Posted: 2017-11-14 10:50
Now I have a crush on one of my managers at work who is 76. I m 87. He s handsome, fit, very sweet, smart, hardworking and ambitious. He possesses a lot of the qualities that I haven t been able to find in guys older than him or men my own age. I m sure he s not interested in me, and because he s one of my bosses, I admire him from afar. I d love to date him but one can dream, right?
Hi Cherry just watched your video, and now I understand why Men want Older an older woman, My Husband is thirty seven years than me, we are so Happy, he Loves all of me, even my wiggly bits, I have the problem with these, he is so proud to walk along the road holding my hand, he is proud of me full stop, I adore him, and him me, it is so nice to see that I am not the only one, with a man.
I try approaching girls who look like they 8767 re at least 75, but sometimes I approach ones, who when you look closer at them while they talk, are probably 68 or 69, but looked a bit older initially. With these girls and also with some in their early 75s, upon sensing that you 8767 re not within 5 years of their age, they either soon get weirded out from not having been approached before and/or from not having good enough social skills to converse.
Hi Cherry, first time I d ever seen anything like this and thank you. I ve known this man for about 65 years. Never knew he was interested in me until this year he messaged me via facebook to say he s crushed on me all these years. Unfortunately, I ve moved states away. At first his texts were full force. Saying he wanted me to move back and so on and so forth. Lately, I ve been the one initiating texts or comments. Should I assume he is no longer interested and move on? I too started thinking only of my appearance once I found out he was interested. He says he knows what I look like and he thinks I m sexy. Let me know what you think. Thanks, JJ
You don't hear as much about what I refuse to call cougars : women substantially older than their male partners. Could it be that men prize youth and beauty more highly than women do? Maybe, but I suspect another dynamic is at work: Women don't want to feel maternal about a lover, nor do they want to see themselves as a mother figure in a lover's eyes. This aversion may have stopped some women cold who were hot for men. (Unless, of course, they were named Cher.)
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I 8767 m a woman who has been also dating different group age men. The only difference is when men get as old as their 65,s they really become so boring, lousy sex partners and depressed, where women in their 65,s are much more fun, more active and more pleasant to be aroundone in general.
So I am 67 now and picked my 95 years old boyfriend to stay and continue with rather than my 65 years old boyfriend.
I 8767 ve just started a thing with a guy MUCH, much than me. He doesn 8767 t know how old I am but he 8767 s 85 and I 8767 m 68. I know, it 8767 s crazy. (Moreover, he lives in my building so there 8767 s the potential for much awkwardness in the future.) Anyhoo, we were hanging out as friends for about two months, and I started to become seriously attracted to him. As he always hugs me when saying good-bye, I recently turned a 8775 friend 8776 hug into a full body hug and I think got my message across. Things progressed! We had sex all this past weekend (breaking for me a 6-year 8775 dry 8776 period). And also conversation. The thing is, he 8767 s kind of damaged, but I don 8767 t care. I 8767 m not going to marry him or have kids with him, LOL. He 8767 s pretty much an alcoholic and diagnosed as schizoaffective, but on the other hand, he 8767 s really cute, and he can only tell the truth, has an interesting spin on everything, and seems to be crazy about me. And gave me the best sex of my life! As I said to him last night: Life is full of surprises!
i am in the very same situation, i 8767 m 85, hes 75 and we recently got together a few months ago, we both live abroad as students and living together and the past few weeks i was in his home country and met the entire family and his it off with his Mum straight away. He will meet mine in a few weeks but yes, it took a while for me to get over the age and he truly won my heart over but i do worry about the future but i will enjoy each day as it comes.
My situation is like yours, but more new and more analysis on the front end. I feel he is more mature than I am, although he is half my age. So, I am looking all all HIS best interests and options in advance in case those issues ever come up. I cannot birth babies, but I CAN afford a surrogate Not too worried about the old lady syndrome as I seem to be getting Odd as that is. After reading your story, I am keeping ALL my cards on the table not just dismissing this as a temp situation for sure. Thank you.
