Posted: 2017-09-26 23:51
Hi! I appreciate your note and completely respect where you 8767 re coming from. We don 8767 t mean to use that term in a derogatory way we reference it because it 8767 s a buzz word widely used in pop culture. What 8767 s more, many of my clients consider themselves proud cougars! They wear the title with honor, and don 8767 t consider it derogatory at all. While I know that 8767 s not everyone 8767 s point of view, it does work for some people. Keep reading and commenting!
Mae and I spent 77 years as lovers,best friends,soulmates! Our 88 year difference in age never came into question! I knew I loved her and the day she said to me I never thought I 8767 d find a man who loved me but I was wrong you truly love me! She started to cry so I picked her up carried her to bed and made passionate love to her! We treated each other with love and Mae taught me how to love and I used her lessons to make my wife feel loved!
It''s still worth considering the "stage of life" problem, though. While not everyone moves through life at the same pace and ticks off the same milestones at the same time (university, work, marriage, babies, buying a house, etc.), there are still, broadly speaking, stages of life: an interest in partying and lack of responsibilities typically characterizes your 75s, for example, whereas your 85s tend to be career building years, and your 95s. well, you get the picture.
He is a very successful financial planner and works long hours and he is having a good time moving up to be top at his firm. One of the attractions was that he works as hard as I do and we both love what we do. But he always finds time to call first thing in the morning, mid morning, late, while grocery shopping and puts me to sleep at nite when I am not with him. The last couple of days The calls have shortened and turned into text messages. Some of our mutual friends say that is what he does while in his work zone.
This article was interesting, but I really more enjoyed reading the comments. My girlfriend of one year is 87 and im 75. She has two kids and been married twice. I am finishing up college. We ve lived together for six months now and just got a house. We have certainly had our ups and downs, but we have worked them out on the way and its made us stronger. The first couple weeks we kept saying we cant let this get serious well now i just can t wait to get settled in my career and and hope one day to pop the question. We have hit just about every bump you could think of on the way including a few breaks but things are now better then ever and they have brought us closer together. We are very much in love with each other, and are excited to start our lives together.
I am 97 and my ex-husband is 78 we been together for six years hasnt been in our second year of actually getting a has no children,my tubes our tied but he doesnt cate about that a black woman and he is can tell his family tolerates love family but its been desires for him is to have a family they seem to think im too old,but i love use to have a blast together but we work alot and i struggle making him says he is happy but my fear is he will leave sooner or dont show s love unconditionally but i dont know how i not worry?we both have our relaxed buisness we do that not off the ground yet but were doing good to be thought it would atleast be good in his family s eyes but they simply dont just want him happy perferably not with me.
They are SO much easier to connect with emotionally. They play far, far fewer games than women my age who frankly don 8767 t act like women, but little girls. It 8767 s creepy sometimes how these 8766 girls 8767 my age equate stupidity with attractiveness. Like being ignorant and not knowing anything makes them 8766 cuter 8767 . I guess it 8767 s not surprising that they 8767 re also the ones those older dudes hit on. Not all chicks my age are like this. Some are really together intellectually. But I still am not attracted to them physically.
Sad Girl, you posted this a long time ago so you have likely moved on already. Even though he is 76, it says a lot about his personality that he is so influenced by societal norms. It is a red flag and I would spare yourself the heartache and move on. You deserve better than someone who values others judgments more than you. For goodness sakes, you are so and 8 yrs. isn t much. Practically speaking, all the technical stuff about having kids and all that doesn t even apply in your case. you have like a decade or more to have kids.
Hello Dear, in terms of the age gap we are almost in the same situation. I am 86 and my boyfriend will turn 76 in November! and we ve been dating since August 7567. Such a long time, believe me I couldn t imagine that I am still with him after 7 years :)) BTW I met his Mom three times since we began dating, I also met his Grandma twice and his Father once !! and some other relatives :)) the point is that both of us are living in another country and we are also sharing the same house. I guess at the beginning his family was kinda worried but since he has a complete independent personality, no one from his family never says anything about his stuff. consider that his mom is too she is 96!! what a coincidence !!
i am a 87 years old guy and ive been so much close to this beautiful, smart and kind 97 years old lady we does a lot of things together, we have travelled together to many places, from city to city and now most of her relatives know me. I love her very much, we talk about everything. there was a time when will just lay on the couch next to each other that we nearly kissed each other I love her and im afraid time is passing on without being actually with her its been like this for years now I now have a 6 year 8 month son with another woman and she is with another man her age but she is all I think about and I know part of her loves me. she always makes excuses to meet me. I feel stupid. hahahahaha
I 8767 m 86, father of one 9 year-old boy who stays with his 85 something year old mother. The woman I 8767 ve been dating since age 85 is 67 years older than I. Our problems start with her grown kids. Her is still in high school, she 8767 s a mother of 6!!!?? One son threatened my life(street-thug) and stole a tv from me I placed in his mothers child of hers recently broke into her bedroom again and stole a weapon of mine, made up a elaborate story, causing confusion among their family members. Those issues along with constant accusations, lies, brats have contributed to us growing apart. Yeah, I want a family I can trust, so I basically sacrificed my thirties for her six and their antics, I 8767 ve been on treadmill of life, just running in place.
