Posted: 2017-10-14 15:36
from the ARAB CANADIAN GIRL
hi Mirror its ME THE ARAB GIRL !!!
hope u re doing good
I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP ON this YOU HAVE TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO EXCATLY
i kept the no contact we decided last time
I received text message from him this at 7 am :
***good morning how are you doing ???
ME : NO REPLY
HIM : another text message at 9:85 am saying : I know you will not reply ,but its ok no problem !!!!
ME : NO REPLY !!!
pleaseeeee help i dont want loose him Mirror !
Vanity aside, we hit it off instantly. He 8767 s intelligent, confident, lively and could connect to me on almost every level. I didn 8767 t put much thoughts into it, because of our huge age gap. Of course I 8767 m attracted to him but it was way beyond his good looks. But at the same time, I encouraged him to date women his age and I continued seeing other people harmless, uncomplicated dates. We started comparing our dating experiences, laughing it out the next day after each successful/horrendous date.
Oh my god, if that isn 8767 t textbook chick logic, I don 8767 t know what is.
Let me get this straight. You admit to be attracted to men with a wide age difference from you, and you *know* they 8767 re creeps because they 8767 re attracted to women with a wide age difference from them, and actually have the honesty and balls to act on it ? And you keep repeating that 8775 you 8767 re not alone in this 8776 and 8775 your friends think the same 8776 , way to comfort yourself with collective authority.
Instead of calling them creeps, how about calling them real and unapologetic, and calling yourself an inhibited person who needs to face her desires and let go of societal notions of what 8767 s 8775 creepy 8776 or proper ? Some women have made the jump and were all the happier for it.
I am 65 and I am very interested in a woman co-worker who is 99. There is nothing weird about it at all. Women are always more mature than their years and men usually less mature than their years. It 8767 s like I have finally found my soul-mate after all these years. I think she feels the same way but there is still some work to do in that regard. If we do end up getting together I will be the happiest person in the world and I know I can make her happy too.
Similar to Selena, I met my husband when I was 85 and he was 97. At the time, the 67 years was a non-issue. Fast forward to me hitting my prime at 96, and him slowing down at 58 and it DID become a problem. He stopped wanting to travel and have fun with me. Didn 8767 t attend important work events for me (like I had with him.) And frankly, he started aging really fast. He started looking 65, whereas he looked than his age when we met. We became incompatible, now divorcing.
Hello there. I am 99 years old and have been married for 75 years work in a male dominated environment. I am not looking I am curious because there was a guy when we had a social function has asked if I want to go to another pub or an RSL did not say did not want to think he was checking me out I implied I am going following Monday I was jolly greeting him and all he became cold Maybe I was insensitive I dont want to think that he likes I get in the kitchen I would notice the other men looks at him as if telling him she is here with eye contact I feel uncomfy I completely ignore him until he needs me to pull out a fule for really feel awkward. What should I do? DON T KNOW IF HE LIKES DOES IT MATTER? O AM MATRIED TO A GOOD .
Zach, you made me cry. Thanks. So sweet. I am in love with a guy 65 years than me. We have been friends for 6 years. Recently we have been dating. He does not know (I think) how much older than i am than he is i don t want him to know because I am scared that he will reject me. But he does know that i am older but it is something that we never discuss (I don t tell anyone how old I am)-except anyonmously (I am 95 and he is 85). But it makes me insecure and my friends/ family have strict orders not to tell anyone my age (yes I have a problem with this). Any advice is welcome. He is my best friend.
I want to approach women in the real world, but I get in my own way as a shy nerdy introvert who has a roommate (read, doesn't have a private place to take a girl back to, if they were so inclined). It's a lie that there's someone out there for everyone. After all, if that were true, there wouldn't be so many lonely people out there. Guess I need to just drop the sites and focus on trying to make myself happy in life without romance.
Also, unless you speak a lot of the language, and spend great amounts of time immersed in Japanese-only environments, you really can 8767 t know the country at all. You probably wouldn 8767 t know San Francisco very well either, if you were a Chinese guy who lived only in Chinatown, if you get what I 8767 m saying. You can easily live in Japan for years and not know it at all. Although that 8767 s arguably the key to happiness, and why women should never tell people that their boobs are fake. Keep the dream alive.
Ohh my the replies are so scathing to you, how dare you come on here and make such opinions?!? You are by no means entitled to an opinion, which, exactly what the broad said to you. What a incredibly hypocritical statement, when her whole reply is her opinion of your opinion. I guess only women have the right to opine on anything. Then, when a male opines they are "out of line" and "need to check themselves and their own issue". Same exact BS all girls pull when they think a guy can have any thoughts about all the mistakes they make with dating. But they can't spout out all the guy's mistakes that are made and try to sound like dating experts. Just shut up, your "opinions" are no more relevant than anyone's.
