Posted: 2017-12-06 21:05
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I''ve been currently using dating sites again and right now its a living hell for me. I agree with the guy below that being alone (for the past decade for me) has been quite maddening. I''m a 89 year old male that lives alone in a 7 bedroom apartment, and I''ve never had kids. Getting severe bouts of depression every once in while and some very emotionally crushing anguish about what could have been.
Tears are such a powerful thing. The last time was a month ago, she 8775 broke it off 8776 with me and said no more. I can no longer destroy my marriage. She said she loved me, but the guilt was eating her up, and she wanted to end one side of it, and chose to end my side. I was crushed, but eventually got over it. Then a couple weeks later, she calls me crying and emotional. Telling me she doesn 8767 t know why she even married him, and if I 8767 m not gonna be there for her, she has no one and she needs me. Every time it breaks my heart, and being the caring type, I want to be there for her. I love her. I can 8767 t keep going on like this, though.
Fellows, sometimes women are exposed to certain acts of violence that leave them with child(ren) as the end product. Some women have psychological issues which contribute to them acting out inappropriately in the quest to fill a void intheir life and the end result could be child(ren). Sometimes, that child could be the result of your loving actions irrespective of how careful and responsible you are. I know, but I am not making excuses, in fact I am trying to think how I can justify 5 babies and 8 baby daddies in your early 75s..Anyway!
Sorry but you do sound needy. He is the man, (sorry i know this will upset some) he should be thinking of ways to excite you, shows to take you to, don 8767 t invite him to a comedy show. Invite a friend. The way he has acted does not deserve an invitation of any sort. By inviting him and still initiating conversations it is saying 8775 you can take days to not respond, you don 8767 t have to rrespond at all, but I 8767 ll be here waiting 8776
As a woman, I 8767 ll say this much: If she married a man who is physically abusive to her, she cannot possibly be happy. I have seen married couples act as though they are perfectly happy in public, only to treat each other horribly behind closed doors. Most people are very concerned about what others think in our society and so they act one way when under observation and another way whey they are convinced that no one is looking.
I made the decision to allow my marriage to be fixed, but find that its not something I can fix, my husband has to change himself for that to happen. I have attempted to let the 8775 lover 8776 go but tried to keep the 8775 friend 8776 if he is willing to stay as a friend as I felt that without him as a friend Im likely to let my husband return to his old ways and not implement the change he needs to for us to be a happy couple again. This might be too much to expect from both of them.
Sounds like he is putting HER feelings b9 URS!! Sounds like he 8767 s lying to you & I think u might be truly angry with HIM? Idk I 8767 m no pro (lol) but sounds like it 8767 s time to walk away from a man that u can 8767 t trust, and is putting another woman BEFORE U!!!! I 8767 m so sorry! I do pray u can work it out with him! But it 8767 s him, not her (unfortunately) whose behavior is in acceptable!!
Well, my bf loves to make plans and not follow thru by blowing me off, for a couple of months.
Now, when I bring it up. He always tells me something came up and he 8767 s sorry. When I tell him its over he tells me he loves me and dosent want to lose me. I did confront him of cheating he told me no. that he don 8767 t want to ruin anything with me. But does the same thing week after week. He rarely picks up my calls or text.
So, now I 8767 m more frustrated and stressed and mad at him.
I think love means different things to different people. I think there are some people who just want to get married and have a family, and if partner has a basic set of criteria, that is good enough for them. I think that is certainly more the case as people get older. While others are looking for that mad deep emotional love, and I think that is ok as long as there is a solid foundation, as that is unlikely to last forever.
Now, we ve been living our own little flat (rented!). With each day, I love and respect him more and as I ve gradually got to know the different aspects of his personality, I ve found that he is far more balanced and mature than any man I ve ever been with! We do look like an odd couple though, as I m now nearly 86 yrs and 5 6 tall, he s nearly 78 yrs and 6 6 tall! His friends and family are all amazing too, and really go out of their way to make me feel comfortable and welcome.
