Posted: 2017-09-11 22:57
Nobody said anything about all single moms being brilliant. Most people are not brilliant. Most married moms are not brilliant nor or their husbands. Brilliance is a rarity. I didn 8767 t realize we are discussing extreme traits. Stupidity is very common and it does not discriminate against single mothers or married parents. I can click a link just fine as well as having a good bit of first hand knowledge on the subjuct.
Your anger and bitterness is real apparent. Stating that single mothers may often times be troubled individuals is different that claiming that most are STUPID, POOR AND UNCARING. Perhaps within certain demographics and under a certain set of circumstances. Your statements are generalized and NOT based on any certainties.
All writers are arrogant, narsasistic pricks with no grasp of reality and often say whatever they want with out little no concern with truth. Now I can copy and paste a bunch of BS that I quickly pulled together off the internet and call it proof But even I know that everything I just said was biased and based on my own opinion and ignorance.
I agree with this so much I 8767 m compelled to leave my first comment on this site, despite having read it for months! I 8767 m also an INTJ. Like every personality types (none of which are inherently bad or good) there are healthy and less-than-healthy people within. My employers have liked me so much they 8767 ve semi-jokingly threatened to lock the doors to prevent me from moving onto other jobs ) And the fact that I don 8767 t burn bridges has led me, for example, to take in an extra 65k last year, freelancing for an old employer that didn 8767 t want to let me go entirely.
The lure of something you 8767 re not supposed to have. Trust me, I understand (I just posted now about my 5 years as the OW). I know I genuinely fell in love with mine and I warn other women from letting themselves get that deep. It will get you no where. You don 8767 t want to feel the sadness of not being picked (because normally they are cowardly and never do). I promise you that you are beautiful and will find another sexy mocha man. 😉 That will love you openly for the whole world to see and what to give you the world because he loves you and only you. Don 8767 t just walk away run! 🙂
People don't aren't any different on dating sites than they are/were in "meat market" bars back in the 75s & 85s. Nice guys never had a chance because they were perceived as wimps. Based on my experince and in spite of what AW says, girls seem to go for the "bad boys" (creeps). I don't know whether if's the excitement of going out with a "bad boy", or masochism of getting no respect, or the futile hope of changing the guy but girls are drawn to creeps.
Couldn 8767 t even finish this article. Horrible. This person shouldn 8767 t be writing anything at all So is best if child is grawing with both but sees abusive father, sees him treating his mom like shit ? I left my man when my son was 5 months old and is the best thing I ever did ! For me and my boy ! If not we would be still stuck in fair together.. You shouldn 8767 t be blaming single mothers , open your eyes. See what 8767 s happening in families with both parents better. No respect , fights , abuse. This kids will grow up amazing people ? That 8767 s why we leave , for our kids. Because we love them more ! We are BRAVE And you shouldn 8767 t be even talking , because you don 8767 t have that much love like we do Just start loving yourself. Good luck
So I am a woman but I wanted to see what men were being told to do in order to 8766 woo 8767 us and for the most part I am astounded. I hate that the number one point is complimenting her looks, yes it is nice for our looks to be complimented but you getting to a stage where body issues are so massive that your only adding to the problem if the first thing you do is make it obvious that you are paying attention to how she looks, it 8767 ll put pressure on her. I personally would rather have my intelligence be complimented, but not outrightly, in a way of being shown respect for my opinion. Be more creative about how you compliment girls, and try to not talk about her appearance first because in my opinion I would think that was rude.
The other thing that usually happens is that the women appears less childish because it s the guy who has to move things forward. The person who sits back and waits for the other person to take the risks always looks less immature. Like in American Pie the main character is incredibly immature and borderline creepy by setting up a webcam so his friends can see this girl get naked. But the result of this? The cute redhead goes with him to prom specifically because she saw the video so he was a sure thing. In the second movie he immaturely wants to use the redhead so he can get good at making out, sex, etc for when a completely different girl arrives. But this is the catalyst that causes him to date the redhead. The person who gets to sick back and wait for the other person to figure things out is the one who comes across as more mature. They aren t really, but they appear that way.
I feel little hesitant about the fact that everyone is jumping onto there are non-engineers, too! given that the original comment started with the note that he was being advised by his therapist to date a fellow engineer or a scientist. I got the sense that he had been dating non-engineers already, and was having issues related to engineer/non-engineer relating, which as a female engineer, I have experienced myself.
But the reason women always slept around is they're wired that way. As well as the evidence accumulated by Bergner you can look at "sperm wars" and paternity testing for proof. Why do sperm fight and kill one another? They have to if they want a chance at a fertilising an egg, because women have always slept around. And there were a lot of surprised people around when DNA testing of children first became possible.
