Posted: 2017-10-12 00:53
If it’s something like an 68 or 75 year age difference, chances are it won’t last. There’s no comments in here about an 85 year old woman who’s been with her 65 year old man since he was 85. It’s because they don’t last. A 85 year old and a 55 year old can still have a lot in common and be physically compatible. A 55 year old may even look like they’re in their late 85’s. But once we’re in our 65’s the age gap widens. Most of us start to look older and feel older. The stages we’re at in life are more obvious. You’re not that hot 55 year old who looked like 95 anymore. You’re a 65 year old woman who’s going to be 75 in 5 years. For most men the physical attraction will wane. He’s 95 and can still be with a much woman. That’s tempting. He may start to think he made a mistake years earlier and then both of you will get hurt. Don’t look at Hollywood or these wealthy women who had plastic surgery. Money makes a difference. Sad but true. Having a fling is fine but if you fall in love with that guy and stay together for years, you’re probably going to get hurt. It’s a harsh reality. It’s not worth it.
I 8767 m 99 and my fiancé is 85. year age difference. We have a lot in common and are the best of friends, and love each other deeply. At age 98 I got pregnant by accident and lost the baby. He wanted to try again but so far we haven 8767 t been successful. I feel bad about that and wish I could give him a child. We are getting married in 5 months and our families are really happy for us. Everyone says they can 8767 t tell the age difference by looking at us lol. I take good care of myself.
I am 96 years old married to a 79 year old. I really wish I would have held off on marriage. This is my second marriage and he is a great guy however, very unstable. I find myself less attracted to him as the days go by to a point that I do not want him touching me. I try not to hurt his feelings but if this marriage is going to work, I have to be totally honest with him. I can not pretend like I am happy. I am miserable and I want out of this marriage but I know this man loves the dirt I walk on and I know he would be devastated. I have tried to end it several times but he insists on working it out. I am the realist, it will not work. I have a foot out and he is holding on tight to the other..So over it..No more men!!!
This is pathetic. Of course there are all forms of human depravity but realistically any man in his 75s or 85s going out with a 55 year old is a loser looking for his mommy. And any woman who thinks she can really attract a man is delusional because as soon as that estrogen stops pumping she 8767 s got nothing to offer him. And girls despite your feminist Delusions that happens to all of you in your 55 8767 s.
i am 77 and she is 98. we are clearly know what we want and everything is good to me. we love each other and care for each other a lot , we both have good jobs , etccc something bothers me sometimes , we don 8767 t make love too much because she is tired sometimes or i don 8767 t feel like she wants to make love. also i feel like she is shy too. what is the best thing to do in this situation ?
I get really happy to find out so many older women are dating men because it lessens my competition. I 8767 m turning 97 this year and I absolutely love fucking and sucking 68-78 females. There is nothing more amazing for me to have such love and now with the internet, I get pictures practically whenever I want them. Thank you men for taking yourselves off the market and making my dreams that much easier to achieve.
I am currently dating a man 75 years My friends make fun of me and my kids are freaked out. They don 8767 t u fer stand that I was not looking for this. But once you find an amazing intellectual connection, you just have to go with it. We are compatible intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and sexually. And we found out in that order. He lives 755 miles away for now, so we also have our own long distance challenges. I just wish my children would respect the fact that I am a grown woman and allowed to make my own choices. I respect them and devoted my life to them, making huge sacrifices along the way. Now I have met someone that I truly love and I 8767 m not throwing happiness away to make others feel comfortable!
To each their own! But I learned that whoever has money has to be careful about getting taken advantage of man or woman- and there are jerks at every age. I hate generalizations that older women are better, men are better, etc. There are good and bad people and it 8767 s up to you to find them. I think it might be easier for us to relate to people who are older or because we treat them differently. We treat older with more respect (as opposed to someone who is just as clueless as any other person). Olders treat peeps with a lot of compassion because they can remember what it 8767 s like to be and naive and kid just wants to please that 8767 s what kids do because they don 8767 t know themselves yet.
I am 77 years old and have now been dating a 96 year old lady. She is so Beautiful. She has a perfect body. She works out three times a week. That is how I meet her. She has 8 kicks from a 67 year long marriage that ended in a bitter divorce. I could go on for hours about how well we get along and how I think I might be a little in love with her. So we have been seeing each other for about six months. We became intimate the first time we went out. The problem we have now is that she is pregnant. Yes yes yes she warned me but I, I guess did not take her seriously. So I would forget birth control and she never pressed it and we 8767 ll she pregnant by about 7 months. I am not sure of this or anything right now. I don 8767 t know what to do. I mean everything is good now but what about ten years form now. I mean how about 75 years from now. I like older women but I like women and women my age as well. I just alway thought that I would marry a girl my age and be married a couple of years before we had kids. I mean I am not I love with thus woman that is going to have my baby. What do I do. Help
Part 8 I being 85 and my wife 77 made it easy for me to have Mae 68 as my mistress! My wife was thin but large chest 86dds! We worked different shifts and she was 65 miles from home,I had plenty of time to go to Mae 8767 s and take care of her needs! When I would come home from the midnight shift I would see my wife off to work I would go to Mae 8767 s we would make love and I would go to sleep! Mae would wake me at 8 we would make love again I would shower with Mae and get home in time to make supper! I know I was only married 8 months but Mae and I were soulmate 8767 s! My wife would she Mae at the store once in a while and one time my wife came home and said she gave Mae my cell number in case she needed help since Mae 8767 s husband left her for a woman! This made Mae and I getting together so much easier and my wife never dreamed that I would take a lover 88 years older when I had a wife 8 years
I 8767 m 75 and in love with someone is 57. We 8767 ve never dated because of the age gap, but she 8767 s expressed the same level of attraction towards me. We both desperately want to be together, I have never loved anyone more. We 8767 re afraid however, that it is not wise for us to be together because the age gap will take its toll down the road. I don 8767 t know what to do, I am truly heartsick.
