Posted: 2017-10-12 11:19
i decide to come Korea with any ways
Not because of i read this
Actually, i read this because i imagine something about that
because i know, Korean peoples are more educated than rest of the world.
İt means they have more iq points to understanding others if they can.
This is perfect, if you feel peoples around you have no enough understanding skills and may korea is a good place for founding a intelligent, high skilled women
i want that so much, because if i stay here i cant find somebody like me
Thanks so much, Betty, for coming out with this. I read the article this morning, and thought, hmm, maybe I could be a bit more firm with my daughters 8767 academic efforts. But hearing your side confirmed what I suspected: this 8775 tough love 8776 parenting method makes for unhappy people! Why weren 8767 t her daughters interviewed in the piece? I 8767 m sure Chua had their mouths carefully taped shut. It must be especially hard on these two girls to be the only kids their fairly privileged community to have NEVER gone on a sleepover, sampled an extracurricular of their choice, played a computer game, or watched TV. What do their friends (if she lets them have any) think of that?
Anyway, thanks again for this post I 8767 m going to go and give my girls a hug. And hugs to you!
Save the whining and moaning for somebody who will buy your crap. Do some women avoid short men like the plague? Sure. So do some women avoid men who have no degree like the plague. So do some women avoid men who are older than them. So do some women avoid man of their own or another race. So do some women avoid men who are fat. So do some women avoid men who are Alphas and some avoid Betas. So do some women avoid men who are obese.
Some big men are also jerks. This comes from two different but equally bad places. The big man is just a bully that acts like he does because he feels his size allows him to. I had two grandfathers. Everyone does. Not all people have a situation like my two grandfathers experienced. My grandfather on my dad 8767 s side was a big man. Generally a quiet and calm man. Most of my uncles on that side of the family are similar big but calm and reserved.
Asian-American men are also the most educated. They have the highest rate of college graduation. They are also the most over-represented demographic at elite universities (being 9-5x over-represented at schools such as Harvard, Stanford, Yale). Even with racial quotas within the ivy league that heighten standards and limit enrollment of Asian-Americans, they are still over-represented at these schools. At elite universities where these enrollment quotas are removed, it goes to being 65x more over-represented (ex: Asian-Americans make up 9% of the . population but are the majority at Berkeley).
Men reject women for small boobs, short legs, and flat butts. All these characteristics could exist in a woman of healthy body weight with a healthy body style, yet many men (not all ) act as if morbid obesity is the ONLY reason why a man rejects a woman based on her physicality, and the go on to say they are really only rejecting the lifestyle and the character flaw that obesity is a reflection of. Now THAT is total non-sense. I have no problem with men having a physical type, and if that means a woman with short legs gets rejected, so be it. BOTH genders are entitled to their own unique set of attraction triggers. An OKC study showed that men only pick the 9 8767 sand the 65 8767 s to write to. And men say that is perfectly OK. But a woman having her own attraction triggers ? Many men say 8775 not OK 8776 .
sheseizereason, I was thinking the exact same thing this doesn 8767 t jive with previous personal accountability posts. Hopefully someone who has no problem dating short men contacts Tom (maybe that was the aim of the whole thing to get Tom a lot of exposure) but I doubt any rewiring of what people find attractive is going to happen by being berated for being honest. We can 8767 t be attracted to everyone, life is unfair, right? Change your expectations and behavior, right?
After reading all these comments you must think, 8775 damn, how do Swedish men and women mate and have lots of babies? 8776 I wonder that too, and I 8767 ll put the blame on the dark swedish winter and the bright swedish summer. You also must think that Swedish women hate their fellow men. It 8767 s part true, more Swedish women are interested in foreign men than they are in other Swedes. Boredom, lack of balls, and overall disappointment are contributing factors.
I don 8767 t go up and talk to woman I think is the most beautiful, which I admit is cowardly. I 8767 m great around guys but horrible around girls. Honestly the ones I knew who are great with girls either don 8767 t revere them as much as I do (most likely my mistake) thus aren 8767 t afraid or are gay/metrosexual and aren 8767 t really interested in that way. It 8767 s funny because once I do I have a conversation I have a great time.
Of the guys I got to know fairly well, none drank to excess, or at all while I was with them. They enjoyed good conversation. Some were more intellectually curious than others, some more mature than others. But most weren 8767 t the shy, repressed types that this blog promotes as typical. Nor were they obsessed with their looks. All were average-looking, one was overweight. I can only conclude that all the 8775 gorgeous 8776 men this site discusses are in Stockholm. Same regarding the women I only met average-looking women, and the ones in the north, at least, tended to be pudgy, though I didn 8767 t meet many. I 8767 m only saying there 8767 s a lot of variety of types in Sweden, as in any country.