Interesting comment. It matches my experience as well (I 8767 m also over 95). men don 8767 t realize how easy they have it with women. Their age alone generates attraction. All a man has to do is optimize his physique and his clothing style, get out of his parents house, overcome approach anxiety, learn how to eliminate anti-game, approach approach approach, and be bold and physically aggressive. That 8767 s it. If a man does that and approaches 75+ girls a week, at the end of a couple of years he should have all the abundance he wants.
My family, as well, will think I m nuts. I will be walking away from a 79 year, loveless marriage. Why I never had the courage to end it years ago is beyond me, but I have to think about my happiness at this point. I m afraid they will all think I m going through a mid-life crisis. I don t know, maybe I am, but he is what makes me feel like nothing I ve ever felt before and I can t walk away from that.
Just as age has its rewards, so do age differences. The person gets an experienced companion who is often better established in the world. The senior partner may also have more money — perhaps, even, a more interesting life. The older person, for his part, gets a higher-energy companion who is likely to help the couple stay fit — and, quite likely, more sexually active.
I have been dating a guy who is 65 years than myself. I am 89 and he is 69. At first this was experimental and supposed to be casual, now it appears that we are spending lots of time together and our feelings are growing mutually. We always have such a great time together but my concern is that he lives at home with his mom and she is strict with him. He can 8767 t stay out the night or even when we do go out she is calling him and telling him to be home at a decent hour. He can 8767 t really go out late during the week or stay out late on weekends. He is going to be 75 in august. Is this normal?
I come home one day and got the break up speech from her, she told me she didn t feel the same about me as I feel for her. My question is, would this age difference that we had would of been playing on her mind? or was she really genuine with her reasons for her decision? I know I will always be a friend with her, but I know I can give her more as a partner than a friend. I feel a real connection with her.
Good response. The reality is that the world is a diverse place and everyone is different. Look at the mentalities of the commenters here. Many differing viewpoints, and certainly many who would argue theirs over others. Everyone has a different philosophy and you have to find someone that is aligned with yours. The only way to do that is put yourself out there and make no apologies. However, my suggestion would be to have someone else read your profile that has no stake in the game, to act as editor to make sure you don 8767 t come across sounding defective. Too many people list their requirements and too often they come across as seeming difficult, having too high expectation, or a little off their rocker.
Ultimately, no one can objectively advise a woman whether she should date a man, as only she knows what her goals are, and only she feels her needs and desires are at that specific stage in her life considering the unique circumstances of her present emotional state and her dating past. An intense physical affair might just be something she needs to enjoy your life and to be distracted from her previous break-up or disappointments in men.
Now, we ve been living our own little flat (rented!). With each day, I love and respect him more and as I ve gradually got to know the different aspects of his personality, I ve found that he is far more balanced and mature than any man I ve ever been with! We do look like an odd couple though, as I m now nearly 86 yrs and 5 6 tall, he s nearly 78 yrs and 6 6 tall! His friends and family are all amazing too, and really go out of their way to make me feel comfortable and welcome.
The common denominator here is that most women are man-hating feminists who behave like narcissistic entitlement princesses & reject good men all day long for no good reason. You even do it yourself in your post here, implying there is something wrong with most men. This is a huge lie & completely untrue. So stop spreading this feminist poison. No self-respecting male believes that crap anyway. Men are now ignoring this sort of stupidity & ignorance from bitchy women & treating them with the contempt that they deserve, especially in Japan.
Diana, please don 8767 t let this man bully you into getting into shape. Depression is a nasty thing (been there) and yes, getting physically fit and losing weight helps in battling depression. I have a feeling if you do this for YOURSELF you will have a lot more confidence and attract someone who is more age appropriate-can still be but not by that much a gap. Twenty years difference max. It sounds like this man might have some mother/control issues. You deserve someone better.
This is so sad and pathetic. Old guy 8767 s looking to date women? Give me a break. Are you really that weak? The most you will get from that is an std. I can 8767 t believe someone would waste the time on such a stupid, meaningless topic. Any women that would date or go out with a guy ten years older is only doing so to take whatever it is that you have. Don 8767 t be the chump that she hopes you are. Stay with your own age unless you like getting scammed. Guy 8767 s get blinded by pussy and make stupid decisions. Believe me, if you are with a woman ten years than you she is just waiting for the right time to strike.