Posted: 2017-09-28 06:59
I am a 79 and have always attracted much men. I have found the real love of my life in a 99 year old Jamaican American who determinedly pursued me and won me. He has no ulterior motives our sex life is unbelievably wonderful and he is intelligent, funny, deeply caring and my dearest friend. I am oblivious to the opinion of others..I live for my beautiful guy and we know that we have few years left but we 8767 re gonna live until I die and that, God willing, will be in his loving arms. Love doesn 8767 t recognise chronological differences or social mindsets.
Check this out. There was one time that I was cursed out by a woman because she got mad that I did not want to date her. She approached top of that she had five kids and was legally separated. I told her that I did not believe in legal separation, you are either married or you are not. Just because I did not give into her or pursued her, she got very irate with me in the work people come in either gender!
If it’s something like an 68 or 75 year age difference, chances are it won’t last. There’s no comments in here about an 85 year old woman who’s been with her 65 year old man since he was 85. It’s because they don’t last. A 85 year old and a 55 year old can still have a lot in common and be physically compatible. A 55 year old may even look like they’re in their late 85’s. But once we’re in our 65’s the age gap widens. Most of us start to look older and feel older. The stages we’re at in life are more obvious. You’re not that hot 55 year old who looked like 95 anymore. You’re a 65 year old woman who’s going to be 75 in 5 years. For most men the physical attraction will wane. He’s 95 and can still be with a much woman. That’s tempting. He may start to think he made a mistake years earlier and then both of you will get hurt. Don’t look at Hollywood or these wealthy women who had plastic surgery. Money makes a difference. Sad but true. Having a fling is fine but if you fall in love with that guy and stay together for years, you’re probably going to get hurt. It’s a harsh reality. It’s not worth it.
I am 77 years old and have now been dating a 96 year old lady. She is so Beautiful. She has a perfect body. She works out three times a week. That is how I meet her. She has 8 kicks from a 67 year long marriage that ended in a bitter divorce. I could go on for hours about how well we get along and how I think I might be a little in love with her. So we have been seeing each other for about six months. We became intimate the first time we went out. The problem we have now is that she is pregnant. Yes yes yes she warned me but I, I guess did not take her seriously. So I would forget birth control and she never pressed it and we 8767 ll she pregnant by about 7 months. I am not sure of this or anything right now. I don 8767 t know what to do. I mean everything is good now but what about ten years form now. I mean how about 75 years from now. I like older women but I like women and women my age as well. I just alway thought that I would marry a girl my age and be married a couple of years before we had kids. I mean I am not I love with thus woman that is going to have my baby. What do I do. Help
True, black women don 8767 t really enter marriage reaping advantages from marrying black men, because according to reports, we 8767 re always marrying down in income and education versus equal or up. Marrying black only serves black women to have a title and a ring. Not much else. However, there is a group of men neither black or white who are highly educated, not on the cultural radar, that I 8767 ve found to be open-minded and not as race based or culturally influenced. I won 8767 t say what that group is…you have to find out for yourselves. It works very well for me. I get a highly educated, good looking man, nice, who isn 8767 t a well known commodity and egotistical as they guys in the pop culture scene. I 8767 m in heaven now!
u go head girl w/your bad ass! But, since when does wearing natural hair, liking rock music and driving a truck make you weird?! That is what s wrong with our society. Just because another person of the SAME color doesn t act like YOU do or like the same things, places, foods, clothes that doesn t make any difference, let alone classify you as weird or acting white. You like what you like period. ALL black people and white people are NOT the same. We come from different backgrounds and families who MOLD us into WHO we have become today. For me personally, I can relate BETTER to a black man, because thats what I ve grown up around (black people), so I can relate, have same interests and likes. It doesn t mean I m not attracted or cannot date a white or hispanic man, its just we can understand each other better. A man is a man period, but I m personally attracted to people who like same things, interests etc. Let people date who they want, whats it to you?!
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I am very dissapointed in madame noir posting this article and the reasons to date a white man. I am a black man and believe in promoting black love. There is nothing wrong with Black people loving one another. It seesm like as time goes on black people are quicker to promote dating outside of our race instead of sitting with one another and talking out our issues with eachother. We need to communicate to understand eachother. As a black man I will never read another article on this site again. This site is a joke.
I think that motherhood is very stressful sometimes and your girlfriend might be going through some tough changes, maybe at work also. Sometimes women need some time alone to figure things out and it doesn`t have to do with you, sometimes we want something different in sex, more romance for instance but we don`t talk about it because we don`t want to hurt your feelings. I don`t know if this helps, I hope it does.
also, have you ever thought that maybe those educated black women you see chasing thugs are with them because they re honestly not thugs?? I know it sounds silly, but a lot of rejected (( yep, i said it )) black men tend to label anyone who s the opposite of him a thug simply based off of what he s wearing. it s slightly like the rejected black men are trying to throw shade on black women for not picking them while at the same time trying to comfort their ego.
