Posted: 2017-11-15 07:14
I thought so too.
Mirror the initial reason for my post was that I wanted to know following..
Considering our last conversation..am I the dumper? Because he immediately agreed, so do we even have dumper dumpee situation? Or is it a split on mutual agreement/fight?
I want to know if I am the dumper or indirectly dumpee!!! Its important for me to know, so that I can figure out who is hurting more part. This article has helped a lot and I have pinned it.
Thanks again for the replies and article mirror!
Capricorn guys are tough ones. Being a Scorpio I LOVE the challenge and it makes me want him even more. I know sometimes it's really hard for Scorpio to relate because we are overflowing with emotion but if you wanna know he cares you have to look at the little stuff. The way they are attentive to you when you are sick. The way they worry about you when you are out late etc. Capricorn Men may not jump up on a stage and proclaim their love for you, but it doesn't mean they don't care they show it in a different way than we do. Give them there space let them realize how much they are about you. I know its hard but just be patient they can be really surprising!
Most Libra woman prefer romance to sex. She wants all the vices of romance the flowers, candy, champagne, travel, etc. Sometimes the emotional demands can be a bit overwhelming for her and when this happens she may have a difficult time understanding the emotional needs of her partner. Also, once her need to razzle and dazzle her lover is complete she begins to lose interest unless she is ready for her next performance of enchantment.
The Aquarius man and Capricorn woman couple falls into the archetypal Greek realm of logos and eros. Aquarius is 8775 the word 8776 and Capricorn is 8775 the word made flesh. 8776 Together they make the perfect pair. Aquarius is the visionary, master-minding in the conceptual range of pure archetype. Capricorn will draw the vision down into reality and ground it with commitment and structure. They are mysteriously drawn to each other because of this hidden bond each is only half without the other. Capricorn brings out the visionary aspiration of the Aquarius because she has the potential of making it real.
My advise is that everyman Capricorn or not likes what they can't have, so play hard to get right from the start. A true Scorpio women would not be bothered by that wall that capricorns display there isn't no one that we cannot see through and no one more relentless than us when we want something. The way to his heart is through sexuality and emotional bonding that is how he will let down that wall and be yours forever. He has to be able to TRUST.
Thanks MOA and Chrystal Waters for your advice and comments. If things don t work out with this girl at least I know I am on the right track as to how to treat/pursue a woman. I m going to see her tomorrow at a work related meeting. It s not the ideal situation, but I will do my best to make some inroads. I just wish I had found this site a few months m kicking myself now for taking other people s advice when deep down I knew I wanted to fight for her right from the get go. I just hope it isn t too late.
Dear Mirror, Mirror on the Net,
Do you believe that if it s meant to be, it s meant to be - in terms of our destiny with a man or husband to be, is already mapped out by the Power that Be s? Or do you think, we can muck it up and so we move on and meet someone else? Or do you think, if we muck it up, that was part of our destiny anyway as our destiny is fixed, therefore it wasn t really a muck up as our true love is in our future.
Hi, I m dealing with a man who is doing the No Contact thing. I m always thinking about him cause he disappeared on me without warning. He came back out of no where. I read your other articles about the disappearing man and the Taurus. I don t know his sign but, how do I stop thinking about him? It is hard, and he is good at this. I feel like chasing him, but I know its bad and when I date other men I always compare them to him. I don t want to think about him anymore.
But in reality what happened was, so many girls hated me over this guy and guys used to try to test him by flirting with me while he was around. They should've never done that because when he wins a fight it was such a turn on to me, made the other guys look stupid we were it was fun. But anyways, the girls who hated me used to tell him that they seen me flirting with another guy, and when we officially broke up he yelled at me saying "so and so said you did this with this person" and that was the end of it. I sort of felt his rage and he walked away, I let him. He moved on quick too and accidentally got some random girl pregnant, whom he hates to the core to this day. He said she "trapped him" lol.. I say that's what he gets for not staying with me and working out HIS issue. I had issues with him too but I never blew up on him and broke up. Come on now..
Hi everyone. Im an aquarian male married to a Gemini but in love with a capricorn woman also simply have a connection unlike anything I 8767 ve ever felt before. We just enjoy each others company and flirt often. She is 8 years older than I but boy is she cute and warm and sensitive. My wife can be but its very hard to feel this. I have not let on directly to the cap woman friend..that Im woopped by her and nor has she but at every instance we try to text or meet up. We act like kids when we see each other its weird but fun I need some help here on what I should do.
To attract a Capricorn, respect them and their time. Never be late. Be optimistic and nurturing to them emotionally. Never tease them or make fun of them. Help them with their careers or if they are willing to talk about it, listen to the success they have already accomplished. They usually do not share their feelings, unless they are close to someone, so if they are opening up, see it as a gift.
