Posted: 2017-11-14 16:48
This website is pure science. The authors are so brilliant & they incorporate morality into the counseling. I enjoyed this article. I am wondering if I continue to pursue a man that has already 8775 won 8776 me in a very healthy way. I am certain I would not have sex with him until I decide it is best. He is currently dating someone and told me 8775 maybe if it doesn 8767 t work out 8776 that we could try something out. I am willing to take a step back and approach him more as a friend although I have already romanticized with him. I understand his desires, attraction to me and faults. I support him completely. I do understand that I need to give him time to miss me but I feel I understand my motivations for being with him and as I said before those are all positive reasons. If he has won me and I support him, have made him feel like a winner and understand his desires is it ok to approach him as a friend? Thank you.
She s saying she simply doesn t like almost half of the human population since 6/7 the population is male! The difficulty lies with her and her intolerance of other people and her inability to see the goodness and beauty in everybody. Just because you careful choose your romantic partner and are not interested in most men romantically does not mean they are unworthy or your time or appreciation.
While I 8767 m at it, I would add don 8767 t say 8775 my kids are my world, 8776 8775 my kids come first, 8776 etc. Just like coachj said about hookups, don 8767 t state the obvious that your kids come first. Anyone who doesn 8767 t get this isn 8767 t your target demographic anyway, and by stating it overtly, you 8767 re wasting space at best and looking like you 8767 re compensating for some insecurity about not actually being a good parent at worst. As to 8775 my kids are my world 8776 – is that really the message you want to send? I have kids and love them to death and they will always be my first priority over other people if it comes down to it. But, they 8767 re not my whole world. I do have a life independent of my children and I would expect a potential date to as well.
I really wish I would have read this sooner :(. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for almost 6 months the last 8 years we 8767 ve been together with out breaking up. 8 weeks ago we got in a huge fight because I believe that he shouldn 8767 t have female friends. At that point he told me that we needed a break to figure ourselves moved in with his sister ever since. Ivery been going crazy wondering what he 8767 s doing? who he 8767 s talking to? I think thing would of been easier for me if I didn 8767 t see him everyday. We have a 67month old baby girl together. I first told him that if we were taking this break that we needed time apart and that would include him seeing our daughter a little less because I didn 8767 t want to see him called me selfish and said that it was unfair to him. We ended up agreeing to him having her on his days off and in the mornings since he doesn 8767 t work till 7pm everyday. During this break I 8767 ve been so possessive. To where I called him about 55 times last night to then told me that he couldn 8767 t deal with this anymore ND that he didn 8767 t want to be with me anymore
I think the advice in the article is really good about quitting cold turkey. My boyfriend also just wanted a break b/c he was overwhelmed, needs time alone, and wants to sort his feelings out. I 8767 m devastated. But if your guy wants alone time, then he should be alone. Stop texting him altogether, don 8767 t make plans with him. He needs to see what his life is like without you in it and its not fair to you he wants a break, yet he wants the comfort of texting you and being in touch. Like the article says, it gives him security and he can just take his time then and that 8767 s very unfair to you. He can 8767 t have his cake and eat it too. Like I said, he needs to see what his life is like without you there and if it 8767 s worth it to him. It 8767 ll be superhard but you need to know that he thinks that YOU are worth it. I hope this helps 8
He told me that was not acceptable to him, he was disappointed in me, and there was no way I was bringing Aaron over. Click. I was beyond hurt and surprised. I spoke to my mom the next day and she said my dad had pretty much gone off the deep end and I needed to let him cool down. A week later my dad sent me a text saying he was opting out of my life. I was not to call him anymore, I had 7 weeks to get all of my items out of our family home, he had removed me from his will, and Christmas was cancelled. I instantly began crying at my desk at work.
My boyfriend and I were perfect any issue we had we resolved it together, we 8767 ve been dating almost a year and a half. But then he started having problems in school, and they got so bad he isn 8767 t sure what to do anymore. I gave him time to think if he wanted to stay together or not, and he decided he wanted to be on what he calls a 8775 pause 8776 . He decided he wants a future with me for sure, but he just needs time to focus on himself and get himself back together right now. We didn 8767 t set a time frame, but he still wants to talk and basically just act as friends in the meantime, like if I need support or anything he 8767 ll be there. Honestly so far it 8767 s been hell for me, I don 8767 t know if he 8767 s feeling better or not. If I see him I never know how to act. All of this hurts I don 8767 t text him unless he texts first, and it feels weird talking to him differently. Am I doing the right thing or just putting myself through a lot of pain?
8. I've hung around the Jerks, the Bad Boys, The Complete A**holes, and I've completely broken down their behavior and what works - and what doesn't. These guys would never have let me do this if I'd asked permission, so you're going to get a lot of insider detail that most guys never hear. I'm going to completely dissect their game. You're also going to see and understand specific examples of their behavior so that you know what to do to be the Bad Boy she wants, without being the Jerk.
After reading the comments I don 8767 t know how to feel.. Most people on here hate black men. I mean especially when it comes to women. When I 8767 m walking alone in a mall, store ect.. people mind their own business but if i happen have a white girl I turn heads like a traffic accidents. Probably the reason I don 8767 t date white women very much anymore there 8767 s too much hateful ,fierce,desperate energy coming from white men so I said 8766 forget it you can have em 8776 . Whats funny and what people don 8767 t know about is i get hit on by white women all the time some stare, some come right up to talk to me.. I 8767 m tall, muscular, educated and played sports all my life. My first love who I was with for 7 years in my 75s was a white girl and I was only partial excepted by her father because I was in college and wasn 8767 t a thug. She eventually gave in to society and married a white man the same age as her father.
