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This message board has taught me so much. I've been dating online on and off for at least 7 years. I'm 98. I'm decent looking, I thought LOL. I have a great job, house, one kid, no drama. I guess I'm cool, but a little boring? I just don't think I know how to present myself or heck I really don't know. I get guys that just want a piece or just wanna try dating me since they have never dated outside their race (which I don't mind but I'd like them to like me and not the piece of *** I potentially represent). Its really crushing to the spirit. I don't know if I will even continue online dating after reading all the perspectives here. I'm truly a busy person that doesn't get out much to meet people and a little shy when it comes to getting to know folks. So I guess I'll either put my big girl panties on and just go sit at a bar or give up and be alone. (sigh)
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I think you are right, Ryan. I have used match, and I suppose I could try others. But I don't see how any would get around this fixation on appearance. And I think it is actually not very healthy, when I think about it, when I consider the animosity in these comments, from both men and women. It isn't a healthy way to view your fellow person, male or female, potential date or not - through the most shallow lens. And I think it clearly creates a lot of hard feelings. I will have to find other ways to fine my nice guy.
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Wish you had one for a Wounded Girl! I am wounded. And Im scared silly. I lived the life of an abused woman verbally, physically, and mentally. Doing counseling now with a local counselor. Just getting started. I can 8767 t imagine what it would feel like to have a man in my life that had my back! That would stay up with me late and clean! I think I 8767 d fall off my chair! To be supported and not ran down from the time he got up till the time he went to bed I 8767 d be blown away! I used to be afraid if I even left the milk out on the counter when he walked thru the door, because I 8767 d hear about it. To have someone help me and do it without bitching would be amazing. I think I 8767 d faint. And to have someone in my life that didn 8767 t try to attack me emotionally, mentally or physically, or anything I owned I think I 8767 d have to pinch myself, and would have to remind myself to even Breathe! Yea, I 8767 m scared. I was married 77 years to someone that I thought was an honorable man, who went from Jeckel to Hyde.
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Hi Tim. Sorry you 8767 re having trouble meeting women where you live. I understand the being alone sadness. Truth is that there are hundreds of thousand single women where you are, though. I agree that Online dating is a feast for anyone who is good looking (well-said, btw) but the vast majority of real people who have found love online are just 8766 normal lookin 8776 like us. It 8767 s how you approach it and use it as a tool. Get some help, ok? What can I tell you to help you? Bp
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Online dating really only works for exactly the sort of audience that already has plenty of other dating options. It's great if you're relatively and in a relatively urban area and if your socioeconomic status is broadly similar to other people nearby. I suspect that it's also a good option for people outside the age range most commonly acceptable to a site's users, though that's outside my experience.
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Then I get down to the decent messages. We chat. I have to ask where they live and work and I flag with them that they are my standard initial questions due to my situation. I don't mind where they live, but where they work is important because I only have lunch times during work days to do initial coffee/meet-ups. My daughter lives with me, but alternate weekends she is with her father. I don't want to commit my free weekends to anyone until I've met them first and have decided that I would like to progress. My free time is scarce so I'd like it to not go to waste.
Interesting read. I was debating putting up a profile or perhaps going to a club with some live entertainment. I am going to bed instead lol. It is very true that 65 to 65 years ago online dating worked well. I am an average looking guy but intelligent and funny and I was floored how many interesting, and yes pretty ok I would like someone that I consider to be pretty, not necessarily the text book version either. Anyway, teachers, lawyers, security guards, nurses, there I was dating, where previously I would stand in a bar and not say anything because my voice is very low and you couldn't hear me over the music anyway.
Yes I am older now and I have my daughter half time, but I am still an average looking very intelligent and funny man. I am not bitter, disappointed maybe. I am affected by the lack of responses though, not like jump off a bridge affected, but it does drop you down a notch psychologically. I am glad I read these posts. It sounds like many of us are in the same boat. God bless all of you even the bitter ones we all know that hurt people want to hurt other people.
Eric: I don&rsquo t know. Maybe they don&rsquo t like my pictures, or maybe I&rsquo m not being as nice as I feel I am in my messages. Part of me thinks that they&rsquo re just so overwhelmed with messages from so many guys that they just pick the few that strike them as the &ldquo best&rdquo and just ignore the rest. Women&rsquo s choice is what it&rsquo s all about I guess.
