Posted: 2017-12-07 20:35
I understand what 8767 s being presented here and I 8767 ve certainly made the same mistakes as many other women. BUT, what do you do when you are single parents? That doesn 8767 t leave a lot of time for dating in the first place. When you don 8767 t have a lot of time to see someone at all and have to arrange for babysitters and such, it doesn 8767 t seem fair to hold out for a man to rearrange his schedule in order to see you, especially if he 8767 s single parenting as well. Does that make sense? Maybe I 8767 m over complicating it, and not answering every phone call or text right away makes sense, but what about dates when both of you have so many demands on your time? It 8767 s challenging enough just to date when you 8767 re a single parent. Thanks!
What I learned from carrying out an interview of a female and the interview of a male trying to dig into this intriguing subject was that using the Internet for dating is equally painful for men and for women, but for very different reasons. Ironically enough, if you could take the best of those women and the best of those men, and place them in a big room where they could sit at a table and ask each other questions in person &ndash you&rsquo d probably have 9 or 5 new match-ups by the end of the night.
The female orgasm is very easy. Friction on clitoris. Mechanical, just like men''s. Since women are human beings just as men are, this is no surprise. Massages/candles not required. Unfortunately, after a few years easy sexual arousal for women requires a new partner. Of course, women CAN still have an orgasm, even if they don''t find you arousing any more, with a bit of work. Monogamy, though difficult for women, is possible.
He does exist. He comes to the village, impregnates all women and goes away. To another village. Then he comes back next year. Women are programmed to have children with the best men they can find. That''s natural selection. I''m not blaming anyone. The rest of life is a bunch of different stories, some are funny, some are happy but half of them are sad. And now because of the computers are running dating scene, we have data to prove it. I think that this is first stage, we just noticed that something is wrong.
My contention is that inequality and competition are the precursors of societies ills. Men mistreating women certainly but more to the point people mistreating each other for gain. It seems odd to think that men seeking a partner would act as many so often do but it is important to remember we''re not dealing with intellectually compassionate equals. We''re dealing with generations of people that have been bred to compete with one another and ultimately not see each other as equals but as enemies of a sort. We''re not killing each other (for the most part at least within our own society) but we are competing for limited resources to our own detriment.
I 8767 m an accountant, 5 8767 5 8797 8776 , 665 pounds, not as in good shape as id like, cultured and traveled, raised my 68 year old daughter on my own, I don 8767 t believe I 8767 m agressive and don 8767 t expect anyone to serve me. I truly believe in respect, sharing and building a life together.
I 8767 m certain there are plenty of good men out there, but somehow I feel I hit a brick wall.
Should I color my hair blonde and lose 65 pounds? Lol
However, as I 8767 m in my early fifties, I 8767 ve unfortunately seen gender relations get progressively worse over the past 85 years or so. I believe that the level of relations between men and women are at an all time low, and now polarized to the point where there’s probably not much hope for gender reconciliation, thanks to the man-hating, feminazi mentality of 8775 all men are dogs 8776 , 8775 all men are players 8776 , and 8775 all men are rapists 8776 , among others.
And no, I will not let a guy spend my weekend with my kid with us - not until I''ve gotten to know him properly and we''ve been seeing each other for a while. It''s to protect my child from getting instantly attached if there is no intention of commitment, and also just in case he is a deviant who preys on single mothers to get to their children. It happens, so I am very cautious. And also the reason why I can''t understand why anyone posts picture of children in their profile - whether it''s their own children or their niece/nephew/godchild. Dating sites are full of perverts. Keep children''s pictures off them. (Sorry, that was going off the topic).
There is an incredible amount of bullshit online and having had vast experience I sd many reasons but the main 6is the women are often deluded and justseem too pass know my worth though and some nut isn''t going too affect my somethings all come with baggage and if Davey use too beat you up get off match dot com and get yourself in7 had 6 tell me because I like a flutter on the horses it wasn''t a match ??Who do u think yr going too meet sweet cheeks ?BradPitt?Your 55 ,68 stone and err past your sell by ,but the BS online is toooo much and im having what cd be a perma timeout from is the modern way off doing things but my God theres some idiots if they do snag a fella most are tapping away again inside a all you women out there who think yr a sex queen err your not and need 7 get pete andre once said..baby im done..ill use the more traditional methods 9 dating in future and you guys can massage yr egos hiding behind the keyboard till u actually it goes titties..Keeping it real people !!toodles x.
I have to mention that I did get maybe a message or two from guys that seemed okay, but once I checked out their profiles, it didn&rsquo t seem like we had anything in common so I didn&rsquo t bother. That&rsquo s one of the issues I see with online dating though. Words on a page can only tell you so much and often, they are not the best &ldquo first impressions&rdquo . Personally, I think there is so much more to be gained from talking with someone face to face &ndash you are able to read their body language and listen to intonation in their voice, which are much better indicators than online messages or profiles.
