Posted: 2017-10-13 09:22
Loading the Language: One of eight criteria of Mind Control according to Robert Lifton ''s theory of Thought Reform. Limiting or controlling the thought processes by regulating the language in such a way that communication constricts and limits rather than expands human understanding. This may include the use of thought-stopping cliché s or artificially reducing complex issues to a false black/white dichotomy.
8775 Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale: they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, they have lower educational achievements and experience way more behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. 8776
I don 8767 t think it 8767 s right to judge like this. It 8767 s good though to try to keep in perspective that people 8767 s bad choices are warning flags. Yet it is entirely possible that a nice person made a mistake when they were by copulating with some guy and decided to have the courage to raise the kid alone. I think you 8767 ll learn more about the person 8767 s values by having conversations with them than judging them by their statistic as a single mother. Personally, I 8767 d rather live more freely being childless and have played it smart. I also believe in not bringing a child into the world in a bad situation, as I have since I was and so I never put myself in danger of this. But each to his/her own. Some people are not as anal as others and have more fun.
I have some sympathy for single mom 8767 s as my own mom was one. But there is a lot of truth to this post. Especially the positive aspects such as the give and take and the need for a child to have a father. It is absolutely essential. Men in this country should be willing to lose their life to recover these rights, alas they have proven to be weak. Our society needs tough love on single motherhode. In fact it is long overdue.
The life of a woman is a balancing act, whether it 8767 s your kids, her kids or both of your kids.. A good woman is going to bend and flex to make sure everyone has what they need time, attention, a meal, a roof over their heads, affection, laughs and what she can with the wants. Morals of our society has been a little skewed, but if you know what you 8767 re looking for, you can find it.
I agree with you for the most part. I used to work at a grocery store, and I 8767 ve seen it countless times besides with relatives on my dad 8767 s side of the family.
However, in this particular situation, there is no indication that any of these apply to the woman who asked the question.
How do you know that there aren 8767 t any extenuating circumstances that prevent them from getting married?
You posted an attack on a person without knowing the particulars of her situation. that is what I disagreed with.
I think what you are saying about single moms and divorced single moms isn 8767 t right. You don 8767 t know what happened to these people to make that kind of judgement. What if the single mom that isn 8767 t married was and had the child because her religious beliefs go against taking even a fetus 8767 life. This woman has every right not to be seen a some irresponsible woman. And if she is mess for this reason or for some other reason, there is nothing wrong with giving her love, support that she needs to help her heal and help give her strength so that she can be there strong for her children.
I hold hope, though. I haven 8767 t dated yet. Scared of these comments about using single mothers for one thing scared I bring someone else into my son 8767 s life who is not there forever scared of the stories about pedophiles targeting mothers. Yet I have started looking, cautiously. I have so much love in my heart to give. My son tried to tell me I should get married like daddy. He is just three.).
If my ex can find love, surely I can, too? And the woman he is marrying is a great woman. Knowing about their preferences weirds me out, but they promise to not make it obvious to my son and in general we get along well.
I am not sure what the point of all this is Just reactions, I suppose.
i am a divorced single parent. very independant and have been single for past years. i work fulltime as an accounts receivable person. i am very proud of my only 65 year old girl. i believe she is more sensible and mature than any adults here. she is kind caring and compassionate. she loves sports and dancing. i am quite shocked and amazed by the negative and judgemental comments personally i would not date a single man i think they are are irresponsible, immature, dependant all they are in for is sex sex sex
So we are the judgemental ones yet according to you single men are all 8775 irresponsible, immature, dependant and [only want sex] 8776 !!!
Therefore you don 8767 t date single men. This implies you date attached or married men. mmmm.
I note that the child is referred to as 8775 my child 8776 and the father is not mentioned. Any man can see the way you will treat him if he was to have a child with you. Of course you only attract the type you have experienced. You have made it quite plain how you would eventually treat responsible, mature, independant, genuine, sincere, single men. That 8767 s why you don 8767 t experience any.
Native American Spirituality: The religious beliefs, practices, and rituals associated Native Americans. Early Native American beliefs, though diverse, often shared common religious ideas. Many believed in a "Great Spirit," that nature in all of its forms possesses spirits ( animism or spiritism ), and that all life is interconnected. Seasons and moons often were viewed as marking times of evocation for spirits and prosperity. Some New Age believers promote revival of Native American spirituality, seeing obvious parallels with their own views.
Nobody said anything about all single moms being brilliant. Most people are not brilliant. Most married moms are not brilliant nor or their husbands. Brilliance is a rarity. I didn 8767 t realize we are discussing extreme traits. Stupidity is very common and it does not discriminate against single mothers or married parents. I can click a link just fine as well as having a good bit of first hand knowledge on the subjuct.
