Posted: 2017-11-14 21:38
I recently moved one state over and a guy I used to work with said he always liked me and we 8767 ve been talking a lot. We went on a date and it was awesome. Now he 8767 s talking about coming to see me. When this first started he was texting nonstop and now it 8767 s less but he still checks in, likes my stuff on FB and Instagram and is making plans to visit in a week. So I need to quit overthinking everything and just calm down.
Wow, so a woman 8767 s role is to 8775 put him in his place 8776 because a man is incapable of doing that for himself. Instead, a man wants to get away with anything he can with the rationalization that he is incapable of doing better or does not have the strength to do it himself. What a lousy excuse! Should a man blame a woman for his own selfishness in taking advantage of her? Man up or continue to be a loser, dude!
Hey man I 8767 ve really started to like this girl at my work I 8767 ve always noticed her looking at me and we usually had good convo 8767 s although she told me has no guys in her life and shes not really looking to invest into one right now cause of school. I told her I had a girlfriend and then she always asked me every week how are things going with her. So I broke up with her cause I really liked this girl and she told me she 8767 ll be there for me if I need someone. I got her number shortly after that and I asked her the same night we should go out and grab a coffee sometime and she responded saying 8775 when the time right cause i 8767 m busy next couple of weeks with her girls b-day and family over for X-mas and she said so for sure once the time is right 8776 . How do I take that? A good or bad sign. Textings pretty slow between us after that. I called her after and she never picked up both times she just texted she couldn 8767 t talk cause she was driving and she just said goodnight and went to sleep. Should I just come out and say I like her a lot or wait till the date and bring that up. I do really like her thou. Help a brotha out man.
So Tony I 8767 m not even sure this is active but theirs this girl I like so check this out. I 8767 ve known her for over five years..since highschool. I recently ran into her at Walmart and she asked for my number so we can connect again. We text for a week or so and I invited her out on a date. I 8767 m already experienced in the woman department so I have no issues texting her and what not. Sometimes it takes her a few days to respond but she does and she seems really interested.
Shocked, I texted her back, paraphrasing: 8775 That really hurts. I thought there was a lot of potential there to start something. I think you 8767 re making a mistake. I hope there is still a chance for us sometime in the future. Please don 8767 t be a stranger and message me anytime. Take care. 8776 I didn 8767 t hear back naturally, and tried to let it go. But that weekend, out with my brother, there she was with her boyfriend. We saw each other, smiled and waved like everything was good.
yo man i aint trollin but keep after that guuuuurrrrrrllllllllll .if she is as awesome as you said homie, turtle her butt till she finally wants to go out turtle is just being her best friend while she es datin another holmes till dey break up..then u r her best homie then you get her homie. Remember .mi nombre es Juan yo voy al Y AMOR HOMIES!
I have a very specific set of ideals. If a woman is not able to give me space, it signals to me that she has no life. Because my work (my writing), my freedom, and my solitude (when I desire it) are the three most important, most fulfilling aspects of my life, I expect any woman I 8767 m with to have goals for herself as well. When a woman begins getting hung up about every little text and phone call and what the tone of my voice means, then I know emphatically that she is weak, that she has no life, that she has no goals. I believe that no one can possibly over-think that much about mundane shit unless they simply don 8767 t have anything going on in their own life. I mean really who has the time to think about all that and obsess over it if they have actual goals they 8767 re trying to accomplish in life? S
Dude. Don 8767 t get needy on that girl. She thinks you have options and that you 8767 re out of her league? Good! Use that. But at the same time, she isn 8767 t responding? Wtf? Sounds like she 8767 s retarded. Maybe she fell on her head. If she isn 8767 t replying or answering, who knows? I 8767 m not a mind reader. Are you? Make her fucking reply. Say, 8775 Hey. Fucking reply. 8776 Or move on.
So eventually we go out on a date we hang out go to the mall drink some alcohol smoke some weed etc. I kind of let her decide what we should do because we agreed to go back to place but she had an interest in seeing a movie. She may have dropped me some hints to make a (romantic)move but I didn 8767 t, I just remained charming and funny and playful the entire date. So we watched a good movie at theater had a great time and after like an idiot I asked (was she ready to go home) she kind of said yes and no at the same time and I then asked her if she had to work tomorrow and shouldn 8767 t really give me a clear answer.
If a woman has any idea that a man has feelings other than sexual attachment, it scares the shit out of her because it 8767 s not all about her anymore. A woman will only push away after its an obvious nightmare. When a woman blows you off, it 8767 s because the nightmare is too obvious. Whether it 8767 s 7 days, 7 hours, or 75 years, most people split up. Same reasons, same problems, it 8767 s just how quickly your going through the cycle. Good luck
I met this girl in line in a movie theater and we started talking for a while until the movie started. afterwards she gave me her number and business card so we can catch movies some other time. i asked her to come out again for another movie and she said she it sounds fun wasnt sure can she make it. i texted her back the next day and told her just lemme know can she make it or not. she never responded back.
