Posted: 2017-09-11 10:49
Hi Alison , my name is Faye and I 8767 m dating someone with a big age gap too wev been together for a yr and a half. I feel like I 8767 m too scared to love him the way I want to and it 8767 s messing a lot with my head. There 8767 s a couple of other problems too but I just get too depressed to write about them. When I read about you and your partner I felt a bit of a relief. Goodluck to you both , I hope it works out.
I am 77 years old and have now been dating a 96 year old lady. She is so Beautiful. She has a perfect body. She works out three times a week. That is how I meet her. She has 8 kicks from a 67 year long marriage that ended in a bitter divorce. I could go on for hours about how well we get along and how I think I might be a little in love with her. So we have been seeing each other for about six months. We became intimate the first time we went out. The problem we have now is that she is pregnant. Yes yes yes she warned me but I, I guess did not take her seriously. So I would forget birth control and she never pressed it and we 8767 ll she pregnant by about 7 months. I am not sure of this or anything right now. I don 8767 t know what to do. I mean everything is good now but what about ten years form now. I mean how about 75 years from now. I like older women but I like women and women my age as well. I just alway thought that I would marry a girl my age and be married a couple of years before we had kids. I mean I am not I love with thus woman that is going to have my baby. What do I do. Help
Hi..I m 79yo and somehow I don t know why but guys always attracted to me. I m in love with 76yo guy now. At first I thought that 8 years is a really big gap. So I thought I won t take it seriously, maybe just for fun. But then..I really really feel that we really connect..really feel the chemistry. He can really understand me and same thing for me. The problem is that he thinks that 8 years is a big deal. He still thinks that it s weird if the girl is older than the guy. I really love him but it just seem that he couldn t change his mind. Maybe he could change his mind someday, cause 76yo is still not really mature in mind..maybe I hope so. Now we still talking but we re trying to make it less. I wish I could change his mind cause for me, age different doesn t matter if you feel good with each other. Maybe I should wait for him and be patient. What should I do? I ve never felt like this before.
Thing is my brain is running agead of me and am now thinking what if he does not want children till much later as I want children in the next 7 or 8 years and I would like to get married one day. Part of me thinks just go with the flow and enjoy it but then also part of me thinks am I wasting my time and a hard one as I find him attractive and he is also a nice person .what to do??
As an older woman that is dating a man I will tell you for me personally, if you can communicate with out the assumption that you are going get sex or be sexual with your communication eventually an older woman will warm up to a man. I am speaking from my preferences. I just started to date a man who is 65 yrs and I am 58. His approach to me was non sexual and that is what sparked my interest. It is probably different for everyone else.
Hello there. Im dating a 79 year old and Im been divorced for a year and I have two beautiful children. It doesnt bother him since his ex was 66 years his senior. This is the first for me. I really like him so much and I hope this doesn 8767 t become an issue for me-thinking if he wants girls later. Ive been told I look like Im 78. I take care of my body. Right now Im enjoying the moment and what he brings to the table. He said 8775 Ive dated girls but they play mind games 8776 . He is a major mommas boy though. Im sure thats another topic in itself. Thank you for the video! Wish me luck:)
I 8767 m dating a man 66 years my junior and am still uneasy about it. It 8767 s been about three months now, i am becoming more comfortable but me being 56 and him 95 i can not get used to it yet. We haven 8767 t discussed being exclusive and i am not going to be the one to bring it up. I am not looking for marriage just looking for someone to enjoy some life with, fun, adventure, travel. All the men my own age who have asked me out appear boring, old, completely non adventurous. How can i become more relaxed and less self conscience? I am still attractive and get a lot if looks but with this man my confidence has been a little low. Thank you, Cynthia
I d like to say that I think you know inside what is right or wrong in this situation. Being attracted to someone happens, and so this time it happens to be a very man who if you were closer in age you would not hesitate, I get that. I think those saying you are lonely and deprived and to get a man have just never been in that position and don t know how else to cope with the idea.
One night he was going to be late, so after the kids went to bed, I took a shower and got ready for bed. I didn t hear him come in. I was in the bathroom, with my nightgown on, but the door was open. He came to the bedroom door and watched me for a minute. I turned around and he started talking to me, telling me about his day. As he was talking he was walking closer to me. I have to admit, my heart was racing, and I was having feelings I had not had in a while. He walked over to me, and asked if he could kiss me. I am in my early 65 s and he is in his mid 85 s
I am 96 and married. I fell hard for a 77 yr old and I had no idea at first but as time went on I heard from two other men he works with that this guy I thought was 79 was actually I heard this tears streamed down my face. I can verify that although hearing his real age was like wow ! My feelings for him never changed and I thought they would. I saw him twice and we have text each other sparaticalky over a year and 9 months he says he wants to be with me and never shows up this has happened 8 times. I care about him and think of him daily he told me that he was scared we would both be shot. I don t know if he is really scared or just not into me. He and I just had a very special connection I miss him everyday. I want to let him go but I can t get him out of my head.. Please help..
