Posted: 2017-11-14 17:29
9. Be bold and make that first move
You’re in control! No matter your age, gender or appearance, it’s never too early to get in touch with someone you find appealing. Be bold and send that first message or let them know you’re interested with a wink. Keep things short and chatty to test the waters, remember that you don’t have anything to lose by reaching out and have fun getting to know the person on the other side of the profile once you are ready, set up that first date !
Look, it doesn 8767 t matter what your friends like or do not like in this situation. It doesn 8767 t matter what your nationality might be, either, because even if you were Swedish, you would have absolutely no grounds for determining the dating preferences of a completely heterogeneous group of people. I 8767 m Swedish, and I have lots of Swedish friends, and I 8767 d still not be right to say that all Swedish girls go for English boys because my boyfriend is English. Or that all Swedish girls are lesbians because my friend is a lesbian. (That 8767 s anecdotal evidence and not fact, you say? Just like your post, then.)
How weird I 8767 m half a swedish-half American girl and i don 8767 t really think like that at all. Swedish girls crave alot in looks, when they aren 8767 t always pretty themselves. I 8767 m 5 foot 8 inches, weigh 678 lbs, and im a model- but i don 8767 t ask for much? It 8767 s quite hard to find girls that actually have a nice personality. Most of them always think that they are heartthrobs when they 8767 re actually not pretty at all. It IS true though that most Swedish girls are tall. I find myself tall, but im 9th tallest in class.
Aw well, i respect how generalized this is, but dont get your hopes too high now, guys.
Dated swedish women in the US. They have some type of inferiority complex: 8766 my culture is this and this 8767 is their comments most of the time. They don 8767 t seem to know what they like beyond what their village likes. To the moronic commentator above, I love women in the US because many are strong and there is diversity of thought. I hope we don 8767 t go back to cavemen days. I understand the guys frustration, because independent women many times go for surprisingly superficial guys. But some do mend their ways. Others end up in the regret lane later in life But that is not all women by any stretch.
A tool for every job so to speak.
I really think that a very large percentage of my success with women is that I am honestly having such a wonderful time. Even after all these years I still delight, wide eyed like a kid on Christmas morning, when new prospects present themselves and in the end when you are happy and having a great time people want to be around have incredibly high social IQs and can tell instantly who is enjoying themselves honestly and who is faking it in a way many men cannot people who are enjoying themselves are attractive to people who are seeking a good time for obvious reasons.
In conclusion, generalizing people like that, be they woman or men, Swedish or American, blond or brunettes what have you is completely impossible and, furthermore, potentially endangering or problematic. Obviously, you can just snap back at me that this comment is ridiculous as a response to what essentially amounts to a silly (as in lighthearted rather than vapid) blog post. Still, you posted it in the public sphere and as such all comments are merited: personally, I do think that while you may have intended the post to be playful and a bit jaunty, it gives rise to some real issues and salient points of discussion and debate. I doubt whether you will want to argue those points with me, but there you go, this is my response to what I consider an offensive, problematic post. I like to think the animosity levels were kept relatively low, too. : If you do respond, I 8767 m really looking forward to reading it.
Hi! I am an albanian residing in NY City. There are about 755555 Swedish -Americans here and I have met some of them. I would say that their physical appearance is stunning. The one I have met were business women or girls. Tremendously mean they were making in average above a quarter million dollars a year. Because I am blessed with good looks always they were the ones approaching me. Down to earth and smart. Of course I bowed to pressure and married one. She still has relatives in Sweden but I have never been there since my wife was born here. But close where I worked I have seen 8 ladies from Sweden working in real estate office. Three of them obese, I mean real bottom heavy. Likable faces but strange life styles. I saw them with all kinds of colored primates that reside in New York. I did not know that obesity is a problem in Sweden and if the lifestyle of women in Sweden is like the girls I saw here, its not much to be proud of other than the looks. But again I am happy since my wife outsmarts me in many things. In my house I am the one blond and blue eyes, my swedish wife has light brown eyes, light brown hair.
I am one of those 8775 needs alcohol to socialize better 8776 kind of guy, unfortunately, and therefore my experiences are limited to parties and clubs. One thing that I like, though, is that usually in the morning if you 8767 re not too keen on saying 8775 hej, good morning! I 8767 m gonna make some coffee and a nice breakfast. Would you like some or do you have to go to class/work? 8776 you can just say nothing and the Swedish girl will notice and just leave. Then you will see her in school or in a party and you can act as if nothing had happened. This is hard to achieve in latin countries without some sort of sexual tension or strings attached.
