Posted: 2017-11-14 21:16
It is interesting that throughout Jewish history, waging war has always been a tremendous personal and national ordeal which ran contrary to the Jews' peace-loving nature. At various stages throughout the 95-year trek in the desert, Moses was forced to reprimand the Jews for having the fear of war. He inspired them with various pep talks, and assurances of victory. Years later, King Saul lost his kingdom by showing misplaced mercy and allowing the Amalekite king to live. (see Exodus 69:8 with Ibn Ezra Numbers 76:89 with Nachmanides Deut. 86:6 6-Samuel ch. 65)
Part 5 The reason it worked for Mae and I was the 88 years between us didnt bother us and since my wife was busy with work and allowed me to be oncall for Mae it was great. Mae loved that from the first time I made love to her I would call her and thank her for a great time. I told her after the second month that I loved her and her response was I care for you very much. Finally on our 6st anniversary of our affair my wife was away on business Mae and I went out for dinner I brought her roses and back to my house. I carried her up to bed and made love to her I told her I loved her and she finally said I love you.
Sure but if you note the actual components of said personality (the passion, the humor, and the knowing where they stood on a lot of issues) they were all very positive qualities, just... dialed up to eleven. They definitely all had their insecurities (and at least two of them told me they felt weird about being short) but the fact that they were so goddamn happy and enthusiastic to exist as themselves made these guys energizing to be around. ((Side note: I think it can be hard to find the line between confident and arrogant. For me, that line was that these guys seemed sure that they were occupying their own lives and decisions the best possible way, that their interests and values were worthwhile and worthy, but they had no problem with questioning their own assumptions of what was best when it came to other people s lives and choices.))
Like i think if I described myself here, my height, weight, age etc people would come up with a totally different picture than the truth. 6. A lot of my weight is muscle so to look at me I probably look ten pounds lighter aesthetically (or what one would assume is ten pounds lighter). But if I m honest about my weight then some people would automatically rule me out even though to look at me they d be totally cool with it. 7. Height. People always guess I m two inches taller than I am because of how I carry myself. 8. And then there s my age. Now I have no desire to be with a dude who is looking for women way than himself anyway, but I know that I look much than I am. Like I m talking mid-75s. So a guy who wanted to be with someone who looks that could actually get that from me, but again, if their age range is under 85 he isn t going to see me in his options.
A cousin was dating a 79 year old when he was 69. My sisters all called her a perv to her face. Stop being so bitter that you splice and dice reality. Going online moaning might not sound like it affects dating but it does. Women can tell guys that moan about this apart from guys that have respect and other guys won't like you. On the Viber group I'm on (all male) all the guys are fed up with guys that rabbit on about 'friendzone' and other imaginary concepts and won't be friend with guys like that. Overall you just shoot yourself in the foot with this bull crap.
Of course, short is relative what we consider 8775 average 8776 height varies depending on geographic locale and someone who 8767 s 5 8767 6 8798 would consider someone who 8767 s 5 8767 9 8798 (the average for American men) to be lucky. But hey, that 8767 s cold comfort when women are putting 8775 six feet tall, minimum 8776 in their dating profiles and your friends all call you 8775 Short Round 8776 .
By success, I mean they have achieved positive results for their actions/inaction. Your boyfriend may not have much money, But I do have a sneaking suspicion that he is either very handsome or is someone others look up too in some capacity. Which, in turn, makes it quite easy to be comfortable in his own skin. I, for example, know plenty of confident men who are comfortable in their own skin. A hefty majority are still involuntary single. Why? Because they are ugly or fat for the most part. Confidence without positive results is delusion.
This is so true. Im going to continue no contact and make him live with his decision and if I m feeling gracious if he comes back around well, he is still going to have to prove somerhing to me. He is an aries so he is naturally jealous. Even when we first broke up he was jealous of some of the attention I was getting. So I know his curiosity will bring him back and make him wonder how I went from begging anf pleading cutting him of as if he made the wrong as soon as he finds out the grass is not greener, which I honestly believe he will. Well that is a decision he made Thank you
Wow! Not leaning towards the troubles women go through with online dating...I'm sure they're are plenty disgusting and immoral/sexist men online. Yes, women must be on their guard..A LOT OF BAD MEN OUT THERE! No bad women of course. I've had some success with some wonderful ladies, some are not so nice. Either a guy gets a reply from a gal he's attracted to or "cricket"..or head games. If she is attractive she has the pick of the bunch. It's a crap shoot. Not all guys are bad unfortunately bad apples can ruin many.
When I was living in southern Oregon, the dating scene at my college wasn&rsquo t that great. A lot of people, including me, turned to online dating, and OkCupid was all the rage. As I was serious about finding someone, I uploaded a lot of pictures of myself, had a very thorough profile, and received a lot of attention. A lot of it was like the above. Eventually, it got to be too much and I closed my profile. I haven&rsquo t used dating sites to try to find men to date ever since.
