Posted: 2017-10-13 02:34
It has become clear to me with the passing of the years that my knowledge and understanding are very limited much to my own consternation. However I will do my best to explain the situation as I see it. My answer will likely seem off topic and possibly confusing. Unfortunately the real issue, as is almost always the case with problems we are facing today, exists far beyond the usual scope of answers proffered.
I don''t think that''s what is really happening. People don''t really think they''re superior to each other. I think they feel inferior and afraid to reach out to others. They end up staying home and being miserable. They give up too soon. The websites are supposed to be a screening process to find the right person. The next step is to date. I''m a woman who has tried the dating scene on the internet and this next batch can''t get from behind their gadgets. The men won''t even make a phone call. I don''t think they are serious about dating. It''s a lengthy process some times to find the right one. Patience is needed.
A few years ago I had a profile on okcupid. I uploaded a few decent pictures of myself. I received a lot of views and a decent amount of messages. A year ago I created a new profile on okcupid and uploaded one picture that makes it somewhat more difficult to tell what I look like. This time around I''ve received considerably less profile views and considerably less messages. I have no way of knowing how okcupid may treat my profile due to this difference but I have experienced enough to know that women just like men are swayed by physical appearance.
I am so scared, sad, lonely.. I went from being so proud of myself for kicking him out once and for all..now within a month I 8767 m nothing but a sad empty shell. Terrified of paying the bills, keeping my home and sad, lonely and afraid of dying alone, never to feel a man 8767 s touch again. Did I give up too soon? Was I that hard to love? Did I not try hard enough? I can 8767 t remember all the bad things anymore..only the good times. Every song seems to bring him to my thoughts. Every where I go, seems to bring a memory of him back to center. I haven 8767 t contacted him, but I want to, especially since he hasn 8767 t tried contacting me. I 8767 m so 8767 m tired of worrying Maybe I should 8767 ve tried harder
Hmm, I 8767 m a western man and I treat my partner with the love and respect she deserves. She 8767 s a very happy woman and we 8767 re a very happy couple. A woman no matter where from generally wants the same things from her man emotional and financial security, someone to listen to her, someone who shows interest in her and makes her feel good with compliments when least expected. In return she 8767 ll be a loving, caring and devoted life partner.
First off it is important to recognize that those in positions of prestige will seek to maintain their position and furthermore will seek to promote the inclusion of their offspring into similar positions. Secondly our education system isn''t so much a system of learning as it is a system of training. For our society to function we require managers and workers. If our education system really sought to equalize knowledge our current system would cease to exist. Instead our education system is designed to separate gifted from normal students as potential managers versus the working class.
Women (statistically speaking -- not meaning to generalize too much here), are very emotional and social. By emotional, I don''t mean crying all the time, I mean they read very much into every little statement and facial movement you make in order to draw as much meaning as possible out of what you''re expressing. There are two disadvantages guys have in the scenario where you''re only offered writing as a vehicle to impress a woman.
I 8767 m so thankful to read all of this because I 8767 m going through it too. Of course sad overall. I would be so beyond jealous if my psychotic abusive ex would end up with someone else. I don 8767 t know why. I know I shouldn 8767 t be with him ever again or speak to him again because the cycle goes on repeat and he will never change. But that 8767 s what the worst part is. Why do I even care ? Why should I care about that ? The guy is a compete asshole. He doesn 8767 t even love me he 8767 s just obssessed with me. It 8767 s so many mixed emotions it drives me insane. I wish I could just not care or think about him or even still have that love in my heart. That 8767 s the worse part. How can we get over it, just with time ?
I am Ms Jones. I messaged MANY men first. I am beautiful, kind and intelligent. I used the dating site in every way possible. It is not accurate to say that all women get tons of fabulous messages and wonderful invitations from countless fabulous men. There are lots of sketchy guys out the there. After 8 years, for my own protection and peace of mind, I felt it was best that I remove my profile. That''s how many "super great" guys I connected with. They were all very strange and I am reluctant to try Internet dating ever again. It was a very stressful experience sharing information with perfect strangers from the Internet. My personal dating experiences were not great and one in particular was disturbing.
Ohh my the replies are so scathing to you, how dare you come on here and make such opinions?!? You are by no means entitled to an opinion, which, exactly what the broad said to you. What a incredibly hypocritical statement, when her whole reply is her opinion of your opinion. I guess only women have the right to opine on anything. Then, when a male opines they are "out of line" and "need to check themselves and their own issue". Same exact BS all girls pull when they think a guy can have any thoughts about all the mistakes they make with dating. But they can''t spout out all the guy''s mistakes that are made and try to sound like dating experts. Just shut up, your "opinions" are no more relevant than anyone''s.
