Posted: 2017-11-03 04:25
The way we talk, the way we walk, our quick Witt, our sense of style non-European men typically don 8767 t have it. And despite the negative portrayals, black men are more than just great athletes and entertainers we are intelligent human beings who continually get knocked down by the system, yet get out of bed every day and try to find our way in a system that was strategically designed to result in our destruction.
I like white guys, hopefully see one to settle down with. Everyone have their own mind of their own, and think different, so we also love differently. when you like or love something you don't ask why, is just happen!!! Black women are strong no matter how the world looks at them..we don't give up, we try to make things work no matter the consequences...we love and respect our men.. so is there any reason why any man won't love us? In quote there is no why.. love sees no boundaries..
The Dutch and Congolese men&rsquo s experiences are echoed in many emerging market economies. My research focuses on migration and globalisation, primarily on what I call &ldquo frontier migration &rdquo : the movement of people, capital, technology, and ideas from a more &ldquo developed&rdquo economy to one that&rsquo s less &ldquo developed&rdquo . Through my work in India and earlier research in South Africa, I have concluded that migrant experience is over-determined by perceived socio-economic class and what the migrant looks like eye shape, height, hair texture, and race.
It 8767 s not about NEEDING another race to provide our self esteem. Some of us Black ladies just LIKE and PREFER White men cause they 8767 re gorgeous and that 8767 s our style and always will be. It 8767 s our business and our personal taste. I know who I am and I DON 8767 T NEED or HAVE to be with a Black man to prove I 8767 m proud of my race. I like White guys cause..Bro have you SEEN Ian Somerhalder, Rob Lowe, Chris Hesmworth? That 8767 s not about self esteem, it 8767 s about GREAT TASTE in men. I do have great self esteem and that 8767 s why I go for MY TYPE not the opposite.
Hey La Toya,
I am a (french) white guy. Just a word to cheer you up: I am really attracted to black girls for many reasons. And it 8767 s been like that since I was a boy, there 8767 s a kind of physical perfection that I find fascinating.
For me it is not clear why your name is a problem for you, it only sounds a bit weird. But I am sure of one thing: you 8767 ll find a nice guy white or whatever. Be patient :-)
Bises from France !!
LMAO, first I will correct the article writer and state that Steve Hardy might have comedian as his occupation, but he is a man that has been around for a while and knows. I did not buy his book, because I am statified with Michael Baisden book, which I store with my bibles. Other than that this artilce was hilarious! Loved it, although I did not always agree. Overall Black women need to choose better and broaden our horizons. There are many White men who have came from nothing, but created nothing into something. I concurr with Davla here. I m dating a White man now and I will tell you they do not always have it easy as society like to portray them having! As far as Black men who do not date Black women, oh well. Not concerned at all, because usually they are the ones we do not want and dating fat Black women who comes from the White man s garbage.
I was very depressed right before I discovered this blog. I read every single one of the comments. Sometimes being a Black woman (especially being named La Toya) can be overwhelming. I often don 8767 t use my first name on my resume. I have never been called to interview at a company when I used my first name. I can 8767 t tell you how much that hurts to know that I have to deny the most significant thing about me, in order to get the opportunity to sell myself.
Well I 8767 m from Arkanas almost 95 i have never dated outside my race but i have had white men who jas tried to talk to but I never would because of how everyone see international couples but this year I met a wonderful white man who adores me he changed my outlook on life love has no boundaries you can 8767 t help who you fall in love with no matter who doesn 8767 t like it I 8767 ve learned you live to be happy for self and if you love him give it a shot no matter who disagrees
Not only is the question flawed the whole social construct that created the question is flawed. It assumes that black women should be executives in by white men when 75 percent of all women /black or white/in public employment report sexual harassment on the job. Black women, with a third of their most able bodied men (men in their twenties and thirties) in jails and prisons will most likely to be the least likely to report hence the the stereotype.
To be honest, it should not matter what the shade of skin you have. At 57 and now married to a wonderful women now for over ten years, it has been wonderful. I view her as my bride that I wished came into my life 95 years ago. She sent me to hair school. And yes she is black. I 8767 ve met many beautiful women in my life, and there is a sexyness and beauty with women of color that is wonderful. For all those pale skinned men out there, do not overlook women of color, you may be missing out on the love of your life. Do not fall into some rut about women of color, they are as beautiful as any other women. And perhaps more so.