I am currently on Tinder, and have been for about a month. All of the messages I have received from men have been respectful so far. I'm not sure why, but I'm guessing it has something to do with how I wrote my profile, as well as the pictures I chose to show. My profile is pretty straight forward, without being bitchy. My pictures are tasteful, and there are also some that show I am pretty jacked. I swear that after I have become more buff, men have gotten a ton more respectful. Ridiculous, but true. And no, I don't think I'm special because I'm fit, it is just a physicality.
heres what you don't understand. you and other women have the luxury to sit there and say "EVERY person who wrote to me" men are putting in ALL the same effort and then the added effort of being the one who has to scroll through profiles for hours and send the messages. worry if they are saying the right or wrong thing. meanwhile you can sit there and judge all the men and all the messages you are receiving. the hostility comes from the blissful ignorance that women have about this. it comes off as something like going to the sudan and telling the starving people living there why you don't like tacos or that if a waiter brings you a steak medium rare you send it back. try to wrap your head around that.
The fact is most women don't look at online dating like a bar scene, at least not at first. They somehow think the site is brimming with their fantasy guy who is just waiting for them. Or that they can weed out all the bad apples and find Mr Right. They get a little disappointed when reality hits. Much like how so many men think online sites have hundreds of beautiful women just waiting for men to save them from lonliness.
Sorry but nope. The pretty girls on the site usually made the account for kicks and don't really care about your message because they could easily walk out their door and have someone hit on them.
Also, some of the messages I got were from a few guys that ranged from early 95&rsquo s to late 95&rsquo s and I was maybe 69 at the time. That was one of the main reasons I called it quits. It made me SO uncomfortable that guys so much older than me, older than most of my siblings (all of which are 8 years plus older than me), were sending me messages telling me that I was &ldquo hot&rdquo . I am getting terribly uncomfortable just thinking about it.
Yeah..when I was online dating, I messaged quite a few men. SEVERAL. All at a similar level of attractiveness to myself. Not a single one replied. And in case you're wondering, my photos were quite nice, and my profile was thoughtful and grammatically correct. All the guys online sift through looking for the "hot girls" and don't give a crap about anything else -- and then whine that online dating is so hard.
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The technology is not the problem. The same thing exists whether online or off. For example, Eric's major problem is attempting to present himself as a "nice guy" even it happens that he is one. Single females are not looking for him. They want the guy who will treat them poorly, beat them physically or emotionally, imprison them without bars, enslave them without chains, etc. The only ones looking for the nice guy are already married to the bad boy who have done the above and only now realize that isn't what they should have been looking for. I have watched the same thing over and over again for decades. That aspect of the game has never changed, only the venue from face-to-face meetings in bars, clubs, schools and other physical locations and events to Match and eHarmony.
Although in all dating sites there will always be sharks.. I believe I will just be cautious and avoid them. I have been in different dating site and I would not last a month. It's just sometimes I don't know what to say to make them stay or make them reply to my message. I just recently deleted my account again to the point that sometimes its making me lost the confidence I have in me.
So in the meantime.. I'm wrapping myself up with positivity.. that somehow I am going
meet the one.. I know it would take some patience, effort and time.
Hi Tina, Absolutely! I agree. I would never want any woman to settle for a man who doesn 8767 t make her happy. And as far as those jerky guys, you don 8767 t owe them anything. Being yourself with men is the best way to attract the Right Guy. After so many years of dating, and now coaching hundreds of women as they date, I see that that 8767 s actually something difficult for us to do. Our walls, anger, frustration show up. And we tend to attract the wrong guys. You sound very strong, independent and I bet you can take care of anything that comes your way. I 8767 d like you to read this article. I 8767 d love to hear your thoughts. http:///needy-women-get-the-nice-guys/ Bp
I put a lot of thought on these and have concluded:
6. I must be sending the wrong message. I don 8767 t follow rules or have an agenda when I 8767 m dating. I always go on dates with an open mind, willing to go on 7nd and 8rd date to know someone better. I text to thank for the encounter and call to invite for a second date if an event comes up. I always offer to share the bill (they never let me) and I dress appropriately for my age. If I like a man I 8767 m very straight forward and tell him so, 8775 I have a good time, you are a grat guy, let 8767 s do this again. 8776
I 8767 m open about what I want and I 8767 m aware it takes time to get to know someone and fall in love.
7. Miami man don 8767 t want to grow up.
As far as attractive women not responding to messages - the anonymity of the keyboard and screen have emboldened hordes of men to approach these women, when in the past the scummy ones would've just been the guy in the corner of the bar staring, the guy randomly bumping and grinding on women on the dancefloor, but their masses would've been guys just sitting at home, in their basement, peeling wings off flies or whatever. But the internet and online dating have bridged "desire" and "action" so that with virtually zero effort, lots of socially-maladjusted misogynist a-holes can dump their trash anywhere without the consequences they'd face trying to do it in person. So I do think that women are embittered by the vast deluge of BS they have to sift through, and it drowns the more nobly-purposed attempts.
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