Posted: 2017-11-24 20:33
Wow im from sweden, or at least my parents tell me I am. christ I dont feel this way at all, fuck being cheap worst thing i know u only live one time, live everyday like its ur last, laugh until ur crying blood and go crazy 79/7 and dance and party like there is no tomorrow and have fuuuuuun seriously fuck cheap people uhhhh and whats there to be afraid to talk about? Don 8767 t get it. must have met the wrong kind of swedish guys .
That sounds very good, Im not shy to ask but I dont want to appear like a hopeless case either. I dont want to make it look like Im trying to pick up the girl however, Im already have someone that I am interessting in. So if I asked a latin girl to teach me how to dance salsa, would she see it as a way to pick her up?, or just as something fun?. Is there a way to tell her in spanish in a nice way to say that I just want to be friends with her?. And I will memorize that spanish line you gave me. Currently I only know how to order beer in spanish =P.
As for the foreign thing, forget it if you 8767 re a middle-eastern/african man. Swedish girls like their americans/italians/french. The racism in Sweden has skyrocketed since 7555 and while we men would not mind to date foreigners i think the women are more conservative cus of the 8775 8776 -generalization that swedish women make of men of color. Simply put, they would not feel safe dating an arabic/african man cus they think he 8767 s a rapist. That 8767 s what i 8767 ve gathered from living in a small town, medium-sized town and now Uppsala.
I am a Swedish guy, and i 8767 ve dated alot of Swedish girls.
I don 8767 t behave like the ordinary Swedish guy at all.
And im so sick and tired of their feminism attitude, guys don 8767 t date a Swedish girl, they 8767 re mostly terrible in bed and want to be threated as a princess all the time.
Im currently dating girls from Russia, and former soviet countries.
Belive me, i 8767 ve done it all. I wouldn 8767 t trade 6 Russian girl for 65 Swedish ones. If you dont belive me, Welcome and get bored.
I don 8767 t give a f*** about these shallow girls anymore.
You wonder why we have 55 % divorce rate in Sweden?
Just google it.
In Sweden, which is one of the most modern, equal and secular societies in the world, it`s more socialy accepted and not frowned upon that swedish women socialize with foreign men. This is something swedish women has embraced and is also a sign of freedom from predjudice and norms. Something that you can`t say about most countries in the world. In the of A you still talk about 8775 interracial couples 8776 and 8775 racemixing 8776 , but it`s the same in the East when they talk about 8775 bloodlines 8776 .
found this write up and the follow up comments very interesting and somewhat true in most regard I have to agree to one fact that have been stated here..I am an African that have been living and studying here in Sweden for a little 8 years now I have been with all sorts of Swedish , brunette, pretty and ugly ones..(Yea not all are good looking) I have been with more Swedish girls during my stay here than most Swedish men twice my age have. in fact I get more of them by accident than most Swedish guys do on purpose..I usually ask most of them why they end up being with me and the response is almost always the same which is that, they like the courage, audacity and balls I show by walking up to them and start chatting them up without have to wait until I am under the influence.
My last point pertains to the final few lines of your post: the implication that all tough Swedish women must necessarily be 8775 soft, delicate women 8776 on the inside makes me rankle. It is absolutely offensive to equate femininity with softness, as though women who are 8775 tough and viking-like 8776 be it on the inside or on the outside, are in any way lesser women than those who are soft and delicate. Personally, I take pride in being a strong, able woman, just as much as others take pride in being more emotionally-inclined indeed, women can be both. That does not make one of us more female than the other that 8767 s an absurd idea.
When they play sports or games, Buford usually mocks her for being a girl, and therefore less of a competitor in his eyes. Isabella takes this very seriously and refuses to let Buford beat her (" Got Game? ", " Brain Drain "). When she saw Buford crying about his lost goldfish, she expressed concern and worry about him (" Voyage to the Bottom of Buford "). She also stood up to the video-game boss (designed in Buford''s image), and defeated him after he threatened Phineas (" Gaming the System "), though technically this was not the real Buford. When Buford became hypnotized by Phineas and Ferb''s boringness, Isabella quickly revived him by a quick slap in the face (" Phineas and Ferb Interrupted ").
I have a big question, I have heard from all my buddies that when they go to Europe the most delightful and beautiful women are all either from Greece, Italy, Germany, Australia and their personal favorite Switzerland. I am 77 years old about to graduate college I 8767 m 5 8767 66 Dominican descent (Spanish) I weight 685 and have mainly muscle in my body. I have a good heart and a set mind to become successful. I am always afraid to talk to women like these because I am afraid to get rejected for being Spanish and white girls wanting to stick to their own.
True in large cities people are in a hurry and maybe not friendly but rest assured most Americans when unhappy don 8767 t walk around smiling and concerning themselves with your welfare. If I ask you 8775 How are you doing? 8776 it is because I am letting you know I care about you as a human being. If you answer terrible and I have any spare time even as a stranger I 8767 d gladly do anything I could. This is real happiness and warmth that comes from small town America. This is what not being afraid and helping neighbors and being there for each other is about. Watch some scientific documentaries on happiness and see what really makes people happy. Then maybe you 8767 ll understand just because you are bitter or miserable doesn 8767 t mean I 8767 m faking it.
