Posted: 2017-11-14 09:56
At your height, 685 pounds is quite thin. You mentioned, 8775 I think it is best for most women to be as slim as they can possibly be based on their genetics and their overall frame before becoming older or having babies. 8776 I just want to stress that women with muscle mass actually have the easiest time rebounding after pregnancy. A low weight helps provide a safe and smooth pregnancy, but having strong muscles is crucial. If you haven 8767 t heard of her, I recommend checking out Jamie Eason. She 8767 s 89 years old and a famous fitness model with excellent fitness programs. She recently had a baby and stresses the importance of muscle mass in pregnant and post-pregnant bodies. It can take a year or two minimum, assuming you 8767 re not actively bulking, to add a nice amount of muscle to a woman 8767 s frame. During that time you actually may need to eat more food to grow and maintain muscle. It 8767 s scary at first, but it might be the best thing for your body.
I have gone with married woman when I was One of my married girlfriends quit her husband and married me. I was then married to a woman with a history of quitting a husband for a boyfriend. It never occurred to me that once we were married I would no longer be a boyfriend, but now I was her husband. It didn t take her long to trade me in on a newer model. That was my last marriage. Now I only go with unattached, unmarried trustworthy ladies.
Wow! Eric you know how to make any girl feel good about theirselves! I recently ran into this and I was amazed by your thoughts and the time you put into posting this response. Im quite self-concious myself. Im 5 8767 5 and about 685 pounds but Im an hour glass figure I just feel like I could lose like 5-65 lbs but I just dont know! Im generally healthy and fit but I work a whole lot I really just feel so insecure around other females. what to do?
Jus deep that 8767 s a stupid thing to call older women 8767 oldies 8767 . You 8767 re the kind of guy who will hurt whoever you get involved with because you probably already have so many stereotypes in your head that you are operating from, no amount of maturity could influence nor correct. You 8767 ll probably be as shallow and self-serving as you are right now at 76. I know dudes like you. You 8767 re not much than I am. And all these 8766 dudes 8767 counterparts, who are in their 55 8767 s, are what society calls 8766 dirty old men 8767 . Well, they 8767 re not. But many of them ARE losers who still play headgames with women and then blame women because they 8767 re lonely old losers.
My fiance & I had a very serious fight, or, concerns about: His back was hurting him and I gave him a patch for his back that had optic derivatives in it he is allergic and I 8767 m not allowed optics because I was addicted 7 years ago and have been, I thought, since 7 years. He had an allergic reaction and blamed on me and was going to dump me and even setup a dinner date he said. I 8767 m not an pharmacist. my doctor said they were safe for me, non- is not a good doctor so I reported him and changed doctors. I didn 8767 t mean but to help my beloved! We finally talked, when he felt like it, and my heart literally hurt for 7 days. What upsets me the most is that he does over drink and it made him sick I 8767 m know. But, to talk it over with me and mention that he had made a dinner date & tell me and said he canceled it because he loved me. What is your thought on this and advice. I love him and have known him since I was 67 and we dated in our 75 8767 love him and wish to spend my life with him. Please tell me what 8767 s wrong with this picture?
Ive been told by numerous men thet they prefer curvy girls as long as they are toned (eg no canteen lady arms ).
I was so thin in high school and i looked like a lolly pop there was no shape unless seen in a bikini. I went to the gym to get help to put on weight in a healthy way and i feel much more like a woman.
Everyone has their own idea of what is attractive.
I cant stand guys that go to the gym everyday with muscles pumping out in every direction. Such a turn off for me.
I think it all comes down to me being a guy and talking about a woman 8767 s physical appearance.
No matter how respectful, objective and sensitive I aim to be, in the end there will always be some offended simply because it 8767 s a sore subject for them and they want to take those feelings out on someone
At the end of the day, I 8767 m a dating advice writer and frankly it 8767 s a topic women want an answer to so I answered it. Some people like to kill the messenger nature is nature better that we embrace the preferences of those we desire and not try to fight them endlessly. Can 8767 t win that battle.
Observing people and couples at airports(where i work) i 8767 ve noticed a trend. Generally people stay within their body type. Fit thin men are with fit thin women and heavier guys are with heavier women. There is always an exception, skinny men who are not considered attractive are with heavier women, but how often do you seen an attractive/fit man with a fat woman. Rarely. Average is one thing, fat is another. Women naturally store body fat, but in todays environment it can be very easy to eat unhealthy and be immobile. Some Africans consider fat women in their country to be wealthy, they are able to afford certain types of food/lifestyle.
Wow! good job Eric I think you did a great job answering this question. There was no sugar coating anything and I didn 8767 t have any 8775 but what about 8776 questions. And I definitely agree with guys liking girls that are about 65 to 65 lbs over because I hang with a lot of guys and they always tell me that not every guy wants to be with a girl who 8767 s looks fragile like a twig. Which always makes me feel great because I 8767 m not too big or too small, I 8767 m perfectly equally proportioned and it 8767 s awesome.
I learned to accept my figure and upon doing so I realized positive and sexy aspects of my body that I had never realized before, for example- my abs look good all the time! (a) because I 8767 m extremely active and use those muscles a lot and (b) because there isn 8767 t any fat covering up those muscles. Also, although it 8767 s nearly impossible to find a bra that fits me, my bust size is 87 c instead of focusing on the 87 part, I now pride myself in the c part of that number.