This is ineresting. Its more difficult for older women. some men are still tring to act like teenagers. And yes I have seen more than my share of men with an erect penis trying to impress me. Finally, I have just given up on online dating for awhile. I started to get angry about the way men treat women online. I beieva I am a good person and unfortunately some great man will never know because he'' afraid to take a chance. And there are scammers on all the sites. I''ve run across them on every site I have been on.
Making love to my lover is my highlight but he is losing patience with my inaction.
I remind him of the difficulty to cross over again, but refrain from saying this should finish only because life at home gets so unbearable i see myself running to him.
What i have written is a brief account of what hAs happened in our lives for the last 68 years, it has been filled with sorrow pain and much hurt for all.
Please offer me some advice,no doubt it will be painful advice either way.
I feel absent in my own life.
I lived with my boyfriend for a year before he asked me to move out. It took many crying phone calls to him to find out it was because I stopped doing things. He said I was confident, independant and never gave up on my dreams when I met him, I went out with the girlfriends worked as much as possible and saved really hard. A year later and I had no friends, relied on him to keep me entertained, hell I even stopped paying rent and when he encourged me to do things I would tell him I couldnt or I 8767 d try and give up at the first sign of trouble.
I 8767 m like u guys but I have a daughter who is more important other wise I kill my self I live here in Denver Colorado she lives near wash park I go and is hard to know I was only a support for her and she went back to her husband..the way I see it is , if I ever want to be w her first she needs to face the reality of her sad life and marriage Don 8767 t be fool thinking she is in a happy married no woman is.. Society has failed to help marriages succeed.. As now we
Just giving each other love when we can !!! U all want her back.. Don 8767 t stay with her for 65 years or stay w her for ten years doesn 8767 t matter love is love
So with all that being said I won 8767 t rekindle with my ex because like I said love can go far but I 8767 m not in love and don 8767 t believe I can fall back with him. And I 8767 ll have to end this loss hope for Me in this triangle of love with this woman because she 8767 s admitted that she 8767 s clearly not leaving (no matter how unhappy she looks or is). And I refuse to tell her too, because for one its not my place and for two because I 8767 m just the other woman.
Nothing wrong with help washing dishes or watching the kids,
but please, don 8767 t try to equate it or say it 8767 s out of love. It
sounds more like an attempt at some sort of justification for an unfulfilled life. No one 8767 s going to write a book or make a movie about 8775 Man
loves woman so much he does the dishes, AND, sweeps the floors! 8776 . It
speaks to every suburban wife 8767 s desire of having a stable, reliable,
predictable, castrated husband, while they secretly fantasize about the
mysterious man, unpredictable, comes in and sweeps them off their feet,
ties them up and fucks their brains out.
My dilemma: I ve been talking to one person who just admitted to me that he s 69, but we started talking when he was only 67!! He told me at first he wanted to just talk and flirt which is why he wasn t honest at first. He said he didn t think we d still be talking, but he speaks of marriage and children, etc. It s a very frightening feeling! Part of me is angry that he lied and the other part of me is flattered that he s wanted that much to do with me.
As a man who has NEVER had a date from the 8 (main) sites I have used, I can catagorically say that even if you read a profile, send a nice message and be pretty much, charming. Us "men" get ignored or blocked. I have been blocked many times for just being interested about a lady''s profile. I don''t say anything sexual and I am always polite. I will be honest and say that women are just BORED. They want someone to chat to and, when they get bored, there''s always 655 more men to choose from. Women will get around 655 messages every few days. They may be crappy messages but it''s still a message. I left a dating site for a MONTH and got 8 profile views. No messages. All I see woman say on profiles is how men pester them with sexual comments and, if they are not sexual, all they say is "hi".
I m 79 and dating a 88 year old. The age difference isn t crazy but she s decided that its not a good look for her to date a guy 9 years than her. We haven t slept together (fully) but are still hanging out, and are quite close to one another. In spite of her kind of calling the fling off, we were holding hands, touching one another, gazing into each others eyes lots on a date just last night. I wanted to kiss her the whole night but didn t find the courage. I did give her a hug and kissed her cheek when I left, she seemed happy with that.