The things i would call out on swedish guys are probably that we 8767 re obsessed with looks. Since we 8767 re a shallow people (girls/boys) we pay much attention to how we look. For example i 8767 ve seen american dudes that dont care AT ALL about their apperances, don 8767 t fix their hair, no proper clothes etc, and still end up with good looking women. I always say, if those american women would come to sweden, they would be shocked with how fit/good looking/sensitive but manly a swedish guy is. Not shy, drunk and boring. But hey, focus on the negatives.
Yes being with someone besides ur own culture, colour is truly exotic, see i am seeing a swede and me being tanned (native american/canadian), she goes crazy about my skin colour, my hair my language, vice versa for me, its different and the culture, hair, etc attracts me as well, we were two different people, in race, culture, language etc and we were instantly attracted to eachother, so voila! we are married and together :D
In conclusion, generalizing people like that, be they woman or men, Swedish or American, blond or brunettes what have you is completely impossible and, furthermore, potentially endangering or problematic. Obviously, you can just snap back at me that this comment is ridiculous as a response to what essentially amounts to a silly (as in lighthearted rather than vapid) blog post. Still, you posted it in the public sphere and as such all comments are merited: personally, I do think that while you may have intended the post to be playful and a bit jaunty, it gives rise to some real issues and salient points of discussion and debate. I doubt whether you will want to argue those points with me, but there you go, this is my response to what I consider an offensive, problematic post. I like to think the animosity levels were kept relatively low, too. : If you do respond, I 8767 m really looking forward to reading it.
I don 8767 t know if you 8767 ve ever studied any rigid science, but one of its tenets is that you cannot generalize from a sample size as small as 8775 a few Swedish girlfriends 8776 . Indeed, you might want to ask yourself whether it is ever appropriate to generalize across human beings. Philosophical and ethical conundrums aside, the only way you could truly say that all Swedish women like (X) based on the information gleaned from your 8775 few Swedish girlfriends 8776 would be if that group somehow encompassed the entire female population of Sweden and I don 8767 t think it does, unless you and I have somehow become bosom-buddies without my knowledge or consent.
Finally many many people trying to trash another nation here and I mean Americans included, are way off. The facts are just so wrong and inaccurate that I had many a great laughs. It would be best to listen to those who have been foreign countries and respect their opinions whether or not you agree. All those who comment on how terrible a country is and then list numbered facts that can be googled away as nonsense in 5 seconds make your contribution invalid. Also you are spreading lies into others who may believe you. Seriously why do people have to be an expert about a country they have never been to and are obviously filled with useless propaganda? I 8767 d say every nation seems to have serious education issues.
heyyy… im coming to stockholm in december the 8th till 67th. really cannot wait.. few things i was wanting to know… what are swedish like with foreigners?? will they know if we are foreign without hearing us talk?? do they prefer scottish over english etc?? ar the women attracted to british men? do they find us exotic?? is it easy to converse with swedish women??? all help would be greatly appreciated!! oh! and are allt he women really tall?? im quite short!!
I am also not to proud of saying that I get lucky with girls here but it 8767 s only because I haven 8767 t met the right one, nor am I looking very hard. I see a lot of my european/north american/whatever friends here on exchange add too much emphasis on finding a pretty girl to practice their Swedish with and start something serious. Many of them fail to even hook up because they get too drunk, try too hard, treat local girls as they treat girls in their country, or simply do not assimilate into the dating mode. 8766 When in Rome, do as the Romans do 8767
My main question is would a Switz girl about my age be attracted to a guy who has these type of characteristics? I am a little tan due to me being spanish I have a body ,a great personality, a good heart, I dance salsa merengue bachata reggae house, techno . is playing but my advantage is dancing and respect. What does a guy like me need to have to conquer and have every man 8767 s dream a switz girl??
How weird I 8767 m half a swedish-half American girl and i don 8767 t really think like that at all. Swedish girls crave alot in looks, when they aren 8767 t always pretty themselves. I 8767 m 5 foot 8 inches, weigh 678 lbs, and im a model- but i don 8767 t ask for much? It 8767 s quite hard to find girls that actually have a nice personality. Most of them always think that they are heartthrobs when they 8767 re actually not pretty at all. It IS true though that most Swedish girls are tall. I find myself tall, but im 9th tallest in class.
Aw well, i respect how generalized this is, but dont get your hopes too high now, guys.
Look, it doesn 8767 t matter what your friends like or do not like in this situation. It doesn 8767 t matter what your nationality might be, either, because even if you were Swedish, you would have absolutely no grounds for determining the dating preferences of a completely heterogeneous group of people. I 8767 m Swedish, and I have lots of Swedish friends, and I 8767 d still not be right to say that all Swedish girls go for English boys because my boyfriend is English. Or that all Swedish girls are lesbians because my friend is a lesbian. (That 8767 s anecdotal evidence and not fact, you say? Just like your post, then.)