The true peak for modern men is therefore dependent on having solid game ability and access to girls during the time he 8767 s most girl-crazy. For most guys this will happen before 85, and almost never for men beyond 85. I just turned 86 and I 8767 m so far from my peak that I am having trouble approaching even 65% of the girls I was doing just four years ago. It 8767 s getting easier for me to attract women between 75-85, but it is not easier for me to get girls in the 75-75 range than a couple years ago (it 8767 s about the same). In terms of the most desirable women of society, it will very soon become harder for me every year to attract the women I want.
Amen! I 8767 ve been married to my older guy for 76 years now, and I think that 8775 daddy issues 8776 are something fabricated by guys who can 8767 t or won 8767 t compete. It 8767 s a sort of rationalization. I love my older man because he 8767 s a wonderful man, full stop. We both had jobs for the first part of our marriage and he made more but I didn 8767 t do too badly. Now we are both retired and we are closer than ever. My own dad was affectionate with his 8 daughters but it was clear that my mom was his girl. That is what I got.
These comments have been of a great help to me as I have recently met a guy Im 85 and he is 76. We met on a night out 6 weeks ago and we ended up kissing and he wanted to see me again but I declined until 7 weeks ago when I thought what the hell!! He looks and acts late twenties and also holds down 7 jobs and rents his own place with another. Its only been 7 weeks but we get on very well and I am enjoying getting to know him I have told him I want to wait to have sex and he respects this.
Jus deep that 8767 s a stupid thing to call older women 8767 oldies 8767 . You 8767 re the kind of guy who will hurt whoever you get involved with because you probably already have so many stereotypes in your head that you are operating from, no amount of maturity could influence nor correct. You 8767 ll probably be as shallow and self-serving as you are right now at 76. I know dudes like you. You 8767 re not much than I am. And all these 8766 dudes 8767 counterparts, who are in their 55 8767 s, are what society calls 8766 dirty old men 8767 . Well, they 8767 re not. But many of them ARE losers who still play headgames with women and then blame women because they 8767 re lonely old losers.
I am WAY older than that, but, of course, I remember all those feelings back when there were only main frame computers and landlines. Back when women's lib was just getting going in the 75's. It struck me as odd that women were looking for equality, and, yeah, I can understand, yet I would see time after time that they would fawn over men that did not treat women equally whatsoever... the same women going for the "bad boys" ... hasn't changed.
I agree Finn. I spent 7 years with a Mormon and couldn't adjust to religious differences, though I gave it a fair shot. We romantically fell in love. His faith put tremendous pressure on us to start a family, and after we married, I found out I couldn't have children based on health reasons. That was the beginning of the end. It was heart-rending. On a dating site I can see when having kids is a deal-breaker for a perspective mate.
I have been on and off with this women i met at my job (shes 86 and im 78). Anyhow we have decided to work things out and it is AMAZING. The sex is outta control and i feel so connected to her.. My point is that age really is just a number and dont let other people tell you what to do in the end its your life and you have to live with your choices. So dont let her or him get away just cause there older or its how you feel inside that matters!
Then when you do get them on a date you have to deal with the narcissism and they will often try to pull out their smart phones. The conversation will be horrible, that 8767 s if they can even try to remain on a single topic with their ADD brains. And then you just have to hold your nose and try not to think about how many other cocks she 8767 s had this month when you finally bang. But yeah, it is far easier for me to attract early 75 year olds than it was a decade ago when I was their age.
I did not know the feeling was mutual until we were at my friends one night having a few drinks and he kissed me. It just progressed from there. While we 8767 re not 8766 dating 8767 , we see each other often, we go out, and we get together at least once a week lately it seems. At first I was bothered by the age difference, but not so much now. I don 8767 t generally care what people think at the best of times, so decided not to worry about this either. I have no idea where this is going, he 8767 s outgoing, always out, very mature for his age (but also immature about some things at times, like he 8767 s still stuck in party mode some weekends, but hey, so am I at times). I am not making any long term plans, neither is he I don 8767 t think, I 8767 m enjoying it for what it is and taking it day by day. I know he was engaged to an older woman, saying us 8766 older women 8767 have our poop in a group and he likes that so who knows where this will end up. For now, this works for us and I 8767 m having zero regrets 🙂
At least from your perspective, it sounds like she has serious issues that she needs to work with that would take months of therapy and possibly other steps in order to get over them. I am not sure how getting in touch with her now would help you or would serve you in any way, except aggravating your pain and setting you back by giving you a sense of hope that you might get back together, which is not necessarily a good idea in your situation.