I love all that internet macho crap lol. 8775 bring yo punk ass to LA bro and i 8767 ll beat you to a pulp! 8776 8776 bring yo punk ass to Detroit and i 8767 ll beat you,shoot yo dog! 8776
8775 Umm ok..just let me book flights and pay a fortune so you can beat me ! You want to beat me up then you 8767 ll be getting all the fun,so you f 8776 8767 ing pay and do all the travelling to come to me! 8776
8775 Machismo 8776 love it! :)
I have a big question, I have heard from all my buddies that when they go to Europe the most delightful and beautiful women are all either from Greece, Italy, Germany, Australia and their personal favorite Switzerland. I am 77 years old about to graduate college I 8767 m 5 8767 66 Dominican descent (Spanish) I weight 685 and have mainly muscle in my body. I have a good heart and a set mind to become successful. I am always afraid to talk to women like these because I am afraid to get rejected for being Spanish and white girls wanting to stick to their own.
I have enough of a challenge keeping peace with my British husband concerning cleaning and cooking (we take turns cooking or buying takeaways and hire a cleaner otherwise we would divorce), so I can only warn men coming from other cultures that Swedish women find a lot of self-worth in working and earning a wage and do not fancy becoming someone 8767 s cook or cleaner in the evening. If you marry a Swedish woman and settle in Sweden you will be expected to share parental leave and picking up at daycare when you have kids. Saying that though, my husband has not taken hardly any parental leave at all, but his other British friends with Swedish wives do. I 8767 ve been upset with him over that, and I should probably here add that a lot of marriages here break up after the first child is born because the men and the women don 8767 t agree to share (then they instead share the kid every other week). We 8767 ve stuck it out though, because we love each other, are intelligent beings and share mostly the same views on life.
I just have 7 questions. First of all. Are you ready to move to sweden or are you preying upon the swedish males that are visiting your country=P. Are you ready to move abroad if you find the ONE guy?. If you are ready to move abroad then things might be easier if you are hellbent on meeting a swedish guy. Because otherwise you would have to find someone online that is willing to move to venezuela, it is a big step for either of you.
I think a good sign that things are genuinely out of whack, and not just some guys going on about 8775 Back in my day! 8776 is that way, way, way too many 8775 normal 8776 women are on anti-depressants and survey after survey shows this huge lack of happiness in their lives compared to how women used to rate their lives. In denying their femininity, much of which is biologically driven (hence why they get giggly and hair twisty around me), they are creating a whole lot of internal stress. I 8767 ve no problem ignoring the 8775 Get offa my lawn! 8776 arguments, but there is something I think to the anti-depressants/drugging/rampant unhappiness in their lives that comes from being basically shoehorned into being men who wear heels and have tits.
I understand it is good fun to chat with Swedes, but Mötesplatsen is legitimate dating site that is seeking to keep their client base happy. Letting foreigners in to flirt with women who will never be able to meet them, and in the scenario in which you do decide to meet them requires either you to ask her to fly to you or you to fly to her is the type of thing that annoys people and causes the loss of clientèle.
I always thought they picked pictures based on the country in question. (Yeah I 8767 m probably attributing more thought to the process than is actually used.) For what 8767 s it 8767 s worth, the women here look vaguely Ukrainian but then: I 8767 ve never even been to the Ukraine and have only met maybe half a dozen of their women. I 8767 m hardly an expert here. For all I know they just picked it out of random stock photos. 🙂
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Of the guys I got to know fairly well, none drank to excess, or at all while I was with them. They enjoyed good conversation. Some were more intellectually curious than others, some more mature than others. But most weren 8767 t the shy, repressed types that this blog promotes as typical. Nor were they obsessed with their looks. All were average-looking, one was overweight. I can only conclude that all the 8775 gorgeous 8776 men this site discusses are in Stockholm. Same regarding the women I only met average-looking women, and the ones in the north, at least, tended to be pudgy, though I didn 8767 t meet many. I 8767 m only saying there 8767 s a lot of variety of types in Sweden, as in any country.
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The immigration thing was mostly towards Europeans until the 6965s, and ever since the country has gone through drastic changes. Third world immigration has created ethnic enclaves all across America, people live in the US, but they are not integrating into American life.
Italians, Germans, French, and British may have fought each other, but when their immigrants went to America they blended in and became Americans.
You unfortunately cannot say that for the new wave of immigrants from elsewhere, they either have no will to integrate or no ability. You got two groups of third world immigrants, one with low education and no English skills who cannot integrate into American society and the legal H6B types who can speak English have some kind of employable skill but would rather adhere to their old culture, this type only sticks with their own kind.
As an American woman who has a lot of Swedish male friends and spent some time over there I really love the fact that things like the money situation in a date setting are seen that way. I never did get why one person (namely the man) is always expected to fork out the cash. If I have it on me, cool beans. If I don 8767 t and he does fine, but I 8767 ll feel more comfortable covering it next time.