Posted: 2017-11-15 02:06
This may seem like an obvious warning sign. No one likes to be called names, even when it’s innocent teasing by friends. The increased awareness of bullying behavior has brought this warning sign more attention. The old rhyme “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me” certainly isn’t true. Names, particularly if they are hurled at you by someone who claims to love you, can be terribly painful. If people you don’t really care about call you names, it may not be as upsetting. If that person is your boyfriend or girlfriend it becomes a whole different story. As in the first warning sign calling names is about control and humiliation.
My boyfriend is two years than me I 8767 m 79, i got it all going a good job a nice family. He hates all my friends, he has had a fight with my brother for insulting me btw. I stuck by him. And then last week he pushed me i cracked my head open he claimed it was an accident went as far as to hoping me wearing heels. He has slapped me before but claimed it was due to the alcohol. All my close friends hate him. He has stopped me from going out and doing things i would normally a do. He calls me at least once every 85mins mind you i work. I nearly got sacked for picking up his phone calls because i know if i don 8767 t it will be a nightmare when i check my phone on my break. He calls me all names I 8767 m too far deep i loved him at one point but I 8767 m slowly realising I 8767 m becoming an empty shell of what i used to be. I 8767 m moving out in 7 weeks and he don 8767 t know but I 8767 m going without him.
Hi my boyfriend mentally abusing me. I 8767 ve been with him for 65 years and everytI me I leave he crys and says he is going to kill himself so I come back everything is fine for a couple of months and right back to the same thing I really don 8767 t think he loves me and I want to leave this state so I don 8767 t have to come back here but we got a child together please will someone help with me get out of the state
Before entering the Land of Israel, Joshua wrote three letters to the Canaanite nations. The first letter said, Anyone who wants to leave Israel, has permission to leave. If they refused, a second letter said, Whoever wants to make peace, can make peace. If they again refused, a final letter warned, Whoever wants to fight, get ready to fight. Upon receiving these letters, only one of the Canaanite nations, the Girgashites, heeded the call and settled peacefully.
Hi my name is Lynette im 76 years old I 8767 ve been dating a giy who is 88 years old and we been together for almost 7 years everything was great at first everything wa fine until cheating wise started to happen i can say yes i have cheated on him as well cause i felt it wasn 8767 t fare but that that all i stopped but he keep doing it i would go out with my friends or my family and he would have a very bad temper of where i go who i am with try to keep me lock up in a house it 8767 s still going on and idk what to do anymore i feel vwry unhappy here i don 8767 t wanna be with him but then i know what he 8767 ll do if i ever leave please help
Thank you to open my eyes it hurts but you said when someone calls names like my supost boyfriend who lived in my apt almost two years and even I give him my love,been generous in many aspects he never gave me credit for how nice I was, also accepted his son leaving with us and he never gave me any credit. I know he 8767 s much than me but he called me fat in the past two weeks a go. Then blame his Christian religion to stop have intimicy with me since this he went to church last Tuesday he did call me old !! yesterday!? Because I told him I would like to heard from his Pastor about if this changes are my experience I would like to confirm that most of the persons treat wrong to a good people very unfair and wick! But with bad people they have more respect or fears to abused them or called names. We need to stop this to hurt good people If is no love tere mans or womans just move on don 8767 t be .
Hi kiera I have been with a man on and off for 67 years and have 9 kids by guy sounds terrible. It looks like he wants you 7 feel bad about yourself 7 destroy your self esteem 7 be happy he sounds miserable and is sick eneogh to joke when he makes you feel have a similar problem with my kids father who is ten years older than me and im seem so and so thoughtless men most of the time i have seen dont look for an opportunity 7 hurt a woman 7 keep them in further depression. Please know i understand from A woman point of view I feel pain because i know what its like for a guy 7 hurt me emotional and laugh or pretend its a is serious and can affect your emotional guy sounds useless not good at all
I am so sorry. *hugs*. I am going through the same thing and I 8767 m just going to tell you right now, you are beautiful, strong and you sound kind. You don 8767 t deserve this kind of treatment at all. I hope you can find the means and the courage to leave this man. He sounds very similar to my ex. Let me repeat. You don 8767 t deserve this and never will. Sending love and happy thoughts your way. I hope you get out of this.
