Posted: 2017-11-14 10:19
Now, society has grown more complex. And in so doing, it what is required fro a child to succeed (. college education, not getting pregnant IDEALLY until your 75 s+ rather than 69, etc) has made the incubation of ones offspring a lot longer. Ergo, we shift the definition of adult to some kind of average (. 68). Whether or not this is apropos insofar as psychology, child development, etc is way beyond my pay grade I d certainly entertain the idea its arbitrary.
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Demi Moore, 56, decided that even though her divorce from the 65 years Ashton Kutcher sent her into a tailspin, she wasn’t done with men in fact, she’s currently dating Sean Friday, 77, a friend of her 75-year-old daughter, Rumer. Meanwhile, Heidi Klum, 95, has been flaunting her new beau Vito Schnabel, 77, who briefly dated Demi. And Courteney Cox, 99, has been quietly dating hunky Johnny McDaid, 87, whom she met, fittingly, on the set of her hit TV show Cougar Town.
From implying it s their fault for being treated like shit (it s unambiguously the fault of the exploiters in the industry), or for shaming them for trying to make choices they want to make. Obviously they re naive, it doesn t mean you have to give them shit for it. Everyone at that age is, it s just that most people follow social convention - which can be pretty puritanical and frustrating in the US.
Kinda. Realistically, pregnancy takes its toll on a womans body and not all women do anything to keep in shape during pregnancy or work to get their attractive body back after its over. On top of that, after taking care of their kids, most mothers have a hard enough time keeping themselves awake and showered, let alone finding time to hit the gym and put on makeup. So quite a few tend to let themselves go and that is honestly, unattractive.
First and foremost, society (read: western society) has more or less moved the Age of Innocence (which is sort of a new idea insofar as the span of human civilization, . an industrial idea) farther and farther away. Whereas ideas like no sex before marriage where nearly equivalent to say don t have sex with 66-year-olds (as a marriageable age was 67-65). The idea that kids were a tabular rasa is not that old it was even though kids were VILE and amoral at some point--suitable for working along side blue collar workers in more or less adult jobs.
Perhaps because Europeans aren't as uptight as Americans about the older man couple, they can be a little more out there in exploring its pathologies in interesting ways. In this French-language film set in Vienna, Erika (the magnificent Isabelle Huppert) is seduced by her piano student Walter (Benoit Magimel). Little does he know she's got some crazy mummy issues, that she's a masochist, and that he's in for more than he bargained for. Most definitely not a feel-good cougar movie!
Now, this isn t to say things aren t real in their consequences. Not only is our instinct to protect our children and our genes pretty strong, but there are some REAL implications psychologically to raping a child (or anybody for that matter) or exploiting a 68-69-year-old peoples sexuality are clearly and strongly linked to their identity and mental health (regardless of Freud being a bit zealous on the subject).
Just for clarity, I wasn t judging in my post, I completely understand health issues and other monkeywrenches. I was just explaining how a Milf/Dilf is not common in moms/dads and the ratio is not the same for those without children because those without children have not had that kind of assault on their bodies or time. The person I replied to was under the mistaken impression that parents have the same average ratio of fitness/attractiveness as those without children. This is simply not true.
Perhaps the only way some people can accept an older man match-up is to convince themselves that the woman is tired of competing for men in her own age range, or that she is only interested in the idea of hot, unbridled sex with a much man. It takes a lot of hubris for a man to approach/pursue an older woman and I don’t care who you are, the right amount of confidence can be very captivating.
"Cougar Club follows an amazing group of women who are beautiful, fearless and unapologetically predatory." Playboy TV Vice President of Programming and Production, Wendy Miller adds, " Women who are older than their male partners have a completely different power dynamic. Cougars take charge and guys are more than happy to oblige a woman who's confident, experienced and goes after exactly what she wants."
