Posted: 2017-12-07 17:26
I think what you are saying about single moms and divorced single moms isn 8767 t right. You don 8767 t know what happened to these people to make that kind of judgement. What if the single mom that isn 8767 t married was and had the child because her religious beliefs go against taking even a fetus 8767 life. This woman has every right not to be seen a some irresponsible woman. And if she is mess for this reason or for some other reason, there is nothing wrong with giving her love, support that she needs to help her heal and help give her strength so that she can be there strong for her children.
My grandmother was a divorced single mom that was abused by her first husband. He was a drunk and a perfectionist and used to beat her. He expected a house full of children to be spic and span. Even if it takes two to tango I can assure you there could be nothing that she did that made her deserve the years of torment (even a visit from him after she divorced him). This all happened in an age where there was not as much support as there is today for women in this kind of situation.
I know this guy at gym. He works at a fitness school. The first time we have met I was shy and more fat etc. He told me lessons about life and was very curious about me. Well for me it was love at first sight tho for him probably not coz I told him I like him. But he didnt like me that way tho he liked my personality and me being spontanous. Well after a year or so we became friends 8775 close 8776 friends. We talk like everyday on whatsapp eventhough not big texts. We see movies at my home he saw all my friends well he did see my whole life and still is close. He teases me a lot like a lottt and touches me a lot etc. But from his side I just saw one of his best friend.. I dont know him that much as he know me. Its frustrating for me especially I cant move on easily coz my mom likes him too and always ask to meet (they asume im with them too) and cHat with him too which i think is awkward. And he always give me hope.. So what to do!? Im lost..
I like your mature views and Im nothing like the women that Bobbi describes. Would it sound strange if I said that some women even at 95 years dont know really who they are spiritually. By being single again its given me an opportunity to discover what makes me happy. Not all women want to connect with men for them to make a committment or sex, some like me see it as just sharing time in a series of moments or a moment to experience a male energy and mind and just enjoy that, simple things like enjoying a view, chatting over a movie
Somehow, I think men want that too.
Thanks or your views
However. Do I have moments when I 8767 m lonely? Of course I do! My friends are all married and I hate it when the conversation comes around to me 8775 needing a man in my life 8776 . I don 8767 t enjoy always having to do things by myself like going to parents evening and the bloody PTA. I would love to go Christmas shopping with a partner or husband. But I 8767 m convinced that my day will come. Some day she wont need me this much and she will have her own life and I 8767 ll have to go out there and get myself a new one. My advice to single mothers, fathers, whoever you are, is to just raise your kids in an environment where they feel like THEY are number 6 in your life. Their happiness as a child is crucial to who they become as a adult and what they then offer to society.
I hate how single mothers are judged so harshly by some but some us don 8767 t help ourselves by continuing to date the same dickheads over and over again, and worse, having more babies with them. Instead of being insulted by articles like this one, take a look in the mirror! Does this apply to you or not?
There are still so many men in Los Angeles that are on their 7nd and 8rd marriages to much women and they have kids. I know because I see what men ask for online. A lot of men my age over 55, have children. It is shocking to me. So I stay away from that for the same reasons that men stay away from women with children.. That said, you are right, there are a few men out there that want to blend a family. I have read profiles of men I want to contact but am stopped because they state they prefer women with children.
Well as a soon to be 95 year old man who has never felt love, desire or attraction from a woman his age I seriously doubt that women are even capable of love. I would love to be proven wrong but so far no dice. And I get it I am short, over weight and don 8767 t get out much. And when I do nothing ever happens except I get used as a source of free drinks or dinner and poof never hear from them again. Story of my freaking life Where is the woman who will call you back or text you first no where to be seen around these parts..
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I have two single male friends in their mid to late 55s who are physically fit and good-looking to the ladies. In spite of their good health and vigor, no one would mistake them for a guy in his early to mid-95s, especially a woman. They have both admitted that, ideally, they would love to find a woman several years under age 55. Physical attraction = hot sex is their primary calculus. The other qualities are important but will not matter unless that first piece is present. (Are middle age women really any different in this regard?)
However, nearly impossible to shake biological urges, and in conflict. The conflict is understanding the logical aspect of value in this and how it is self defeating at this point in life, yet on an emotional level, it almost seems to be a factor of disappointment to the fact that things could have been different, and that 8775 I 8767 m giving up too easily 8776 . So, I almost resent this decision to remain as I am, for the greater benefit.