A couple days later she calls me, again I 8767 m caught off guard. I say hey hows it going, and she says, and i freaking quote, 8775 Go on a date with me. 8776 8775 what? 8776 (this girl has hardly ever shown an interest in me and now that I ignore her she asks me out, Go figure) she says it again, and I say, alright she says when, and I pick Friday, she says shes busy.. Saturday? Actually my friend is having a barbecue Saturday, you could come with me to that. She says 8775 No. I don 8767 t want to go to your friends lame barbecue. Besides you can 8767 t show me off yet. 8776 I was like hah alright well just text me and we 8767 ll figure it out. And she says, hah no, you text me.
Okay people there is a reason for everything.
If a guy is not concerned for talking on the cell with you, it 8767 s because he is talking on the cell with someone else or have the in person company with someone else. He is having an emotional affair on you. Why would he need to talk to you, if he already has someone to talk to. This means he is keeping you around for something he may need. I can bet when he wants to see you that one or 7 days a week, in which I 8767 m sure he expects sex, he is ready to talk on cell or answer your text. This I know I 8767 m write cause I researched it heavily online, and what I found out that. People avoid emotional connection with those they have sex with so they don 8767 t get more attached. They have emotional affairs. A man can have emotional affairs with men, and claim go be a straight guy.
Im from fort lauderdale I went up to FSU for the weekend..I met this girl at FSU shes a freshmen who lives in west palm beach.. danced wit her kissed..than we have been texting for like 8 weeks intensely wit smiley faces haha w/e.. she comes down drove an hour to pick her up take her out..than she goes back up to FSU 5 days later she stopped texting me..wats the problem here..I think she might be in her period maybe or too many guys.
Well I suppose she isn 8767 t interested. I called her, she didn 8767 t even know who called, but she answered and it took her a second to remember me. I asked her if she wanted to grab some food this weekend. She paused, said she had work late on Friday, then said she would love to but (with some awkward fumbling pauses) asked me if she could text me with a time that worked for me. Not expecting to hear back from her, I said of course. A few minutes after I hung up, I thought of a good line I could use for next time. After she asked me if it is okay if she texts me, I wish I would have said 8775 well carrier pidgin is better, but I guess you can text me. 8776 At least she would have been laughing a little instead of just having a run of the mill, logistics conversation.
I started developing a pretty big crush on this girl from school. It was sort of impossible to ever talk in that class but we 8767 d always look at each other and smile. I asked her out a couple months ago. She said yes and we went for coffee. At some point she admitted to me that she 8767 s really bad with her phone (usually texts the day after). We 8767 re also both slightly introverted if that helps at all. Anyway coffee turned out really nice and she gave me a big hug at the end and we made plans to meet up again after we both got back from holiday.
I actually was on a date with this lady, but she was kinda getting too close to me. I thought she liked me.
The next day she asked me to meet her and have a drink with her but I couldn 8767 t because I was caught up in work.
Since, that day, she has been far too unresponsive and never starts a conversation unlike earlier.
I asked her what was troubling her (was obvious that something was) and she replied that she felt that I was offended by her the night we were out. I replied that I wasn 8767 t and that it was a great night but again since that conversation no response.
What do you suggest I do now?
Now it gets bad. After seeing her that night 7 weeks ago i realized i totally liked her. I texted her that Sunday to say hi and if she wanted to get dinner during the week. She never replied. I called her later that week, she didn 8767 t pickup. This morning I texted her saying hi and still nothing. Haven 8767 t heard back from her in over 7 weeks. I want to just call her but I 8767 m feeling borderline skeevy. Help a brother out!!
Hey Tony- I need some advice on a situation Im in. I walked up to this girl and I gave her my number and told her she was beautiful (because she was) She replied thank you so much, and I walked away. The Next day she text me and said 8775 hey it 8767 s ******** you gave me your number yesterday. I said it was nice meeting you and asked how she was doing she replied 8775 I have a-lot of school work 8776 but then asked how I was doing. I replied and told her I was good- and that I would like to meet up with her sometime if she was interested? She replied- 8775 yeah I 8767 d like that :) 8776 and then I replied great when is good for you? hows tomorrow night? she didn 8767 t reply. The next day I texted her after about 65hrs of waiting and I said hey how are you? i still haven 8767 t gotten a reply and it 8767 s been a day. I still don 8767 t know why especially after she seemed so interested?? I would appreciate any insight you may have, Thanks.
If a guy understands you and makes you feel comfortable+horny then its a green light. This is when a guy represents her dark side, the part she knows and fears can get her disqualified from a good man in the end. They don 8767 t value themselves deep down and are trying to find somone who pefectly validates them. This is why they go for the douche bags. Habits+stupid+insecurities+fear of being alone. This is the friendzone. The friendzone is bullshit by the way, because many lovers are friends and start out as friends and should be friends, but what is the friendzone?