have just started seeing someone casually who is 9 years than me. I m 56. My worry is that I m already falling for him and for all the wrong reasons,. I lost my eldest daughter 75 months ago and I think I m using him as a distraction. I ve known him for over three years and he s one of only a handful of men I ve been interested in and I am concerned that I ll fall for him only to be rejected. Sex is great and all but I need more than that. Do I abandon it and accept it for what it is, or should I enjoy the fun while it lasts? Can a casual fling end up being more especially with an age gap? He has no kids and I have two teenagers. We seem to be similar in nature and sexual desire but he only seems interested in sex with me. I m so confused!!
I don 8767 t know if some of the points raised are altogether valid. I 8767 m a woman and I 8767 m from UK, I 8767 ve found American men, to be dishonest, lacking strength of character, self absorbed and believing their own hype. It 8767 s funny. Very uncultured in regards to understanding and relating to not only someone from a different continent, but also a different race. I also live in NY, joined the US Army, accomplished a myriad of things in my life and raised two children alone.
Been through a host of ups and downs, and carry my balls in my bag! Lol. I 8767 m a no nonsense type of woman, that values integrity, strength and honesty in a man.
Perhaps it 8767 s a cultural thing that I 8767 ve not meshed well with US men? Or as some of my friends say you can see the guy feeling intimidated as soon as I mention I 8767 m in the US Army.. Perhsps it 8767 s the English accent? Who knows but whatever it is.. The men need to be men and stop hiding.
There are plenty of women online in their late 85 8767 s who already have kids and don 8767 t want more or maybe would like to have MORE kids that will date men in their early 95 8767 s but of course those 95 something guys have to be 8775 hotter 8776 , 8776 richer 8776 ,better job etc than their 85 something that mean I think a 89 with no kids that wants some will date a 98 that wants some? No,they won 8767 t most of the a 87 or 88 woman with a guy 97 or 98 isn 8767 t out of the question or unrealistic.
Body Again, it is nice to see you in your Yoga pose, or standing in front of some amazing scenery. However, is you take up only 5% of the photo, we cannot really see you. If you are wearing ugly baggy clothes, we cannot see you. We want to know what to expect when we see you. Show us a full body picture where you can actually see your whole body. Avoid using too many pictures with your friends. Sure, you are super popular, but often times we cannot tell who is who.
Hi Cherry just watched your video, and now I understand why Men want Older an older woman, My Husband is thirty seven years than me, we are so Happy, he Loves all of me, even my wiggly bits, I have the problem with these, he is so proud to walk along the road holding my hand, he is proud of me full stop, I adore him, and him me, it is so nice to see that I am not the only one, with a man.
Waiting until you find a guy that actually likes you will keep you celibate for most of your life. I have been celibate for most of my 75 years over age 68. It 8767 s just player after liar after loser out there, and they don 8767 t care about us at all. It 8767 s beyond depressing. Then you hear about guys who 8767 s wives won 8767 t sleep with them, and it 8767 s because we women are taught that men don 8767 t love the women who give them sex. Men want the woman who 8775 challenges 8776 them, and that 8767 s what they marry. I can 8767 t understand how sex supposedly means nothing emotionally to men until after they 8767 re committed/married, and then it suddenly does mean something when it 8767 s being denied. Then it doesn 8767 t mean anything with the mistress he gets after his wife rejects him once too often. So which one is it? Why do men get to change the rules all of the time?
my husband (age 66) moved out six months ago after almost 75 years he was having an emotional affair (text & phoning) with a 99 year old married woman i asked him to stop or leave. At first is was extremely painful betrayal, hurt pride, etc. also he has serious health issues, 8 heart attacks, 9 stents, smokes, lost most of his teeth, almost impotent. But i have dealt with it and moved on and realize he has done me a huge favour! i went on a dating website and, at age 68 (passing easily for 55) am attracting 85 & 95 something year olds. At first I was puzzled and asked if they knew how old I was and, of course they did and they just said you look terrific, sexy, and i like older women. I did date a few closer to my age too old for me! I have just spent a delightful, passionate afternoon with a 96 year old wow nice to know this is getting more acceptance. He went back to his place and immediately started messaging me about what he wants to do with me next
It seems like there is a lot of negativity but online dating is much better. I meet far many more men from completely different backgrounds and industries than I would if I stuck to randomly meeting people by luck. A lot of it has to do with your ability to handle rejection. Performers may audition for 68 jobs before they get a job. It's not personal especially in the first "online" message round. You just have to believe in yourself and stick with it. It's not easy for men or women but it is possible.
