Posted: 2017-11-14 16:12
Some men have a different view on love and sex in fact, some men consider them mutually exclusive. In extreme cases, the emotional intimacy of love makes the act of sex more difficult because they don 8767 t equate primal, lusty passion with love. Freud called the extreme cases of this the Madonna whore complex. Not that your guy is extreme but maybe this perspective will help you decide to appreciate his love and work on it or leave because you want something different. I had an extreme husband and we couldn 8767 t make it work even though we still love each other.
Texting is significant to me because I 8767 m hearing impaired. Every guy I 8767 ve dated understands that I can 8767 t talk on the phone. So texting is my primary mode of communication. Not sure how all this advice helps me, because basically, if he stops texting, he 8767 s stopped communicating/contacting me, period. It doesn 8767 t take much to just text, 8775 Just saying hey, busy for a bit, but talk to you later, 8776 especially when dealing with someone like me.
Eric thank you for this article. This is very insightful and one I wish more women would read and truly internalize and understand. I am in a very unique situation with a man who lives in a different state. And it is fundamentally important to understand these concepts especially in a LDR situation. Although there are areas that I personally struggle with in my situation this has been been essentially helpful to me and I want to thank you again for making so many areas clear and concise as to how to better understand the fundamental needs of a man. I have marked this article in my favorites as I feel it is a tremendous resource. Your insight is so valuable and I am so appreciative that I have found you and Sabrina as a resource. Thank you again. Best regards.
Well Anyway as the writer said not all the koreans are like this(and I never saw girls like the writer said in my life.. I just 8766 heard 8767 that kind of girl are mostly lookin for foreigner in the club and mostly sluts)
About only 65% is right that their love for their family.
Quick Texting or phone calling? Hmm probably kids ,students may do.
It 8767 s hard to text fast or take phone calls for women who has job to work.
I never thought about meeting foreigner.
And my friends also thinks like that. Why? I don 8767 t know we don 8767 t care about them And it 8767 s hard to get interested cause it 8767 s hard to meet and talk with forienger in daily life unless if we try we are not interested so.. never have chance or desire to meet foreigner. And culture difference is a huge block so we don 8767 t try hard to meet foreigner. Someone who has similer life style is the good I think. And what 8767 s best is someone who loves me most.
I want to know why a christian man I 8767 ve known for over 7 years showered me with affection. Long tight hugs. Making it a point to always talk to me asking for a hug whenever he saw me. Say things like 8775 I love this woman in front of people, Kiss me on the face and say see you later babe 8776 , 8775 she 8767 s a honey 8776 , 8775 I love you soooooo much 8776 , ask me to go for a ride on his motorbike with him saying 8775 I 8767 ll keep you warm 8776 and more. Saying to a friend 8775 I have to come and see my girlfriend 8776 . This was at the community centre we both volunteered in. He now works full time so I don 8767 t see him. Then when I tell him I like more than a friend he withdraws from me. We have had contact via texts and whatsapp since. I haven 8767 t contacted him for a week i 8767 m giving him space.
Adf your people come to my country to. Yous live on our tax dollars. But in Canada we inbrace our foreign people. We embrace each one of your cultural heritage and choice. But when you say crap like this it makes people feel like shit. I love Korean culture and any asian or European culture. And I love Korean women they are beautiful inside and out. But like all women they need to be respected and not stereotyped every one is different.
Hi Eric, 655% agree. This article mirrors a guy in my life at the moment. We had and generally tend to have these intense discussions where I get to delve deeper into his fabric and the strands that make him who he is. I feel he is attracted and really likes mr but here 8767 s the snag: I dont want him to feel like I 8767 m taking advantage of his vulnerability. I also am terrified that he may get to know me at such depth and not want me. It 8767 s wierd because I think he picks up on my hesitation and thinks that I 8767 m not interested in truth, I really am. He seems afraid to escalate things for fear of rejection. I know exactly how he feels. How do i make sure that he realises how I feel and give him the confidence to know that I like him without taking advantage of his vulnerability.
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I 8767 m going to call rubbish on this article. For starters if you 8767 re important to the man you 8767 re dating at all he 8767 ll make the time to text you, it 8767 s not that difficult to do and takes no time at all. If a man says he 8767 s too swamped at work or too busy to spend time with you then it 8767 s time to be concerned because clearly he 8767 s found something else he feels is more worth his time and frankly probably doesn 8767 t really care about you.
If a man is at work, then that is the sole center of his world and nothing exists outside of that. The fact that a man doesn 8767 t text you as much or as often as you 8767 d like doesn 8767 t mean he doesn 8767 t care about you – he 8767 s usually just focusing on something else and most men have a difficult time seeing beyond a given task at hand. This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.
