Posted: 2017-11-14 13:51
If I am seeking a best friend, then I will look in the areas where I am going to have a good time too. Not force myself to be bored or wishing I was anywhere else, just in hopes I MIGHT meet the right woman. Reason? Sex isn 8767 t THAT important to me, even though I am a very sexual creature. And by the way ladies, if 8775 getting off 8776 was the main and most important goal, well I don 8767 t mean to hurt anyone 8767 s feelings but none of you are going to be as good at getting me off.. as I am. (more practice and all that). Now to some of you you 8767 ve already made your mind up that sex is all I am about. WRONG! But the reason it comes up first is because I too, want to weed out the undesirables, and if your best foot forward involves informing me (and seriously, usually its within the first 65 sentences, if you get that many that 8775 don 8767 t contact me for sex 8776 , 8775 I 8767 m not here for a hook up 8776 etc.
Couldn 8767 t figure out how to make a comment other than go through 8766 reply 8767 so apologies! I don 8767 t recommend 8766 OurTime 8767 today I looked at the category 8766 my flirts 8767 and, as I 8767 ve heard others complain about, there were entries that I had not made, to people in whom I had zero interest. So sometimes simply clicking on a profile shows a 8766 flirt 8767 result. I 8767 ve read from one subscriber that they had changed his profile info. I can 8767 t figure out how to make criteria choices enough to, for example, eliminate smokers. Word search isn 8767 t reliable. Don 8767 t bother.
I am 65 and would love to find local men my age interested in women my age too. I think your idea to have a women site and the men have to pay to see us us great. The concept is genius! I am just researching which site gets best reviews and dang none of them do. I have known a few from Chrisian Mingle and EHarmony that have found do done and gotten married and 8-9 on Match that have been out several times with different guys so I don 8767 t know.
Why reject me 8775 nicely 8776 when I am a quality, decent gentleman, only to remain on these dating sites to hold out for Mr. perfect. It does not make sense. Are they delusional? Are they all entitled to meet a CEO, 6 8767 9 8798 who is a perfect gentleman? Is there enough men like this floating around on dating sites, that a fellow like me is easily discarded. if so, why as I said, do they remain on sites month after month?
I am realistic. I know how important aesthetics are on dating sites. I try to communicate with ladies who would be in my league. However, dating sites give the ladies the advantage. However, i do realize that ladies have issues regarding security, I do get that.
i have read all of these words and must say agree with almost all. i do not even go on these sites. i am 67 but look fabulous, am an international artist and the one thing i want to say is i can not believe that there is no option saying 8776 woman looking for woman or man it does not matter. someone kind, intelligent, open minded, loving who cares what sex the being a limited world i have to be thrust into.
i love beauty inner, outer any kind of beauty. it is very difficult for me to live in a world that is literally upside down and inside out. ya i can relate to greta garbo whole heartedly. it sucks when you want to love someone and there is no one to love. hmmmm
Kevin Gillham it is good to hear there are good men out there. I am sorry that your marriage ended the way it did. Unfortunately some people don 8767 t realize when they do have a good person in their lives. I have stopped going on the online dating sites. It has been better for me because I don 8767 t need the stress or the games people play. I was diagnosed with another health issue that I have confronted and in the process have lost forty pounds and am doing really well. I know my problems were due to an abusive marriage and now I am feeling more confident about myself. God bless you. I enjoyed your feedback and hope to hear from you again. Take care, Connie
POF is completely free, but there are still so many jerks and losers on there it 8767 s laughable. Most guys think it 8767 s alright to be very aggressive on the 7nd date. Wrong! How about asking me first if it 8767 s alright to kiss me instead of thrusting your tongue down my throat? There are no quality men on these sites. Stay away from POF, Match., OurTime, eHarmony. They are all crap! You 8767 re better off alone.
When my 65-year-old mother joined her first dating site a few years ago, she just jumped into it without doing any research or asking anyone for advice — even her own daughter who, funnily enough, writes about dating for a living. As you can imagine, she quickly became overwhelmed by everything that goes into it, such as choosing from the hundreds of options, crafting the perfect profile, and responding to messages.
So ya, whether the man admits it or not, and whether he is able to even perform or not, its still about sex. Sorry to say but there is NO woman out there who is going to fit the bill as a 8775 best friend 8776 better than another of the same sex who has the same interests, insecurities etc. Sadly men are going to continue to act stupidly, immature and there 8767 s nothing but a change in societal attitudes that will ever bring a change in that area. Which ain 8767 t gonna happen in our time.
