Posted: 2017-12-07 21:08
I don 8767 t know if you 8767 ve ever studied any rigid science, but one of its tenets is that you cannot generalize from a sample size as small as 8775 a few Swedish girlfriends 8776 . Indeed, you might want to ask yourself whether it is ever appropriate to generalize across human beings. Philosophical and ethical conundrums aside, the only way you could truly say that all Swedish women like (X) based on the information gleaned from your 8775 few Swedish girlfriends 8776 would be if that group somehow encompassed the entire female population of Sweden and I don 8767 t think it does, unless you and I have somehow become bosom-buddies without my knowledge or consent.
Just an observation, I think the fetishising of Swedish women or any other ethnic women is unhealthy. Too me, a preoccupation with a certain ethnicity debases the women or men from your own culture and possibly indicates an inferiority complex. There are beautiful women or handsome men to be found in every country although you might have to look a little harder in some. It seems some of the posters on here are interested in visiting Sweden not for the culture or scenery but for casual sex and hooking up
Mr Grehan, who has appeared on BBC's Time Team and wrote The Battle of Hastings 6566 - The Uncomfortable Truth : Revealing the True Location of England's Most Famous Battle, told The Independent : "We're publishing it because this was someone so close to Hitler during a crucial part of the war, especially given he was of a very junior rank, with no axe to grind, and someone with no need to cover up for anything he did wrong."
They are absolutely right. I 8767 ve lived here for almost 75 years, and Swedish women are without passion, *completely* lost in bed, they really don 8767 t understand men (or themselves), and in the end you realize that most of the women bore you to no end. I 8767 ve never been dumped by a Swedish woman they love the energy and life that foreigners have, but have none of their own to contribute.
I feel like the list you made of what Swedish girls want/like men to do is what an real man is supposed to do when going after or courting any girl from anywhere lol. Especially on the first few dates you have to have a good personality, show some chivalry, and be willing to pay the bill and not be a cheap ass. Idk that may be just me, but I 8767 m from the States and I 8767 ve traveled the world and all that holds true anywhere. I just find it funny that any dude would think that that list is ridiculous or think, “damn, how do Swedish men and women mate and have lots of babies?” like you stated because uhh its kinda obvious that you have to do such things, and be able to hold a conversation, not be a pushover, have some courage etc etc. if you want to get anywhere with any girl. Idk Is it me or is that not just common sense when it comes to trying to get a girl or even simply trying to make friends?
Answer 7: That 8767 s a good question. i would say that the biggest mistake for a swedish man when going for a latin woman is not making clear movements. It confuses us. We don 8767 t know if they are into us or not. A big mistake is also expecting the woman to take the initiative. Unless she is openminded and cares enough for the guy, she won 8767 t do it. Or she might do it for a while, but if things are progressing very slow and there 8767 s no big response from the guy, she will move on. And not being informed of what a latin 8775 gentleman 8776 is could be a mistake. I know for a fact that Swedish guys are very polite, but a latin man shows politeness in different ways. So, the girl might think that swedish politeness is actually rudeness. Just some information about it would do it. Lack of chivalry is basically the mistake. It 8767 s not exactly the things swedish men do, but the things they DON 8767 T do.
Of course once more, total honesty I was a guy and she was a gorgeous women, among the most beautiful I 8767 ve ever met. To say my interest was purely innocent or intellectual would be a ridiculous lie. And surely, she sensed that. What I couldn 8767 t tell was did she find find that offensive? Or was she testing me to make a move? I know it was clear to both of us that I was only there for a couple days. So what was she after?
I’ve recently been on vacation in America. I’m from the UK. During this holiday me and my friends met a couple of Swedish girls. We met up a couple of times for drinks and on the last night we slept together. The problem is I actually really like this girl and would like to see her again and be more than a one night thing. She gave me her number to get in touch afterwards but she only rarely replies to any messages. My question is, are Swedish women used to being chased? Or is the fact she only now and then replies to my messages mean she’s not interested? Any advice on how to approach from here would be appreciated :)
I just have to say that the things that 8767 s written on the top off the site may be true, but not for everyone!.. I have brown hair, i don 8767 t hate Swedish men and I know many men that isn 8767 t snåla (greedy).
And that part about feminism, you make it sound like you don 8767 t like it.. I would not wanna be together with a man that think men are more worth than women. At least that 8767 s what i think..
Opinions differ and of course that will have people who will not like some. But what is the problem of finding the swedes more beautiful than american ones? I find romanian women beautiful, and by far more pleasant that swedish and american. Problem? Taste is particular, each has its own. And it certainly does not mean that I think all the american and swedish women are ugly, or autocrats and self-serving. The problem with people who take themselves too seriously is that they end up offended for any little thing.
