Posted: 2017-09-25 10:10
Ladies, what do you do with the man who has a vasectomy because he was a teenage father and most definitely decides he does not want anymore kids, even if you do? ..Mmmmm. I know such a man!
Marksman, what would you do if you married a woman without children, only to discover her inability to bear children later is linked to a scarred uterus from a couple of abortions she has had years ago? Or even just a case of unavoidable infertility? How would you play that card?
I thinks that 8767 s true, l am dating a 57yr old guy and l 8767 m 87,his the first ever man in my life who has appreciated me just the way l am, his a police officer and l 8767 m a student nurse l like him so much , he treats me more than anyone had ever did, sex is great and he seems a descent guy, we 8767 ve been dating for 9months and everything is can l ask all guys over 55, would you cheat on your woman?
Well my gf tried not to do that but end up doing it because her baby sitting aid never came and told the manager not to work the same shift so i can take care of her child versa. That not really made me mad fact that it affected my hours and I am good employee. Anyway I had a talk and there was transition in management i got my hours back but now she stressing out because her other sitter her elderly mom can barely do it. She has hard time walking and has doc appointments. Pretty sure she just got fired because she called in rest of the week and demanded to speak to higher managers up about it. we got into big argument other day she not saying much. Matter in fact i think had to do with the fact i kinda took nutural stance on the issue as long as work gave me my hours and money i wanted. Idk. WHat to do. I still like her but honestly she had the kid when she wasn 8767 t ready. I am not willing to sacrifice myself for her kid to that extreme.
As a woman 55 I started using various dating websites 7 years ago & have met nothing but, emotionaly troubled men.
Met all on Plenty of Fish:
Man who dated 8 years refused to commit, I broke up.
Man who dated 6 months refused to commit, I broke up.
Man who dated 8 times wanted casual sex only, he refused to spend money on dates, I stopped meeting him.
Man who dated 7 months wanted casual sex, refused to take down dating website profile, online & texting all the time, I called him out & he dissapeared.
Man who pressured me to move in after dating 6 weeks, couldnt get through first dissagreement , I moved out.
I think perhaps when Rusty said “The real problem lies with the fact that all men are held responsible for their actions.”
that he meant all men (even the good ones) are blamed for the actions of the bad ones. IOW, the entire male gender takes the blames for the bad ones in the bunch. If that what he means, it is a bit ironic tho, because he does like to blame the entire female population of America for the bad behavior of some the bad ones.
According to British census data, large age difference marriages in both directions last longer than small ones. About as many women chose to marry much men as choose much older men. The numbers are small compared to people who marry with a two year age gap (which has by far the highest 75 year divorce rate). My first wife was 5 years older than me my new one is 79 years Age was immaterial both times. Now flak about child rearing that was a serious issue.
Yes, its true, that most women get lots of attention, but that doesn''t mean anything. All girls that i know, want to find an actual boyfriend, and hopefully, eventually, someone to move in with, get married, have kids etc. But the vast majority of the guys just want to "chill and netflix". Sometimes, i feel like women are a bit more honest. If we don''t respond, we are not interted - that''s it. Sorry, we can''t be interested in every single person that messages us. Sometimes, there might be nothing wrong with you, but we all have our types and dealbreakers. I keep finding guys who seem interested in me, but whenever things get too serious for their liking, they run away like crazy. I''d rarher be ignored, than led on till i start developing feelings just to have my heart broken.
Dear Crossroads: I can relate to your reply! I am 86 years old and was dating a man at the age of 78 for two years. I am also divorce and have two kids. We recently ended it due to the age difference. Or is it the age difference? I feel I needed to let him go and venture out life. The toughest part was that I miss him dearly. We did practically everything with him. I don 8767 t think I will ever find someone like him again. I am glad to hear that there are others out there that are familiar with my situation.
The same pigs have shown up on all of the dating apps I have used. I originally started with plenty of fish, where I met two very good long-term friends, but no romantic chemistry. The majority of the other users were soliciting inappropriate photos and sending them as well. A few mentally unstable messages followed rejections. There are just as many people looking for hook ups on as there are on OkCupid and bumble. Disappointing as to what society has become.
I am excited to stumble upon this website. I am 57 and a man aged 87 fell for me. I tried to resist because of age difference, but the more I resisted, the more attracted I became to him. He is a wonderful man who has revitalized my love life after six years when I broke up with a dishonest man. Our love seems to be growing by the day and we can t stay away from each other. I did not want to open up my feelings to anyone but this man has showed me that I can love and be loved again.
