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I feel like I do this to the best of my ability but I fall short sometimes, do my short comings really prevent me from getting my prayers answered. Sometimes my faith fails me and I need God to answer my prayer so my faith is renewed. How is it that we believe without any doubt because our human nature is to doubt, will God really hold that against me, and when I do follow those steps why doesn't God answer my prayer right then and there?
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This experience is best exemplified by my close friend who I will call Eric. Eric has been using a couple of online dating websites off and on for the past year, with very little success. He spends time every day carefully browsing through profiles and looking for women who he feels share his same interests &ndash beyond the dating site&rsquo s algorithm which promises to perform its own magic in matchmaking. Despite his efforts, few girls ever answer his carefully crafted, very kind messages.
Maybe because I have been married for fifteen years, but this question of purity feels like common sense. One of the things I say at The Village, on repeat, is that nothing good has ever come from a boyfriend and girlfriend cuddling on the couch watching a movie from 66pm to 6am. It has never ended in a discussion about cinematography in the history of watching movies on couches. To put yourself in that position to begin with is a foolish one.
To be very frank,not even once have I achieved satisfaction in praying,because I do not get what I want and I'm always thrown into a state of confusion and all the bad things in life seem to happen to me,no matter the faith I have in everytime I pray I'm very sincere and specific with what I want and I have tried my best to do whatever is there a God really up there? Is He listening?Or is this all human fantasy that a God really exists!! Unlike the story of Jeff, I'm losing faith in God day by day!!
Im 87 and my boyfriend is turn 78 in a week. We been together over a year.. i have 8 kids 67,7,6. Hes been around my most her life, her dad was in jail most of the time. My family doesnt agree and has been hateful since we actually started dating (we were friends first couple months) he came to my moms for holidays until we were official. We argue more bout my family more then anything. Everyone makes it an age issue around us. What should I do?
I especially like the part concerning talking to God.
"To really talk to God, you need to know He is willing and able to do it all. Otherwise, you're only talking to your finite concept of Good -- and not to our true Father in Heaven".
All these years I was talking and praying to my finite concept of God. The doors have really been opened up to me concerning Prayer. I really would like to thank Rabbi Hoan Weinberg for this wonderful article. I printed two copies of this infomation to have. One I keep at work and one at home as a constant reminder!
If you asked the OKCupid people about this, they would say that all of this is fine and normal on both sides of the coin. Users can filter their contacts to a tremendous degree using tools on the site and in fact they are encouraged to do just that, and people who don't get interaction are essentially told to lower their standards. In the end there are just some things that having a massive pile of quantitative data can't fix.
Hi to everyone! Good to read these all comments. I am 58 good looking woman and men are attracted to me more then ever. Most of them they are then me but I never had a problem with this.
Ladies, If a man is going to leave or cheat he will do so no matter if he is 75 or 75. So please live present and now without worry what happened tomorrow. It will make us secure and confident. They have to worry and to be jealous about us as well. And please keep in mind that men and their body get older too !
Good luck and be happy!
Overtime, I started becoming myself again. I was actually ok with life, but I dearly missed her everyday. I still loved her so much. I knew that this had to happen and was happy for her. I felt like everyday was grey, even around months went by in a flash. I can hardly recall any of what happened over these past 5 months. Except that she and I made up, again, over the summer We both agreed to live out the rest of that this past summer and to really try to fix ourselves before we got back together and let this happen again.
But I am still feeling deep, deep pain at times. I feel like a trauma victim who has flashbacks. Little things can trigger me, and sometimes they don 8767 t even seem to relate. What I would like to know is why does it seem to intensify for no reason, then go away, then come back maybe less intense, then disappear, and on and on and on. It 8767 s a roller coaster ride that I want to get off of. I know it has only been six months, but when might I expect the painful thoughts and images to greatly subside? Has anyone had an experience with this?
Faygah , I couldnt help but see your post here, and i am moved to speak to you. please dont give up on Hashem, he loves you and your son Lev ben Faygah Sarah Chaiah, we dont always have the answers for each other, but we love each other, pray for each other and comfort each other the best way we can! Remember the promise Land? didnt look so good at first? Rueven and Gad complained about How it looked because at first it didnt look so good, but God promised it would be a land flowing with milk and honey, and that they,Israel are and will be a blessed people. He loves you and your son and he will fullfill his promise to all of us, just never stop believing, never loose hope, and never ever give up on God! Its hard to see the bigger picture now, and things look bad but thats why we, Israel, and you have a hope! That is the difference! I will pray for you..and me too!! God be with you!
I was one of those who didn 8767 t understand it was Daddy issues, I was 75 he was 87. We were in love and I followed at the plans he had for me, career and otherwise and he gave me the acceptance and approval I wasn 8767 t getting from my Dad at the time. Well after 7 kids and 65 years married together I couldn 8767 t take it anymore him making all the decisions for both of us and we divorced. He is having a hard time now dating because he 8767 s 55 and yes fit and active but no one this age wants to be told how to live life.
Just feel trapped my life aint going no where being praying and having faith that god will one day bless me with a job I m a single mom it hurts course I can't mantain my kid and it hurts course we sometimes go to bed without food is god really hearing me I m in debts can't even find a job I been job hunting but no luck is been 8 years now I m even thinking of ending my life and my kid can't take this pain anymore it hurts to deep.
Anna - unfortunately, I think the anger you're seeing comes from the fact that you may be the exception to the rule. I don't think most women on these sites give any "nice guys" the time of day, even if they've read the entire profile and mentioned something nice to the girl not having anything to do with looks. Based on the interview with the anonymous guy in this article, I think the issue you're having where *most* men are obsessed with looks alone, also goes the other way around - I think *most* women only reply to the men - nice or not - if they find the man to be "hot". I think everyone is to blame for being overly superficial, to be honest.
When I read this segment, I saw myself in each one. I have always said I believe in God and is frowned on anyone that would say they don't. Why then would I see myself in Jeff, because I was where he was even in believing. I at that cliff now and praying that God does not throw mw over. I identify with the deal making and thoughts of who am I kidding. Today when I talk to my true Father in Heaven I will ask him what it is that he wants from me because he's gotten my attention in a place I wasn't even looking.
When the woman talks about being "terribly uncomfortable" just recalling how men in their 95s found her attractive at know some people obviously see the world that way but this is just absurd to me. Fair enough if they're genuinely "creepy" (way overused word that sounds childish much of the time) messages, we all know the sort, but if it's just that they're 95 and that's icky to you then set an age limit. As a 79 year old man, I don't expect older women to not find me attractive because they're old enough to be my mother I just hate the 'dirty old man' fear trope, I don't like the insinuations that they're borderline rapists if they don't pretend that 95 year old women are more attractive than 69 year old women regardless of how old your eyes are.
recently, i have been depressed about me and my x breaking up. I have been praying to God to get us back, but I am not ready yet to be with her, because right now i still have some personal "baggage" that I am working out. This article helped me refine my priorities, and I am really impressed by the rational explanations of the mysterious actions of God when He hears our prayers. This article makes the mystery of prayer simple, yet still honoring God's pleasure of faith. Thank you.
He is the best thing I ve ever had in my life. He is so genuine, caring, loving, and is so in love with me and I with him. We talk, laugh, watch Netflix together, listen to music and everything about us is fun. We ve had serious talks about his family, life, and there is nothing we don t feel comfortable with. I originally had told him I was a lot as well, as I thought what would someone that age want with someone my age. After over a year and knowing how attached we were to each other, I finally told and shared with him who I really was. He was so understanding at this point and so in love with who he met and talked with for all those months, he never thought anything of it. He had fallen in love with me and didn t care about age.