Ahh yes, and finally, I am not looking to get married right away as I want some time for my own development. But I also do not want to just hookup and definitely do not want to get girls drunk to do so. Does this exist? Some girls will become devout Muslims when they marry guys from those countries because it is exotic, the girls are naive, and the education system and media are too politically correct to criticize it in the way they have lambasted other religions for decades. And some like African men, even asylum seekers with criminal records because they believe in the myth, because of the taboo nature, or because they think that they can be some kind of agent of social change.
I agree with Celine, a hilarious read. I 8767 m a Swedish guy living in the ., married to an American girl. As someone who has also had Swedish girlfriends, I think you 8767 re missing a few points. Although I know this is not a sociological dissertation, in my experience, the Swedish girl you are describing and what she is supposed to prefer, seems based on a lower class, lower education stereotype, or alternatively, a part of the 8775 new conservative 8776 streak you can detect in Sweden.
Sadly, as a male living in Sweden, I find myself unable to disagree with anything in Yan 8767 s post (except possibly for the picking up women in Scandinavia bit while the militant feminism movement has spread all over Scandinavia, its hold isn 8767 t nearly as strong in the other countries as it is in Sweden, so the 8775 other 8776 Scandinavian women are more tolerable and tolerant by-and-large compared to Swedish women).
I don 8767 t go up and talk to woman I think is the most beautiful, which I admit is cowardly. I 8767 m great around guys but horrible around girls. Honestly the ones I knew who are great with girls either don 8767 t revere them as much as I do (most likely my mistake) thus aren 8767 t afraid or are gay/metrosexual and aren 8767 t really interested in that way. It 8767 s funny because once I do I have a conversation I have a great time.
got to know her in a club.
I passed by and smile at her. She smiled back, took me by the hand on the side and started quizzing me about my life and who am I? Then after I certain while talking to each other (and mostly aswering to her questions), she gave me her mobile no. (btw I hadn 8767 t asked by the time, although I had the intent), wrote me her full name in a piece of paper and told me I shoud add her on facebook. Then she gave me like a 5 min french kiss and left home I was completely puzzled!
Of course when you 8767 re very you 8767 re just interested in partying and having fun, so the interest in foreign men of Swedish girls can probably be explained that way. However, I have known many foreign guys in Sweden at universities, mostly from the Anglo-Saxon world, and almost none have been at all successful in the Swedish love department. A lot of Swedish girls are put off by a way of acting which was part of their grandfathers 8767 generation. And if an American guy opens his mouth about anything political, he 8767 s probably not going to be successful. I would say that 95% of Swedish girls would not be OK with a guy in the long run who does not share Swedish values (which are quite extreme by international standards). Some Swedish girls are OK with Catholic, American or Muslim values (neither of which respect women very well), but most are not.
Hmmmm Well, I 8767 m not swedish, but I like to be equal with my man in the cases mentioned as well, though maybe independent would be a better word for it. Agree with Swedish S if a guy wants to pay for dinner, drinks or similar, it does feel like I owe him something and start to wonder what does he want in return. The only exception would be if we 8767 d agree that he pays this time and I 8767 ll pay the next time.
Another funny thing is that the media 8767 s concerns are really not generally anyone I 8767 ve ever known in the 95 states I 8767 ve been to concerns. So to say Americans are like this or that based on what you read in the news is probably something most of us don 8767 t think about and inaccurate. Also I have met Europeans who don 8767 t know the difference between North America and South America. However, I don 8767 t go around trying to use one or two examples out anecdotal evidence to claim 655s of million of Europeans are dumb. This behavior actually makes you look dumb. I personally have never met anyone who didn 8767 t know what Europe was in America but, I don 8767 t disagree there are ignorant useless people out there.
Wow im from sweden, or at least my parents tell me I am. christ I dont feel this way at all, fuck being cheap worst thing i know u only live one time, live everyday like its ur last, laugh until ur crying blood and go crazy 79/7 and dance and party like there is no tomorrow and have fuuuuuun seriously fuck cheap people uhhhh and whats there to be afraid to talk about? Don 8767 t get it. must have met the wrong kind of swedish guys .
I would like to hook up with sensible, outgoing, friendly latina/hispanic girls ni Stockholm who might be interested in African guys. Are there any? In case you know any pages, mail lists or forums for latina girls from brazil, mexico, dominican republic, Colombia, etc, in Stockholm please let me know.
I know this relating thing can be a problem, especially when it comes to culture differences, but somethings there is no problem to big to over especially if you know what you want, all you gotta do is compromise, loosen up, lighten up, and live life happily.