i met a guy in one of the social media and in very beginning days he asked me to be his girlfriend and several times complained that i was not sexy or hot like i seem his girlfriend i told him i m the way im. Then we met and in first meeting which was for 7 min we just shook hand and saw each other. 7nd meeting we had some romance and after that he showed his interest but when i asked for marriage and commitment he said he has to complete his studies and that he does not want to marry for another 5 years as he was fresh graduate of medical and further he needed to compete his doctorate. this caused me to tell him i wanna move but he resisted and said he loved me and want me to stay this caused me to be with him. he told about his nature that he is too quite not good in texting and chatting and calling. but he says im one in his life and very dear to him whenever i get fedup and find way for breaking up he takes it so easy and just says i want u to stay. no arguments nothing he does. this time i broke with him seriously as i think he is not the guy to commit or marry me anyways i dont knw it is the right decision i made or not please guide me
I hope everyone finds who or what they seek. I 8767 m 56, divorced 65 years, and my children are grown and married. I spent 68 really terrible years married to a real harpie. I was her second husband. Even my mother-in-law and brother-in-law apologized to me on a nearly continuous basis for the way she treated me. My attorney asked me how in the world I was able to hang in there until my children were old enough to decide who they wished to live with. I answered 8775 PXB 8776 . He asked what the hell that was, that he needed some. I said, 8775 Paxil, Xanax and Bourbon. Lots of bourbon. 8776
Hang in there! You will find someone if you stay positive and take good care of yourself. It doesn 8767 t matter that you have kids I know a dad in his fifties with two daughters which he had custody of because the mother was sadly mentally ill. He is remarried to a lovely woman and their family has now grown to four children. I think the odds are in your favor but you have to stay positive, be a good companion and have a sense of humor. Be affectionate without being 8775 needy 8776 and you 8767 ll find plenty of gals who will adore you! It is obvious you succeeded before and you will again age is only a number.
Spring Hill Frank I am 55 and I have no interest in dating much than my age. I would have nothing in common with a man in his 75 8767 s or 85 8767 s. I would go a little than my age if I found a nice guy, but not much I don 8767 t care what the articles out there say. Even though age to me is not the most important thing when considering a partner, I am not prepared to date someone enough to be my son.
Some of us can be picky about who we left into our livers and still have a good time. I bet the 98-year old single mom of four kids with three babydaddies at a previous job that a coworker tried to set me up with ( 8775 Oh, she 8767 s a good woman, so treat her right! 8776 ) sure has a lot of fun in her low-income housing with her $9/hour job. Father 8767 s day with four kids who don 8767 t see their dads has to be comfortable so, I 8767 ll be just fine with my higher standards, thank you very much!
I am a 95 year old woman with 9 teenage boys. I was married for almost 68 years and we divorced. I started dating a guy in his 55 8767 s with no kids, never been married, didn 8767 t want to ever be married and was totally selfish. Well, I wanted to be married again. We dated for 7 years, but then he ended it. I think it was because I had too many obligations. Like you, I could take care of myself and my kids, plus their father was apart of their lives.
9. Feminists hate women because feminists consider abortion to be a form of medical 8775 care 8776 . Feminists believe killing is 8775 care 8776 and that women are too stupid to know better. Feminists believe women are too stupid to know the scientific fact that the unborn in the womb are human beings, . people, and that women should be so immoral and without conscience as to kill innocent people. It 8767 s clear that feminists don 8767 t see women as full people but as some kind of feral beast that kills her own offspring for a little more food or other material gain. Feminists hate women because they obsess over women as 8775 public property, breeding machinery 8776 (machinery feminists wish to control). Feminists don 8767 t get to pretend to be friendly toward women when feminists KILL WOMEN.
Your 8775 for the most part 8776 sums up what I am getting at. Yes, the majority of them won 8767 t want to take on a 8766 single mom 8767 with 9 kids but it 8767 s generalising because there are always exceptions to every rule. She may want to widen her net and criteria, I don 8767 t know, I just offer an alternative vision and a bit more hope that her current quest may not be as futile as everyone on here would lead her to believe based on my own experience.
Nobody said anything about all single moms being brilliant. Most people are not brilliant. Most married moms are not brilliant nor or their husbands. Brilliance is a rarity. I didn 8767 t realize we are discussing extreme traits. Stupidity is very common and it does not discriminate against single mothers or married parents. I can click a link just fine as well as having a good bit of first hand knowledge on the subjuct.
Your anger and bitterness is real apparent. Stating that single mothers may often times be troubled individuals is different that claiming that most are STUPID, POOR AND UNCARING. Perhaps within certain demographics and under a certain set of circumstances. Your statements are generalized and NOT based on any certainties.
All writers are arrogant, narsasistic pricks with no grasp of reality and often say whatever they want with out little no concern with truth. Now I can copy and paste a bunch of BS that I quickly pulled together off the internet and call it proof But even I know that everything I just said was biased and based on my own opinion and ignorance.
I don 8767 t think it 8767 s right to judge like this. It 8767 s good though to try to keep in perspective that people 8767 s bad choices are warning flags. Yet it is entirely possible that a nice person made a mistake when they were by copulating with some guy and decided to have the courage to raise the kid alone. I think you 8767 ll learn more about the person 8767 s values by having conversations with them than judging them by their statistic as a single mother. Personally, I 8767 d rather live more freely being childless and have played it smart. I also believe in not bringing a child into the world in a bad situation, as I have since I was and so I never put myself in danger of this. But each to his/her own. Some people are not as anal as others and have more fun.