Posted: 2017-09-27 23:04
I disagree, you can 8767 t force attraction even if the numbers aren 8767 t in black women 8767 s favor. Why would a man want to be with a woman who says, 8775 look, I genuinely don 8767 t find you attractive but I 8767 m forcing myself to be with you because you 8767 re an overall good catch in which I may never find again 8776 . Why would any self respecting man stay in that situation? Come on now.
Actually I left an ex-boyfriend for my future husband 67 years ago. It was my 76st birthday and my the man I was dating for 9 months didn 8767 t want to give me anything nor take me out for my birthday, so my longtime friend (who I wasn 8767 t physically attracted to at first) offered to take me to TGIFridays for food and some drinks, then we went to a skating rink and he drove me home. I kissed him on the cheek to thank him for making the big 7-6 special for me. Then my friend offered me to go to ice skating with him and I went. Then I realized that the guy I was already with wasn 8767 t sh*t at all, I called him and broke things off with him and my future husband and I started dating that led to engagement 7 years later and marriage of 9 years and 8 kids and we 8767 re still having date nights on the weekends. I rather be with a man who treats me well than with a man who looks cute on the outside but is a jerk on the in.
For someone who doesnt want society to dictate their worth you sure do know how to dictate the worth of white women with black men. Regardless white women will always have more status in you in society, no matter how trashy you think she is. You even admit as much. A black woman has to be on her game to get a white man. So basically most black women arent good enough even for a average white man, which BTW happens to be the ones black women seem to be with. Yes, black women do have a tendency to get with white men who have less education and make less than they do. Its must make you feel good to have to step your game up to get with a white man. Here I am thinking that it was the man who had to step his game up. I mean women like you are constantly telling black men to step his game up.
The part that really struck me here was the 8775 stringing him along as a meal ticket 8776 statement. I 8767 ve seen that happen to so many nice guys. Call me non traditional but men don 8767 t just take me out and foot the bill every time. I take them out, too, or insist that we split the ticket. I think it 8767 s silly that one gender is expected to 8775 foot the bill 8776 . If you take on that mindset then you don 8767 t have to worry about wasting his money because you 8767 re splitting the cost and sharing things evenly. If that 8767 s the case then you can give anyone a shot to see what develops without being concerned with that aspect of it.
The unwillingness of German judges to lock up unsocialized walking time-bombs already known to the police has claimed a victim in Cologne on New Year 8767 s Eve. Two criminal foreigners, free to terrorize their neighbors despite drug-related and violent crimes, killed a Turkish husband and father who tried to get them to behave. It happened in a sector of the city called Bickendorf a district notorious for years for immigrant violence and bordering on the thoroughly Islamized Ehrenfeld. There was also knife-play at night in the immigrant milieu of right-bank Cologne-Vingst, where 8775 Antifa 8776 pastor Meurer is collecting for the building of a mosque and reading masses against Pro-Köln. But no one was killed.
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i 8767 ve dated many women in my life prior to getting married years ago and i found out that race does make a difference. i 8767 m a white male and i 8767 ve dated all types of races and the most respectful of all women were european women, 7nd were black women, then asian women and american womem were and are by far the worst. my wife is from europe and we 8767 re very happy and i won 8767 t give her up for anyone in the universe.
the bottom line is american women regardless of race are too into themselves to have respect for american men. white american men with other races is on the rise and it will eventually get to the point that no american male will even waste their time with american women. i won 8767 t reveal my name for security reasons.
I consider a man who would want to date me regardless of the fact that am unattrated to him, a selfish man, who probably thinks that getting some is enough for his kindness. It could also speak to some serious self esteem issues, and who wants to deal with that? I can 8767 t imagine dating and giving to a man, who is unattrated to me or merely tolerate me, hence I would like to believe that he should feel the same. Lasty, but most importantly, I couln 8767 t bear to have a man to whom am not attracted touch my body. My skin would literally crawl..
You have the temerity to post this kind of Nazi apologist garbage in a comments thread of an article by a writer whose gentile grandparents had been murdered in a concentration camp and whose gentile mother spent two years in a labor-extermination camp, was a state witness in the post-war trial of its commandant, and relayed her wartime experiences to this writer directly. Moreover, a writer who was born and grew up one hour by car from Auschwitz and three kilometers from the plant where the firm Hoch und Tiefbau AG had built the crematoria for that camp. In which, alone, million people were murdered, 6 million of them Jews. And that 8767 s according to the testimony its commandant Rudolf Hoess, based on data from SS-Obersturmbannführer Adolf Eichmann.