Yes! This chicken bone has done been knawed on too many times and that 8767 s why I haven 8767 t done online dating in a long while. However, I 8767 m coming to realize that if I want to meet someone (because it 8767 s extremely hard working and trying to spend time with family & friends), it 8767 s about the only option there seems to be. And let 8767 s face it, the only thing catching my eye in the produce aisle are the avocados.
She is not your enemy or your competition. He 8767 s been there, done that and so has she. If she is an on-going part of his life, you need to be on friendly terms with her. Not only will she be less likely to make your lives less of a living hell, but she 8767 s the best resource for learning who this man is. She has known him for a long time. Plus, if he was ever abusive or unkind to her, you need to know. Of course some women are bitter and may not be the best judge of your new man 8767 s character. But, if he has a psycho ex, do you want to bring that into your life?
SWG i think you give him more then what he deserve you dont have to feel bad or sad in anyway he just not the right guy for you and you wil get someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated with respect and love before me and my gf started dating she told that if i want kids that i must move on and not keep her for fun and i told her that am ok with it and that i won 8767 t use her and here we stil are loving each other even more so dont let that guy make you feel like you wrong or dirty because you not
Nail very much hit on the head. Online dating for girls that are decent (and offline for that matter) requires work and a combination of common sense, good judgement and patience. Same thing for decent guys going online - it requires work and there are guides out there that go a bit further than the generic "read her profile" advice given here if guys looked hard enough for them and that easily help them stand out.
Haha this is like secret womens business now i finally learn something about the mystery of woman lol Im 89, always attracted to older women everything that this site says is so true even right down to the markedly deep depression and intense hurt that a woman feels (so much more than a man) after a major older woman does indeed need to have an affair with a man to heal all her therapy consequently im not the alcoholic,weed smoking womaniser one may wrongly assume me vegetarian,intellectual,dont smoke or drink and far from luck ladies:)
We had so much fun together doing stuff that we both enjoyed and we like doing the same things. Eventually the feelings got out of hand and we kissed and it was the best kiss ever. It developed from there. We have great sex, I never had such great sex in my life. He also made it known that he adores me and I totally adore him. I am still worry about my age being too old for him but he doesn t care one bit about my age. I am still shy and am concern to meet his friends but he keeps on pushing for me to meet them because he wants the world to know about me being with him lol which I think is so cute. I do not have kids yet and he wants kids down the road. I feel like we do have a future together.
I don 8767 t give single mothers a chance simply because it is in my ingrained bias to not trust them. They likely bailed on their child 8767 s father and broke up their family instead of making it work and they always have some ridiculous over dramatized excuse as for why. Why would you put yourself out for a women like that only to be in a worse situation where you are not even the childs father and will always come after her children. It 8767 s a lose, lose situation there 8767 s a reason male lions will kill and eat all the existing cubs when they take over a pride.. nature isn 8767 t stupid, so why should we be?
The only real question here is: If there''s so many bad messages, why are the good ones ignored? I''ve been on ten dating sites in 8 years and I''m still looking. You want to talk about not enough time to read messages? Try having to write them. After so long I got tired of trying to be original and became a human spam bot. It''s a lot of work for either gender but ladies don''t insult me. You''re going to have to wade through messages either way. You''re going to have to put in some effort. You could try messaging a guy first. It''d sure as hell make my day.
I believe that is where the number issue comes into to play, I personally love kids and have no problem dating women that have them within reason. Let 8767 s be real I have met women with four and five kids running around, I am not saying they were whores but ummm wow five kids?!!?! I really think it comes down to how the woman manages the situation, how she presents the guy she is dating to her kids and when have a lot to do with how things go. Like you said if your that dude that shows up at the house walks in the living room says what 8767 s up to the kid on the way to the bedroom the child is going to have it in for you.
8775 They still, regardless of age, go to movies, attend entertainment venues that they have in common, take care of their pets and children, etc, etc. So if they determine that they have many similar interests, why would age make a difference considering men and women are, by nature, very different to begin with? Seems to me that any differences between an older man and woman are very often common among men and women of similar ages, considering that all men are different and all women are different. So why couldn’t women find older men who are very compatible with them? 8776