Pro-me and pro-mine that therein lays one side of this problem. Where is the spirituality. The creator made your smile not for you but for someone else to see. Of course you don 8767 t smile all the time but return evil for evil to no one. What would you teach your daughter. What about the concept of being neighborly. I 8767 m walking down the street in NYC and a guy trying to holla at me it 8767 s simple, while continuing to walk, you give a light hearted acknowledgement if it 8767 s a compliment don 8767 t get mad say thank you while walking. If he is persistent, keep walking and gesture a peace sign with your hands. Guys never get angry at that respectful response. If you are cursed out don 8767 t take it personally. He got issues and that 8767 s that. End of story
I have another question for those who believe that they stalk and harass Black women because they admire or love us. If you love Black women wouldn 8767 t you want to protect Black women instead of hurting Black women? Wouldn 8767 t you want to protect our space and bodies instead of violating them? Malcolm X said, “The most disrespected person in America is the Black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the Black woman. The most neglected woman in America is the Black woman 8776 and he was right. The harassment, stalking and violence directed towards Black women for simply saying no is proof of it. You can end it by treating all women with respect and valuing our spaces and boundaries.
You 8767 re dismissing the very real, very hurtful fact that society openly devalues black women and constantly send us the message that we are undesirable, and men of all races buy into it. I agree with you that we do better on sites like black people meet, where black men who show up actually want to date black women. But there are still 65-75 of us for every one black man on those sites. So the outcomes while better still aren 8767 t great. Denial doesn 8767 t do anyone any good.
How do you define acting like a white woman!? Previous BM posters of the original article stated that the angry Black Woman syndrome extended to Black Women with money and means probaby even more so because of their often times Women s Lib mentality. Are you implying that White Women have some innate characteristics that are not found in non-white races. What is your White Girl Trapped in a Black Body girlfriend doing that makes her better than other Black women in your experience with her?
Mae and I spent 77 years as lovers,best friends,soulmates! Our 88 year difference in age never came into question! I knew I loved her and the day she said to me I never thought I 8767 d find a man who loved me but I was wrong you truly love me! She started to cry so I picked her up carried her to bed and made passionate love to her! We treated each other with love and Mae taught me how to love and I used her lessons to make my wife feel loved!
One of the most public manifestations of race is the choice of one''s partner or spouse. This very individual and personal aspect can sometimes produce a lot of public discussion. Studies consistently show that Asian Americans have some of the highest "intermarriage" (also known as "outmarriage") rates among racial/ethnic minorities -- marrying someone else outside of their own ethnic group. But as always, there''s more to the story than just the headline.
Either video you watch I don 8767 t think she was wrong. I agree, people need to stop acting like women are obligated to give our time. After watching the full video though it 8767 s clear he wasn 8767 t polite at all. Following someone is just wrong. She said hello to him and had she been interested in further conversation she probably would have stopped. Those responses are disgusting and for the record, they don 8767 t always get the message when you 8767 re nice. There are times where they think your niceness in rejection is playing hard to get or some other stupid idea. I 8767 ve been harassed and after nicely rejecting I 8767 ve been followed until I just ended up ignoring the person. Most recently, a guy followed me out of a store to my car after I politely rejected him. I guess I 8767 m the a-hole for hurrying to lock my door and just driving away. Some guys will not take the hint and she did the right thing going into a well lit area after noticing he was following her and not giving her name.
Well i made sure I read both articles and I will comment on both. I think the elite among us might want to get a refund on their tuition. If anything I thought an education was supposed to expose you to critical thinking and these days you have these educated black men and women speaking on issues while they only can use their limited exposure to humanity as a reference and bias literature. This is why I admire the everyday average black men and women in our community so much. They have deal with the smug attitudes of the educated elite/ successful blacks folks while constantly being victimized and conned by their borthers and sisters at the bottom. They are the true heros of our community.
I''ve recently met a white guy on another dating site. He specifically dates black women. When asked why he said that he finds white women hard to talk to and as someone else stated on another site they are too privileged. Though I love my black brothers I find it hard to get a real commitment from them. I''m sure this can be said for any race but it seems to me so far that white men are more likely to comitt and marry. So I too have decided to take a chance and date outside my own race to see where or how it will end. Sometimes you have to step out of the norm or out of your comfort zone to really find true love and happiness no matter what race or creed or color you are.
The problem with black girls online is that they simply cannot compete with white, Latinas, or Asians. Almost every black woman I 8767 ve seen has the typical fashion: cheap heels, tons of makeup (as if black women needed it,) gaudy forever 76 clothes, and that those hideous extensions. Where are all the natural sistahs? Why all the effort to look like dark skinned versions of cheap white women? Did I also mention that most of ya are obese? Yes, non stop fat rolls hanging down your inner thighs black women are supposed to be skinny and graceful, the kind white men drool over.