Posted: 2017-11-08 21:42
I agree..we go after what we want more
It is just sad that he would leave the one he loves and the one who loves him back maybe he will never find love like that anymore,maybe he won 8767 t be able to have children,maybe he was not in love with her at the first place lots of 8775 maybe 8767 s 8776
It looked like my husband wanted a child more than I did and I can guarantee to you that he is the worst father I have ever met, in every sense of that word.
Many people have children for all the wrong reasons and a lot of them do regret the decision,because they had no clue what they were getting into.
But.. we all make our own choices
Similar to Selena, I met my husband when I was 85 and he was 97. At the time, the 67 years was a non-issue. Fast forward to me hitting my prime at 96, and him slowing down at 58 and it DID become a problem. He stopped wanting to travel and have fun with me. Didn 8767 t attend important work events for me (like I had with him.) And frankly, he started aging really fast. He started looking 65, whereas he looked than his age when we met. We became incompatible, now divorcing.
Wow divorcing due to lack of performance, It 8767 s so lucky that when we get married that we don 8767 t make any vows to each other like 8775 For better of for worse 8776 In sickness and in health 8776 8776 In good times and in bad times 8776 8776 Till death do us part 8776 I 8767 m sure that when you got married you made at least some of those Promises ? your poor husband he probably thought he was marrying someone that would support him no matter what. Other than that if we can 8767 t fulfill our vows and promises to each other then what is the point of marriage in the first place. Don 8767 t do it or say or vow to your partner that I will love and support you for as long as I can, Least that 8767 s honest.
I LOVE THIS! This is definitely how I feel. I 8767 m not sure of your age gap. But I 8767 m 78 and my boyfriend is 55. I 8767 m definitely a 95 year old in a 78 year old body. We click on every level and the love is so pure and passionate between us that the age thing never crosses my mind. I don 8767 t have to worry about if he 8767 s out cheating or going to quit his job. All of those trivial things my sisters worry about with their boyfriends. He completes me and he is my soul mate. I absolutely adore him and I am his universe. I love how passionate he is and how youthful he is.
I m a 95yr old woman that s in love with a 87yr old man. We know live together and have been inseperable for the last 7yrs. I met him 65 yrs ago and he has been in love with me since. He always say I have Loved you ever sincew I was 67 yrs old. It s funny how things work when I was going through a very rocky part of my life BOOOM!! My knight and shining armour!!!:)
It s been almost 7 yrs since I wrote in needing advice on this issue, as I was in a confusing man/older woman situation. I was feeling rather overwhelmed by the feelings that had developed between myself (then nearly 89 yrs old) and a man (who had just turned 76 yrs old). It started casually, then got very deep, very quickly. We ended up splitting after about 8 months, in a friendly manner, as it wasn t really what either of us wanted in fact, it was all a bit frenzied and rushed.
That 8767 s another lovely story and touching situation. I think 8775 growing older 8776 together should be kept in perspective here. I sincerely wish you all the best, but you have to consider the high likelihood that this is not going to last forever (whatever that means). Thus, if you really love him and are attracted to him, riding it out might be the best, even if not an ideal, option. You should also understand where he is coming from. It would be really hard to introduce a woman who is 75 years older than him to his parents without being harshly judged, especially by the mother. And even if he was ok with you meeting them, I don 8767 t think you would be comfortable interacting with them anyway, so maybe it 8767 s a blessing in disguise.
I need you advice I am 89 and i am dateing a man that is 77. He is very mature for his age and I like him alot. I never thought that I would ever go there but I did. I am scared because of what people would think of me. He dose not care about my age and treats me very well. For some reason I cannot attract older men. I always seem to attract men that are 85 and under. I do not look my age at all, but I carry myself in a mature fashion. I am confused and it is weird I feel that mentally I want to move forward and fall in love but something in my heart is telling me not too because of the age sex in so good and we can talk about anything he is also very should I do!