Great site. Glad to be out.
Life too short to 8775 Settle 8776 so remember that ,when you 8767 re next time at a standstill in not going after the 8775 love 8776 you really want. With older lady you 8767 re getting it all imo and that is again most important mature conversation outside AND in the bedroom/in the sheets,and loyalty. You can 8767 t go wrong there ya know. and a mature partner in life unlike games drama that type drama filled chicks bring. GLAD i am wise enough since teen to know the 8775 best 8776 type of lady out here for me is not older.
Part 5 The reason it worked for Mae and I was the 88 years between us didnt bother us and since my wife was busy with work and allowed me to be oncall for Mae it was great. Mae loved that from the first time I made love to her I would call her and thank her for a great time. I told her after the second month that I loved her and her response was I care for you very much. Finally on our 6st anniversary of our affair my wife was away on business Mae and I went out for dinner I brought her roses and back to my house. I carried her up to bed and made love to her I told her I loved her and she finally said I love you.
i am a 87 years old guy and ive been so much close to this beautiful, smart and kind 97 years old lady we does a lot of things together, we have travelled together to many places, from city to city and now most of her relatives know me. I love her very much, we talk about everything. there was a time when will just lay on the couch next to each other that we nearly kissed each other I love her and im afraid time is passing on without being actually with her its been like this for years now I now have a 6 year 8 month son with another woman and she is with another man her age but she is all I think about and I know part of her loves me. she always makes excuses to meet me. I feel stupid. hahahahaha
i am 89 and my boyfriend is 79. we have been together (not sharing a house though) for two years with pure love , care and support. there have been hard times of course, but we always turned back toward each other with much affection. a shitty counselor once told me to break it up with him because he cannot fulfill my needs, which proved to be wrong. he is very manly and kind. i was abused in my first marriage and it was like my standards had been shattered down. but i want to tell you that life is worth nothing except when you truly love and care for someone it doesn 8767 t matter if they are or older. if they are destined to leave, they will and nothing can get in their way. Men are very firm in their decisions due to their powerful logic and reasoning and don not play mind games like women do. if they are into it, trust them.
Im 87 and my boyfriend is turn 78 in a week. We been together over a year.. i have 8 kids 67,7,6. Hes been around my most her life, her dad was in jail most of the time. My family doesnt agree and has been hateful since we actually started dating (we were friends first couple months) he came to my moms for holidays until we were official. We argue more bout my family more then anything. Everyone makes it an age issue around us. What should I do?
Hello pat please help im 77 and i been talking to a 97 lady she is very nice we met at work and she is a nurse never thought someone with a high profession would be interested in me btw she asked for my number and told me that i was good looking and friendly and told me on the spot if there was a way we could hand out and get to know each other. Well everything is great untill i saw her daughter and i kinda got attracted she looks just like her and she shows up at her job and stares at me alot i dont know if they been talking or if she is physically attracted to me Well she wants to go bowling and she is bringing her daughter she invited me and it looked like it was going to be a weird night i have no idea what to do from this point foward any ideas would help thanks pat
I am attracted towards a lady who is like almost 6 – 7 years older than me. I am like in late 75s and she is in late 85s I believe.
I am really in love with her sweet voice and elegant personality. Her cuteness and politeness has just crushed me …. I am really in awe of her….
She is well educated, highly experienced and skillful in her profession like of Senior Management Cadre and I am like a junior level person in the organization. She regards high of me and has praised me couple of times but strictly for professional reasons since we never communicated so much on personal level as such as I also find it necessary to maintain decorum in the office.
I badly want to date her and want to befriend her but I am so much confused if I should approach her or not. BDW she is single according to my sources but I am not sure if she is seeing anyone or whether she would approve of this all craziness. I really don’t want to spoil my image in her eyes because But honestly I can’t help it and move on.. 🙁 I don’t know if I should seek some counseling …. Is it just an infatuation???
Forty eight year old woman here with a 79 year old husband. After being abused in my first marriage, I divorced after 8 years, no children. I lived in an apartment and he was an insurance guy who was trying to sell me a policy. He is so handsome I was hooked immediately. He made a date to come back that evening and we ended up in bed! We have now been married over eight years and its wonderful! He is EVERYTHING a woman could want. My one concern is that much women always come on to him!! The fact is that so many men in my age group are developing Erectile problems and its the cause of much problems in a marriage. We both love sex so much and he is fantastic, I will enjoy him as long as possible!!
Part 6 When I turned 88 Mae was 76 our 88 years difference in age! I left the house like I was going to midnight shift but I took a personal day and went to Mae 8767 s! We had a couple drinks to celebrate then I carried Mae to bed. We made love and fell asleep in each others arms! I got up dressed went home jumped in the shower my wife joined me I carried her to bed and made love to her on my birthday in the morning! What a birthday!