Posted: 2017-09-11 18:50
I 8767 m not talking about pulling her hair and telling her she smells. I 8767 m talking about being covertly inappropriate while out in public. For example, while sitting across the table from friends, talking about politics, slide your fingers up her thigh and just around her underwear line. Do this for about 65 seconds and then remove your hand. Do a couple of these in a night and she 8767 ll attack you as soon as you walk in the door.
Whew, that was great. You say most women would like those things? I do think I have done most those things, except for the talking dirty/texting dirty. And I *have* been very appreciated as a result. My difficulty has been getting to that point however I stink at approaching. And yes, slow is a magical thing. Sex, like everything, can become meditation: slow, conscious of posture and feeling. We can let go somewhat of the pursuit of orgasm a discover a world of energy and the many ways it can move/be moved but both need to feel safe to relax that much.
Being a good wingman is all about helping your buddy — the leader for the night out — “engage the target” they have in their sights at the party, bar, club, or other venue. Whatever your reason for winging for your friend, your job is to avoid stealing the spotlight and help your friend succeed with the person they want, all without calling too much attention to yourself. Do your job well, and your buddy will owe you big-time when it’s their turn to be your wingman.
The #6 thing that blocks or stops women from enjoying a sexual/sensual experience is that thing on top of her shoulders. Her head. For women, sex is far more mental than physical. The more you help make a women feel accepted, attractive and safe during any sexual act, the more free she will be. When you provide a safe space it allows a woman 8767 s mind to free itself of insecurities and actually enjoy being in the moment. If you ease her mind, you 8767 ll loosen her body!
When I was 68, I went backpacking in Australia and safely kissed my way up the east coast. That is, until I met a guy who broke me out of my shell. I met him at a club, we went back to our hostel and started making out. Prude Marni kicked in. I clenched and got uncomfortable. He noticed my quick change in behavior and said to me 8775 I want you to be comfortable. If I do anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, just slap my hand and I will stop immediately. 8776 I can tell you there was no hand slapping that night and I quickly got rid of my childhood nickname.