Every time he breaks it off it 8767 s because he says he cannot picture himself married with a family and can never give me what I truly want, even though I have not tried to pressure him. He also says he doesn 8767 t think about me all day (so he doesn 8767 t obsess about me like people do when they FIRST meet someone). I have explained to him that I do not think about him all the time either, and I am not head over heels for him.
But the issue is, in online dating and real life, a guy *may* have a better spark with Girl B, but if there s nothing/very little to attract him to Girl B, he ll never find out. That s why Girl A wins. maybe not that specific Girl A, but some Girl A down the line, because the guy will continuing choosing people with these attractive qualities, since that s all he can see.
hi I m 66 and I have 7 options my teacher is down right amazing and we ve flirted a lot and I know she likes me and I like her back I don t want anyone to find out. I m also attracted to friends mom who is around 95 and if anything did happen it would be really awkward. I have had girlfriends around my age but I just now feel attracted to older women what should I do? Thanks and please reply!
When I say there s a lot of girls on the personals who are selfish and just in it for the kicks (I said a lot, not all), I get a lot of negative responses but Hannah is exactly the kind of girl who would do it for the attention then bail and just not show up when meeting because she s not sure what to do. I can totally a female character on the show who calls some guy creepy because she s in a bad mood and just doesn t like him and he seems harmless. They re egotistical and self-centered they don t care about any sort of higher level should I say this kind of stuff.
I can certainly understand your shock and concern. However, marrying more than one woman is very common in their culture. Generally, the first wife is chosen by his mother and sometimes she 8767 s even a first cousin. Their marriage is seen by some as his 8766 duty 8767 or 8766 family obligation 8767 . Of course this doesn 8767 t mean all first wives are chosen in this manner, but it 8767 s not uncommon.
I ve never seen that happen in real life, it s always been a girl wearing something that s meant to really show off her body (tube top, skimpy clothing, super tight clothing, etc). At the same time, I ll certainly acknowledge that the fact that I ve never seen it happen doesn t mean that it doesn t. If there s anyone out there who says the kinds of things I see in the comments section of some PUA sites I can believe it happens sometimes.
I 8767 ve been married to a wonderful Kuwaiti for almost 67 years. Have traveled to meet his family quite a few times and they 8767 ve (for the most part) been nothing but kind. His parents, brother and sisters spent time with us in the States, as well. We now have 8 children together and plan on relocating to Kuwait in December/January to allow our kids to absorb more the language and culture and get to know more of their family. Any suggestions on how to go about meeting other American women who are married to locals? I 8767 ve looked over a good number of the expat websites and I 8767 m not sure that 8767 s where I should be headed. One of my first priorities will be language immersion, but in the interim, it would be nice to find someone to meet for coffee..
Fast forward another couple years. In the summer before my senior year at high school I 8767 m told she has fallen in love with a man who lives about 5hr drive away and we would be moving to his town so she could be with him. I ask can this not wait one year so I can graduate with all the friends i have grown up with? 8775 No honey, you wouldn 8767 t understand, but I need to do this for meeeeee 8776
Maybe he was an asshole who knows. But at least there was a commitment rather than the 7 careless people who fuck without considering consequences of a real live human being being the result! I 8767 m sick of cum dumpsters making babies for a career choice. You accept these people. Great. its your choice. Shell out your money at a job you actually attend and take it to Human Services as charity! By your tone I think you protest too much and that you ARE an unwed mother who needs spayed do you stop leechiing off our tax dollars! If you 8767 re so pissed off why are you here? This site is called Judgy Bitch and this is America so fuck off unwed mother. Get a hysterectomy. Get a job and make yourself useful! (dressed!)
So we are the judgemental ones yet according to you single men are all 8775 irresponsible, immature, dependant and [only want sex] 8776 !!!
Therefore you don 8767 t date single men. This implies you date attached or married men. mmmm.
I note that the child is referred to as 8775 my child 8776 and the father is not mentioned. Any man can see the way you will treat him if he was to have a child with you. Of course you only attract the type you have experienced. You have made it quite plain how you would eventually treat responsible, mature, independant, genuine, sincere, single men. That 8767 s why you don 8767 t experience any.
OP, one point I wanted to make is that all those big, challenging jobs/projects you are looking are also made up of a lot of minutiae. Probably even boring minutiae. I say this to reiterate that those smaller things that bore you now will not magically go away later. Even if you get a huge promotion and have an assistant to do those things, you still would have to figure out what needs to be done so you could ask the assistant to work on it.