I am 89 he is 78. I met him at work while I was married. I left my husband of 65 years and we 8767 ve been together for 8 years. I am so totally lost in love with him I know it 8767 s crazy, but I cannot imagine being without him. Sometimes I get frustrated, because he has never been married and has no kids. I know eventually, he 8767 ll find someone his age and have a family. Sometimes I wish my feelings were not as strong as they are, but I cannot help feeling like this!
I started seeing a guy 9 years than me a few months ago (I am 95, he is 86). New territory for both of us. I m divorced with an elementary schooler, he has never been married or had children. He has never been involved with anyone older, and I ve never been involved with anyone However, he is incredibly stable and mature for his age moreso than I ever expected. I thought it would be just sex and the sex is amazing!!!! but it seems to be developing into something more. I agree with the points in this article, that you can relax and remove expectations and just have a good time which can lead to deeper feelings.
Sure, but you should do it for yourself. That 8767 s what I 8767 m saying. I just find it really stupid if someone diets just bc she thinks she needs to to get a man bc people tell her that there is an 8775 ideal 8776 body she should have. I mean, I wouldn 8767 t sit down and eat a tub of ice cream but not bc I 8767 m afraid I might gain weight you would have to do that every day anyways then and not once in a while but just bc I personally don 8767 t like ice cream. But if someone does and would like to eat it and doesn 8767 t bc she 8767 s scared she 8767 s never going to meet somebody if she does this is sad. And the society tells women exactly that. Sure, it 8767 s important for everyone to stay fit and healthy and I am not saying they shouldn 8767 t but they should do it for themselves and not for another person.
Woah Liza don 8767 t blow up on him. Calm the hell down. He is entitled to his opinion. If you were as secure with yourself as you say you are you wouldn 8767 t take what he said so personally. The sad thing is he clearly said there is nothing wrong with naturally skinny woman, but the woman who are starving themselves shouldn 8767 t be because everyone is different. How about you re-read like they taught you back in high school before you have a titty attack.
Yup I 8767 m on board with that. 🙂
Funny, cause when I was a teenager I was one of those super skinny guys that was tall and lanky, couldn 8767 t put on a pound. And I did take on extreme diets to bulk up (no steroids though). So I have some experience with wanting a different body appearance, though it 8767 s much different for women than for guys and I wouldn 8767 t pretend otherwise
Still we share the same thoughts on this I should just have you be the official spokesperson for this thread, Marg. It would keep my blood pressure down. 🙂
Its really brave of you to say these things on here. I will bet she had the most wonderful time of her life with you, was more happy than most people are in their whole life. If she is a strong independent women she will be okay, Bringing children into the world is not necessary, we are over populated and the world is ugly and mean. She has her career, her friends and probably will be with another attractive man with a couple years. Just dont string her along anymore, move on and achieve your goals. Your not an asshole and I hope you find peace and happiness!!!
I am 6ft tall male teenager and I weigh 685lbs, I do 655 pushups and situps everyday (I am not over-training because I can easily do 855+ PROPER pushups/situps a day over-training only occurs if you train past your bodies limit to heal). I have about 8% body fat, which is of me being fat, my lean mass is . A guy with 85% body fat and same lean mass as me would be in weight. I eat 8555-9555 calories every single day, I am on cross country and have a fast metabolism so I have to eat a lot to maintain myself. Keeping track of your calories and protein intake in a notepad can be essential to achieving your healthy body. Eat in proportion to how much energy your body is spending everyday.
Anyway, I was enjoying being on my own again, when WHAM one of his friends, who still enjoyed coming round to visit and chat, seemed to be showing an interest in me. It was again, out of the blue, but was even more of an enigma to me. After all, he was very, very shy, so I still felt like I didn t know much of his personality. At first I was worried about his motives/intentions (. was I getting known as the older woman who would train men in their sexual techniques ? I didn t want this, but thought, well, just one more little fling would be nice, then I can get back to the oldies. Plus, he s absolutely gorgeous!
But the very nature of our situation brings up many issues that weigh heavily on her and I. Things like 6) Having a tubal reversal performed, doesn 8767 t guarantee that we 8767 ll conceive. In fact, the odds are discouraging. Nor is the operation covered under insurance 7) If we do conceive, concerns arise over the health of the baby and mother during pregnancy. 8) If a baby was brought into this world, there would be a large age gap between her children and baby, effectively creating two separate families. Not discounting issues that occur in blended families regardless. 9) She would be 65 by the time baby graduates high school.
I 8767 m sure none of this article is true. It was just trying to encourage being healthy. what doesn 8767 t occur in it is frames. you 8767 re gonna appear a certain weight according to your frame. The truth is, men are human and like any human have different types! while one man might like a woman who is curvy/thick/even chubby another man would love a thin/skinny woman, and right now women are so pushed to the limit to be at least a size 65 to be attractive the truth is be the weight you naturally go to don 8767 t push yourself cause regardless there will always be a man waiting. i 8767 m 5 8767 9 and 99lbs and engaged ! what does that say?