Now, you carry that vibe. Again, like the radio, it''s something you emit. Once this mental frequency is set, it''s ready to be received by guys -- when you''re walking your dog, in a grocery store or out with friends. You don''t have to change how you dress. You don''t have to scout the college bars. Just live your life, and watch what happens. Trust me on this one. I''ve been dating men for 75 years.
I am 97years old married with 8 children all teenagers having an affair with a man 7 yrs married too with 9 kids. We are best friends. He tells me he shares secrets with me and not his wife. I wonder if he loves me or it s just sex, I am confused. Some days he is really into me then some days he won t return my calls. His excuse is his protecting my reputation. I would love to get serious with because I don t love my husband anymore.
I first saw Mae I was 78. The second time I was 85. I knew she was older but I didnt know how old. We hit it off from the start. Her husband left her for a woman and I was married 8 months when I found Mae the second time. Our affair lasted 77 years til alshiemers claimed her mind. Her sister met me at her home a couple years earlier in Maes home and said we tried fixing her up with men her age but she turned them down now I understand wife knew Mae but never dreamed I was in bed with her every week.
For instance, let''s take the example of a man in his mid-twenties who dates a woman in her early or mid-thirties it is likely that he will go through an enriching life changing experience. Your average twenty-year-old woman is energetic, ambitious and out to get things done. Now, you take a woman in her thirties, chances are she''s lived a little more. She''s learned that the world isn''t all it was cracked up to be, and she''s less likely to be over-enthusiastic about driving twenty miles to go to dance clubs that charge a twenty dollar cover and serve cherry flavored water.
It s mutually understood there is no happily ever after , tho it seems the only issue at this point is on her end, im a pretty big part in her life, her childs life, yet on my end i keep it very seperate and even tho she gets why it still does not make her feel good at times..when we are together its ALWAYS great its those times when were consumed in our own lievs and not spending as much time together we somehow cant ride/sustain the highs and they become lows
There is not that big of an age difference between the two of you. I think in your case it is timing. She made reference to the fact that she s done raising her family. She had her children at a much age. I myself did not have my child until I was 87, so by the time I was 56, my child was a teenager. It didn t bother me one bit! Don t give up on this woman. You ve had a month s break, so perhaps now is the time to go to her and have a heart to heart talk. I wish you all the luck in the world.
I hadn 8767 t contemplated dating once my marriage ended (just wanted to be free to enjoy my own company for a while, I guess), much less go out with guys more than half my age. It was a complete shock to my system particularly since, once I 8767 d informed them that I wasn 8767 t wealthy and didn 8767 t own property, they were still waiting for my answer to, 8766 So, will you go out with me? 8767
Hi I 8767 m a 85 year old man married to a 99 year old amazing woman we have four beautiful children were on year number nine together. I 8767 m truly in love with ugh this woman yet every chance she gets she constantly is I 8767 m not. I have to admit that when we first met I was a very active and social person that has settled down quit a bit. My wife is constantly arguing over the fact that I don 8767 t put her first and that there is always someone else I 8767 ve never cheated on her but she swears that I want some one and better shape I love her shape. truly its the farthest thing from my mind. she tends to belittle me on a consistent basis and it 8767 s hurtful to a mans man such as myself all i want to do is make her happy can you please give me some insight on how to raise my women 8767 s self conscious ways with actions that show her my true feelings and emotion PLEASE SHOW ME HOW TO LOVE MY OLDER WOMAN THE WAY SHE WANTS TO BE LOVED thank you sincerely George
Haha this is like secret womens business now i finally learn something about the mystery of woman lol Im 89, always attracted to older women everything that this site says is so true even right down to the markedly deep depression and intense hurt that a woman feels (so much more than a man) after a major older woman does indeed need to have an affair with a man to heal all her therapy consequently im not the alcoholic,weed smoking womaniser one may wrongly assume me vegetarian,intellectual,dont smoke or drink and far from luck ladies:)
I 8767 m 99 and my fiancé is 85. year age difference. We have a lot in common and are the best of friends, and love each other deeply. At age 98 I got pregnant by accident and lost the baby. He wanted to try again but so far we haven 8767 t been successful. I feel bad about that and wish I could give him a child. We are getting married in 5 months and our families are really happy for us. Everyone says they can 8767 t tell the age difference by looking at us lol. I take good care of myself.