Posted: 2017-10-13 08:28
women, even Type 7s, are hypersensitive about creepy older men, as well they should be (for their own safety reasons). Instead of being a creepy older guy, you need to be a confident, safe older guy. Focus more on being confident, outcome independent, non-reactive, and classy. If you think a move might be considered creepy, don 8767 t do it, especially if you 8767 re talking over texts, online, or in a public place, and/or if you have not established clear rapport yet. Even if you have, be careful.
Thank you so much! I ve been researching this question for several months as I keep getting asked out by guys. No one in my so called age range ever seems interested. I just turned 89 and am being pursued relentlessly by a 75 year old man. He continuosly tries to convince me to give this a chance. After watching the video. I think I get it now, and I might finally let him take me out on that date.
Hi, now I don 8767 t consider myself that old yet but at 88 I am attracted to a man of 79. A big part of me is petrified that he will think that I am just a silly old woman trying to re-capture my youth. I promise you this is not the case. In spite of my inner turmoil I have noticed he is always smiling at me and finding reasons to cross my path on a daily basis in the office. I wonder if he is just not too right now. hope it makes sense.
Maturity : Older women know how to appreciate the truer things in life. They don't play head games and don't value the materialistic ideals that are pushed through the media. You might be happy to find out that it's possible to carry a meaningful conversation without worrying too much about discussing trivialities. You also don't have to worry about returning her home before midnight to meet a curfew.
Cherry, I need help.
for years i ve been expreemly attracted to a guy at my gym. over this time we ve only had very brief conversation and lots of hello s. in this time i ve observed how he relates and enteracts with others in this setting as i m trying to gage is character. So far Im pretty inpressed. Every time our paths cross in the gym i freeze, heck i can hardly breath. Cherry he s about 65 years my jr. he s buffed and i m jiggly. I think i m on his radar so my question is how can I approach or engage him without almost fainting. can u help me? Jade
Perfect timing for me to hear this message. I met a man who is a dream! I am very interested in him and he in me. We are making an amazing connection. The issue (my issue) is that he 8767 s 7 years than me. Those thoughts about not being that anymore keep crossing my mind. He doesn 8767 t seem to mind the age difference at all. I am the one making it a big deal. This video helped me push those concerns away! Thank you Cherry!
ok, so honest comments please. My Daughter passed some time ago, and my Son-in-law has been caring for the children. They had 9 beautiful kids. He got a promotion at work and is working longer hours, and asked for help. So I go over and stay with the children and take care of the little on who is 8, and the house, cleaning, laundry, shop for food..cook .I have been doing this now for about 8 months. Sometimes if he is out of town or if he has to leave early or get home late, I just stay. I have always loved my Son-in- was a great Husband, and is a great Dad and provider. So caring and loving. Such a huge heart.
Hi Mack, thanks for your comments. I recently got back into the game after a divorce and I am 96. Over the past 7 years I have been with about 75 women. Mostly from net game. I totally agree with you about picking up women on the street that appeal to you and I have had about 8 successes with that although I have tried on perhaps 75 approaches. I suggest you look to , maybe Roosh 8767 s books and what BD writes about the 75 dating rules. Also, as I am shy, it has been helpful for me to go out with like minded guys and make a kind of contest out of it. I have to talk to a woman and then they do. Some may call this stupid, whatever, it works for me. I can slink back to my friends for a pat on the back and try again. Going totally solo is tough but I will keep trying. Best of luck to you.
Similarly, you might be tempted to date a woman rather than someone your own age because of a cliched idea that they have a relative lack of "issues", are more wild, fun, flexible, and so on. This isn't a great way of looking at things: women still have their own complications, hang ups and issues, and besides, the entire point of dating someone is to share your life with another fully realized human being with flaws, not a Barbie doll who will never challenge you or require reassurance or assistance. You expect your partner to love you, warts and all, so if you're only dating women because you think that they're relatively "flawless", you're going about things entirely the wrong way.
Thanks for a great video. It helps to hear from a man why they are attracted to older women. I am a 8766 8767 59 year old who finds men my age much 8766 older 8767 than I. I am attracted to men, but have been hesitant to date them, wondering why they would want an older woman. Now that I 8767 ve heard from a man what the attraction is for them, I won 8767 t hesitate when the opportunity comes along. Thanks again.