And again there it is. Truth be told we as Black women have to work on things as well. Thing is, Black men don t love us and we don t love Black men right? So why all this anger towards each other? These articles are generalizations that for the most part are true. Get over it. If you allow an article to upset you and make you feel some type of way you need Xanax not a mate.
White women are more passive and will do ANYTHING to keep their man happy. I myself could not imagine being with a white woman but from what I see from the guys around me they do things most women won t out of fear of losing their man. Hispanic and Blacc women might not (in their mate s eyes) do the things or be willing to do some things that a white woman would be ready for at the drop of a dime. But dont get it twisted thats only the Becky white women cuz trust I know some white girls thats bout that life..
I feel like as a honey sun kissed brown woman i wpuld be "SEEN" and "APPRECIATED" in a foreign country other than America. Our beauty is beautiful and not the standard here. Its sad. I get hit on by like 75 yr olds which are to which maybe speaks to that generation "swirling" is more the norm which is great or 55, 65 and older guys that had their families, their kids are ready to be bold and go after what they like. But that age group is way to old for me. Im in that generation where mixed couples were taboo. Gotta butn up my passport.
Bottom line, if you are fit and take care of yourself, and do not buy into the mainstream radio/television 8767 s degenerate, immoral culture where ignorance and criminality are praised above being kind, smart, or noble I 8767 d probably like you just fine. But if you live up to all of your own negative stereotypes, and actively avoid rising above them, I 8767 ll have nothing to do with you. That goes for any race. I judge by behavior, not by color but i 8767 m not 8775 colorblind 8776 enough to ignore statistics and probability in favor of brainwashing for the sake of 8775 diversity 8776 .
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How do you define acting like a white woman!? Previous BM posters of the original article stated that the angry Black Woman syndrome extended to Black Women with money and means probaby even more so because of their often times Women s Lib mentality. Are you implying that White Women have some innate characteristics that are not found in non-white races. What is your White Girl Trapped in a Black Body girlfriend doing that makes her better than other Black women in your experience with her?
All women fight an uphill battle in the workplace especially black women. Black women are strong and powerful in general, because of life 8767 s challenges and when they make it to the coporate level, there is nothing they haven 8767 t seen or can 8767 t handle. So, it is understandable why a white man is afraid of a black woman at that level, because all they know is what the media portrays so they really don 8767 t know the 8775 black woman 8776 personally or professionally, therefore they are left with assumptions and media stereotypes. There is way more substance to a black woman whether she is a CEO or works the Drive-Thru at McDonalds.
I feel the same about black women as I do about anyone If you pride yourself in negative things, and live up to the negative stereotypes, I probably will dislike you. If you are intelligent, kind, and do your best to rise above negative things, I probably think you are great. If you spend your weekends at the club, drunk, throwing yourself at losers who spit 8775 game 8776 I 8767 ll dislike you no matter who you are or where you 8767 re from.
I am at 75 year old black female who was ONLY ever dated out of my race. I 8767 ve always been attracted to men of other ethnicities and my family has always stood behind me %655. I will be marrying my fiancé, who is white this summer. I learned that if I wanted something.. I had to go after it. Mostly because of the stereotypes and the thought that white men don 8767 t approach black women. I am from a diverse area of central jersey and interracial dating is common. Don 8767 t get me wrong, I 8767 ve heard my peers talk about how 8775 they would never 8776 and about their extremely racists and ignorant families. My fiancé and I both have been lucky enough to come from two open families.
When first being in 6th grade i was introduced to people of different races in 6969. Never gave it a second thought. Through the years Ive found women of color much more interesting and also a closer connection with. So sad I did not activley allow that to resonate in my earlier life. But now I would tell people to not overlook those beautiful women. If you think someone else of different skin color or shade is not worthy of your attention, then you are falling short of so many wonderful women out there. Dark skinned women, know this your are beautiful. I prefer you over your light skinned sisters.