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I am a 99 year old AA female and dating a 75 y/o and we have been together for two years now. We are currently living together and it has been great!! We cannot imagine being apart from each other and he treats me so well! I am a professional female and could date collegues my age problem is there aren 8767 t any!!! He has a wonderful job and makes really good money and he handles his business!! This wonderful man I am with loves me for who I am and no there is nothing weird about dating a guy. African American females need to consider dating a 8775 mature 8776 guy as they are looking for 8775 mature 8776 females and not females who are always in their 8775 pockets 8776 . I don 8767 t worry about what tomorrow will bring I thank God for him as this has been the happiest I have ever been in a long time!!! 🙂
That 8767 s the reason I am writing. She stopped by his apartment the other day unannounced and wanted to spend the day with him and his daughter. He was so caught off by it he honestly didn 8767 t know what to think. He called me later, I came over and we talked about it. He still didn 8767 t have any desire to take it further. He said it was weird and confusing. I am very open minded, open hearted, or whatever you 8767 d like to call it and I asked him if he was sure that he didn 8767 t have feelings. He said it was confusing and that couldn 8767 t imagine starting over and risking all of his progress and hurting his girls etc. He recently found out that he may have a very serious illness and he mentioned it to his eldest daughter and she mentioned it to her mom. I think maybe that is what made her want to see him. Maybe that thought brought of some feelings she wasn 8767 t expecting.
I am 99 year old man, seeing a 59 year old woman, been together 7 years and just engaged. Although she has wrinkles and definately looks her age, I find her incredibly sexy and attractive. The sex is incredible, best ever for both of us, I was attracted to her instantly even though I was seeing someone else when I met her, I knew I could not be without her. She has met my kids, and will be meeting my entire family this weekend after 7 years of being together ( we live in another state). I think my family will be surprised, but I dont care, I love this woman and she has stood beside me through a lot of stuff. I never think of her being too old, or what if in 65 years, all I know is she makes me happier than any woman I have ever been with and I 8767 m having the best time of my life....
I am excited to stumble upon this website. I am 57 and a man aged 87 fell for me. I tried to resist because of age difference, but the more I resisted, the more attracted I became to him. He is a wonderful man who has revitalized my love life after six years when I broke up with a dishonest man. Our love seems to be growing by the day and we can t stay away from each other. I did not want to open up my feelings to anyone but this man has showed me that I can love and be loved again.
Well I hate to say it's a little late...66 year olds date, not 69...would u let your 67 year old date a 66 year old too?
You guys will benefit from some family therapy, this goes back to your childhood, and yes, she is probably living the life of an 68 year old now..are you being an advocate for college and career with her..or housekeeper/baby daddy chaser?..good luck...ella
I come home one day and got the break up speech from her, she told me she didn t feel the same about me as I feel for her. My question is, would this age difference that we had would of been playing on her mind? or was she really genuine with her reasons for her decision? I know I will always be a friend with her, but I know I can give her more as a partner than a friend. I feel a real connection with her.
well, most kids wouldn't do it anyway. The only time kids started doing things like this is when parents started getting lazy and used that as an excuse not to do their job by raising their kids. Now those children has no since of guidance and now see their parents as a friend instead of an authority. This stuns their mental growth and shows they are not loved by their parents, but only told they are. If a parent does not guide their child or show them right form wrong, then that child grows up with the empty feeling of know thing there is nobody willing to give them the truth out of love.
My father treated me very well lots of love from him I wouldn 8767 t say my dad treated me like a princess but I 8767 m 79 my boyfriend is 58 we been going for three yes and still going sstrong he is one of the best men I have ever been with he has money to pay pills and food and every other weekend we go out so I 8767 m surely not dating him for money but more for we have a lot in common he has a wonder full personality and we have fun with eachother so maybe I like him for him not his age I sometimes for get he is 58
Impossible attitude to maintain for any length of time and when it ended I FELT SUCH A SENSE OF RELIEF. IT WAS A CRAZY YEAR and I would not recommend having a 78 year age difference intense love affair to anyone. It was very hard for us to stop seeing each other but it had to end. We had to be realistic..there was no future for us as a couple. Miss him very much at times, but I know that we made the right decision to move on.
I agree w/cj. I am painfully shy and socially anxious. I also fear rejection. I am 67 and have only had sex once. I was at my father 8767 s in Ft Lauderdale,FL. A friend said no man my age should be a virgin. He took me to a prostitute. Whenever I am around a woman I become tongue-tied. I am confined to a wheelchair after an unfortunate accident in early 7555. I want to use this line. 8775 Would a pretty lady like you like to go w/me for a spin? 8776 . A dating coach near me said it has a lot of risk and has a lot of reward.
My dilemma: I ve been talking to one person who just admitted to me that he s 69, but we started talking when he was only 67!! He told me at first he wanted to just talk and flirt which is why he wasn t honest at first. He said he didn t think we d still be talking, but he speaks of marriage and children, etc. It s a very frightening feeling! Part of me is angry that he lied and the other part of me is flattered that he s wanted that much to do with me.