Well you just helped me tremendously. I 8767 ve been dating this guy for about 8 months now. He actually told me that he felt I could make him great. I first thought wow and then I felt a tremendous amount of pressure. A couple of weeks ago he asked me if I wanted to watch the series LOST. I never watched it before. He actually told me he wanted to experience it with me. *blushing*. We 8767 ve been watching it religously and im addicted. Im actually glad i didnt watch it while it was on air because now i can experience it with him.
7) Be your best self this means that, yes, you put effort into your appearance but also your MOOD. Make your mood your top priority live in a happy way. 8775 Live happy, 8776 so to speak. Your mood determines your vibe and your vibe determines how much love you 8767 re attracting (not just from your guy, but from everyone). When you make your mood your priority and you allow happiness to be your guide, it becomes really easy to naturally and effortlessly attract love into your life. You won 8767 t even need to think about it.
i lik dis article,am datx a guy for a year nw and he says he loves me and wants to get married to hv never been introduce to his family members or frnds,n he has a son already with his were gox on well for us but suddenly he stop txtx n callx as usuall n always respond in a rude manner to began after we had a little i keep on txtx him or break up with i need an advice
Lie! All lies. You, Korean girls, are totally crazy about white men. Don 8767 t pretend it 8767 s not true. It 8767 s obvious everybody can see it. Don 8767 t think that everyone has the same low sense of observation as you. Everyone sees how you totally lose your minds whenever a white man shows up. We see it on buses, on the subway, at schools, at bars, nightclubs and churches. It 8767 s true. White people are your masters, your gods. You deify them, kiss their feet and asses. It 8767 s true.
All I have to say is Preach the word! I was literally your cheerleader as I read this post. Thanks to you and Sabrina, the help of some friends and family, and life experiences I have been able to increase my 8775 market value 8776 . And its working so much! And not just for my dating life but my self esteem as well. I see myself as a woman with a lot to offer, and there 8767 s no way I 8767 m settling for less than the best. So reading this article made me happy because I know my thinking and attitude is now correct!:) So THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!
Hey, Eric! Very well-witten article! I am a teenager
with a theory about the man (the ONLY guy) I 8767 ve
been interested in. He seems to be interested but holding
back. He tells me that he loves me alot. 8775 Hello, love! 8776 He
would say..And it makes me smile. He is very mature and loyal. I am not sure if i
understand his context. What do you think? Thanks!
in bad situation right now ,,what should I do if I wants to let me go instead of fighting with his I mean is we got argued about he thinks iam flirting with some guy thru online..yes I admit I do that..but that 8767 s all iam just being nice and this guy knows I have a boyfriend wed just talked as a friend nothing farther than that..and me my boyfriend just been dating for almost months ilike him so much he treated me like iam the way I found out also that his still talking to his exes..I don 8767 t know what to do this is so frustrating..please help
The article is great. Precise and on point. I totally get what you are saying and although I thought I understood men, I was missing the final piece of the puzzle (the winning part).
One question/problem if you really don 8767 t like the same things he does? For example my ex liked fantasy/sci fi. I like drama. I would always agree to watch the movies he liked (doesn 8767 t matter to me) but I can 8767 t really pretend I actually dig 8775 chronicles of riddick 8776 when I don 8767 t. What do you do in that type of situation?
A very educated person or someobe in a good position should not avoid relating with an individual for not being korean or being from an specific country. Korean people is friendly and I think that the only problem is that they don 8767 t feel confident about using a diferent language, if you get to relate with them they are very loyal, honest and support you as a friend (REGARDLESS OF YOUR NATIONALITY) but at first they are not so open. We can 8767 t set a model of girl but at least my female friends are very good persons and I wouldn 8767 t describe them as money seekers, sluts or any bad adjective but instead as funny, honest, happy and very shy for some reason which in my opinion is very attractive.
6)I always could tell this guy liked me. I asked a guy friend to do some asking for me, and my friend said my crush reacted surprised but happy when my friend told him I liked him. My friend said I 8767 d have no trouble talking to him. Yesterday after a few weeks, I told him he 8767 s a cool guy and asked if he 8767 d like to hang out outside work sometime. He said sure, yes, pulled out his phone and I just handed him my cell number. It 8767 s been a day and he hasnt texted or called. Im very new to all this, so what should I do? Ill see him at work tomorrow and dont want it to be awkward. We 8767 ve talked a bit but I was hoping to get more in depth on a date with him.