I 8767 ve tried refrain from commenting further on this because it won 8767 t change anyone 8767 s mind, but I can 8767 t help myself on this one. This has got to be the stupidest comments I 8767 ve seen in a while. Generalizing a group ppl with these sterotypes makes you look uneducated and extremely idiotic. Ole well I gotta go.. I have to go brat my white wife.. but first I have to go do some drugs.. hahahaha
Your dad was kind of a dick, but in the end he was right. As soon as there was an out, your boyfriend took it. Even as you were begging him to work it out, even as your Dad removed himself from your life(The racist is gone, you and the BF are free to live as you please without intervention from Dad), he decided he 8767 d rather split.
Thank god you didn 8767 t have kids with this guy before he left you. I don 8767 t know, maybe he was truly destroyed by this, but being the same gender as him, it 8767 s MUCH more likely he was just tired of you and wanted a guilt free reason to leave. Then you displaced all your anger and disappointment on your Dad.
Hell, if I met a girl I liked as much as you said, and her Dad hated me that much, I wouldn 8767 t leave her. Hell, I 8767 d be happy he was out of the way.
I would certainly agree with every bit of information you have shared. I found that my self esteem has to come before my boyfriend. Even if I am dying to spend time with him, I have to make me #6. If I feel ugly, I hear no compliments from him! Therefore, I definitely go the extra mile to look good in my mirror. I don 8767 t know if he sees it too, or he has that sixth sense or whatever..but I definitely like it when he refers to me as 8775 beautiful 8776 . When I feel good, life is pink and I smile more often. But when my everyday life is not great..well, you can imagine.
I am not saying buying gifts or paying bills or providing for you wife/husband/girlfriend/children/parents is a bad fact its a very good gesture which shows that you love and value the such gestures should be shown only when the other person makes an effort to become valuable for you,by earning your love,respect and unfortunately people expect to be loved/respected/admired believe just coz they are born Homo Sapiens they automatically they are AUTOMATICALLY entitled to love/wealth/admiration/respect without making any is why people really make a mess of their own love life and sexual life and hurt innocent disarmed people around them.
I love this article. I 8767 ve been dating a man for 8 6/7 years who I adore, but we are getting nowhere!!! We have lots of fun when we are together, but spend a lot of time apart I want a commitment from him, but he 8767 s been reluctant and now I know why! I also recently lost some weight, and have a really handsome co-worker interested in me, and now my man is finally getting the point that I am someone who he needs to win. This article will help me bring him to where I want him to be if not, then he 8767 s not the man for me and I can look toward a new guy who is! Thank you for this amazing advice!
I don 8767 t know where you 8767 re from or who you 8767 re talking about. Maybe in your circle of friends that statement is correct? The truth is close to 85% of black children are born out of wedlock. Fact. That isn 8767 t even counting all the white women who have mixed bastards, because in most hospitals the race of the baby is listed as the mother 8767 s race. I 8767 m not even going to go into the incredibly high rates of disease, drug use, criminal records, etc. etc. of blacks compared to whites and most other races.
Really sorry i 8767 ve been distant lately, i just haven 8767 t really got over everything from the baby thing.
im so confused at the moment. No idea what i want anymore. Im just really struggling with things, and just a bit down all the time. Not sure what 8767 s wrong with me.
i know you won 8767 t agree but i think we should take a break from one another.
I need time to get my head straight and figure out what i want etc.
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Hi Eric! I recently purchased your book on why men aren 8767 t that complicated and it changed my life forever! And I continue to read more and more advice you 8767 ve written about and it baffles me on how spot on you are. I started using your advice on being happy and whole in my own life and putting my own needs first (as selfish as that sounds it works). I met a man fourteen years that can 8767 t get enough of me. He treats me like a goddess! I simply just portray a woman that will walk and that doesn 8767 t need him to be happy but that also rewards him and let 8767 s him know that he 8767 s winning the prize (me). I can 8767 t thank you enough for all the insight you 8767 ve given me! He told me this morning for the first time that he loves me and I am in awe at how your advice has changed my life forever! Thank you again! Thanks to Sabrina too!
I 8767 ve said that different men are attracted to different types of women appearance-wise, so instead of aspiring toward trying to attain some particular appearance in order to be more attractive, a better pursuit would be to look your best for you, your body type, your face shape, etc. There is nothing insulting about that really, in a world where TV, movies, general media and ads are spreading the opposite message, I imagine what I 8767 ve said would come as a relief.
Yeah that clears it right up, she feels worthy of the man she wants as well as the ones she doesn 8767 t want, because of self confidence, but as well as that we 8767 re assuming the guy feels worthy too right? You make a point of saying the guy will do all these nice things for her to keep her around, it almost sounds like HE 8767 S the one acting from a place of fear, but I know that 8767 s not what you meant, I just feel like this part should have come at the start to put more emphasis on the parts where it shows that his actions are coming from a place of love, like with supporting him and making him feel like he can succeed with those things he 8767 s passionate about, not that he 8767 s afraid she 8767 ll run off when something better comes along.