I've grown to become a very successful woman who doesn't need any man to support me and so for me its absolutely mind boggling that I am even dealing with someone who is in jail. I can't believe it! But for all you ladies that deal with already know there is nothing typical about them. He is so authorities, so direct, and so passionate when he speaks its intoxicating to me. How can he seem so vanilla but be so excites me like no other.
Hello,I have been with my Gemini guy for more than 66 years. We have to kids. A boy 7 and a girl that's 5. I love him and I want to try and make it work, but I just don't know if it is going to happen. I feel that I need a lot more than he can offer. I an a nurse and sometimes I want to talk about my job, and he doesn't want to listen. He is not here for me emotionally and when I tell him that I am not happy and I want more he just thinks that I am complaining. I don't know how much longer I can stay with him. He's constantly hanging with his friends and doing things without me. I feel like he lives a double life, and I can't take it anymore. The sex is good and that is when I have to ask him for it. Things did not start off this way, and now I am beg. to think that meeting this Gemini man was the worst mistake of my life. Helllllppppppppp!!! I am tired of crying. Any advice on how to make that connection back that we once had, or will that never happen.
This is a great article! As a man, it s nice to hear women are often willing to give second chances, especially when there are no major issues involved. I was curious to see what your definition of soft approach is? And how does that segway into pulling out all the punches and pursuing her with everything you ve got? In my case, I think that there was more of a timing/communication issue than anything else. I m struggling to figure out how to re approach the I am 86 and she is 77..so there may be a slight maturity gap as well(even though she seems advanced for her age). Thanks for your help!
from my point of view its pretty hard. but this male Gemini really pushing me to the limit. in positive ways. very good advises (which at the beggining I don't really like). I feel like im a better person everyday im with him, after I come up to a conclusion that he just have a totaly different ways to care than I (cancer) do. its very depressing when you don't really get what he really meant. by the words, by the jokes.
I am a Gemini Man.. I met a Cancer girl about an year back & within few months I was in complete love with this woman. I never tried so hard for anyone. Completely changed my flirty nature just because I think I have found the ONE.. She is moody and initially we had one two fights because I was not able to understand her but things sorted out threafter. Gemini Guys, just keep a check on the things you say because you have no idea what can hurt her. I know we can get bored easily with repetitve things, but just give your 665% if you want to make it work..
Thanks so much. I really appreciate that and what you re pointing out makes a lot of sense. He was doing the pursuing and now I ve changed it up.
I don t want to come off being seen as needy/clingy and deduced that I m being tested in some way, which is why I haven t said anything since then.
It s really hard, yes, because we have so much in common in terms of interest and world views, but I don t want to drive him away, either.
Some friends (guys and girls) think I need to be more aggressive in going after him if I m truly interested, but that s never been my nature and I don t see myself starting that now.
Think about all what I have told you.. and you gals wonder why we are cold when we decide on something that others would be a basket case about too bad you didn 8767 t see us Inside our heads pounding out all the possibilities for the Good of All Concerned! Yep..we think of everybody! Just be ready to get an answer that Is sharp and swift because Its been considered from directions you Capricorn Women couldn 8767 t even conceive.
Hi Crystal Waters,
This is Anoymous June 9, 66:57 am. I believe the above advise was for me. Right? I appreciate for your extra feedback. Thanks for your Kind words ane encouraging me as I feel miserable at times for not responding and staying strong for more than 6 year. However, It gets very tought at times so I keep reading these articles to feel strong..
So, Are you saying, I should reply to his Hello anmd How are you message? OR Should I wait longer?
I am highly confused this time even after reading articles. What do you think Should I do? Will he contact once again as he already contacted me 9 times but It did not say, Sorry or Can we talk so I am not sure whats going on in his mind. Plus, we were together for 9 years and I dont understand why cant he simply say sorry etc?
What does your experience say about such situation as I do want to talk with him but not IF I am taken for granted again. He is a saggi guy and Kind of flirtatious types?
I will highly appreciate your feedback.!!
Me being a typical insecure shy cap, I took one glance at her and gave up all hope lol! But as the night went on my friend just so happened to strike up a convo with her and the second he called me over we had such a strong attraction towards each other! And once we started talking, like magnets, this extremely strong connection naturally fell into place! We got lost in admiration for each other and oh my gosh it was just intoxicating, sparks were flyin! literally. We were just fascinated by each other, and just over small talk!? And the cool part was that she could see right through that wall of mine! But just for fun I'd throw it right back up jus so she could catch that mysterious side of me too lol, and she was eating it up!! lol