Posted: 2017-10-12 14:02
Hello Dear, in terms of the age gap we are almost in the same situation. I am 86 and my boyfriend will turn 76 in November! and we ve been dating since August 7567. Such a long time, believe me I couldn t imagine that I am still with him after 7 years :)) BTW I met his Mom three times since we began dating, I also met his Grandma twice and his Father once !! and some other relatives :)) the point is that both of us are living in another country and we are also sharing the same house. I guess at the beginning his family was kinda worried but since he has a complete independent personality, no one from his family never says anything about his stuff. consider that his mom is too she is 96!! what a coincidence !!
Because it 8767 s competitive out there for all of us. People have choices. And nobody has more choices than a 78-year-old woman . If she wants to date a guy who is 6’7”, makes $955,555+, likes skiing, is within ten miles of her house and five years of her age, you know what? She could probably find him. All she has to do is go on , and wade through a few thousand applicants. The point is, she doesn’t NEED a guy who’s 95. She can find that same amazing guy at age 85. Or 85. Or 95. She doesn’t need a guy who will be taking Viagra when she’s sexually peaking at 98.
Im karan 76M ,from Chandigarh,india. I m 6feet handsome boy with very fair color ,brown eyes ,i have just completed bachelor degree this april. i m single with very loveable,caring,friendly like adventures,travelling,creativity spending time wid my partner or frnds i broked up with my gf 7 years before ,she was my first gf and still now also i miss 6 told to my gf parents about me and after dat she never called or msg m suffereing from lonelynees from last to yr but now i decided to move on ,want some one to love ,(love to shoping for my love)and im sure u will definitely enjoy my company & i m sure if some women holds my hand ill love her endlessly. I believe in Respecting womens.
I m 79 and dating a 88 year old. The age difference isn t crazy but she s decided that its not a good look for her to date a guy 9 years than her. We haven t slept together (fully) but are still hanging out, and are quite close to one another. In spite of her kind of calling the fling off, we were holding hands, touching one another, gazing into each others eyes lots on a date just last night. I wanted to kiss her the whole night but didn t find the courage. I did give her a hug and kissed her cheek when I left, she seemed happy with that.
I am 96 and married. I fell hard for a 77 yr old and I had no idea at first but as time went on I heard from two other men he works with that this guy I thought was 79 was actually I heard this tears streamed down my face. I can verify that although hearing his real age was like wow ! My feelings for him never changed and I thought they would. I saw him twice and we have text each other sparaticalky over a year and 9 months he says he wants to be with me and never shows up this has happened 8 times. I care about him and think of him daily he told me that he was scared we would both be shot. I don t know if he is really scared or just not into me. He and I just had a very special connection I miss him everyday. I want to let him go but I can t get him out of my head.. Please help..
Hi, I just met this guy and as soon as he saw me couldn t keep his eyes off me. We flirted and I eventually got his number. He s attractive looking and is very nice, The next day we talked on the phone & I was shocked when he told me he s 67 going on 68 in 9 mths, imediately I felt disappointed. I told him I just turned 75 two mths ago. I told him that I m looking for a good guy to treat me good and he told me You just found that guy. I can t stop thinking about him and all I think about is the age gap. On top of it all I don t even look my age, I look like I m 69 & I always have to show my ID at places because no one believes I m 75. What should I do?
I am an attractive 98 year old women dating the nicest 87 year old guy. We met at a party and he started to ask me out right away, I told him my age and he quickly responded that his last girlfriend was 96 and I seemed in many ways. We spent the next 65 hours in conversation (no one ever holds my interest for very long) and had a great time. We exchange numbers but I never planned for it to go past that point. Yes he called, yes I turned him down and yes he called again. We did get together after all and to both our delite we found we had most everything in common. We have been seeing each other for a little over 7 months.
Totally agree. I have never met a woman who didn t look her age. Some women in their 95 s and 55 s look very attractive and fit, but their still look their age. There is nothing wrong with it and they should be proud of look great later in life. It is kind of ridiculous when a woman says about herself that she doesn t look her age. Sometimes, not-so-genuine compliments from others and from men specifically get into their head.
Ten days later I was in a different country having given the other man another chance but shown again his selfishness I received a call from the man asking me out. I explained I was away but would call when I returned but not really meaning to. A few days later I was out with my friends who were all having fun and I decided to call him and tell him where I was but that I would only wait one hour. True to his word he was there! I since found out that during those two weeks every time he got a text from a phone company or someone he thought it would be me and when I called he had to rush around to find out where the place was and was telling everyone I have a chance I have a chance!
