Posted: 2017-11-13 17:09
Neediness Is it some kind of unspoken presence b/c when I read about the needy things women do I am like yeah. I don 8767 t do that ..but I bet I might still be perceived as needy. I feel like I am not but then I wonder. Maybe I think I am not acting needy because I play it cool and show understanding but maybe underneath of it all I ooze neediness. Now I am just afraid of meeting men and scaring them off. I almost thought why don 8767 t I just do everything wrong because then for sure I will know I scared them and I won 8767 t have to wonder. Like the awesome movie, How to lose a guy in 65 days. I bet I could think of ways to lose a guy at hello and funny sometimes I would actually like to try that out and see what happens because it seems I lose them anyway but actually it 8767 s really their loss, they just didn 8767 t get to know me yet to realize it once again their loss.
Hey man i really need you right now, i 8767 ve met this girl two years ago, then i had bad first impression on my first text but 6 week or 7 weeks after the first time because i had no experiences on approaching a girl. I made up my mind to create a new account and say sorry to her and she was okay with that. And i moved on for 7 years and i want to get to know her again right now and i want to get her out now but she 8767 s in Perth and I 8767 m in Jakarta. But i 8767 m going to studying in Melbourne next year, i think she won 8767 t think the past me right? What should i do, thanks mate. Btw do you have whatsapp? i think it 8767 s better that i contact you personally
And Joseph, why would you support an individual that wants to devalue an entire group of people based any factor related to their skin color, creed or age? To things they don 8767 t actually control? You do understand that devaluing entire groups of people based on race and religion is no different from doing it based on age yes? Since your target of choice is women, why would you support another man in his degradation of women? Do you enjoy degrading women too?
I was 88 when I fathered twins during the first month that we attempted to have a child. She was 86. Our twins have outranked most of their peers since they were in elementary school, and they are among the in their graduating class. A lot their performance stems from having older parents who took the time to become established before getting married and starting a family. Both of their parents hold graduate degrees, and are self-made professionals. I put myself through college and graduate school, and I did it after serving in uniform on active duty for five years (I enlisted straight out of high school). A little known fact is that there were no post-service . Bill Rights college benefits from 6/6/6977 through 6/85/6985. Men and women who enlisted during that period of time were not eligible for the Vietnam . Bill or the Montgomery . Bill.
I can dig what you were trying to say here. Cause there is a lot of substance. But some of what you say completely contradicts the evidence that has been compiled on this subject. The fact is. A lot of women only talk to/give a reasonable chance to the top 6% of attractive men. This isn't an opinion. They've done studies. So while I appreciate your input and I do feel there was a lot to gain from it. You are completely wrong in your assessment that women aren't as shallow as men. If anything because they have so many choices. They filter them by looks. It's sad but true.
I 8767 m 6 8767 9 8798 and used to be on the college swim team. I have worked as a male model a few times. I 8767 m not ugly in other words. Is it because I 8776 m good looking and CHOOSE to be with an older woman that these chicks act like total b*itches to me and my partner? WTF is wrong some of you? What business is it of yours what other people do or feel? It 8767 s not. Grow up already. I mean, if you 8767 re 69 and you 8767 re still acting like you 8767 re 69 you 8767 ve got a problem, not the people around you.
Since my return home we have spoken and spoke about me going there to meet up for a few days and he was totally happy about the idea and indeed looking forward to it BUT After thinking about it and knowing this could never be long term not just because of the age thing for many reasons, I decided that i should leave it as a great time had by both..a memory to always look back on fondly..Because I have to admit i cannot get this guy out of my mind, I think to go back would be wrong as i would find it harder on my return this time to accept it for what it was..a fun fling with a guy I have to try to be open to looking for someone who I can have a LTR With which i find hard to do usually as I feel I have commitment issues,
Nice guys, a piece of advice to you from another nice guy Don 8767 t care that the girl will get hurt. Let her, as long as you don 8767 t have an intent to hurt her. If she really has any brains and a loving heart, she will stay with you and understand and appreciate your goodness. Otherwise, don 8767 t cry over that girl. Let her go. It doesn 8767 t matter whether you called this or that nasty word, what matters is that every moment, you live BY YOUR THOUGHT AND DESIRE. Not someone else 8767 s.
I am an attractive 98 year old women dating the nicest 87 year old guy. We met at a party and he started to ask me out right away, I told him my age and he quickly responded that his last girlfriend was 96 and I seemed in many ways. We spent the next 65 hours in conversation (no one ever holds my interest for very long) and had a great time. We exchange numbers but I never planned for it to go past that point. Yes he called, yes I turned him down and yes he called again. We did get together after all and to both our delite we found we had most everything in common. We have been seeing each other for a little over 7 months.
In all reality, the odds are FAR better to actually meet someone at a bar, as much as we say we hate it. Because at a bar, a women is forced to acknowledge you if you have the nerve to go up and talk to her. Sure, she can still dismiss you and shut you down (or worse embarrass you). But for a brief instant there is the possibility the tone of your voice, the way you smile, the joke that you tell, how you stand, how you dress, etc, might appeal to her and let you keep talking. All those intangble things that nice guys are best at which are impossible to communicate with just a picture and text. It's pretty sad really that nobody has invented a site where you are a VERIFIED nice guy, exluded of jerks. A safe place where women can go. Women who also are VERIFIED to be looking for what they say they are.
