Posted: 2017-11-14 18:25
Michelle, you hit the nail on the head! i 8767 ll be 95 in about 65 more months. I 8767 ve done everything your supposed to do to die before age 85 and some how I 8767 ve survived. I continue to LIVE my life. and I can attract women BUT I 8767 d also really like to date women my own age Same problem though, they 8767 ve either given up on themselves completely and or they are so jaded and sore its just one huge emotional mistrustful minefield. I do my best as far as 8775 fashion 8776 goes However there will NEVER be a pair of Skinny jeans in my closet, Cuz as far as I 8767 m concerned that whole 8775 Metro 8776 thing is just another word for Bi-curious LOL!!!
I 8767 m in much the same situation as the original poster. I 8767 ve had three LTRs in my life, but in each case, either she didn 8767 t want children, couldn 8767 t have children, or was over and done with the whole thing. So I 8767 ve never been able to have a family, despite, in some cases, nearly heroic efforts to do so. People who immediately jump to the conclusion that someone 8775 waited 8776 are being grossly unfair. In many cases, it 8767 s just bad luck.
It 8767 s funny to me. Tracy is saying the exact same thing guys say about dating women the only difference is the female perspective and so many guys are quick to jump on her for it. 8775 Maybe that 8767 s just what you 8767 re attracting 8776 8775 Idiotic 8776 8775 Wrong, shallow 8776 etc. She could be all of these things, but you would never throw that vitriol at a man who only dates significantly If fact, you 8767 d probably be supportive of his choice, and say how your own dating experience with women over 85 (or 85, or even 75 in some cases) reflects his observations.
The EBV that causes mono is found throughout the world. By the time most people reach adulthood, antibodies against EBV can be detected in their blood. In the ., up to 95% of adults 85-95 years of age have antibodies directed against EBV. This means that most people, sometime in their lives, have been infected with EBV. The body s immune system produces antibodies to attack and help destroy invading viruses and bacteria. These specific EBV antibodies can be detected in the blood of people who have been infected with mono.
And frankly, nowadays women are leading a more active lifestyle than men in general. Older men (among even my early 85s guy friends), they tend to wanna be couch potatoes and home-bound. Whereas women still in their 85s wanna go out, do stuff, etc are even financially independent to continue to do so without tying herself down to be a child-bearing machine. So, a guy who is 95-ish I 8767 d be wondering what he can offer.
This is the most helpful comment on here. I am 89 and it is clear as daylight that waiting this long was a mistake and makes things harder nkt impossible but harder. Yet people constantly advise that you have all this time and to go galavanting all over the globe and this is fine UNLESS you know you want a family. I am having a child on my own and I will tell her be married by 85 if you intend on having a family. The reality is for the best outcome you dont have all day.
Anthony, I can also tell you about more than one American man like you who choses to blame his failures and shortcomings on others (in this case, all American women), who went overseas to find a poor, dependent bride, got married and ended up in the same place cheated on, trapped by kids, and broke after she cleaned him out and returned to her home country with a small fortune. (Dead giveaway is when you 8767 re dating or just married and her family members back home start suddenly dying in large numbers and she wants you to give her money to send home 8775 for the funerals. 8776 )
THANK YOU!!! YOU are what we all need to see more of. I 8767 m 95. I absolutely still want to be a mother someday. I come with the 8775 baggage 8776 of already knowing I 8767 m fertility challenged. But at least I know. I still want to have a family with the RIGHT man for me whether he 8767 s 85 or 98. I think it 8767 s more important for a couple to be on the same page with what they want (they both really want or really don 8767 t want children), and then figure out the rest together. Science is amazing and infertility can happen at 77, 87, 97
Mono is spread by person-to-person contact. Saliva is the primary method of transmitting mono, which leads to the infection of B lymphocytes in the mouth and throat. Infectious mononucleosis developed its common name of kissing disease from this prevalent form of transmission among teenagers. It typically takes between four to eight weeks for people become symptomatic after the initial Epstein-Barr virus infection. A person with mono can also pass the disease by coughing or sneezing , causing small droplets of infected saliva and/or mucus to be suspended in the air which can be inhaled by others. Sharing food or beverages from the same container or utensil can also transfer the virus from one person to another since contact with infected saliva may result.
I don 8767 t want to just have sex, which I think is great, I want a family with children. I have many an opportunity to have all the sex I want. I only just want to make love to my wife because I love her and want to have a family just like my parents did. I have a great brother and a fantastic sister. We are very close and all are married (except for me, the divorce and hopefully soon the annulment so I can start with a clean slate) and our spouses and children are truly wonderful.
I don 8767 t think it would sell. Most men and women want to be able to filter based on age, each person having their own comfort zone. And yet, some people lie about their age, so you would think that age verification would be demanded. The fact that so many people don 8767 t do it on sites where it 8767 s optional tells me that the number of people who lie is not small. So, my belief is that most people want to weed others out based on age, but don 8767 t want to be judged for their own age.