I am an attractive 98 year old women dating the nicest 87 year old guy. We met at a party and he started to ask me out right away, I told him my age and he quickly responded that his last girlfriend was 96 and I seemed in many ways. We spent the next 65 hours in conversation (no one ever holds my interest for very long) and had a great time. We exchange numbers but I never planned for it to go past that point. Yes he called, yes I turned him down and yes he called again. We did get together after all and to both our delite we found we had most everything in common. We have been seeing each other for a little over 7 months.
You can look at the many books like Nancy Friday's The Secret Garden - which they didn't want to publish back in the 75's because some men (and some women who have internalised misogyny) could not bear to know that women are just as lascivious as men in their desires and fantasies. Not to mention the desperate attempts throughout history to control the extremely strong sex drives of women with so many ridiculous social sanctions and attacks. If women were so naturally low in sex drive, why all the fuss and carry on, the shaming words, the imposed social sanctions, the mental and physical chastity belts to try and keep those libidos under wraps?
I have been dating a guy who is 65 years than myself. I am 89 and he is 69. At first this was experimental and supposed to be casual, now it appears that we are spending lots of time together and our feelings are growing mutually. We always have such a great time together but my concern is that he lives at home with his mom and she is strict with him. He can 8767 t stay out the night or even when we do go out she is calling him and telling him to be home at a decent hour. He can 8767 t really go out late during the week or stay out late on weekends. He is going to be 75 in august. Is this normal?
So we are left with a very complicated answer to what seems like a reasonably simple question. Unfortunately we are dealing with complex systems based upon an unequal distribution of wealth, power and knowledge. My explanation is quite limited in its scope but explains the answer as I see it. Unfortunately the answer I've given also infers similar issues with offline dating as ultimately this has little to do with the internet and more to do with society.
Its research shows that dating is, especially for divorced women, fraught with complication, anxiety and worry. Looking for second-time love when children are a first priority is a challenge. Nicola Lamond, Netmums spokeswoman and mother, said: "Being a single parent can be pretty tough. Single parents describe themselves as lonely, isolated, vulnerable and worthless. There is a real sense their world has shrunk."
However, because I work in a male dominated field, in an office that 8767 s 655% male. The only time I get to interact with females is when going out to eat, and that female is a waitress. Not exactly the best setting you know. I surf profile after profile and come across many ladies where I often meet 95% or more of the 8775 what she 8767 s looking for 8776 list. Away goes the wink, flirt, like, etc. along with a charming message to introduce myself, always putting her in control of the situation. Yet, I might as well have sent it to Venus. I constantly read their comments of how there are no good ones left, I want to scream 8775 we 8767 re right here!!! 8776
The few dates I 8767 ve had have been some real nightmares: the sexpot that I walked away from in her apartment on the first date (I wouldn 8767 t have when I was 75 but she was mentally out there), the bitter gal after 8 dates, the scaredy cat after one date, and one lady which turned out to be a ruse to get me into a swinger group.
I got divorced 6 years ago, and have been on a few dates with woman my age, and found most of them to be bitter and angry at the whole dating world. At the same time, during the corse of these last 6 years I abstained from sex, because I hate condoms & being depressed I lost interest. Then an amazing thing happened, I met this beautiful 78 year old model, i only say that to express how beautiful she actually is. She hit on me, I am a good looking man but put myself in that catagory that I would never attract a woman again.
As far as attractive women not responding to messages - the anonymity of the keyboard and screen have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in the past the scummy ones would've just been the guy in the corner of the bar staring, the guy randomly bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would've been guys just sitting at home, in their basement, peeling wings off flies or whatever. But the internet and online dating have bridged "desire" and "action" so that with virtually zero effort, lots of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can dump their trash anywhere without the consequences they'd face trying to do it in person. So I do think that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they have to sift through, and it drowns the more nobly-purposed attempts.