My favorite moment is when they stop messaging in the middle of conversation. You try again and again but there is no response although she''s online, like she had a heart attack suddenly. Another one is when they don''t show up. First date and without any warning just no show. Then no response of course. Love those moments especially when they call men creeps. After several contacts like this in the row, men can start acting creepy, I guess. They learn very quickly to not give any respect to women because they are not going to get it back even when everything is going very well.
Well, I''m not there yet but I get pissed sometimes, it''s nothing like in real life.
my boyfriend pushes me and throws me to the ground he grabs my head and neck and yells in my face then tells me it 8767 s my fault that I pushed him to it or that I wanted it to happen. he gets in my face and corners me then yells at me for getting in HIS face or 8775 hitting 8776 him when I throw my arm up to block my face. I have been living with him and I have no where to go if I leave him. I don 8767 t know what to do. the other night I wanted to kill myself. I filled the tub and tried to cut myself with razors. it hurt too much and I couldn 8767 t do it so I tried tying a plastic bag around my head and submerging myself under water. again I couldn 8767 t do it. when he came home and saw the scene he accused me of staging it to get back at him. I feel so alone and he only confirms my worthlessness. I have no friends or parents to turn to that would understand. I don 8767 t know what to do.
I don 8767 t know what to do. I 8767 m currently pregnant with my fiance. When we first met he was great everything I ever wanted but I came to find out he was on hardcore drugs. After going to jail and being clean now he has anger problems because he isn 8767 t taking anything. He has threatened to kill me twice and today just told me he was going to punch me in my nose in public while i 8767 m almost 8 months. The one time we were in an argument and I didn 8767 t want to talk to him while we were driving home so he kept literally poking me and telling me he would grab the steering wheel and kill us both if I didn 8767 t answer. I did hit him first but I 8767 m a lot smaller then him. When I found out I was pregnant we got into an argument and he choked me until I was turning blue in the face, twice. I 8767 m scared to tell my family because I don 8767 t want the baby to be without a father but I also don 8767 t want him/her to be in an abusive family which is what I went through. I find myself putting my head down a lot and scared to be in his presence more often.
Women have strong libidos and love sex. The book What Women Really Want by Daniel Bergner uses 7 years of scientific research to categorically prove that women are not only AS sexual as men, they may even be more so. And that monogamy kills women''s sex drives within a few years. Women are wired up to be non-monogamous. Hence all those thousands of nerves around the clitoris designed for nothing but pure pleasure.
While it''s easy to conclude that Bateman forgot about this dinner, blacked out, or simply imagined killing Paul Allen, it''s far more likely that Bateman was actually not at said dinner. We already know mistaken identities are commonplace among the Pierce & Pierce elite, and the film never introduces us to any of the colleagues Bateman supposedly dined with. Thus, it''s extremely likely that the real Halberstram simply mistook a different colleague for Bateman — as did Paul Allen — thus providing Allen''s murderer with one ultra lucky alibi.
In a group discussion of the film with journalist Charlie Rose , lead-actor Christian Bale, and the novel''s writer Bret Easton Ellis, director Mary Harron admitted that she failed with American Psycho ''s final scene. "One thing I think is a failure on my part," she explained , "is everyone keeps coming out of the film thinking that it''s all a dream, and I never intended that … I think it''s a failing of mine in the final scene that I just got the emphasis wrong, because I should have left it more open ended … It makes it look like it was all in his head, and as far as I''m concerned, it''s not."
She asks you: 8775 how 8767 s your day going 8776 . You might think the only possible answer you can give is 8775 it 8767 s going great, how 8767 s yours 8776 , but instead, this is the perfect opportunity to tease her: 8775 clearly it 8767 s going much better than yours! 8776 . This way, she 8767 ll probably reply by saying, 8775 nah, mine 8767 s way, way better than yours 8776 and from there you can move into a much more playful frame.
With a lovely view of Central Park, Allen''s apartment is known to be one of the most expensive properties in New York City. Thus, the owners understandably want to get someone living there and paying rent there as soon as possible. Rather than call the police upon discovering the closets full of bodies, which would devalue the property value, the owners quietly have the mess taken care of — hence why the apartment has been given more than just a new coat of paint.
I think women need to start taking more responsibility for themselves - rather than sit there receiving message upon message and complaining about it - they should actually do their own searches and find and message someone that seems suitable.
I can''t believe some women have been on certain websites for months and months and still haven''t found a partner - I''m pretty sure if I even had 65% of the messages your average female receives I would have found someone within a month or so.
I am living with a man who scares me so much I actually should have called authorities several times. He drank 68-79 beers alone and then came into the house to tell me and my daughter he just loaded his AK-97 because I forgot to lock the house up. He did this at 6am. He was so evil and drunk I was scared. He loves his guns. I was literally shaking, according to my 66 . had the sense to tell the drunk guy we were going to bed and she agreed with him.