And Steve Mnuchin , who Trump tapped to serve as Treasury secretary, faces allegations of profiting from racial discrimination. As a hedge fund manager, Mnuchin purchased a troubled mortgage bank, sped up its foreclosure rate and sold it for a killing several years later. Along the way, Mnuchin’s bank came under fire from housing rights groups for racist practices like lending to very few people of color and maintaining foreclosed-upon properties in neighborhoods that were predominantly black and brown less than in white neighborhoods.
I think we have exhausted the topic of interracial dating. There are so many more issues to dating that black women have to face that don t include anyone else. Black people are the only ones that view dating white as an alternative. The narrative about interracial dating is always well, if you can t find someone in black you better broaden your horizens or you ll end up single. Or it s that black men are choosing everything close to ethnic but black women. At the end of the day informationa about how to attract and keep black men would be far more helpful. On other sites that focus on white dating there are no constant mentions of choosing another race. the dialogue is almost assumed that you are talking about all races. men and women in general. But on a site like this one I think it s important to keep encouraging black women. Not keep throwing alternatives into the mix and a result of defeat and dispair.
Sexual attraction isn 8767 t the only thing needed to keep and foster a bond between a couple, but i believe it is required. Love and infaution can 8767 t create sexual attraction and vice versa. For me, if im not sexually attracted to them we normally don 8767 t even make it to the dating stage. There has to be some kind of spark for me not even just sexually , but something inside of me has to see , 8776 stop and look this one , he is special 8776 .
Did you really post this weeks after your trashy 8 reasons to date a white man? I was excited about this outlet for women of color but it is clear you have an agenda, which is to be destructive about black love. Why not be like essence and feature beautiful black weddings? What is the issue? I m okay with interracial stuff, I believe in dating interracially too, but there needs to be balance.
Why should we have to settle? Why doesn 8767 t that unnattractive guy go find an unnattractive girl? Oh right, because that 8767 s NOT his preference. He, unnattractive or not, wants someone who is attractive. Guess what! She wants the same. But oh she 8767 s going to end up alone because she met his standards but he didn 8767 t meet hers. You want something visually pleasing but aren 8767 t visually pleasing yourself? Riiight sounds legit.
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First of all, this is a WOMEN 8767 S site. If you don 8767 t like what we 8767 re saying, then you need to go a MEN 8767 S site. Second of all, there are only THREE of you guys! Every guy here agrees because there aren 8767 t even a handful of you!
Not a single woman in this thread has said anything, Nothing At All, about there being no good black men. That was brought into the conversation by a man, and you guys have been attacking ever since! This conversation supposed be about whether we women can get past NOT BEING ATTRACTED to someone if he has good qualities, and you guys came in here, to OUR site and made it about things that you are bitter about. And you have the NERVE to tell me what to STOP doing??? How about you STOP coming to women 8767 s sites and hijacking conversations to make them what you have a on your shoulder about. This crap you guys are ranting has NOTHING to do with what we women were talking about.
You have gone way past left field. You came in here with an agenda and I 8767 m done feeding the troll.
Leftoid masochists and the Christian meek call for returning Hawaii to the Hawaiians and capitulating before a massive Mexican reconquista of one-third of America. The self-defined 8775 Feminist-Tauist-NeoPagan-Post-Structuralist-Deconstructionist-Socialist 8776 useful idiot Gillian Schutte begins her New Year 7568 Dear White People by 8775 wholeheartedly apologizing for what my ancestors did to the people of South Africa and inviting you to do the same. 8776
Preference isn 8767 t just about looks they change with maturity and based on your needs. Just like how a teenage girl can be attracted to a careless, irresponsible, disrespectful 8766 bad boy 8767 , but these exact things be a turn-off 65yrs later. So older women aren 8767 t 8766 settling 8767 for uglier men. Some men naturally seem more attractive based off of what they are providing you emotionally, esp. as you age and have lacked that with all the other men you 8767 ve dated for so long
And avoid selfies as well as group and overly sexualized pictures — I beg of you. Not only are selfies way overplayed, but they really only make sense in the context of a social media site like Instagram. In terms of group shots, you want the men to actually know which one is you, so stick to solo photos. As for sexy pictures, you want to walk that fine line between showing enough without revealing too much. Leave a little mystery to it.
You don’t just want to attract all kinds of men. You want to attract men who you’ll be attracted to in return, which means you need to include important details about yourself in your profile. This includes specifics about your hobbies, religious beliefs, political stance, etc. General statements about loving movies and Italian food won’t help you stand out from the millions of other women out there, even if you really do like those things.