And again, I do not read that Rusty was intending to defraud those women. Had he said yes, that would be entirely different. All a moot point since the profile of his I found does not say unsure, it says no. You can find it too with simply deductive reasoning. I might make my fake profile I created, into a real profile and send him a message. I did like what he said in his profile. I notice I haven 8767 t seen any new posts by him. I think the ladies here ran him off. I will admit that I did not agree with every last thing he wrote, but I did notice he was never aggressive or personally disrespectful, that I saw. But his posts were quite unpopular with some, and I can see why, but I also can see the difference between him posting unpopular opinions, and the personal attacks often made against him because of his opinions.
Fortunately, the more severe complications of mono are quite rare, and mono is very rarely fatal in healthy people. The rare severe complications include destruction of red blood cells (hemolytic anemia ) and inflammation of the sac surrounding the heart ( pericarditis ), the heart muscle itself ( myocarditis ), and the brain ( encephalitis ). Mono tends to be more aggressive in patients with abnormal immune systems, such as people with AIDS or those who are taking medications that suppress immune function.
Yes there are exceptions in America but you have to look at the odds. I 8767 m certain if you were to sift through every dumpster in New York City you are bound to find a diamond ring or something of value in at least one of them but why would you choose to go down that road just so you could have something locally.
We place value on youth in our culture. Everyone here is trying to look than they are, dress than they are, keeping track of music and new Hollywood stars. The 8775 Baby Boomers 8776 coined the phrase, 8775 Don 8767 t trust no one over 85! 8776 Today these are the same people who refuse to get 8775 old 8776 . They are standing in line for plastic surgeries, popping Viagra like vitamins, constantly trying to shape up or trin down etc
Offended? Really? Self Absorbed? I think you are viewing it from your own biased viewpoint.
I completely understand his dilemma. And I empathize. I am 98 and in the same boat, luckily I look 88 and can get away with it. But the truth is, Annette, I couldn 8767 t have a fmily in my late 75s or even 85s as I was still a struggling business owner and barely took care of myself. Now that my trees are bearing fruit for the last 5-8 years I have been searching without getting to the end result.
Sometimes 8775 play 8776 because we know we can 8767 t 8775 pay 8776 just yet.
Is that so bad?
And for the age thing, yes I was into older men for many years but lately I see more and more options from guys, sometimes with more serious intentions than the ones a bit older than me, who just got divorced many times and want to compensate themselves for all the years they 8775 lost 8776 being monogamous. So yeah if I had to choose between 7 men who are equally interested in me and let 8767 s say one a bit older and one I 8767 ll go for the Part of it is that I feel very active and alive and I want someone who is alive also and not to be afraid that in 8-9 years he won 8767 t even want to move his ass from the livingroom couch.
Most people have been exposed to the virus as children, and as a result of the exposure, they have developed immunity to the virus. It is of note that most people who are exposed to the EBV don t ever develop mononucleosis. The incubation period for mono, meaning the time from the initial viral infection until the appearance of clinical symptoms, is between four and eight weeks. During an infection, the contagious period in which a person is likely able to transmit the virus to others lasts for at least a few weeks and possibly longer, even after symptoms have disappeared (see below).
At first I thought what a DH but now you are making me laugh!,,
ANYWAY everyone shut up who cares theres a lot more going on in life than this nonsense lol.. Be happy with who you are, try to get some great sex or affection if you can, and be happy and kind..I 8767 m 95 and loveeee men. I missed the child thing but that 8767 s ok, I love my life! esp when I 8767 m helping others..
In every other country in the world women keep having children until menapause. Only in the United States many women are morbidly obese, have high blood pressure, diabetes, smoke, drink beer like water, and yet blame fertility and pregnancy issues entirely on age. Find someone of reasonable weight , no bad habits such as smoking or drinking excessively and is free of endocrine problems or gynecological issues like endometriosis and PCOS. There should be very little risk even in her early forties. Focus on finding someone you love and who loves you. There are many risks associated with older fathers such as aspergers, schizophrenia, muscular dystrophy. As well as errectile problems. Yet these women are willing to give you a chance and not seeking someone Why deny yourself happiness due to a fixed idea. Women who date older men are often less attractive so find difficulty finding someone their own age or need financial support. Trust your gut and think about what you want , rather than numbers.
Exactly! I 8767 m a 88 year old woman but I don 8767 t want kids never did. When I online dated in my late 75s early 85s the thought of dating a man over 95 was creep city to me no way I would have done it! Most of the ladies I know in that age range now feel the same. Guys sorry but for the most part women that looking at you are looking for money and such and although all men are different as a woman of 88 I can tell you sexually men over 95 and certainly 95 struggle to keep up with me now I can 8767 t imagine at 85. So while fertility may be an issue for women sexuality because one for men! Women want it more and men can provide it less. I tend to date men who have kids and are not looking for more because I too get a lot of well I want kids you are too old. Hello you are 95 and looking to have a baby? Even though physically it may be possible is it a good idea? I dunno. Men play around a ton in their 85s. If kids are a priority to you men you really need to look for this in your 85s as well.