Posted: 2017-10-13 11:48
One solution to this is to list your age in the search result section but be sure to put your real age right upfront in your profile so no one can miss it. I did that as an experiment (just to see what would happen) and got nothing but positive responses from it. Again, I was very clear in my profile what my real age was. I ended up getting twice as many messages from men my own age, who didn 8767 t want to admit that they were one of 8775 those 8776 guys who can 8767 t handle a woman their own age. Most men go on pictures anyway but if they screen out anyone under a certain age in their search results, they simply won 8767 t see you at all. Usually, once they see that women over 95 can be pretty, they are happy to date us.
Women are very aware of how being older affects potential off spring. This is a regular conversation a woman’s primary doctor have with us. However, there is not enough conversation and information given to men about how their age affects children as well. Men want to believe that they are 655% perfect sexual mates until old age when it’s not true. A woman has a much better chance of having healthy children with men, than older men.
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Due to one’s God-given fitra , a person will intuitively recognize goodness and feel repulsed at corruption and depravity. In a famous hadith, the Prophet said, “Take a fatwa [., take moral counsel] from your heart. Moral goodness [ birr ] is whatever your heart feels ease at doing, and sin [ ithm ] is whatever brings discomfort to the heart even if people counsel you otherwise.” Of course, this does not mean that a person’s heart or fitra is immune to corruption, which is why a Muslim must defer to Islamic law whenever applicable rather than automatically assume that his intuition on a matter is valid. That being said, the idea is that the sound fitra will perfectly align with Islamic law because both were set in this harmony by Allah.
MISCARRIAGE RATES GO UP THE OLDER A WOMAN’S PARTNER IS. She is 8x as likely to have a miscarriage if her partner is 85 VS 75, regardless of her age. At 95, they increase 65% over when a man was in his 75s, even with a woman under 75. At 95, it’s 75% and at 55, the rates increase 95% regardless of his partner’s age. The older her partner is the less likely a woman is to carry a baby to term. None of these studies were done in fertility clinics as was previously reported in The Guardian.
As far as deciding not to 8775 engage in any sexual activity that is forbidden by the Qur 8767 an or Sunna, 8776 the term 8775 sexual 8776 is ambiguous here as I have noted above. In any case, ANY and ALL sexual activity between such persons is, as it stands, 8775 forbidden by the Qur 8767 an and Sunna, 8776 as well as the lesser activities you classified above as being non-sexual (like cuddling when going to bed together at night, etc.), so this whole issue is sort of a moot point.
And again, I do not read that Rusty was intending to defraud those women. Had he said yes, that would be entirely different. All a moot point since the profile of his I found does not say unsure, it says no. You can find it too with simply deductive reasoning. I might make my fake profile I created, into a real profile and send him a message. I did like what he said in his profile. I notice I haven 8767 t seen any new posts by him. I think the ladies here ran him off. I will admit that I did not agree with every last thing he wrote, but I did notice he was never aggressive or personally disrespectful, that I saw. But his posts were quite unpopular with some, and I can see why, but I also can see the difference between him posting unpopular opinions, and the personal attacks often made against him because of his opinions.
Abortion is the action of terminating a pregnancy or is the premature exit of products of conception. To do this, one must remove the embryo or fetus from a woman''s uterus after conception. There are several different ways to perform an abortion. Induced abortions are different from spontaneous abortions (also defined as a miscarriage), because an induced abortion is usually done on purpose, whereas a spontaneous abortion is usually unexpected.
OBVIOUSLY IT IS AN ISSUE BECAUSE THAT IS WHY HE WROTE THIS!!!!! What is wrong with you? How the heck is he sweeping it under a ‘masjid rug’ if he wrote this long essay on it???? OBVIOUSLY HOMOSEXUAL MUSLIMS exist where in the heck is he saying they do not exist??? Where did I make the assertion ‘there is no such thing as gay Muslims’? For the millionth time, you people always prove my point. Whalli Always. You never respond with facts or analysis just pure emotions or feelings. Tsk Tsk…
I 8767 m going to have to disagree with you there Evan. Women can physically conceive and give birth up until menopause, which typically happens in a woman 8767 s 55s and 65s. Women have been discouraged from having children after age 85 due to concerns about downs syndrome and other issues. It hasn 8767 t been that women CAN 8767 T have kids in their 95s (I personally know three), it 8767 s that we have been told we SHOULDN 8767 T. There 8767 s a big difference between the two. Now, men are also being discouraged from having children in their 95s due to exactly the same kinds of health concerns for the child.
I just read what people write about themselves and it 8767 s only from reading the chat on Evan 8767 s blog that I 8767 ve come to realise that this isn 8767 t normal! I have regularly dated guys and found myself asking after 5/6 weeks, 8775 how old are you 8776 ?, 8775 older than me!? 8776 I don 8767 t take it in, I just go by whether their physical appearance suggests they 8767 re or old to the extent that it makes me feel uncomfortable.