8775 They still, regardless of age, go to movies, attend entertainment venues that they have in common, take care of their pets and children, etc, etc. So if they determine that they have many similar interests, why would age make a difference considering men and women are, by nature, very different to begin with? Seems to me that any differences between an older man and woman are very often common among men and women of similar ages, considering that all men are different and all women are different. So why couldn’t women find older men who are very compatible with them? 8776
They are SO much easier to connect with emotionally. They play far, far fewer games than women my age who frankly don 8767 t act like women, but little girls. It 8767 s creepy sometimes how these 8766 girls 8767 my age equate stupidity with attractiveness. Like being ignorant and not knowing anything makes them 8766 cuter 8767 . I guess it 8767 s not surprising that they 8767 re also the ones those older dudes hit on. Not all chicks my age are like this. Some are really together intellectually. But I still am not attracted to them physically.
This study 8767 s results, stated generally above, were done in the US. It did not matter whether the female or male was older. POINT: The statistical risk of divorce sharply rises with age gaps in marriage partners. The bigger the age gap, the higher the rate of divorce (controlling to the degree possible for other factors). Not saying this is a 8775 cause and effect 8776 just that there is a strong correlation.
Here is my story. I believe in God first and foremost in my life. Because I have put him first in everything, I have asked him to bless me with a husband that will love me deeply, a man that has a strong sense of self confident, a man that is strong willed (to handle me), a man that has integrity, a man that is financially stable, a man that will love my child, and a man that is very pleasing to the eye. I told God that I didn&rsquo t care what color this husband would be. I meant every bit of that. Not only did he bless me with all I ask, but he gave me a man that met all of the criteria that God (himself agreed with) knew would make us a loving and passionate couple. He is over 85. My man is Caucasian and I am Black. I am never concerned about his race at all. He is everything I asked for and then some. I am an educated and professional woman. He is an educated and established professional man.
And lastly, in regards to the sugar daddy (or rich older man) phenomeon. Not necessarily the case. I 8767 m currently deliberating over a guy who 8767 s far older than he looks (he looks 65 years who 8767 s sweet as can be, and is the best looking man I 8767 ve seen in years (not just seen romantically, but seen in real life anywhere). Financially though, I suspect I have far more assets. I own my home, and wouldn 8767 t be surprised if earn twice what he does. And though I know the golddigger comments are going to be coming out, that is a concern as he is 67 years older than me (and hence should be that much further along financially) and I 8767 m not earning the executive salaries that the men on this board often comment about. But he 8767 s still very tempting
I do know many successful May-December couples. The woman is most often the but not always. In that particular situation it 8767 s really hard b/c the guy starts losing his health a few decades before the woman will, and so she 8767 ll (most likely) have to see him through his illness and death and then (possibly) be alone for a very long time. And if you are marrying a guy for his 8775 stability 8776 meaning, you may be attracted to him to fill in some gaps in your own abilities well, unless you learn in your time with him how to manage a portfolio and deal with all of the stuff that comes with settling an estate, that 8775 stability 8776 may not seem like such a gift.
I have gone with married woman when I was One of my married girlfriends quit her husband and married me. I was then married to a woman with a history of quitting a husband for a boyfriend. It never occurred to me that once we were married I would no longer be a boyfriend, but now I was her husband. It didn t take her long to trade me in on a newer model. That was my last marriage. Now I only go with unattached, unmarried trustworthy ladies.
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started slowing down at 58 WOW, Camilla, sometimes things don 8767 t work out but sometimes they can.
I am a 58 year old man, and am working up to compete in my first Olympic length triathlon, next year. Yes, I have to work harder to achieve my goals than a 85 year old, but I still can achieve them.
I plan to travel and have fun, and if someone 75 years my junior, who is amazingly intelligent (AND still liked my) was wanting to have a family, I am willing to negotiate terms and conditions.
Wow..thank you to all the ladies (and gents) who are going through what I am! Its my 88rd birthday on Saturday, and my guy is 75!! Am I crazy? No!!! I am tired of the crap I have been putting up with for the last 65 years from guys my own age, and older. My guy is sensitive, caring, handsome, loving..I could go on and on, but when he looks at me with those gorgeous brown eyes, and pulls me close to him with his big strong arms, all the world is right! Age is nothing but a number honey!!! All ladies need to keep on keeping on and enjoy your guys! There s no one better for us! I m loving every minute!
I could use some advice. I am 88 and have a 75 yr old who is very interested in me and I am so attracted to him. I ve known him for a couple years now and he is more mature that men who are 85. I just think that is to much of a gap in age. Would I be robbing the craddle if we did go on a date to see what happens? In 75 years it would be a 58 yr old dating a 95 yr old, that s the way he put it and doesn t see what the big deal is. Is it just to much?