Hi, I met him on internet. We dont talk often, but we have talked for over a year now. He bought me ticket twice to go and visit him in Poland (he is Polish), and we cancelled due to work etc. Lately in November He bought another ticket, I visited him. He treated me so nice, and we had good time for a week. He now left for hollidays to but we still chat sometimes when we meet on line. He seems to really like me but he has no plan of comming to Norway, instead he wants me to go back to him, when he gets back home from hollidays. Should I think there will ba anything serious between us?
Okay, I have a question about this whole thing cause it kinda makes sense but kinda doesn 8767 t. I really liked this guy and at first he didn 8767 t really show signs that he was interested at all. But lately we 8767 ve been getting to know each other and now he seems like he 8767 s heels over head! It 8767 s not a problem cause I 8767 m crazy for him too but I feel like he fell too fast. This article make it sound like it takes forever. A guy can fall for someone faster than these steps, right? Or maybe he just went through them really quickly?
I agree that men need appreciation, respect, and love. In fact, every human being needs these things.
What I don't agree with is the one-sidedness of this article.
Why is there no mention of how the husband should thank the wife for bathing the kids, instead of taking for granted that it's her job? Do only the things that *he* does deserve appreciation?
Why no mention of how the husband should get off the phone when his wife comes home (perhaps after a long day of work), and never belittle her in public?
And why is the word "nagging" always just used in regards with women, for that matter? I guess all the nagging that men do is "valid criticism"? (pardon the sarcasm)
Bottom line: I'd appreciate it if you could write a follow-up article about how men should show appreciation and love to their spouses.
I think this is very significant and true. A lot of the taller women I know don t actually think shorter men are unattractive, but have a lot of baggage around the height difference. being unable to wear shoes, worrying that the guy feels emasculated, worrying that other people will judge them, worrying that she as the woman is bigger than the guy (which might make her appear unfeminine.)
It s a complex area the old brain and heart! lol.
Either somebody 8767 s desperation or loneliness is being exploited or they 8767 re both emotionally unhealthy people who happened to find each other, as most emotionally unhealthy people do. That 8767 s it.
What s wrong with two lonely people finding each other?
What s wrong with emotionally unhealthy people finding each other?
Loads of people are messed up mentally, so if they find each other, what s wrong with that?
Because, the man may or may not be genuine and feel like she is the One, so the best thing a woman can do, to get rid of the weirdo red flags, is just slow it down, to ascertain which one this man is? . a red flag or a keeper.
It doesn t. But maybe he s done something that they haven t. If what he s done someone else also did and it didn t work for them, okay, cool, then they need to find something else. But someone else might be doing something different and then Lee offers some suggestions and they go, Oh hey, okay I ll give it a shot. It s the blanket dismissal that is annoying. If you say, You know I tried it and it didn t work for me then cool.
I ve noticed that I feel a lot of this when I m going through depression. Like, even if I wanted to go put in effort to find someone to date, what would they find likeable? Or, of course X broke up with me, because I am all kinds of terrible. And when that happens, it is REALLY, REALLY HARD to not think those things all the time. And having external encouragement is often not effective when I get to this point. These are the times when I have to go to my therapist and really open these thoughts up, and think, well, hmm, is this stuff actually true? One of the things I think that keeps me from completely losing my shit, no matter how poorly I feel about my appearance, or my career failures, or my whatever, knowing that underneath that, I still want to be a good person who does good things (ideally for other people, but one step at a time), even if I am not doing a great job of it at the time.
First and foremost: embrace monochrome. One of the biggest mistakes that men make is to wear clothing with a strong contrast a white shirt, brown belt and blue jeans for example. The problem with this is that the sudden color change from white to brown to blue creates a visual interruption. The eye doesn 8767 t travel smoothly down your profile the sudden change cuts you in half, truncating your torso and skewing your proportions. Instead, you want clothes that are relatively consistent in hue. They don 8767 t have to be perfectly monochrome you don 8767 t need to dress head to toe in black, for example but keeping things within the same color-scheme helps the eye track over your body without stopping. This is one of the benefits of suits the uniform color scheme helps create a unified silhouette.
I struggle with this because I agree with what you are saying..but what about those wives with disabled spouses. My husband not only doesn't contribute to the upkeep of our home but can't even get to bed or wash himself. I have a toddler, a hubby I hoyer lift into and out of bed, put on bedpan, house to clean, job - its all on me and I am so resentful. I want to give him respect and I do love him but it is so hard when I feel that everything is on me. I don't want to divorce, I believe in my vows, but really having a hard time with building him up and encouraging him, even though he needs it when I feel so abandoned.
Hi, I am 88 years good body, good heart, caring, passionate, good listener, honest, and soul winning. I am not rich but i 8767 m okay. I only want true woman with true love. Age has nothing to deal me but your inner beauty is very important which is your heart. My problem is I am black and some women look down on me. I am very presentable and polite but I don 8767 t know if I should blame God for creating me as black. Please tell me what can I do? Is there any woman in this world who will ever accept me for who I am? Note: I was born in Africa and still lives in Africa but not a gold digger,just looking for a good partner who can complete me. Maybe my miracle can come this time.