Another thing I 8767 ve learned here is to be less romantic. I used to be the guy who loved to cuddle in the morning and just caress their hair but I 8767 ve noticed that you can 8767 t really do that all the time. This kind of keeps a sense of interesting aura about me that the Swedish girls I have been with definitely like. I have some really close swedish guy friends here so I guess you could say that when I date girls I kind of follow their steps.
My first husband was 5 8767 6 8798 and 685 pounds soaking wet (runner with a small frame). I 8767 m 5 8767 5 8798 and muscular (freakishly strong for a woman when working out regularly) and also overweight I always felt like a horse next to him, and when I did his laundry, folding his tiny T shirts and underpants it was like folding a child 8767 s clothing. Just really killed any sexual desire on my part, which was minimal to begin with. He was a great guy in a lot of other ways, which is why I married him, but that piece was always missing for me.
b) Koreans are excellent at English, they have that over Japan. So there 8767 d likely be less in the way of communication issues, though possibly less chance for a Western man wanting to become part of the local culture, as I 8767 ve done in Japan. I 8767 m not sure if Korea would welcome foreigners into their culture as Japan does. (This is for people in Korea or in heavily Korean areas like .)
Wow Rusty I agree with you on the last part of your comment. But this may be hard for you to understand, this person was just pointing out women 8767 s shallowness since women are always accusing men of being shallow. But all good men will eventually find someone. He probably already has. He was simply making a point and I doubt that you are intelligent enough to comprehend. Now I have always suggested short men broaden their horizon and look at non American women. There are some countries where height is not as much of an issue and in some countries height is not an issue at all. Just one month after saying to hell with American women and started looking else where I found the person I am with now. I am tempted to not advise anybody to even deal with an American woman after my very positive experience with different women overseas, but we should not just simply boycott American women because there are a few good ones out there who are not obsessed with height. yes, it will take a long long time, you just have to find them.
This is kind of a chicken and egg argument. As a Canadian, I found Swedish women to be very aloof, unless they were drunk. In that case, they were content to be just another piece of ass. Amazing transition. And despite their air of superiority, most Swedish women will settle for pretty much anyone as a boyfriend. No self-respect at all. So, Swedish women 8766 Looks 8767 thumbs up! 8766 EVERYTHING else 8767 thumbs down!
As a fellow Asian dating a white guy, I relate to this on a spiritual level! I also have been through a phase where I thought I was 8775 better 8776 than the other Asian girls who (in my mind) 8775 couldn 8767 t get 8776 a white guy but that really started to change when I actually started dating white guys and realized I was being fetishized, if not by them then by their friends. I remember my old college boyfriend (who was also white), complained that someone said to him they thought he was dating me because he 8775 couldn 8767 t get a real woman 8776 which was horribly offensive on so many levels it really made me rethink dating people and not dating people because of their race. I hated that someone would consider me not a 8775 real woman 8776 (what does that even mean??) and I realized by going out of my way to not date Asian men I was doing the same to them.
Another Asian trying to compare herself to Asa Akira when she looks nothing like her. Nothing new here, the guy was clearly being sarcastic. I doubt you 8767 d be saying he compared you to another person if he said you looked like Susan Boyle, give me a break. It 8767 s like me walking up to an ugly, fat blonde and saying she looks like Alexis Texas and having her believe it. Unbelievable, stop flattering yourself woman, you are not that good-looking.
As an American woman who has a lot of Swedish male friends and spent some time over there I really love the fact that things like the money situation in a date setting are seen that way. I never did get why one person (namely the man) is always expected to fork out the cash. If I have it on me, cool beans. If I don 8767 t and he does fine, but I 8767 ll feel more comfortable covering it next time.
Wow, I can 8767 t believe all the losers and haters this chatty little post of Jessica 8767 s attracted. Some of those comments, oh wow, nobody in there right mind is gonna date you jerks whether you black, white, yellow, brown, green or pink. So sad, to bad, I 8767 m with Jessica on this one and if it was my blog, I 8767 d delete your sorry asses from the comments. She 8767 s way more tolerant of you racist intolerance than I would be.
Wow. So long as the guy is a gem I don 8767 t care overmuch about height. I always thought other issues like compatibility are more important.
That could also be due to my job. As a midget female in the military bigger guys always want to push you around or challenge you. (Officer. Nuff said.) Not all mind you but dealing with the alpha male nonsense can be fun. (Big jerks make big targets in deployed conditions Being short has bonuses.)
Having dated tall or short and divorced from a short I still know one thing. If someone can 8767 t get past something I can 8767 t help I 8767 m grateful. (Shallow? Can 8767 t date a military/alien/short/non-blonde?) Lucky escape for me! Sorry this doesn 8767 t help you though.