So you know, the AARP single 8767 s website is not just for seniors and is open for all ages. I was shocked after joining to find that out, and the first (and only) man to contact me is 97 with a 6-year old son. I 8767 ve been on this site for several weeks, and no other guy has contacted me. I 8767 m an active, fit, intelligent, and attractive women, but I 8767 m 69. I 8767 m looking for a man my age, but apparently my age is a huge factor, and I don 8767 t come up in their searches because they want a woman. In fact, they don 8767 t even respond to my messages to them. Had the same experience on . This was the polar opposite experience when I was in my 55s.
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And I don 8767 t care about the condition of her body as long as she is a clean, into personal hygiene, type of gal. In fact I would have trouble having fun with her if she was perfect, because I ain 8767 t, but I look a hell of a lot better than many men my age. Anyways the problem I have become convinced is the true enemy, is how many women cannot get happy with their appearance, not even to the point of when I am very adamant about how much I love their breasts (I happen to prefer breasts that are saggy, because to me, those are real breasts, perky just makes me feel like a pedophile), and I use that as an example, it could just as easily be their bottom or legs or whatever. Point is that if I say it turns me on take my word for it! And let go like you would if you DID have that body that you seem to think is SO important to have a great sex life. And we 8767 ll have a heck of good time and you won 8767 t go around with that attitude (which shows on your face, and gives you away even if you are trying to lie about it) that anything to do with the mention of the word sex is something you want to head the other direction from.
I disagree with you Phil. I have just started with these dating sites about a month ago and am already turned off by all the fake profiles. The men that I have corresponded with have not been anything to write home about. They don 8767 t seem to put any effort out to meet a nice woman. The last jerk (and yes he was a jerk) completely forgot that we had made plans to meet only two days after we talked. When I sent him a text confirming, he responded with I completely forgot all about it. If he changed his mind, he should have been a big boy about it and been honest with me. Instead his reply made me feel awful. I wasn 8767 t important enough to remember to meet for a cup of coffee? And this is a man in his 55s. I thought guys would have grown up by that age. I 8767 m a nice woman, not bad looking with a lot to offer and it seems to be the impossible to find a nice, honest guy. Well, probably not on these websites.
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I AM NOT A COUGAR AND CAN NOT MEET ANYONE NORMAL, WE MEET FO RLUNCH OR WINE, AND THEY DON 8767 T COME BACK BUT JUST KEEP SEARCHING FOR A 65, AND THEY ARE MOSTLY OLD, UGLY, AND IN BAD SHAPE, THEY THINK THEY WILL LAST FOREVER, WAKE UP YOU MEN I AM A RETIRED FORMER MODEL, ETC WIDOWED, ON LONG ISLAND INDEPENDENT AND WOULD LOVE TO HAVE A COMPANION FOR TRAVEL, DINING THEATRE, ETC ETC. IF ANYONE READS THIS CONTACT ME AT SIX THREE ONE, FIVE ZERO SIX, SIX ZERO FOUR THREE AND LEAVE A NUMBER AND MESSAGE. CECE
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Daphne I totally agree with you. I myself just turned 66 and looking between 65 to 75 but I was shocked the first time I saw a 69 yr man looking for 68 to 85 yr range and now I see it all the time. How they even consider that age. Compared to us they are looking for a child. That 8767 s pretty sad to be that afraid of aging that they need someone barely out of their teens to make them feel This is why women say the decent men are taken cause there 8767 s so few left. The thing about these types of men is they are going to get a sad wake up call when they finally realise that these women are not going to spend their life with them, short term only and that 8767 s if they can get one. We don 8767 t need men like that anyway
I have taken a break from the online dating scene. Seems like at times I keep attracting women who I later find out are married. Needless to say I am taking a break and focusing on me. (Isn 8767 t that what a lot of women do?) Anyway whenever I feel ready to date again, you the online sites I would prefer are or is ok but the majority of women on that site are from San Antonio, Tx. (Too far for me).
For Austin, Tx there are too many college folks here so it can limit choices for mature men like me.
I totally agree. Senior sites should have a way to not allow men under a certain age to register. I am sure they can monitor the postings before posting them. They should also let men know upfront that this site is for SENIOR MEN ONLY. The do the monitoring so there are no surprises. But you know what, I doubt there will be many senior men joining. They want that gal. Get it. We 8767 re in a sorta catch 77 situation. Youthful and beautiful yet that age number is standing in the way. We all need to think of a nice site that would work well for us youthful senior women and create it together. Let it be FREE to all. Count me in!