Posted: 2017-11-14 05:19
There 8767 s this Smallie asking me out. I 8767 m 8 years older, he lost his dad a year ago and just started heading the family buisness and started his own company. He always acts the man oh, paying on hangouts, asking if you need money, (I always say no) getting his subordinates to wait on you etc. but he also acts like a child he is extremely respectful, the way you respect your elder sister it 8767 s subconscious for him.
Seems a bit shallow to only really care about her looks and surely every woman has a 8766 womanly voice 8767 ? How will you cope when you find a woman your age and you 8767 re together for a while and she starts ageing at 99? Would you leave her then? You didn 8767 t know your ex 8767 s age in the beginning. If she continued the lie, you probably would 8767 ve stayed with her and just ignored her ageing body. I do understand where you 8767 re coming from to a certain extent.
When someone has a child her kid comes first. Unless there is some dysfunctional situation where she is neglecting the child. My mom divorced when I was 9 from my then highly abusive father both alcoholics. My mom remarried some mean men she told me 8775 Blood is not thicker than water, 8776 as she neglected me and ran off with many men. I think the woman needs to first and foremost take care of herself and her child. Then dating a single mom would mean you are not first or second there so you are better off not dating one if you aren 8767 t ok with that and if you are jealous of the attention or time she gives her daughter. My step dad was jealous of any time I spent with my mom and he treated me like I was a piece of crap. It drove me away from her and them both. So, if you aren 8767 t a loving and compassionate kid-loving person don 8767 t even bother. It 8767 s sad for the kid and you won 8767 t be happy if you are number 6.
Hmm, I have been dating someone on and off for 7 months who has 8775 met 8776 my child (hi, how are you im ___} but not interacted. We started out just hooking up, which led to dating, and we are exclusive. I am the first woman he has dated with a child (shes 7, im 77 and hes 78) and he says he is nervous about it but wants to give us a try yet he has yet to offer to do anything involving her. Is that normal? Because we argue like at least once a month, I am still unsure abt us lasting and havent really thought about his lack of interest until now. I mean I brought it up before and he has yet to do anything about it but i def dont want to force it so I feel like its a dead end and I should move on but I really like him and he has made it clear he wants to eventually get married and have kids but now right now.
My father treated me very well lots of love from him I wouldn 8767 t say my dad treated me like a princess but I 8767 m 79 my boyfriend is 58 we been going for three yes and still going sstrong he is one of the best men I have ever been with he has money to pay pills and food and every other weekend we go out so I 8767 m surely not dating him for money but more for we have a lot in common he has a wonder full personality and we have fun with eachother so maybe I like him for him not his age I sometimes for get he is 58
BDizzle, I agree with Nia on this one you are letting your emotions hurt your situation. It 8767 s just too much my man, nobody will think ill of you for cutting your losses and moving on irregardless of the kids. The thing is this woman has not moved on, she hasn 8767 t. She lied to you because she still feels for that dude and being that he is the most recent father, he can probably say a few magical words and you will be out in the cold with them playing family again.
I am sure there are plenty of exceptions and I will check out the site. It 8767 s not so much about the kids as it is about sexual attraction. However youthful a woman is, it 8767 s an inevitable issue. Again, there are exceptions, but relying on it is a risky proposition, to say the least. I am sure that Beyonce and Sophia Vergara will look great at 55 or even older, but this cannot be said about most women out there.
Thanks Marni and all the guys that have made comments. I started liking a guy whose 68 years than me, I`m 86 years old and this has never happened to me before. After my divorce a year ago, I went out on a couple of dates but never felt the connection I felt with him. I`m not even sure he likes me that way or just as a friend but I am willing to find out, more so after hearing about your stories. Thank you for sharing!
Now is the time to get ready with your new photo or even photos to enhance your dating profile.
First and foremost is that your photo should be a recent one. Years old photos just don't cut it in this day and age. There are so many stories of couple meeting for the first time only to get off on the wrong foot. Imagine the disappointment that your partner will feel when they see an older version of the picture they have been looking forward to meeting.
Try not to use a selfie, they look like selfies and make you look like a loner. Ask a friend to take a photo, ideally outdoors and not just a portrait. Full body is good but at least more than head and shoulders and ideally with an interesting background.
If you must use a group photo then not as your main photo and make sure that it is obvious which one you are no more disappointments!
So, summer is on the way and so are your fresh new photos and your fresh new dates!
I have been divorced for almost 65 years and have used various websites for dating including free ones such as POF n OkCupid and match and most recently I am 98 years old and I'm looking for something serious. I have made what I'm looking for known clearly from the start. I'm also not a bad looking lady who has a professional office job and and no larger than a size 8. I usually date men who are a few years than me or a few years older than me and from what I can find at this stage is that the men are using online sites as if the women were hookers. They no longer seem to have respect for women they tell lies they lead you on by saying that they too are looking for something long term to only leave after a few weeks or a month and a half that's all I can seem to find out there and I have been looking for years now.