Interesting article. I 8767 m 95 and for the past 7 years or so I have been going for the Princess type both traditionally and as a sugar daddy. Have to say none of them ended well generally with me getting emotionally hurt and even twice, physically assaulted. Whilst dating women has been a lot of fun at times it comes with its own set of issues which have been repeated over and over again.
Why don 8767 t you read or take up watercolor painting? Or redecorate a room in your house? Or take up sewing? Or get into politics any candidate you like? Do you know the issues? If you don 8767 t, maybe you would find that interesting. There are so many things to do but I really think that one of the most important ways of getting a man to treat you like a prize is to treat yourself that way. Women have so much power that they don 8767 t realize and it 8767 s in that little triangle between their legs. You can date a man and do an awful lot of things with him, but the longer you hold off sex the better. When he sees that you place a high value on intimacy, he 8767 ll come to view it the same way.
Love panky Flirt, Tease,fall in love. Wrong wrong wrong. Crap,crap,crap. Fall in love first, then flirt, and then tease. That should keep things going, in the right order too I might add. I 8767 m glad that Gods creation was done in the right order. First it was Adam. Then he was lonely so Eve steps in, only to ruin everything with that apple. Temptation. Poor man, that was the first sign of what many women are all about. The offering of the forbidden fruit and Adam being a man, fell for it and took a bite. That was the beginning the poison we men have to endure and it didn 8767 t stop there. Somehow it got into the heads of the women down here on earth and seems to be an on going culture among many many women. Some advise here for the men. Next time your in the fruit shop and see apples on special, 8775 STAY AWAY 8776 grab a banana and play it safe.
This message board has taught me so much. I''ve been dating online on and off for at least 7 years. I''m 98. I''m decent looking, I thought LOL. I have a great job, house, one kid, no drama. I guess I''m cool, but a little boring? I just don''t think I know how to present myself or heck I really don''t know. I get guys that just want a piece or just wanna try dating me since they have never dated outside their race (which I don''t mind but I''d like them to like me and not the piece of *** I potentially represent). Its really crushing to the spirit. I don''t know if I will even continue online dating after reading all the perspectives here. I''m truly a busy person that doesn''t get out much to meet people and a little shy when it comes to getting to know folks. So I guess I''ll either put my big girl panties on and just go sit at a bar or give up and be alone. (sigh)
Finally, there''s a human girl (your childhood friend) who " just happens to like wearing cat ears and a tail during sex." See, that was the only excuse you needed. They could have all been real women who enjoy disguising themselves as animals, and the sex scenes would have been exactly the same. There was no reason to involve cat gods, robots and mutants from another dimension. You had other options here.
I think that a large part of the problem with online dating is how we view ourselves and others. The vast majority of profiles I''ve seen read like job applications. It seems as if a healthy smattering of keywords is all that is required to share who we are as individuals. The majority of profiles are as similar as mainstream medias concept of beauty. In the end there isn''t much to differentiate one profile from another.
My god you''re a saint. Ireally didn''t think anyone like you still existed in our society today, I try to do the same but some are so touchy and perhaps so used to ghosting that they lash out, but I still won''t stop... well there''s no need for a conversation after you made your lack of Interest clear, I believe that the sender is entitled to at least one written rejection before being ignored, call me crazy but I stand by this firmly and will continue to do so.
Exactly. This is exactly what I wanted to say. I feel that the effort should be both ways! I agree with Sabrina for the most part except the bit where she recommends the guy should see the girl only when SHE is available, otherwise he has to alter his schedule. I 8767 m sorry, I find this to be very inconsiderate behaviour. I had a girlfriend who subscribed to this for 9 years and in the end the boyfriend (now ex) dumped her cause he felt he was never a priority in her life! No man wants to feel like he is chasing and chasing forever without getting anywhere. As for me, when I started dating my bf, I was more available than him (he was working, I was still in university), I did many things in my free time but whenever he was free, I will try to accomodate him and I accomodated him way more than he did for me. But we are still together. And still value each other more than ever. In fact during those rather difficult times at the beginning, he was very apologetic about not spending much time with me, but still made the effort whenever he was free.
However it''s the same for me dudes, if you are tall nowadays you''re not creepy and slimy, you''re creepy and threatening. I don''t have the greatest social skills but I''ve been out with friends at bars/clubs who were 5''5 and my same weight and they were just happy cheerful butterballs and could get an entire table of women warming up to them, the same women that gave me the bad boy looking tall dude who women have told me I''m on the Brad Pitt scale on looks basically the cold shoulder.
The best way to get your foot in the door is to find something in their profile to start a conversation about. Ask them an open-ended question so they start talking about that and themselves. Say they list Adele as one of the musicians they like. You could say something like, "What do you think of Adele''s new album (whatever)? I think her best effort on it was (whatever song) because. What is your opinion?"
Just an example. I mean at least it shows you read her profile AND it is a conversation starter.