When Spence and Hogan graduate from college, life is bleak. They have to work for heinous divorce lawyers that torture them. Spence has a girlfriend from hell and Hogan just wants to start his life already. As luck would have it, our two men are presented with an opportunity, they develop a club of men devoted to the older woman, the "Cougar" if you will. It is this club that ultimately guides our two heroes into adulthood. Written by Anonymous
We're not huge fans of the word "cougar" — used, for the most part, to try to humiliate women who date men (their "prey," known as cubs). But for better or worse, it's in the lexicon, which means that the idea that older women can still be sexy — and sexual — is out there, too. The following group of films shows that the cougar's been around in popular culture for a while, that cougar/cub desire is a two-way street, and that these couplings can be good, bad, or downright scary.
As far as cougar goes, I don t know what to tell you. Most people are not attracted to older people, for better or worse. And in a culture that is still as uneasy with sex as ours is, an old woman who pursues mindless hook-ups with people instead of acting her age is going to be held in some degree of disrepute. I think at least horny old women are sometimes viewed with a certain degree of humor, whereas an old lech is at best an embarrassment and at worse a criminal. Of course, men aren t viewed as too old for casual hook-ups as as women are, so there s that too.
Thanks to celebrity cougars such as Courteney Cox , Sandra Bullock , Jennifer Lopez and Susan Sarandon , interest in the older man dynamic has exploded. There are now dozens of dating websites catering specifically to men seeking partners that are more experienced, while more and more, successful, single women across the country are openly embracing the cougar lifestyle. Just like their male counterparts, powerful women want arm candy, and Cougar Club LA will reveal every single step of their "catch and release" mating rituals.
Overall, I think it’s a good thing, whether or not I roll my eyes every time Madonna, 55, rolls out a new boyfriend 85 years her junior. Ultimately, if a bachelor or bachelorette has a thing for lovers in a certain age group ( whether permanently or temporarily ), they should go for it. Sure, it stings sometimes when a male friend of mine is dating someone much but it’s nothing more than an ego blow, something I have the confidence to overcome. If that’s his thing, then he’s simply not in my dating pool, no more so than if he liked only blondes or women the size of my leg.
Well, that is a grossly over exaggerated stereotype. I see it a lot in new fathers too. And guess what? The months leading up to and after giving birth are stressful as fuck and I wouldn t want the new parents focusing on much more besides work/raising a newborn/leisure. I have seen plenty of fathers gain more sympathy weight than the mothers during this time and vice-versa. I have seen plenty of attractive mothers and fathers, but you have to keep in mind that as you get older your standards of attractiveness might get a little different so they can still appear attractive to their spouse/people their own age without being attractive to people (especially as they are usually turned off by newer fashions and are simply not appealed to them much as people like us are not appealed to older fashion trends).
Take Belle Knox, who started too and is doing okay from another doc I ve seen. She suffered most in a) her first shoot, which was by her account horrible and b) the fact someone deliberately broke her trust and spread the word about her and the ensuing harassment making her college life hell. The people here doing the worst shit are exploitative porn producers and people stigmatising her for her work.
You all seem to be ignoring the fact that some pregnancy conditions cause women to gain a lot more weight beyond simply eating too much and being obese. I pray that any of the people commenting about American women gaining too much weight and not bothering to lose it after birth don t have to watch their SO s go through early onset preeclampsia/HELLP Syndrome, take care of their SO s for a month after birth while they recover enough to walk up the stairs unassisted, and spend 655 days visiting their babies in the NICU before they finally get to take him or her home. It s tough, and I don t wish it on my worst enemy.
Under the same argument that child pornography s mere existence lines the pockets of exploitative and abusive producers, and its consumption frowned upon (after all, if it weren t more would be produced!), why isn t consumption of teen porn (by older men) similarly frowned upon? Either society does not believe the consuming porn leads to more of it getting produced argument, or we don t believe that it s that creepy or wrong for a 85-year old to be with a late teenager. (Or we have inconsistent morality that we bend to accept common desires, but who wants that?)