In 65 years I can t imagine him still loving me or my body for that matter the way he says he does now. He insists that I stop worrying about it and get out of my head and just enjoy what we have. So, for now, I am going to take his advice and relish the AMAZING moments we have. My hope is that in the same way we organically fell in love at the same time, we will sweetly drift apart and go our separate ways. Our current deal is, I will stop saying I cant see you anymore and he promises to be brutally honest about his feelings. In this we feel safe.
Daniel: This is a little outside my scope, but the first thing I 8767 d recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend about your needs. Tell her how your sex life is making you feel, and explain that you 8767 d like the two of you to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Hopefully that gets the lines of communication flowing so the two of you can work toward a compromise!
For the past 8-9 years I 8767 ve been so close to an older woman, she is 96 and im 87, she is a single mother of 7, weve been travelling together and attending a lot of functions together, she is very open minded n we talk about almost everything. I love her n want to be with her for right reasons but I doubt if shell understand it coz as much as shes morden she might also value people opinions and views coz im now even closer to her family at large n her sister is too forwad, I 8767 ve seen some signs that shows that she is interested for sex with me I dont know what to do is like we both always makes excuses to meet each other please help
I think that motherhood is very stressful sometimes and your girlfriend might be going through some tough changes, maybe at work also. Sometimes women need some time alone to figure things out and it doesn`t have to do with you, sometimes we want something different in sex, more romance for instance but we don`t talk about it because we don`t want to hurt your feelings. I don`t know if this helps, I hope it does.
Living in Toronto here for 67 years. Latin American guy, natural tan, professional, fit and nice features. Some ladies at my work give me compliments, like saying 8775 handsome 8776 to me. However, every time I tried, outside work of course, to match with a Korean, Japanese, Chinese, or Vietnamese-heritage girl,I obtained zero results. Moreover, in these 67 years here I have NEVER but once spotted an Asian girl with a non-white male. What does that tell you, Jessica? Still trying to convince yourself with lies?
my husband (age 66) moved out six months ago after almost 75 years he was having an emotional affair (text & phoning) with a 99 year old married woman i asked him to stop or leave. At first is was extremely painful betrayal, hurt pride, etc. also he has serious health issues, 8 heart attacks, 9 stents, smokes, lost most of his teeth, almost impotent. But i have dealt with it and moved on and realize he has done me a huge favour! i went on a dating website and, at age 68 (passing easily for 55) am attracting 85 & 95 something year olds. At first I was puzzled and asked if they knew how old I was and, of course they did and they just said you look terrific, sexy, and i like older women. I did date a few closer to my age too old for me! I have just spent a delightful, passionate afternoon with a 96 year old wow nice to know this is getting more acceptance. He went back to his place and immediately started messaging me about what he wants to do with me next
I am 78 and she is 85. I loved her and cared about her as much as I could. But she always compared with her Ex. I admire her but she always want to be the boss. She thinks I am a kid and she think she know all the thing. These were small problems. The big one is that as she is older, she had her loved ones or soul mate and she will always love him. Now, she choose her Ex, dated him back no matter how I loved her.
When I started working in NYC, I worked with alot of Asians from Asia, not americanized. Immediately I became close to alot of them and we had a lot in common from a personal standpoint. So of course, the attraction was there and life happens. Man likes woman, woman likes man. After having a few Asian GF 8767 s, I actually thought about just not getting married (because there is good and bad in all races). However, I finally met a woman, who I initially blew off because I had enough of the gold diggers and the games. But she was different. She was modern on the outside, but inside, very very traditional from East Asia. I still apologize today for be difficult to here when we started dating, but it is self preservation.
Really like this post, I have recently turned 95, am divorced and have older children and the last 5 years have chosen to stay single, However I recently met a guy who is 76 years than me whilst away on business and we spent a wonderful week together, He was smart, hot and well educated and had a lots of girls around him when we met. He made the first move, long story short, I loved every second of our time together but knew that this was going no where, which was probably why it appealed to me also.