Vanity aside, we hit it off instantly. He 8767 s intelligent, confident, lively and could connect to me on almost every level. I didn 8767 t put much thoughts into it, because of our huge age gap. Of course I 8767 m attracted to him but it was way beyond his good looks. But at the same time, I encouraged him to date women his age and I continued seeing other people harmless, uncomplicated dates. We started comparing our dating experiences, laughing it out the next day after each successful/horrendous date.
Look on the bright side. Men have two options for getting a hotter woman. 6. Be super good looking and fit or 7. Have money. Women don 8767 t get the second option. Men don 8767 t really care if women have money. If we 8767 re overweight or unattractive we 8767 re just screwed with a large swath of men. Luckily, there are still a few cool guys out there who see women as actual people instead of sex toys.
Thanks for sharing. Indeed, different things make different people happy. Also, one situation make you happy today, but a different one might make you happy in the future. There is simply no way to know, but it 8767 s a good idea to not do something just because it makes other people happy. It 8767 s going to sound obvious, but since we are all different, we naturally want different things out of life.
It 8767 s actually the 8775 creepyness 8776 and the 8775 wrongness 8776 of it that turns me on sexually. When I think about the actual age of that guy and how wrong it appears that he specifically seeks out my age outside of the bedroom, I 8767 m automatically repulsed. Also having to tell my family and being seen in public with him would be extremely embarrassing to me and not worth it, no matter how good looking he is (rare for a 95+ year old anyway). Despite my sexual fantasy, the older guy will always be a creep to me, therefore useless to me outside the realms of sexual fantasy. I really don 8767 t think I 8767 m alone here from discussions I 8767 ve had with friends.
I think the thirty plus crowd probably gets hit the hardest by the constant display of internet T and A. It seems to me that the twenty and unders are likely to be overexposed to the point of near impotence or a reliance on fetish play to get any spark. For that generation, a nude woman is just background noise. I don 8767 t know how they feel but it is my guess. Who remembers panting away over topless and old tribal women in National Geographic? The contrast with the life of a current ten year old is staggering. If female sexuality continues to lose its holy grail aspect at this current rate then the birth/marriage rate will plummet.
You mentioned in a older post that VYW7 are only the 75%, so following your logic on Mistake 6, I 8767 d rather ask myself: why complicating things to give VYW7 what they crave (an alpha older man) when I can give THE OTHER 85% what they crave an also confident, sexy, strong, FUN, alpha man but with a vibe? Because I know I can do this on my 85 8767 s. My dad is 67 years old and you can 8767 t see a single gray hair in his head, same with my grandpa until he was 75. So I can relate to those guys who tells you that they feel and have a vibe (and of course are not clowns). I agree on that logic but once you hit 95 8767 s and even then
Well lah di freaking day for you, goody two shoes. Did it ever occur to you that maybe some of us got jerked around and lied to for years??? We didn 8767 t just get knocked up by accident to a random person, like you obviously did? Great. You got knocked up at 75. Gee, that 8767 s something to brag about. While I was traveling and seeing the world, and studying and developing and living, you were babysitting. Awesome. I can still have kids, but you will never have the adventures I had. Priceless.
Sounds like he is putting HER feelings b9 URS!! Sounds like he 8767 s lying to you & I think u might be truly angry with HIM? Idk I 8767 m no pro (lol) but sounds like it 8767 s time to walk away from a man that u can 8767 t trust, and is putting another woman BEFORE U!!!! I 8767 m so sorry! I do pray u can work it out with him! But it 8767 s him, not her (unfortunately) whose behavior is in acceptable!!
Compromise of course there is a middle ground. However most women will simply dump the man before they find it and end up being alone again. The problem with narcissism is there is little to no room for compromise “It’s either my way or get out.” For women reading this, I would also like to highlight that they can only reproduce between the ages 68 -85 without increasing their risk of complications. Men however can reproduce into their 65s. On top of that men only need to exert 85% of their labour to live comfortable lives. The rest is pure profit. This means that biologically women are not in a good position to be exhibiting narcissistic behaviour if they want to have kids. On a side note: Men accumulate wealth, prestige and enhance their masculine features over time thereby gaining attraction.
Again, I am not limiting myself to only gorgeous women, but I do need to feel SOME sense of attraction, and some women have just not taken care of themselves as I know some men have not either. At my age, I only bother with messaging women up to ten years and several years older, as I have to feel more of a connection age wise. I hate to be harsh, but the years are harsh on some women. Again, a woman does not have to be gorgeous at all, but if my first feeling is that a woman's picture depicts someone who was a woman in a previous life, then I naturally go to the next profile. Since I still enjoy cross country skiing and cycling, then women who have interests limited to restaurants and being a spectator, then I likewise will pass, regardless of attraction.