Comment: Dave Chapman 75th August 7567: I find that I only get about one reply for every 65 messages that i send out. Is this normal for a dating site of is it just me?
Reply: Mike Barrett 7th September 7567: I would say that this is about right Dave. A lot of people who join dating sites don't come back so it becomes a bit of a numbers game. It just means that you have to send a lot more messages!
That 8767 s another lovely story and touching situation. I think 8775 growing older 8776 together should be kept in perspective here. I sincerely wish you all the best, but you have to consider the high likelihood that this is not going to last forever (whatever that means). Thus, if you really love him and are attracted to him, riding it out might be the best, even if not an ideal, option. You should also understand where he is coming from. It would be really hard to introduce a woman who is 75 years older than him to his parents without being harshly judged, especially by the mother. And even if he was ok with you meeting them, I don 8767 t think you would be comfortable interacting with them anyway, so maybe it 8767 s a blessing in disguise.
Now, my experience: a few very brief conversations, mostly of the type "Hi, how are you? What are you doing?" from women who initiated and not one about my interests or anything in my profile. If I try to go deeper at all, they either disappear or keep repeating themselves (probably catfishers since other things about their profiles make their seeking me unrealistic). Then, I have had a couple go a few sentences longer, but almost all have ended. Unfortunately, one had a legitimate mental disorder from traumatic brain injury. I tried to make this one work, but we just could never connect. One other one is so far away, I am still seeing where it goes. But so far, at best we'll be friends and no dates unless I travel over 7555 miles to another country.
Liz am in the same situation except he is 68 and am 85, i do have the same cncerns as most women the age gap thing, in the begninng i started it casual i wasn 8767 t looking for anything serious just to experiment and to think i am desired by such a person peak my interest, we became intimtate within weeks and found out am his first now its going on six months now nd we are very attached but he has became very jealousful of me nd naggs all t time and argue however we are very much inlove
I knew I was studying the right course in university when our lecturer at the time, Dr. Ekeanyanwu Nnamdi (probably the best teacher I’ll ever have) mentioned that a journalist had to have a “nose for news” and “an eye for detail”. I certainly have all of that, including an ear for the most silent whispers. I notice and hear EVERYTHING. Matter of fact, I once narrated an event to my mother an event that happened when I was just about a year old- with so much detail that she was shocked and was like: “How could you possibly know this? You were a baby” and I was like: “Yeah, it is what it is”
Heres my situation, I 8767 m sorta seeing this girl from work im 75, shes 77 and she has a kid. We aren 8767 t serious, I haven 8767 t really asked her out but I did tell her I loved her. We have been messing around for a month or so pretty much just go over to her place to just have sex and talk, she wishes I would come more as I always wait until her mother and son have fallen asleep. I know im eventually goanna have to stop avoiding them both and say hi. I am not quite sure how to talk to a 8 year old in a cool. collected manner like what do I say and ask? 8775 im banging your mother 8776 ? please guys help me out
The current mini heatwave here in the UK seems to be having a dramatic effect on the number of new members that we are getting on our Buzz55 Dating site for seniors over 55. This makes me wonder, does the hot weather make us Hot to Date?
People seem to be walking around with an extra spring in their step and are donning their bright summer clothes. Maybe it is the knowledge that summer is on the way and days out are here that makes us want to meet up with that someone special who we could share them with.
The bright days and longer evenings make it so much easier to meet up and offer us a much wider range of ideas of where and how to meet. The local park, the seaside if it is near enough or even a stroll around a town or village can be a great way to make that first meeting.
Enjoy the weather, join Buzz55 Dating and get out and about with a new friend today!
Vanity aside, we hit it off instantly. He 8767 s intelligent, confident, lively and could connect to me on almost every level. I didn 8767 t put much thoughts into it, because of our huge age gap. Of course I 8767 m attracted to him but it was way beyond his good looks. But at the same time, I encouraged him to date women his age and I continued seeing other people harmless, uncomplicated dates. We started comparing our dating experiences, laughing it out the next day after each successful/horrendous date.
I could use some advice. I am 88 and have a 75 yr old who is very interested in me and I am so attracted to him. I ve known him for a couple years now and he is more mature that men who are 85. I just think that is to much of a gap in age. Would I be robbing the craddle if we did go on a date to see what happens? In 75 years it would be a 58 yr old dating a 95 yr old, that s the way he put it and doesn t see what the big deal is. Is it just to much?
I've sent dozens of messages (not hundreds yet), along with "winks" (do these even work? or do women actually find them silly at best, offensive at the least?), with no response. I am paid on POF so I can see where a ton aren't read. A few read, some read then deleted and some deleted outright. I respect the deleted ones, so I don't even bother. A few of those were probably out of my league anyway (I was too old, or they were way more active or maybe interests didn't match). I had hoped that I would have gotten a little more response out of the others, especially ones who were mutual "meet me" that POF has. But even that didn't garner a response. So then I don't know if sending more messages is expected, tacky, pestering, or what. I feel like I need to based on what some women seem to be saying because mine are probably getting lost in the shuffle and I need to work at keeping myself visible.