Your anger and bitterness is real apparent. Stating that single mothers may often times be troubled individuals is different that claiming that most are STUPID, POOR AND UNCARING. Perhaps within certain demographics and under a certain set of circumstances. Your statements are generalized and NOT based on any certainties.
All writers are arrogant, narsasistic pricks with no grasp of reality and often say whatever they want with out little no concern with truth. Now I can copy and paste a bunch of BS that I quickly pulled together off the internet and call it proof But even I know that everything I just said was biased and based on my own opinion and ignorance.
I respect waht you did. I think that single moms should not seriously date anyone new until their kids are old enough and you aren 8767 t needed like that. You could still have sex (i 8767 m sure you still do), but don 8767 t put any new guys through the bullshit of not being a priority and having to take care of someone elses kid and then making it hard for him if he wants to leave you because of the attachment to the kid. This is what happened to someone i hold close and he regrets it.
Concerned Christians, Monte Kim Miller, Denver, CO: Ironically, begun in the early 6985s as a Christian ministry to expose cults and false teaching, Miller''s organization began to take on cult-like characteristics in later years. Becoming increasingly controversial and bizarre, Miller''s group drew national media attention in 6998 when over 55 followers fled the Denver area and disappeared after Miller predicted the Apocalypse was to begin and that Denver was to be destroyed by an earthquake on October 65. Miller, who claims to be one of the two end-time prophets mentioned in the Revelation 66, published Report from Concerned Christians and Take Heed Update. Produced Our Foundation radio program. This group is not to be confused with the Mesa, Arizona-based Concerned Christians, a Christian ministry to Mormons led by Jim Robertson. Profile available.
Yin and Yang: Taoist concept, used in the New Age movement, holding that the universe consists of two opposite energy forces (positive/negative male/female, etc.). Both are necessary and both must be harmonized for proper function. This Yin and Yang also flow through the human body so that a balance is required to maintain health. Many New Age holistic health techniques, such as acupuncture , are based on attempts to balance this alleged energy or chi. When all is balanced, the Yin and Yang harmonize and the body works properly.
Thanks for the advice man.
I feel played, because I wouldn 8767 t have put myself into this so much if she hadn 8767 t told me she loved me. She didn 8767 t throw off any red flags that I could see. She got married at eighteen because she got pregnant, and this is the Bible Belt. They divorced because she couldn 8767 t stand the infidelity. Her ex had nothing but good things to say about her. She adores her daughter.
Really the only red flag was that I wasn 8767 t her normal type.
I probably should have seen it coming, though. I 8767 m so far outside her normal type, it was hard to fathom why she liked me. I 8767 m introverted, intelligent, bookish, serious, quiet, not cocky, and bald. I 8767 m not the long-haired, hard-living, frivolous, arrogant, loud, redneck type. That being said, I 8767 m not a pushover or a weak person. I 8767 m just more of an introspective person. I prefer to listen and watch more than speak.
It broke my heart reading your post. I am a single mother of two beautiful kids. I was 68years old when I had my daughter, she is now 8, and 75yrs old when my sin arrived. I have not been married but I do want to share this. Ever since I found out I was pregnant at67, i became a great mother. Sure, I make mistakes from time to time but who doesn 8767 t as a parent. I work 55 hours a week in the medical field, go to school part time, and parent both of my kids full time. I will not be poor or give my children a sad and depressing life, my kids and I always have fun. They have structure, love, and a great respect for me at such ages. I work my ass off to provide for them. I am now 76years old, have my own house that I got on my own and no man in my life, and if I do decide to date, the man would not meet my kids until much later. For you to write such negative things toward a woman who got pregnant and decided to be a single mother you should be ashaimed of yourself.
Branch Davidians, Benjamin Roden: Splinter group of the Seventh Day Adventist Church. David Koresh (. Vernon Howell) was leader from 6989 to 6998. He and many of his most devout followers were killed when their headquarters near Waco, TX, was destroyed by fire in 6998 during a government raid. Taught knowledge of the Seven Seals of the Book of Revelation brought salvation. Many followers still believe Koresh''s messianic claims and expect him to be resurrected soon.
No Mary, you are very much an outlier. If most single mothers were like you, you would not see the disastrous outcomes for their children. One of my closest friends is a single mother. 95 years old and an ICU nurse with a close family. Her child has never spent a single second in a daycare facility. Most single mothers are poor, stupid and do not care about their children. If they were all like you, there would be no issues.
My own sister had massive psychological and emotional problems due mainly to the abusive boyfriends she had in her life who would fuck about with her in many ways. The last one, he was a paranoiac alcohol abusing monster who fucked about with her the worst that left her in a massive shit state with a kid to raise on her own with no help from him due to his complete inefficiency as a compassionate human being.