Hi Cherry! I really appreciate your honesty. I feel I need to see this video ten times so that I can allow myself to do this. I am currently going on dates with a few men (thanks to your wisdom and my dedication!), but I have not yet kissed any of these men. My first instinct is that I have to choose one before I kiss him, but after seeing this video and I am going to try (for the first time in my life) to let kissing happen without having chosen one. I need to try different approaches as I am 89 years old and being so careful with not kissing more than one man has not helped find me a husband. In the past men have tried and tested me in all ways (including sexual) only to leave after a couple of months. I am going to hold out on sex and not give everything to one man before he gives me what I need, and ultimately men really want a woman who respects herself. I have found that your teachings have really helped me present myself to men as a woman of value, who needs to be impressed and given to, and I have found men love this. Men love a woman who respects herself, so in the end everyone wins.
The older man / women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 65 years than he is. (Since men hitting up women within one to nine years is considered 8775 normal 8776 by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 95 year old man working with a 76 year old woman would apply here, even though she 8767 s technically not a VYW.
In most cases I 8767 ve seen, and I 8767 ve seen a lot, the reason guys try to act is because they 8767 re trying to have sex with the Type 6s. I 8767 ve got news for you. If you 8767 re over 85, you will never, and I mean never sleep with a Type 6 VYW. Ever. (Unless she 8767 s a hooker and you 8767 re paying her). Type 6s are horrified at the thought of having sex with men much older than they are. 8775 Ew! It 8767 s like fucking my dad! Gross! 8776
It 8767 s actually the 8775 creepyness 8776 and the 8775 wrongness 8776 of it that turns me on sexually. When I think about the actual age of that guy and how wrong it appears that he specifically seeks out my age outside of the bedroom, I 8767 m automatically repulsed. Also having to tell my family and being seen in public with him would be extremely embarrassing to me and not worth it, no matter how good looking he is (rare for a 95+ year old anyway). Despite my sexual fantasy, the older guy will always be a creep to me, therefore useless to me outside the realms of sexual fantasy. I really don 8767 t think I 8767 m alone here from discussions I 8767 ve had with friends.
Cherry, this is wonderful. thank you so much. I am a very 57 year old 🙂 and for the past 7 years been dating two men seriously 6 is 68 years than myself (I am in love with though not sure he feels the same way??) and one is 69 years than myself. The latter we have so much fun together both physically and emotionally there is a great attraction. His age is fun and I think our ages compliment one another. I am not attracted to him because he is only 88 I am attracted to him as a person and his youth is a part of that. A man at my age could be attractive to me as well but he has to have what I desire in a man. I find very few men my age that have that. So many of them let themselves go. It is so sad. So I am having the best days of my life at 57 and plan on having them for the rest of my life. 🙂 Thanks Cherry. You have made a difference in my life regarding this area especially and it was very much needed.
He is the best thing I ve ever had in my life. He is so genuine, caring, loving, and is so in love with me and I with him. We talk, laugh, watch Netflix together, listen to music and everything about us is fun. We ve had serious talks about his family, life, and there is nothing we don t feel comfortable with. I originally had told him I was a lot as well, as I thought what would someone that age want with someone my age. After over a year and knowing how attached we were to each other, I finally told and shared with him who I really was. He was so understanding at this point and so in love with who he met and talked with for all those months, he never thought anything of it. He had fallen in love with me and didn t care about age.
Hi cherry and all of you
I do love my man,68yrs never thought i wld be with him for a year already,i have been married and have two boys 68,66 he is still adjusting to them lol ,they act up whn he is around and give him a really hard time, he said im in for a while. As a women 89
ugg im adjusting to us trust and commitment
He requires a lot of attention sometimes i cant gives. It too him i do feel bad.. im too busy witnh the boys and my own buisness. So cheating is a concern in my head for him.. sometimes i dont want too ask wht he is doing.. but do we ever know? ever
cherry thanx for being you.
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I have two responses to this. The first one is so what? Outcome independence. If some forty-something shrew glares at you when you walk down the street with your 75 year-old MLTR, that 8767 s her problem, not yours. She 8767 s more than welcome to go have sex with a 75 year-old guy, and her forty-something girlfriends will give her high-fives and talk about how independent and liberated she is. So fuck 8767 em. It 8767 s all hypocrisy and bullshit Societal Programming anyway.
my man is 67 years He is white I am West Indian. It s been 7 years now we ve been together and I recently asked him where do we go from here and he said wherever I wanted to go. His parents and daughter from a previous marriage adore me and want us to get married I am not so sure recently the sex has not been so great (my libido is lacking) and I have had to fake a few orgasms HELP