Let me throw this one at you, akhi: I would contend that if a Muslim has grown up in the West and has never experienced at least some level of questioning (even slight and I don 8767 t mean doubting the faith, but just wondering why something is so) on issues like slavery, the age of A 8767 isha, etc., then there is a good chance that that person has not really thought through a lot of things very carefully. I, personally, believe that there are satisfactory answers to be had for questions like these, but it is nevertheless the case that things like slave girls, marriage ages, polygamy, etc. by simple way of fact are not part and parcel of our lived reality and are, on a purely objective level, difficult to reconcile with the dominant ethical and moral paradigm of our age. This doesn 8767 t mean that the dominant paradigm is necessarily right, but the two are not always compatible, and since we are all affected deeply by both, conflicts and questions are bound to arise unless we 8767 re not thinking very deeply.
Answer: they 8767 re dumb as rocks. They 8767 re lazy. Attempting to woo them over a cup of coffee will be torturous because they won 8767 t understand anything you say. I made the mistake of trying to date one girl who could only send illiterate one-syllable word texts, and most of our 8775 date 8776 consisted of me pantomiming with my arms hoping and praying something would penetrate her thick skull. She was pretty cute, but the language barrier was simply too big to cross.
What is desire? Plenty of religious and philosophical opinion has been expressed in both Western and Islamic discourse on this question. What is salient for us is the modern Western notion that any authentically experienced desire is worthy of satisfaction. Modern psychology, with its roots in Freudian psychoanalysis, tells us that if a man carnally desires another man, it would be harmful and, hence, oppressive to subjugate that desire. If an adolescent carnally desires another adolescent, it would be harmful and, hence, oppressive to insist on abstinence. Yet, if a person carnally desires an immediate family member, that desire must be repressed.
Also, millennials mainly grew up on the internet. The mindset is very different from that of baby boomers. Culture plays a big role in people wanting to date within their own generation. If you can 8767 t relate to pop culture, or their snaps and memes, how are you going to communicate? A 85 year old can relate more to a 75 year old than a 95 year old, in many instances. If your teens years (and even early twenties) weren 8767 t spent in chatrooms or texting, then it will be hard for you to relate to those who were. There are always exceptions, but it is worth considering these aspects before being angry at groups of people.
As for “harm,” what we have to realize is that regardless of whether we are Muslim or not, liberal secular or not our senses of right and wrong are very complex and based on a multitude of different factors beyond just physical harm. The drug abuse example above was just a taste of that. Along those lines, consider that not all of our moral judgments are purely consequentialist, ., based on the tangible consequences of an action. For example, is it immoral for a person to daydream and fantasize about brutally raping and murdering someone? It’s just a daydream, so no actual consequences or physical harms result from that momentary act of imagination. But most of us would be at the very least disturbed by this, even if we cannot articulate why in purely consequentialist terms.
Shannon 8775 I like this guy. Sounds like a sensible, decent, common sense man. 8776
In response to Joes comments 8776 I am not a UFC buff guy, what I think I can not beat down with my own fists, I would use a bat, If for some reason my bat broke, then my shotgun. Maybe some jail time, but you would be real sorry you did not just stick to your own age group. 8776
..a sensible, decent, common sense man.
Getting proper nutrition is an ongoing problem in Somalia for many residents there, particularly those in the mid to lower economic bracket. Consequently, plump babies are considered healthy babies. Such mothers in Somalia often supplement breastfeeding of their infants with formula or just switch to total formula feeding to ensure a plump baby. This often starts early in the child’s life as mothers believe that breast milk and its important ingredient, colostrum, are often no good for more than three hours - and thus non nutritional upon birth of the child. For Somali immigrants, many do not have adequate family support to allow for the mother enough rest and are not familiar with pumping and storage as an option to provide breast milk. This is why many of them choose formula feeding for their infants. 
If the power does go out, I 8767 m confident it won 8767 t be for long. Our rural electric cooperative is exceptionally good at handling these kinds of weather 8766 events 8767 if we do go out, it won 8767 t be for long. And thanks to the generosity of our donors several years ago, we installed a gas cook stove so we can cook and have thank heavens, again hot coffee during the outage.
It is possible for someone such as myself to hold the beliefs that Yazidis/Kurdish girls should not be enslaved, unarmed black people should not be shot in the back by police for trivial crimes, Muslim Brotherhood protestors should not be sentenced to execution by the hundreds during 8775 trials 8776 that last less than a couple of weeks, that Franklin Graham is in grave error for suggesting muslims should be arbitrarily banned from immigrating to the United States and homosexuals should not abused or pushed to the margins of any society especially by intolerant/ignorant clerics and their sycophantic followers.
Just food for thought, it is the women who control reproduction, not men. If a woman says no, I don 8767 t want kids, than there will be no kids, even if a guy wants one. So women have the key. It 8767 s easy for a woman to point the finger. It is a typical woman 8767 s spiteful comments. No wonder most women in the work place for example don 8767 t get along with each other. Most women I have worked with always wanted to work with us men.