Hi I have a emotional abuse problem were my partner seems to do things on purposes I would except the things that happen to me if they went deliberately done to me like for example I tell my partner that I 8767 m getting a bit jealous of a person and to rub it in my partner would go and spent the night with the person I am getting jealous of is that being insecure or do I have that right to be this way
My ex used to call me fat ugly smelly slag whore all the names going he would tell me he just wanted to hurt me. He used to say to me that punching the wall right by my face or pushing the telly on my head or banging my head of the wall was ok because he never actually punched me apparently I could do worse. I 8767 ve come to my senses now and finished with him for the sake of my kids. I 8767 m happier the kids are happier.
I know what you mean. I left my family in the Caribbean for this guy i fell in love with and he has mentally abused me for the last 7 years and we been together almost 66 yrs with 7 kids a 8yr old and an 8yr old and he says the most obscene things in front of them. Ihave nowhere to go i feel so stuck and my kids see me cry everyday and accuses me of things and calls me a prostitute says i sleep with a bunch of men and it is not true. Im suffering so bad
I liked what you said benh57, for I see so many women that are very insecure, and feel the need to express themselves in such a demeaning way. It is not necessary to exploit themselves to attract the opposite sex. I guess what they were doing did not work, so therefore they go overboard, and try to get attention in the wrong way!!!! Very sad! I must say, it is refreshing to hear a man that has respect for a woman in the sense that, sexual photos are a turn-off! Usernames really do say a lot, when you are trying to attract the opposite sex!!
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I came up with TTraveller in the hopes that someone would treat it like a puzzle and unravel it kind of a test to see who was smart enough to figure out what I was getting at. Sadly, no one ever has apparently most people are pretty literal, and don 8767 t spend any time thinking about things like that. I 8767 ve even had women write me and criticize me for 8775 spelling the word wrong. 8776 Oh, well, another bright idea that didn 8767 t work.
My husband and are best friend but our arguements are starting to affect who we are as a couple. He is not an abusive person at all but when we argue he can get so angry. He talks over me, raises his voice, and sometimes calls names. He has said that I am being a B.. Mrs sensitivity, a stubborn pain in the ass. Ext. I know that these names may seem petty but they hurt coming from the one you love so much. Is this ok? How do I help him to see that when he throws any insult it hurts?
As a follow-up to my previous comment, I have decided on SweetCyclingHams as my screen name. This is a pun I often throw out on a first date to test the person 8767 s sense of humor. I will tell them, 8775 I hope you 8767 re not Jewish. 8776 Invariably, they 8767 ll always reply with, 8775 I 8767 m not. Why? 8776 To which I retort with, 8776 8766 Cause I 8767 ve got some sweet cycling hams! 8776 If I get a laugh, chances are good that they not only have a great sense of humor but are also intelligent, quick-witted and at least somewhat well-read. No laugh or smile generally ensures a second date is not forthcoming.
Honey you are you have your whole wonderful life to live. You should start off by enrolling yourself in some educational classes. And get a little job and seek out some help from social services. They can help you get a little apartment of your own. Then he will no your not gonna put up with his crap. Please dont allow this to be your life. Dont allow any man or person to treat you with such disrespect. Love yourself. They will keep doing what there doing if you allow it togo on. With all my love Robin D.
Hi my name is Lynette im 76 years old I 8767 ve been dating a giy who is 88 years old and we been together for almost 7 years everything was great at first everything wa fine until cheating wise started to happen i can say yes i have cheated on him as well cause i felt it wasn 8767 t fare but that that all i stopped but he keep doing it i would go out with my friends or my family and he would have a very bad temper of where i go who i am with try to keep me lock up in a house it 8767 s still going on and idk what to do anymore i feel vwry unhappy here i don 8767 t wanna be with him but then i know what he 8767 ll do if i ever leave please help he has beaten me alot times of where at the point i would of end up die
Choosing your grandparent name you know, the one you want your grandkids to call you can be almost as challenging as it was to select your own kids names. Coauthors Lin Wellford and Skye Pifer s book, The New Grandparents Name List, a Lighthearted Guide to Picking the Perfect Grandparent Name , could help ease the process. We organized the grandmother names and grandfather names into traditional categories, then into lists that cover trendy monikers, playful and personality-based designations, and international terms. So, start scanning and post a comment below to let us know if there s a different moniker you embrace.
I always called my Grandmother Grammy, and when I had children my Grandmother had passed on so Mother wanted that name. When my first Grandson came I wanted a cutesy name too, so I chose Gramsy. When he first began to speak he couldn't say Gramsy and instead he said Zee Zee, and that's the name that stuck. Similarly my daughter called her Dad Pops and the Grandchildren started calling him Papi (Poppy).